Girl Problems (Need advice)

Just start a conversation with her.....really it's the only way. One....you get noticed...and Two...you get to know if there is more there than a physical attraction.

Disregard the dude that said not to converse. Worst advice ever. You HAVE to talk in order to advance a relationship.

LJS9502_basic

THis is the way to go. It won't be hard since she already has you added on MSN and Facebook.

[QUOTE="PainGivingLink"]and she said "we have to do that again one time"...do you think there's a possibility of her liking me back?Krigen89

You're an idiot.

No, you just lack experience... That, my friend, right there, was her opening the door and waiting for you to come in. You should have said «Yeah of course, it was great! I'm free on that and that night. If you're free too, call me at *phone number*»

Put it in her hands.

I did say "Yeah, definitely we have to do that again - just hit me up on msn" I didn't say the phone number part though. I didn't really know if it was to early or something. Anyways, there's bigger problems.

But now I have a huge problem, it's like colossal:

Alright at the movies, I was with this one girl. She's like my best friend, like a sister to me. But because I was with her the whole night, people thought we were going out. (don't ask, have some pretty immature friends I guess) and the girl I liked heard that. But now, I figure out the girl who I was with the whole night, likes me. I can't believe it...she's like a sister to me though I don't have the same feelings for her. And the absolute worst part is listen to this - the girl that likes me, and the girl I like are cousins. Yep, I found that out today. This is horrible, I guess it's not going to work out...

[QUOTE="Krigen89"]

[QUOTE="PainGivingLink"]and she said "we have to do that again one time"...do you think there's a possibility of her liking me back?PainGivingLink

You're an idiot.

No, you just lack experience... That, my friend, right there, was her opening the door and waiting for you to come in. You should have said «Yeah of course, it was great! I'm free on that and that night. If you're free too, call me at *phone number*»

Put it in her hands.

I did say "Yeah, definitely we have to do that again - just hit me up on msn" I didn't say the phone number part though. I didn't really know if it was to early or something. Anyways, there's bigger problems.

But now I have a huge problem, it's like colossal:

Alright at the movies, I was with this one girl. She's like my best friend, like a sister to me. But because I was with her the whole night, people thought we were going out. (don't ask, have some pretty immature friends I guess) and the girl I liked heard that. But now, I figure out the girl who I was with the whole night, likes me. I can't believe it...she's like a sister to me though I don't have the same feelings for her. And the absolute worst part is listen to this - the girl that likes me, and the girl I like are cousins. Yep, I found that out today. This is horrible, I guess it's not going to work out...

Do you think I should still go for the cousin? I don't know...I guess the other cousin will tell her she likes me. It's over I guess.PainGivingLink

But is she really a friend if she knows I like someone and she's going to ruin i just because she likes me? Though, it could be say back to me I guess.

It's a hard situation. :(

But is she really a friend if she knows I like someone and she's going to ruin i just because she likes me? Though, it could be say back to me I guess.

It's a hard situation. :(

PainGivingLink

But is she really a friend if she knows I like someone and she's going to ruin i just because she likes me? Though, it could be say back to me I guess.

It's a hard situation. :(

PainGivingLink

Sorry? PainGivingLink

WTF do you want us to do? Ask her out or forget about her, just for god's sake pick one of the two, don't secretly have a crush on here for the next ten years.
Hom3_Pwn3r

Right.

I'm not asking you to do anything, other then assist me on how to handle this situation.

This sucks so bad...PainGivingLink

[QUOTE="Hom3_Pwn3r"]WTF do you want us to do? Ask her out or forget about her, just for god's sake pick one of the two, don't secretly have a crush on here for the next ten years.
PainGivingLink

Right.

I'm not asking you to do anything, other then assist me on how to handle this situation.

[QUOTE="Krigen89"]

[QUOTE="PainGivingLink"]and she said "we have to do that again one time"...do you think there's a possibility of her liking me back?PainGivingLink

You're an idiot.

No, you just lack experience... That, my friend, right there, was her opening the door and waiting for you to come in. You should have said «Yeah of course, it was great! I'm free on that and that night. If you're free too, call me at *phone number*»

Put it in her hands.

I did say "Yeah, definitely we have to do that again - just hit me up on msn" I didn't say the phone number part though. I didn't really know if it was to early or something. Anyways, there's bigger problems.

But now I have a huge problem, it's like colossal:

Alright at the movies, I was with this one girl. She's like my best friend, like a sister to me. But because I was with her the whole night, people thought we were going out. (don't ask, have some pretty immature friends I guess) and the girl I liked heard that. But now, I figure out the girl who I was with the whole night, likes me. I can't believe it...she's like a sister to me though I don't have the same feelings for her. And the absolute worst part is listen to this - the girl that likes me, and the girl I like are cousins. Yep, I found that out today. This is horrible, I guess it's not going to work out...

now ask for her number so yall can meet up outside one day.

I met this girl the other day because me and my friends went out to the movies just to relax, and chill out but my friend brought along this girl who I think is gorgeous. I barely talked to her yesterday. But my friend that brought her along is trying to introduce her to some guys, so before I met her she has met another guy. They're currently not going out, but I don't know if there's anything up. I can't get her off my mind, and I'm not sure if this is just a phaze or if I really like her, but I think I do like her. And its weird because I haven't talked to her alot. I'm just a bit stumped on what I can do. I asked my friend if he thinks the guy she met and her would be a good couple he said no, because all he wants is "stuff" from the girl. I really don't care about that, I don't think any of you know how much I want to meet this girl, but I don't know if I should talk to her when she's "somewhat" dealing with someone else. She added me on MSN and facebook, but never talked...
...and I'm not sure if I should message her. We watched the same movie yesterday, is that something I should start a conversation about? I have to know what do girls usually like in the guys most? Humour?

I really want to get to know her, just not exactly sure how. =( Also, I think the girl I like thinks I like another girl who'se my best friend and I was with her because she's just a friend, she's like a sister to me. Its very hard to explain why she thinks that but there was a group of people with us, and they all wanted me to ask out my best friend but I'm like "no" but the girl I like never heard that I said that. So, I'm in a really bad situation.I hope I can get some mature answers here, I'm in a big problem. If anyone could help me I'd really appreciate it. :(PainGivingLink

Ask your friend for her number?

Talk to her on msn say you had fun the other day, say you wanna do it again some time?

Don't say you're asking for help from your friends at GS =]

Oh dear... thats all im going to say.Eragon_11

What?

[QUOTE="Eragon_11"]Oh dear... thats all im going to say.PainGivingLink

What?

[QUOTE="Krigen89"]

[QUOTE="PainGivingLink"]and she said "we have to do that again one time"...do you think there's a possibility of her liking me back?PainGivingLink

You're an idiot.

No, you just lack experience... That, my friend, right there, was her opening the door and waiting for you to come in. You should have said «Yeah of course, it was great! I'm free on that and that night. If you're free too, call me at *phone number*»

Put it in her hands.

I did say "Yeah, definitely we have to do that again - just hit me up on msn" I didn't say the phone number part though. I didn't really know if it was to early or something. Anyways, there's bigger problems.

But now I have a huge problem, it's like colossal:

Alright at the movies, I was with this one girl. She's like my best friend, like a sister to me. But because I was with her the whole night, people thought we were going out. (don't ask, have some pretty immature friends I guess) and the girl I liked heard that. But now, I figure out the girl who I was with the whole night, likes me. I can't believe it...she's like a sister to me though I don't have the same feelings for her. And the absolute worst part is listen to this - the girl that likes me, and the girl I like are cousins. Yep, I found that out today. This is horrible, I guess it's not going to work out...

I can't believe no one has mentioned this yet but... threesome?

jk lol :P

Anyway, you my friend, have just learned a valuable relationship lesson: Guys and girls never become friends becuz both of them want to be friends. In almost all cases, at least one of them is interested in the other.

ur too fat give up or get off ur chair and stop living in a forumorangeey

Dude, just talk to her. Youre not gonna get what you want if you dont. And think about it like this, shes just a girl. Just another human being like you.

Why are you so nervous?

I was thinking to myself moments ago - Screw it, if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. But why not try? What's the worst thing that could happen? Her rejecting me? I would barely see her anyways if that happens. Thanks everyone.PainGivingLink

I just read the whole thread. You got a real crappy situation depending on how your friend is. My female friend that ive known for years liked me a couple a years ago and I think she still does. She found out I didnt like her back and she was acting like a straight ***** and decided to side with a group of people that didnt like me.

After I got of sick her doing that I basicly told her I didnt want anything to do with her. She walked away getting ready to cry and at the time I didnt care. But I patched things up with her...... two years later and everything is fine now. =)

But the reason why this happened the way it did is because I didnt know what the hell I was doing. Thats the thing about guys and girls being friends. If you two arent on the same page then feelings get hurt.

I dont know what you can do. But just try to make a grown man decision and stick with it. And dont let my story scare you or anything too.

If you are slightly interested in someone you talk to them. Why would anyone want to waste time on an unreceptive person? No interest....move on. He's correct.

Second..friends? No. You don't date friends. You date to see if you can have a relationship....being friends is part of it but being friends does not bode well for a relationship.LJS9502_basic

Yes. Talking. Great.

I wouldn't call talking with a stranger "time wasting" (if it wouldn't be a stranger, I bet he or she would talk back!?), I'd call it "getting to know somebody." And... I didn't say anything about dating friends, did I? I just asked why is it so that all the threads I've seen are like: "There's this girl I want to date, I would ask her out, but I don't know her name..." In my planet, people don't date somebody they have just met... Okay, I'm the only one who thinks that way...

You know... I think I should just get the hell away from you guys, and turn lesbian... You boys just don't get it. :lol:

I think you need to start reading some books about the subject, works better than any advice they give you on here.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]If you are slightly interested in someone you talk to them. Why would anyone want to waste time on an unreceptive person? No interest....move on. He's correct.

Second..friends? No. You don't date friends. You date to see if you can have a relationship....being friends is part of it but being friends does not bode well for a relationship.Chitzu

Yes. Talking. Great.

I wouldn't call talking with a stranger "time wasting" (if it wouldn't be a stranger, I bet he or she would talk back!?), I'd call it "getting to know somebody." And... I didn't say anything about dating friends, did I? I just asked why is it so that all the threads I've seen are like: "There's this girl I want to date, I would ask her out, but I don't know her name..." In my planet, people don't date somebody they have just met... Okay, I'm the only one who thinks that way...

You know... I think I should just get the hell away from you guys, and turn lesbian... You boys just don't get it. :lol:

If he is interested in a relationship with her...and not friendship....then it is a waste of time if she ISN'T interested in anything but friendship.

If he is interested in a relationship with her...and not friendship....then it is a waste of time if she ISN'T interested in anything but friendship.LJS9502_basic

Here we go, that's more like it. :)