girl issues/advice, need some help, please help a fellow gamer out

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#1 ChiefvsGordon
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ok heres wat i need some advice on, what should i do. i like this girl she likes me, i have been hitting on her at least once a week(meaning saying hi and talking a little with her). one of my best friends who i dont really hang out with at school, he doesnt know i like her. i catched him macking on her.my friend is cool but a bad kid meaning he gets straight f's and has been all highschool, and he does drugs(a bad influence on her).girls just like him because he is the loud mouth talkative guy in class.While i am a nice guy who gets decent grades(B+ average GPA)and am pretty good at sports(wrestling, baseball). anyways to make it short i need some advice to pull her in and be with her...i like her a lot. and i would hate to see her end up with him. i have her on myspace and know her well enough to talk.. just need some help trying to hook up. advice please. thanx for taking the time to read this and post i appreciate it.

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#2 reservoir_doggy
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Well you did the right thing by posting about it on gamespot
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#3 Mumbles527
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First step: Saying "Hi" to her once a week shouldn't be what you consider "hitting on" her.
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Hurry! Buttseckstouchershoulderdoabarrelroll!

NOW!!

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#5 ChicaQueenWarGa
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*taps fingers together* You have came to right place, young grasshopper. I place where gamers own the paradises of the world.

Just start talking to her more often. Then after awhile, ask her to go to the movies or to eat some pizza. Just try to speed up a little. Mmmkay.

And does this girl know that the bad guy does drugs?

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#6 YeahYes
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roofie that is your only option
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#7 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Whatever you do, don't compare your gradepoint average with his when talking to her.
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#9 GamerPro1984
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After reading all I can think is try to spend more Time with her. Dont let the other get away with pulling her away from you , be brave! and act fast!
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#10 S2333
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Man, I'm not sure how to help you here. All I can say is keep talking to her and when both of you feel comfortable, you should be able to spot when she is, Ask her out to a park or a walk somewhere, don't go to a movie because there is no conversation and its the worst kind of date.Also don't come on to her too quickly, she'll feel you're moving the relationship forward too quickly. Good Luck mate! It takes immense courage to ask a girl out but once you're done it, it is well worth the effort and you will love every moment of it.
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#11 jlt21
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Be yourself, mack on her a lot more, and ask her out, you got to be this guy tothe punch. But if she choses to go with the other guy don't beat yourself up over it, it's high school, and she is needs to make her own choices
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#12 Dunsparce007
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INVISIBLE RAPE

oh, actual advice? hmm, ask her, i mean, it is kind of hard to do at first, but you can always try. besides, it gets the anxiety off your chest.

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#13 Mr47fitter
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connect your genitalia with her's...
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#14 ChiefvsGordon
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lol i knew i would get that thing about me posting on gamespot forums.......i dont no i dont really got any other forums thats why i posted it on here.and i got responses and some addvice and thats all i wanted.i have had a gf before its just i have never had a friend macking on a girl i like, its a confusing situation. no joke my heart just sank when i saw one of my best friends hugging her(friendly hug goodbye, but still!!).and he told her to hang out with him on the weekend.not to mention he said some things that i didnt appreciateabout her "attributes" to me and my friends when he was hanging out with us after school(i got pretty pissed but kept it in and didnt say anything).(lil off topic)when i get mad like this i work out extra hard at the gym while listening to love songs(lol). which i guess is pretty good so i can get my 6 pack going.....so more addvice please after seeing this additional info.thanx
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#15 reservoir_doggy
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You have a six pack. Just show her your sexah bod. She'll let you check into her hotel if you know what I mean.
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#16 ChicaQueenWarGa
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lol i knew i would get that thing about me posting on gamespot forums.......i dont no i dont really got any other forums thats why i posted it on here.and i got responses and some addvice and thats all i wanted.i have had a gf before its just i have never had a friend macking on a girl i like, its a confusing situation. no joke my heart just sank when i saw one of my best friends hugging her(friendly hug goodbye, but still!!).and he told her to hang out with him on the weekend.not to mention he said some things that i didnt appreciateabout her "attributes" to me and my friends when he was hanging out with us after school(i got pretty pissed but kept it in and didnt say anything).(lil off topic)when i get mad like this i work out extra hard at the gym while listening to love songs(lol). which i guess is pretty good so i can get my 6 pack going.....so more addvice please after seeing this additional info.thanxChiefvsGordon

You're just going through basic jealousy. It happens everywhere. Even I feel jealous at some times. Hugs mean nothing really. Even though they are sadly frowned upon school code, people still hug others. I do it all the time to my friends, but not to guys because they smell. Kindly ask your friend of what he thinks of this girl. If he says anything about liking her, you're in for a competition. :O

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#17 GamerPro1984
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Working out is the best answer to these things , while youre doing it just think about how the girls will come flocking next time your at the pool. Liking a girl that your friend seems to also like is never really a good situation. I imagine youre in high school so I say dont worry about it anymore. No relationship I ever had in HS ever had any effect on me in the real world and its a silly thing to ruin a friendship over a girl . Unless this friend is part of the 95% of the kids from school youll never see again after graduation, then go for it , forget him!;)

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#18 Goldeneyemaster
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BARREL ROLL!

I'm sure they taught you how to do it in wrestling...

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#19 ChiefvsGordon
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well almost i think maybe another 2 weeks or so in wrestling conditioning and i will have one. right now i got a flat stomach with the outline of a six pack just no pack lol.and im getting pecks, awesome, wrestling conditioning really gets u into shape. i wish i could of done it my freshy year.anyways more addvice........
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#20 ecamped1
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tell her that you like her so much, you askedstrangers on gamespot to tell you to talk to her.

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#21 Poedon
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You lose, don't you know that girls like the "bad boys" She'll have her her fun with the worthless punks then they'll start comign your way in their mid 20's so you can take care of them so they won't have to work.
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#22 ChiefvsGordon
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lol ecamped1 . i won't lose a friend im not going to fight him or nothing. my friend macks on a lot of girls its just he finally got to one i like. i'm not like that i usually just stare at a girl and smile at her every time she passes by me(things like dat). than i start talking. and i can just concentrate on one girl at a time. once i get focused on one i ignore all the other ones, i am just really mad because i got another girl jacked to a drug dealer at my school and she turned out bad. and i like this girl a lot andi dont want it to happen again....and also to be honest i havent had a gf(well a serious one)all highschool, i need one already, lol. i think i have been jacked at least 3-4 times all HS. and it sux big time.
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#23 Bruce_McGivern
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I thought this was going to be about a female gamer having menstrul problems... thank god I was wrong.
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#24 ChiefvsGordon
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"You lose, don't you know that girls like the "bad boys" She'll have her her fun with the worthless punks then they'll start comign your way in their mid 20's so you can take care of them so they won't have to work. "

screw that(even though it is true) im going to change that stereo type. im going to do some hardcore macking and pumping iron,even if nothing happens right away. i know she will start falling for me when i get my wrestling shirt and show it off around school. and my senior year i will have a sweet letterman jacket with varsitybaseball sewed in it and i will finally get varsity wrestling when the senior who has my weight class spot graduates this year. i will be a bad a$$. and score one for the gamer. thanx for addvice please post more if u got anymore...........dont worry i dont mind if u make fun of me it is kinda funny that i posted this on a gamespot forum.

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#25 fo_shizzle117
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well then put the moves on her and seal the deal, dont let it slip thru ur hands, really sucks
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#26 double_decker
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It may sound boring but just be yourself, and keep taking care of your own stuff and try giving her as much attention as you can, and if she doesn't come around then it's her loss and just keep doing your own thing until the right one comes around
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#27 reservoir_doggy
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lol score one for the gamer!
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#28 Poedon
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i hope you do score one for the good guys. Enough of the losers taking our women.
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#29 ChiefvsGordon
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thats the exact point i was trying to explain and hope to accomplish
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#30 Aznsilvrboy
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Go talk some more.
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#31 GettingTired
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She likes you, yet made out with your friend? Don't waste your time on paper thin relationships like that. Move on. Shallow, hormonal driven relationships aren't worth it.
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#32 funnymario
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Let her go. Let her live and learn, I suppose
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#33 ChiefvsGordon
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MEskpfHOTAk

this song almost reminds me of exactly wat im going through.....any more suggestions or addvice for me.(also if u have any suggestions of someother cheesy but cool love songs, that would be nice)

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#34 Self_indulgence
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ask ur friend to back off?
and if she can be attracted to guys like that, can you really be attracted to her?
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#35 ChiefvsGordon
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not made out it was a friendly hug good bye. it took me while to get to that from her.
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#36 ChiefvsGordon
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ask ur friend to back off?
and if she can be attracted to guys like that, can you really be attracted to her?Self_indulgence

i can because she isn't like that. she does good in school. i actually think she does better than me. anyways another thing that i like about her is she is not afraid to eat. in a way i have been on a date with her and she can eat like me and she stays with a good figure. its a little attribute but it is one i look at. i hate girls that are like i just want a cracker and a small glass of water.

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#37 reservoir_doggy
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Eating isn't necessarily a god thing. When her metabolism slows down she will be fat. Unless if she works out or something
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#38 ChiefvsGordon
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i know but i work out every day so it should not be a problem. i just recently started doing weights and stuffz like that, thats why im barely getting a package. before i use to just do cardio(i would burn a bunch of calories than get em all back by eating junk right after lol, now i know better diet and workout routines).
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#39 reservoir_doggy
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Not your metabolism, her metabolism. Im saying that if she eats a lot and doesn't do anything to help herelf then don't expect her to magically keep her figure like she always has. unless she plays a sport or something to help stay in shape
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#40 VodkaLemIn
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yo i actually have advice to give from my personal experiences. I liked this girl and i waited too long to make my move, so she ended going out with another guy. so make your move already, you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain
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#41 ChiefvsGordon
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Not your metabolism, her metabolism. Im saying that if she eats a lot and doesn't do anything to help herelf then don't expect her to magically keep her figure like she always has. unless she plays a sport or something to help stay in shapereservoir_doggy

well i know she goes to the gym as well because her sisters boyfriend works at the one i go to and he saysthey bothgo there all the time ,i mustjust miss heror something.plus i only go to the gym on weekends because i think 3 and 1/2 hours of wrestling conditioning and weight lifting 5 times a week is good enough.also when i go on weekends i go early in the morning because it is less crowded.

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#42 reservoir_doggy
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you should go to the gym when she goes to the gym. It's good that she works out
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#43 ChiefvsGordon
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ya thats something i need to arrange.she must of just started going a lot because her sister who was a lil chubby lost a good ammount of weight.
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#44 ChiefvsGordon
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anymore addvice before i go nappers....8)
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#45 -Serpahim-
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You know when i was in highschool I would just walk up to girls and say "You know, I find you attractive, so I'm going to do the gentleman thing and ask you out for a movie or something of the sort." You would be suprised how well it works. The bluntness and directness of my approach alone makes girls interested to ATLEAST go out on one date with me to see what im all about.
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#46 strongbow540
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I think your too in love with your "guns"
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lol i was staring at that for a minute...zoned out ....read it again ... and laughed....weridest thing ever.....

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#48 X360PS3AMD05
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Mack her just like your friend.
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#49 ChiefvsGordon
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update.... well i talked to her and she said she still has feelings for her "ex" boyfriend who is in juviee for another 6 and 1/2 months.a matter of fact she put old pictures of them together on her myspace.........oh well i guess thats the way it goes. I guess i should cool off on girls for a lil while, while i am in wrestling. but if a hot girl comes my way again i am taking the chance ........ boi!!!