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#1 Stuckcycle
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If you meet someone, or talk to other people. ex "nice meeting you, Godbless, take care, etc." how would you respond?

(just curious)

me? I really can't conclude myself if I believe or I don't. right now I am doubting..

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#2 JML897
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adult
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#3 sune_Gem
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897

Pretty much this.

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#4 Kevlar101
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The worst possible thing that you could do for an Atheist is pray for them. It pisses me off when someone "prays" or "blesses" me.
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#5 krazykillaz
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It only bugs me when it's said after everything you say. (read: Crushmaster)
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#6 DeathCl0ck
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897

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#7 Flubbbs
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The worst possible thing that you could do for an Atheist is pray for them. It pisses me off when someone "prays" or "blesses" me.Kevlar101

aww well bless you

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#8 Nengo_Flow
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"Thanx" and maybe once in a while I say it back to them.
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#9 The_Last_Ride
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i guess i say thanks, i wouldn't really do a big thing out of it. However if they start to preach i would ignore them
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#10 Lord_Ronskins
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Wouldn't bother me, like someone said theyre just being courteous, it also wouldn't bother me if they decide to "pray' for me or what not if they insist I wont get bothered by small things like that depending on my mood, I'll just continue on my way or just tell them "you done?". Pretty much that.
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#11 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="Kevlar101"]The worst possible thing that you could do for an Atheist is pray for them. It pisses me off when someone "prays" or "blesses" me.

I pray for the atheists I know more than religious people that I know actually.
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#12 DoomZaW
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I say thanks or you too.

We are not stingy bastards you know :P

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#13 deactivated-5acbb9993d0bd
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I treat it as just another nice word, like when you sneeze and say "bless me" or "bless you" - originally to stop your soul escaping your body when you sneeze (yes, these are the kind of ancestors that made up these religeons to begin with). Its a nice phrase based on fantasy, and I accept it.
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#14 comp_atkins
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897
yup
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#15 Tuco_Salamanca
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I'd rather they say god bless instead of go to hell.
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#16 flipin_jackass
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I reply with "May the force be with you".

I'd rather they say god bless instead of go to hell. Tuco_Salamanca

lol

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#17 Bane_09
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897

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#18 deactivated-5e90a3763ea91
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897

[QUOTE="JML897"]I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultsune_Gem

Pretty much this.

I concur.
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#19 GreySeal9
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The worst possible thing that you could do for an Atheist is pray for them. It pisses me off when someone "prays" or "blesses" me.Kevlar101

There's really nothing wrong with it unless a theist is doing it in an insincere way when they are losing an argument or if they are doing it in a condescending or passive-aggressive way, which admittedly is all too common.

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#20 deactivated-5e90a3763ea91
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I reply with "May the force be with you".flipin_jackass
lol!
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#21 tocool340
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it JML897
This...
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#22 Lonelynight
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897
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#23 XilePrincess
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I say bless you when people sneeze and I'm agnostic-atheist. It means nothing besides "I see that you have sneezed, which is hella gross germ spewing, but that's okay, I'm not mad at you for spewing your nose sludge all over the place". When I say excuse me, I'm not actually looking for my action to be excused, I'm either leaving the damn room or trying not to shove into you as I get past you.
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#24 tocool340
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[QUOTE="Kevlar101"]The worst possible thing that you could do for an Atheist is pray for them. It pisses me off when someone "prays" or "blesses" me.FMAB_GTO
I pray for the atheists I know more than religious people that I know actually.

And if someone tell me they pray for me, I'd say please don't. There are people that are worse off than I am. You should show/ask pity for them before doing that for me...

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#25 cheese_game619
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if i am in a bad mood dey gon get it inversely, if i am too happy (intoxicated in one form or another) dey gon get it
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#26 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"]The worst possible thing that you could do for an Atheist is pray for them. It pisses me off when someone "prays" or "blesses" me.tocool340

I pray for the atheists I know more than religious people that I know actually.

And if someone tell me they pray for me, I'd say please don't. There are people that are worse off than I am. You should show/ask pity for them before doing that for me...

That's so generous =]
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#27 Tezcatlipoca666
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I respond the same or I say thank you. Christianity is part of my cultural heritage so I tend to respect it.

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#28 Jackc8
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Politely and cheerfully say "You too" or something like that.

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#29 worlock77
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I berate them for insulting my honor. I then challenge them to a duel with their choice of ether pistols or rapiers.
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#30 dave123321
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I say thanks.
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#31 wis3boi
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"I'll sacrifice a goat for you"

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#32 jim_shorts
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[QUOTE="Kevlar101"]The worst possible thing that you could do for an Atheist is pray for them. It pisses me off when someone "prays" or "blesses" me.

How mature of you.
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#33 Lord_Ronskins
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"I'll sacrifice a goat for you"

wis3boi
That sounds like an idea, but it probably wouldn't matter anyways, I bet most people assume I do anyways just by looking at meh.
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#34 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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Who cares

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#35 TheFlush
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I don't mind at all. And if they want to waste their time by praying for me, then they should do that.

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#36 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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It's the same when someone says Merry Christmas to someone who isn't a Christian. It's a courtesy thing and should be treated as such.

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#37 Blue-Sky
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When you sneeze, your soul will escape the body.

So we respond with "God bless you" to stop the devil from acquiring it kind of like how Dora the Explore tells Swiper "no swipping!" of course this was well before the knowlegde of microscopic organisms.

Do peope still believe this? Of course not but we still say it out of courteousy because it has become a response so intrinsic with our culture. Even as an Atheist, I still say it. So my approach to "Godbless" or any other religious connotation is to respond in a manner consistent with their intention not it's literal definition.

If someone says "GodBless", they're simply wishing me well. Of course if they meant it cynically, I will adjust my response accordingly. . .

tl;dr = It's np.

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#38 Canuck3000
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Doesn't bother me at all.
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#39 BatCrazedJoker
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I just say thanks.
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#40 Blade8Aus
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If you meet someone, or talk to other people. ex "nice meeting you, Godbless, take care, etc." how would you respond?

(just curious)

me? I really can't conclude myself if I believe or I don't. right now I am doubting..

Stuckcycle

What's more important is what they mean by their words, than the words themselves. So, I just react the same way I would if I were religious.

I'd rather they say god bless instead of go to hell. Tuco_Salamanca

:lol:

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#41 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897
As above.
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#42 whiskeystrike
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Thanks

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#43 almasdeathchild
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i just say "you too"

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#44 KiIIyou
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I like saying that ;o
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#45 metroidfood
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"Thank you"

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#46 scoots9
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897

Yep.

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#47 ShadowsDemon
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897
Probably the wisest choice.
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#48 TacticalDesire
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Really doesn't bother me, ofc I'm more of an agnostic, but w/e. Same way that someone saying Merry Christmas, Happy Hannukah, Happy Holidays doesn't bother me in the slightest. They're all meant in good spirit so honestly, I see no reason to get worked up.

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#49 NEWMAHAY
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I realize that they're just being courteous and I don't make a big deal about it, just like any adultJML897
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#50 Chow_Mein_Kampf
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Why would it piss me off?

They mean well............