[QUOTE="Link334"]Nope. No confidence, and I still have had girls :omaptheninja
so its not really that necassary
Its not NECESSARY, but it certainly helps a lot. Not only in relationships but in life in general... everyone should have a decent level of confidence in order to be successful.
[QUOTE="Link334"]Nope. No confidence, and I still have had girls :omaptheninja
so its not really that necassary
Not incredibly neccessary. I mean, you don't have to be confident. Like for me I can ACT like I am, but not be. and if I really like the girl, I can tell her that I have low confidence.
[QUOTE="Link334"]Nope. No confidence, and I still have had girls :o4dinfinitum
so its not really that necassary
Its not NECESSARY, but it certainly helps a lot. Not only in relationships but in life in general... everyone should have a decent level of confidence in order to be successful.
I have a decent amount of confidence, i was just curious if this theory was true or not
Not to the point of over-confidence, but I think everyone girl or guy enjoys confidence in a partner. Being with a whiny person who is insecure and hates themselves isn't very fun.
Is it true that girls find confidence to be like uber attractive?
maptheninja
most of they do...but there is a point where overconfidence becomes arrogance and huge egocentrism...believing that you are the sovereign **** and that you are above everyone and you let everyone know that you think that way...and nobody, nobody, not even guys or dogs like that
yes in my experience confidence plays a pretty big role. Of course there are gonna be some girls who like the shy guy but from what ive seen and from my own experiences, I started getting a lot more attention from girls when I was more social and outgoing.
Confidence is nice. Being full of yourself and a jerk is another thing. When you act like you're the best thing going and girls would be lucky to be with you, only a really pathetic girl will go for that.
Sure, you need to have confidence in order to get anything done. If you act like a wimp over everything, then neither of you are likely to have a good time.
Confidence is nice. Being full of yourself and a jerk is another. When you act like you're the best thing going and girls would be lucky to be with you, only a really pathetic girl will go for that. XilePrincess
What about if done in a joking, playful way?
One of my favorite things to say is "you know ya want me" in a sarcastically seductive voice.
I don't know. I don't like it when people are really full of themselves (present company excluded) but I also don't like it if I need to be constantly reassuring someone of their worth (again, present company excluded). So a healthy balance can be good.
Sure, you need to have confidence in order to get anything done. If you act like a wimp over everything, then neither of you are likely to have a good time.
[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Confidence is nice. Being full of yourself and a jerk is another. When you act like you're the best thing going and girls would be lucky to be with you, only a really pathetic girl will go for that. ssj4_2004
What about if done in a joking, playful way?
One of my favorite things to say is "you know ya want me" in a sarcastically seductive voice.
I personally find that irritating as hell if you're not already close with the person. If my boyfriend says something to that effect, I'll laugh. But if it was a random guy, or even a girl, I'd just look at them like "ew..." and walk away, even if it was a joking tone. Time and place for everything, that kind of thing is only suitable to joke about when both parties are on the same page, otherwise you just look like an idiot who fails at being funny to me.
I personally find that irritating as hell if you're not already close with the person. If my boyfriend says something to that effect, I'll laugh. But if it was a random guy, or even a girl, I'd just look at them like "ew..." and walk away, even if it was a joking tone. Time and place for everything, that kind of thing is only suitable to joke about when both parties are on the same page, otherwise you just look like an idiot who fails at being funny to me.XilePrincess
I disagree with this part. Depending on how it's done, I either find it to be enticing or funny(when a girl does it). If I'm not sure if they are being serious or not, I find myself enticed by my curiousity. "Do they seriously think this, or are they just playing?" it makes me want to play along and find out.
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