You should let your intentions be known, that you are looking for a relationship and that you like her. Ask her to give you a chance, and that while you understand how she feels you would like to give it a shot. Just give it some time and see where it goes, if it doesn't work out oh well, go find another girl.
Personally I have been in similar situations, but the girl always comes around. The trick is not to make it awkward, just toss out lables like "friends" or "dates", just hang out together and be yourself and be confident. Eventually what usually happens is you grow closer togther and it does become a serious relationship.
This may be a little harder in your case because you said she has not dated seriously in 2 years, it sounds like she had a very bad break up with someone she cared a lot about. Though on the plus side this also means she is more suspectable to intimacy as she has been out of the "game" for so long if you understand.
Though OT, and GS in general is not a very good place to ask for realtionship advice. Most of the people on here don't seem like they understand women and to be honest, I doubt the vast majority of them have had any experience with women to begin with.
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