Girls Only Seem To Cause Me Problems....

Well first let me say sorry if the title seems sexist since I know guys can be trouble too, didnt mean that to intentionally be haha just didnt know what else to put and i know this might not be the best place to ask this but having a kinda girl problem and not sure what to do in this situation, an ex and me were talking recently and she seemed to show alot of interest in me recently again saying she has always been interested and loves me still since we ended a year in a half ago and so i asked why is she saying this stuff now and what is it she wants to do about it and she told me she thought it'd be a good time to tell me this and shes unsure and doesnt know what she wants so i said well figure it out and tell me so i can know where to go from there.... she then messages me saying she knows neither of us want to be just friends but still doesnt tell me what she wants clearly so my question is to get some opinions on how to handle this situation because im unsure, i obviously have some feelings for her still and would like the chance to try again with her but rather not get toyed around with just so she feels she has some attention and also to add in, why cant some girls just say what they want straight forward instead of playing head games.... they expect us guys to have somewhat of a feminine side to be caring and all that so why cant they have somewhat more of masculine side to be more upfront with us and sorry for the long post just didnt know where else to ask and this site has always been able to help me over the years

Turn gay problem solved.

haha that could work but I was hoping for more of a serious answerCrimson-Fire

I am serious:|

well dont think thats possible cause well born straight and cant just change that with the snap of a finger but thanks anyways for the help hahaCrimson-Fire

Conservapedia says otherwise.

Why don't you just talk to her? If she carries on play head games then tell her to stop and give you a clear answer.

If all else fails, turn gay.

1. Punctuation is your friend.

2. Paragraphs are your friend.

3. Talk to her in person and figure our exactly what she wants. She may want to be friends with benefits. You can rarely go wrong with that when you are young.

Im the kinda guy that doesn't deal with games if she aint sure and second guesses then she isn't worth the trouble. **** Play Games Bro.

Can you say "run-on sentence"?

I'll give you an advice that you (most then probably) wont follow cause people let getting cared away by their emotions rather then logic but I'll give the best advice for your situation:

Dont get back with her again.

If the relationship didnt work before what makes you think it'll work again? Unless you guys broke up for a reason outside of your relationship like "long-distance" or somethin then it wont fvckin work.

If you'll follow my advice is up with you but experience tells me that if you two will get back together then you'll hace a receipt for disaster. Specially when you're trying to hook up with someone that doesnt know what she wants.

Bro, just let her go. You'll know when you find a decent person because she'll be honest with you. It isn't a good thing to trust someone who is wavering like that.

Seems like you just suck at talking to women.

I think turning gay is your only option really :/Chicken453

1) For Christ's sake learn how to punctuate and use paragraphs.

2) She views you as worthless and weak.

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I think you should ask her one last time about her honest intention and demand an answer. If she keeps playing these mind games just avoid her or you' ll probably gonna end up heartbroken (or sth like that...). If she does say that she clearly wants to get back together then follow your instict and heart, but be sure that the reason why you broke up in the past won' t occur again. The best would be to ask a friend that knows this girl personally but I guess that itsn' t an option or didn' t help at all since you decided to ask here. Anyway I hope I helped!

Well first let me say sorry if the title seems sexist since I know guys can be trouble too, didnt mean that to intentionally be haha just didnt know what else to put and i know this might not be the best place to ask this but having a kinda girl problem and not sure what to do in this situation, an ex and me were talking recently and she seemed to show alot of interest in me recently again saying she has always been interested and loves me still since we ended a year in a half ago and so i asked why is she saying this stuff now and what is it she wants to do about it and she told me she thought it'd be a good time to tell me this and shes unsure and doesnt know what she wants so i said well figure it out and tell me so i can know where to go from there.... she then messages me saying she knows neither of us want to be just friends but still doesnt tell me what she wants clearly so my question is to get some opinions on how to handle this situation because im unsure, i obviously have some feelings for her still and would like the chance to try again with her but rather not get toyed around with just so she feels she has some attention and also to add in, why cant some girls just say what they want straight forward instead of playing head games.... they expect us guys to have somewhat of a feminine side to be caring and all that so why cant they have somewhat more of masculine side to be more upfront with us and sorry for the long post just didnt know where else to ask and this site has always been able to help me over the years

Crimson-Fire

If your feelings are mutual or you think they're mutual, then one of you needs to make the first move. The burden falls on you.

Just tell her that you don't like being played around with, and that you're serious about how you feel for her.

Well first let me say sorry if the title seems sexist since I know guys can be trouble too, didnt mean that to intentionally be haha just didnt know what else to put and i know this might not be the best place to ask this but having a kinda girl problem and not sure what to do in this situation, an ex and me were talking recently and she seemed to show alot of interest in me recently again saying she has always been interested and loves me still since we ended a year in a half ago and so i asked why is she saying this stuff now and what is it she wants to do about it and she told me she thought it'd be a good time to tell me this and shes unsure and doesnt know what she wants so i said well figure it out and tell me so i can know where to go from there.... she then messages me saying she knows neither of us want to be just friends but still doesnt tell me what she wants clearly so my question is to get some opinions on how to handle this situation because im unsure, i obviously have some feelings for her still and would like the chance to try again with her but rather not get toyed around with just so she feels she has some attention and also to add in, why cant some girls just say what they want straight forward instead of playing head games.... they expect us guys to have somewhat of a feminine side to be caring and all that so why cant they have somewhat more of masculine side to be more upfront with us and sorry for the long post just didnt know where else to ask and this site has always been able to help me over the years

Crimson-Fire

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Well first let me say sorry if the title seems sexist since I know guys can be trouble too, didnt mean that to intentionally be haha just didnt know what else to put and i know this might not be the best place to ask this but having a kinda girl problem and not sure what to do in this situation, an ex and me were talking recently and she seemed to show alot of interest in me recently again saying she has always been interested and loves me still since we ended a year in a half ago and so i asked why is she saying this stuff now and what is it she wants to do about it and she told me she thought it'd be a good time to tell me this and shes unsure and doesnt know what she wants so i said well figure it out and tell me so i can know where to go from there.... she then messages me saying she knows neither of us want to be just friends but still doesnt tell me what she wants clearly so my question is to get some opinions on how to handle this situation because im unsure, i obviously have some feelings for her still and would like the chance to try again with her but rather not get toyed around with just so she feels she has some attention and also to add in, why cant some girls just say what they want straight forward instead of playing head games.... they expect us guys to have somewhat of a feminine side to be caring and all that so why cant they have somewhat more of masculine side to be more upfront with us and sorry for the long post just didnt know where else to ask and this site has always been able to help me over the years

Cataclism

Heh. I'd just take her hand and give it a smooch. That or do the hand on her thigh thing. I had a female stranger (probably a hooker) do that to me once in a casino.

Next time you see her. Force yourself upon her. If she doesnt resist, keep going. If she does resist, say it was an accident. Please note that this has a very low probability of working in real life. In tv its 50/50Capitan_Kid

Honestly... touch her shoulder.Acemaster27

This.

Of course they only cause you problems---that's what they do.

[QUOTE="Crimson-Fire"]love that link.... made me laugh pretty hard and i may seem slow in the head or something after saying this but what is with everyone saying touch her shoulder, is that some kind of signal i do not know of or somethingShadowKissed25

Run away before you have any oops babies then you'll have some real problems.

Honestly... touch her shoulder.Acemaster27