for the guys, what triats do you prefer for a girlfriend?

Haha, it's not impossible. I have dated a few that fit that criteria. It just has never worked out permanantly. Still hoping! That's one of the reasons I am now working out at a gym instead of working out at the weight room at work or at my neighborhood workout room...because since college ended its been a lot harder to actually find women, let alone good ones.

UltimoIce

[QUOTE="LongZhiZi"]Attractive, knows how to cook, doesn't complain about doing housework (or other necessary things in life), modest, doesn't have a past-time of being a total skank.kidsmelly

So you would like an imaginary woman.

I feel you bro these ladies in NYC are trashy. Don't even know if I could call them ladies. I'm in college surrounded by a bunch of whores, but whatever I guess some people like that stuff. One huge reason I miss my ex.

bigblunt537

She must be good looking. Many different physical traits can fit the bill so whatever. What really matters beyond that is that she shares a good amount of hobbies and is open minded with a good sense of humor or sarcasm without being a *****.Nifty_Shark

A nice personality, a sharp mind, a penis and an appreciation for literature.

Theokhoth

a little shorter than me and have a good body ( you know what I mean ) plus a easy going person who is kind and freindly

Nice hair, amazing eyes, great smile, caring, fun to talk to, and someone who won't be with other guys all the time.Razor-Lazor

This :D

Former school mate... God she's awsome :D Funny, cute, likes rock, doesent take stuff personaly.

Btw, by triats you mean Traits?

This :D

Former school mate... God she's awsome :D

chaplainDMK

LOL, i guess you're in love.

Hard for me to explain..i know what i like in a girl..but i can't put it into words..

[QUOTE="chaplainDMK"]

This :D

Former school mate... God she's awsome :D

theBeorn

LOL, i guess you're in love.

i think i am... :D

sadly i doubt i'll get anything with her cuz she seems like she friend zone'd me preaty fast lol

This :D

Former school mate... God she's awsome :D Funny, cute, likes rock, doesent take stuff personaly.

Btw, by triats you mean Traits?

chaplainDMK

I'm sure she approves of you posting her picture on a game forum.

In all honesty, i dont care about anything else as long as she gives a crap whether im happy or not and whether im physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship. Everything else is secondary.

The relationship im in has been slowly degrading for the last 2 years and i honestly dont remember what it feels like to be happy or to not resent the person you live with. My current GF is a looker but i would totally trade her in for ANYONE else that was willing to meet the above criteria.

You really dont understand how unimportant looks are until you have wasted several years of your life being miserable with someone who has them.

I seriously don't know; I'll let the chemicals in my brain decide my girlfriend.

In all honesty, i dont care about anything else as long as she gives a crap whether im happy or not and whether im physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship. Everything else is secondary.

The relationship im in has been slowly degrading for the last 2 years and i honestly dont remember what it feels like to be happy or to not resent the person you live with. My current GF is a looker but i would totally trade her in for ANYONE else that was willing to meet the above criteria.

You really dont understand how unimportant looks are until you have wasted several years of your life being miserable with someone who has them.

Alter_Echo

It varies... I don't really have a type I go for.

[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

In all honesty, i dont care about anything else as long as she gives a crap whether im happy or not and whether im physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship. Everything else is secondary.

The relationship im in has been slowly degrading for the last 2 years and i honestly dont remember what it feels like to be happy or to not resent the person you live with. My current GF is a looker but i would totally trade her in for ANYONE else that was willing to meet the above criteria.

You really dont understand how unimportant looks are until you have wasted several years of your life being miserable with someone who has them.

clayron

[QUOTE="clayron"][QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

In all honesty, i dont care about anything else as long as she gives a crap whether im happy or not and whether im physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship. Everything else is secondary.

The relationship im in has been slowly degrading for the last 2 years and i honestly dont remember what it feels like to be happy or to not resent the person you live with. My current GF is a looker but i would totally trade her in for ANYONE else that was willing to meet the above criteria.

You really dont understand how unimportant looks are until you have wasted several years of your life being miserable with someone who has them.

Alter_Echo

[QUOTE="clayron"][QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

In all honesty, i dont care about anything else as long as she gives a crap whether im happy or not and whether im physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship. Everything else is secondary.

The relationship im in has been slowly degrading for the last 2 years and i honestly dont remember what it feels like to be happy or to not resent the person you live with. My current GF is a looker but i would totally trade her in for ANYONE else that was willing to meet the above criteria.

You really dont understand how unimportant looks are until you have wasted several years of your life being miserable with someone who has them.

Alter_Echo

In all honesty, i dont care about anything else as long as she gives a crap whether im happy or not and whether im physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship. Everything else is secondary.

The relationship im in has been slowly degrading for the last 2 years and i honestly dont remember what it feels like to be happy or to not resent the person you live with. My current GF is a looker but i would totally trade her in for ANYONE else that was willing to meet the above criteria.

You really dont understand how unimportant looks are until you have wasted several years of your life being miserable with someone who has them.

Alter_Echo

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

I feel you bro these ladies in NYC are trashy. Don't even know if I could call them ladies. I'm in college surrounded by a bunch of whores, but whatever I guess some people like that stuff. One huge reason I miss my ex.

LongZhiZi

Thanks good advice. I suck at college though. My gpa is a 2.6 in business Marketing.

[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

In all honesty, i dont care about anything else as long as she gives a crap whether im happy or not and whether im physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship. Everything else is secondary.

The relationship im in has been slowly degrading for the last 2 years and i honestly dont remember what it feels like to be happy or to not resent the person you live with. My current GF is a looker but i would totally trade her in for ANYONE else that was willing to meet the above criteria.

You really dont understand how unimportant looks are until you have wasted several years of your life being miserable with someone who has them.

MagikarpSplash

Hopelessness and frustration breed disgust and contempt which only makes an already bad situation worse.

So i just sit around all the time.... thinking about how i'll never get the last decade of my life back and how i have absolutely NOTHING to show for the last 10 years of time and effort. Living with that inside me its almost impossible not to be disgusted with her even when things are going better than usual.

[QUOTE="MagikarpSplash"][QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

In all honesty, i dont care about anything else as long as she gives a crap whether im happy or not and whether im physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship. Everything else is secondary.

The relationship im in has been slowly degrading for the last 2 years and i honestly dont remember what it feels like to be happy or to not resent the person you live with. My current GF is a looker but i would totally trade her in for ANYONE else that was willing to meet the above criteria.

You really dont understand how unimportant looks are until you have wasted several years of your life being miserable with someone who has them.

Alter_Echo

Hopelessness and frustration breed disgust and contempt which only makes an already bad situation worse.

So i just sit around all the time.... thinking about how i'll never get the last decade of my life back and how i have absolutely NOTHING to show for the last 10 years of time and effort. Living with that inside me its almost impossible not to be disgusted with her even when things are going better than usual.

Intelligence, humour and loyalty

Because this topic evidently cannot be summed as such: "What traits do you seek in a partner?" No, it cannot include homosexual women and it inadvertently ostrasizes homosexual men. Oh the giggles. I shall answer anyway, due to my coolness exceeding 'like that' criteria. I enjoy a sense of humor, a chubby physique, a general sense of fun and optimism. I hate overtly serious gals. I enjoy the company of those who view life with a pervasive silliness. I dig an infectious optimism coupled with an air of fun, adorability, and wit. I praise quirk, I celebrate nonchalance.

Because this topic evidently cannot be summed as such: "What traits do you seek in a partner?" No, it cannot include homosexual women and it inadvertently ostrasizes homosexual men. Oh the giggles. I shall answer anyway, due to my coolness exceeding 'like that' criteria. I enjoy a sense of humor, a chubby physique, a general sense of fun and optimism. I hate overtly serious gals. I enjoy the company of those who view life with a pervasive silliness. I dig an infectious optimism coupled with an air of fun, adorability, and wit. I praise quirk, I celebrate nonchalance.

dhyce

To be:

understanding,

have a great sense of humor,

Not be too clingy,

prefferedbly be atleast a bit nerdy,

have a sense of childish nature (dislike the "oh im an adult and everything in life is so serious - lets make a baby" type),

Be able to cook (no joke it is really hard to find a women who can cook this day and age, im tired of doing all the cooking)

Be atleast a bit tidy,

Not to be dumb as a brick.

I am too old to care for the small detail in looks, only remaining ones are:

not to be taller then me,

not to weightmore then me,

Otherwise they can have whatever haircolor, eyecolor, or skincolor for what I care. What matters if I can stand living with the woman not how she looks standing in the livingroom.

She has to be able to cook, put up with me and the annoying things I do, she has to make me lol and she has to be Japanese that way if she yells at me I can close my eyes and pretend I'm watching anime.

Because this topic evidently cannot be summed as such: "What traits do you seek in a partner?" No, it cannot include homosexual women and it inadvertently ostrasizes homosexual men. Oh the giggles. I shall answer anyway, due to my coolness exceeding 'like that' criteria. I enjoy a sense of humor, a chubby physique, a general sense of fun and optimism. I hate overtly serious gals. I enjoy the company of those who view life with a pervasive silliness. I dig an infectious optimism coupled with an air of fun, adorability, and wit. I praise quirk, I celebrate nonchalance.

dhyce

It does say "For the Guys", and there really isn't an Overwhelming Homosexual population on here to be honest. I think there are maybe 7-10. Snipes_2

My initial statement rings true. Suggesting 'the guys' adhere to a particular mindset irks me. (Screw the minority, in short.) I do not wish to argue, I have difficulty not addressing our more unsavory implications when they cross my eyes. I apologize, I really don't want to spawn an argument, so forget I said anything.

pretend I'm watching anime.Grandotaku

as long as she isnt clingy, likes jack daniels and likes me for who i am, then im happy =)

the older you get as a single person the smaller your list of partner traits you look for becomes.

Gotta love those country girls.....