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#1 lonewolf604
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Have you guys done that? A few months ago I got into Megadeth and they're playing near me.....and none of my friends listen to metal....its quite sad....

I don't want to miss this opportunity but I also don't want to bring someone who wouldn't enjoy the experience.

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#2 hadoken
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hey dude ill go with you
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#3 lonewolf604
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hey dude ill go with youhadoken
Meeting people over the internet is plain weird in my books......
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#4 ZumaJones07
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[QUOTE="hadoken"]hey dude ill go with youlonewolf604
Meeting people over the internet is plain weird in my books......

be careful, you could get murdered :o
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You live in Vancouver hadoken? And How old are you? Not that I want to meet someone over the internet, just curious....
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#6 hadoken
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yes i live in vancouver. i think im the same age as you too, i lost the yearbook but im pretty sure i remember i was either the same age or 1 year behind u
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#7 Bloodseeker23
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yes i live in vancouver. i think im the same age as you too, i lost the yearbook but im pretty sure i remember i was either the same age or 1 year behind uhadoken
wdf. You guys go to the same HS?
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#8 SirWander
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[QUOTE="hadoken"]yes i live in vancouver. i think im the same age as you too, i lost the yearbook but im pretty sure i remember i was either the same age or 1 year behind uBloodseeker23
wdf. You guys go to the same HS?

LOL

Nah, TC, I've never been to a concert alone. Then again, I don't like going to concerts.

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#9 lonewolf604
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He could be trolling, plus I wasn't on the skytrain a few days ago like he said in the PYP thread.....

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I don't mind it. Haven't done it myself though.
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#11 hadoken
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He could be trolling, plus I wasn't on the skytrain a few days ago like he said in the PYP thread.....

lonewolf604
yeah i was just jk about all that, and i cant actually go with you because i dont like metal
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#12 THE_DRUGGIE
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He could be trolling, plus I wasn't on the skytrain a few days ago like he said in the PYP thread.....

lonewolf604

I think you might be missing the barely-subtle joke here.

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#13 lonewolf604
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[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]

He could be trolling, plus I wasn't on the skytrain a few days ago like he said in the PYP thread.....

THE_DRUGGIE

I think you might be missing the barely-subtle joke here.

Well I usually don't post here much so I don't catch on to these things fast. Also hadoken, sit on a cactus.
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#14 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]

He could be trolling, plus I wasn't on the skytrain a few days ago like he said in the PYP thread.....

lonewolf604

I think you might be missing the barely-subtle joke here.

Well I usually don't post here much so I don't catch on to these things fast. Also hadoken, sit on a cactus.

Yeah, you got the racial joke now too?

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I've done it. Didn't mind. Went there for the music. Do that and you won't mind either.

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#16 AussieePet
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Noo..... concerts are meant to be enjoyed with your m8s :D
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What if people push you and a fight breaks out? you will need your m8s for backup :P
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I've been to hundreds of shows, probably near a thousand plus...hell no, I would never go to a concert alone. It's a terrible way to go in comparison to going with friends/mates/or even non fans.

Take a girl if you have no homies, it won't be as fun, but you don't want to be the lonely rocker dude at the show that everyone else avoids as a creeper. Sure, when the show starts, you will be moshing and probably won't care as much, but after the show and before the show will be very depressing I would imagine....plus, you will always know you went to see MEGADETH by yourself.

Only once did I get tickets that NONE of my friends wanted to go to (Bush and No Doubt), so I ended up buying a two tickets instead of one ticket for my friend and made him a deal, he flies, I buy. To be honest, I planned a date with a girl for that show, and last minute she got grounded or some such nonesense, and I had to come up with a way to use that second ticket.

He was my designated driver, and he got to go to a show he didn't like...funny thing was, he liked both bands after the show, lol.

The atmophere and hang out time was great, we moshed, met some new peeps...

I wouldn't go by myself, no way. I don't want to be that guy.

Do a similar deal I did, or talk to some girls at work or family like cousins or schoolmates, something, and do that kind of deal if you want to see Megadeth. Heck, it's a great way to set up a date. You pick the girl up, rock out, she may not be into it, but she can say she went to a Megadeth show, and you can take her out afterwards to make the date go well. I personally would rather be surrounded by friends that are fans, but when desperate, you may as well adapt. Heck, there has GOT TO BE some Megadeth fans, or at least friends that like Guitar Music/Rock music friends you could force to go...MAKE A DEAL for crisakes! :P If you don't have any friends that share your taste for music, you need to get out more and meet those people, they exist, I can assure you. :P

BTW, I've seen Megadeth once (I believe it was once, I've seen some bands so many times that it's a giant blur after the first time, like TOOL , Metallica, Weezer, KORN, Coldplay, or NIN).Megadeth were decent live despite their great hits, it could have been the energy of the crowd. I would wager this upcoming show though will be great. I'm not even a huge fan, but I recognize they have some great songs. That story I told you above, that same friend I told you about that saw BUSH/No Doubth? He loves Megadeth, and saw them with him, lol...and some other homies.

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BTW : I'm only breaking this down for you TC, so you know I have experience in such matters. You can rock it out solo, but I wouldn't recommend it.


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#19 Celldrax
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Seriously, once they start playing and you're into the most pit, none of that stuff really matters. I haven't been to concerts alone yet, but I'm pretty much on my own in there once things get going.

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Spiritually we'll all go with you.

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#21 THE_DRUGGIE
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Spiritually we'll all go with you.

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Hell no.

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#22 junglist101
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Raves yes. Concerts no.

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#23 PiscesChick93
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I haven't, but to be fair, I haven't been to many. Still, I would prefer to go with some friends and/or family.

Have fun on the day! :)

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I've been to hundreds of shows, probably near a thousand plus...hell no, I would never go to a concert alone. It's a terrible way to go in comparison to going with friends/mates/or even non fans.

Take a girl if you have no homies, it won't be as fun, but you don't want to be the lonely rocker dude at the show that everyone else avoids as a creeper. Sure, when the show starts, you will be moshing and probably won't care as much, but after the show and before the show will be very depressing I would imagine....plus, you will always know you went to see MEGADETH by yourself.

Only once did I get tickets that NONE of my friends wanted to go to (Bush and No Doubt), so I ended up buying a two tickets instead of one ticket for my friend and made him a deal, he flies, I buy. To be honest, I planned a date with a girl for that show, and last minute she got grounded or some such nonesense, and I had to come up with a way to use that second ticket.

He was my designated driver, and he got to go to a show he didn't like...funny thing was, he liked both bands after the show, lol.

The atmophere and hang out time was great, we moshed, met some new peeps...

I wouldn't go by myself, no way. I don't want to be that guy.

Do a similar deal I did, or talk to some girls at work or family like cousins or schoolmates, something, and do that kind of deal if you want to see Megadeth. Heck, it's a great way to set up a date. You pick the girl up, rock out, she may not be into it, but she can say she went to a Megadeth show, and you can take her out afterwards to make the date go well. I personally would rather be surrounded by friends that are fans, but when desperate, you may as well adapt. Heck, there has GOT TO BE some Megadeth fans, or at least friends that like Guitar Music/Rock music friends you could force to go...MAKE A DEAL for crisakes! :P If you don't have any friends that share your taste for music, you need to get out more and meet those people, they exist, I can assure you. :P

BTW, I've seen Megadeth once (I believe it was once, I've seen some bands so many times that it's a giant blur after the first time, like TOOL , Metallica, Weezer, KORN, Coldplay, or NIN).Megadeth were decent live despite their great hits, it could have been the energy of the crowd. I would wager this upcoming show though will be great. I'm not even a huge fan, but I recognize they have some great songs. That story I told you above, that same friend I told you about that saw BUSH/No Doubth? He loves Megadeth, and saw them with him, lol...and some other homies.


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Who the **** cares what other people may or may not think. If you want to see a show by yourself, see the damn show by yourself and stop giving a **** what others think about it. Seriously, man up.
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[QUOTE="lonewolf604"][QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

I think you might be missing the barely-subtle joke here.

THE_DRUGGIE

Well I usually don't post here much so I don't catch on to these things fast. Also hadoken, sit on a cactus.

Yeah, you got the racial joke now too?

I don't get it :(
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#27 I_DID_HER_U_MAD
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I've been to a few concerts but I never went alone. It's best to at least go with family members, friends, or someone you know.

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I always go to a concert with friends but I have gone to movies by myself.
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#29 SolidSnake35
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It's good to have a friend to stand around with at the start... other than that, it made no difference to me.
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#30 JML897
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Go by yourself. Nobody really gives a sh*t if someone else is there alone. I'd much rather go by myself than drag along a friend who I think wouldn't be into it.

Plus it's incredibly easy to meet people at concerts. You're surrounded by a bunch of people who have at least one similar interest as you do (taste in music).

BTW, I've seen Megadeth once (I believe it was once, I've seen some bands so many times that it's a giant blur after the first time, like TOOL , Metallica, Weezer, KORN, Coldplay, or NIN).


SolidTy

Everyone is very impressed.

That whole post could be summed up as one giant wanking motion.

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It's good to have a friend to stand around with at the start... other than that, it made no difference to me.SolidSnake35
I've been to concerts alone, and I always can find people to talk to.
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Went to a Maiden gig last summer. Must say I was quite nervous going alone but it was worth it, let me tell you.

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#33 Brozekial
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I've gone to concerts alone. Grow up and enjoy life by yourself.
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I have never been to a concert. I am so ashamed of myself... :cry:

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#35 worlock77
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For God's sake, go if you want to. Yes, go alone. That's perfectly fine. You're going there for music, not to f*cking socialize.

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#36 WhiteKnight77
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I have gone to numerous concerts alone. I go for the music, not to gab all night with friends.

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#37 deactivated-5c37d3adcd094
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Most concerts I go to I go to alone. It's no big deal; just get talking with someone there.
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#38 chilly-chill
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My friends hate the music I like, so I usually go alone but leave with more friends that share the same taste in music I do.
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Your never alone when your listening to music others enjoy as well.

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#40 dissonantblack
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i go to most concerts alone.

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#41 chilly-chill
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Raves yes. Concerts no.

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I would go to a concert by myself.
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#43 iloverikku11
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I have gone to probably about 100 shows alone. It's fine, just try not to show up too early, that can be awkward. But once the music starts and in between sets it's fine.

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#44 solidruss
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There's nothing wrong with it, but I kinda put concerts in the same category as comidies, they are more enjoyable with a group.

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#45 lowkey254
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Nothing's wrong with that. You may meet some new people with your interests or you could be mugged in the crowd :cool:

*Cheers*

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#46 EJ902
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No but I don't see the problem, everyone's paying attention to the band so nobody's gonna notice unless the singer pulls you up on stage and says 'hey babygal who you with here tonight imma set you guys up'. then you point at some random girl in the crowd and score
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I'd probably would go with a total stranger from the internet, but I gotta see you from a distance first. I bet if I ever met anyone from the internet it'll would be some ugly fat chick or some strange weirdo kid.

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Drink some beers next time and you'll forget that you are a lonely soul.
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I've never been to a concert. ;___;

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#50 SolidTy
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Go by yourself. Nobody really gives a sh*t if someone else is there alone. I'd much rather go by myself than drag along a friend who I think wouldn't be into it.

Plus it's incredibly easy to meet people at concerts. You're surrounded by a bunch of people who have at least one similar interest as you do (taste in music).

[QUOTE="SolidTy"]

I've been to hundreds of shows, probably near a thousand plus...hell no, I would never go to a concert alone. It's a terrible way to go in comparison to going with friends/mates/or even non fans.

Take a girl if you have no homies, it won't be as fun, but you don't want to be the lonely rocker dude at the show that everyone else avoids as a creeper. Sure, when the show starts, you will be moshing and probably won't care as much, but after the show and before the show will be very depressing I would imagine....plus, you will always know you went to see MEGADETH by yourself.

Only once did I get tickets that NONE of my friends wanted to go to (Bush and No Doubt), so I ended up buying a two tickets instead of one ticket for my friend and made him a deal, he flies, I buy. To be honest, I planned a date with a girl for that show, and last minute she got grounded or some such nonesense, and I had to come up with a way to use that second ticket.

He was my designated driver, and he got to go to a show he didn't like...funny thing was, he liked both bands after the show, lol.

The atmophere and hang out time was great, we moshed, met some new peeps...

I wouldn't go by myself, no way. I don't want to be that guy.

Do a similar deal I did, or talk to some girls at work or family like cousins or schoolmates, something, and do that kind of deal if you want to see Megadeth. Heck, it's a great way to set up a date. You pick the girl up, rock out, she may not be into it, but she can say she went to a Megadeth show, and you can take her out afterwards to make the date go well. I personally would rather be surrounded by friends that are fans, but when desperate, you may as well adapt. Heck, there has GOT TO BE some Megadeth fans, or at least friends that like Guitar Music/Rock music friends you could force to go...MAKE A DEAL for crisakes! :P If you don't have any friends that share your taste for music, you need to get out more and meet those people, they exist, I can assure you. :P

BTW, I've seen Megadeth once (I believe it was once, I've seen some bands so many times that it's a giant blur after the first time, like TOOL , Metallica, Weezer, KORN, Coldplay, or NIN).Megadeth were decent live despite their great hits, it could have been the energy of the crowd. I would wager this upcoming show though will be great. I'm not even a huge fan, but I recognize they have some great songs. That story I told you above, that same friend I told you about that saw BUSH/No Doubth? He loves Megadeth, and saw them with him, lol...and some other homies.

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BTW : I'm only breaking this down for you TC, so you know I have experience in such matters. You can rock it out solo, but I wouldn't recommend it.


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Everyone is very impressed.

That whole post could be summed up as one giant wanking motion.

Who cares about everyone? This was directed to the TC. We can't all live in Nebraska, be in High School, smoke, love on Casey's Gas Station Pizza, be young with tons of opinions and little experience, and recommend people go to concerts by themselves now can we? I'll tell you this, live it up now, get that experience, and one day you too can be using it to guide another users plight. Maybe if you are lucky, someone else not involved can quote you to tell you how impressed they are with your experience, lol. :P

This was a simple proposition, I wanted the TC to know my backround on the subject, and for the TC to make a judgement based on that. I wouldn't go to a concert by myself, but clearly it seems you would. You gave your reasoning, I gave mine. People were impressed for both of us, I'm sure, because we are just such a spectacle. Or maybe we are actually trying to answer the TC's question in our own ways? Hmmmm... We each have our backrounds, and our recommendations for the TC, he can make his decision based on what he reads or not. Who cares. I also gave him some ideas on possible date ideas, or getting a friend to go.

You can go back to pleasing/impressing everyone if that's what you are into, I'll stick to trying to help the various TC's out. People all have their opinions, some are backed by experience, some are backed by belief, some are backed by both. There sure seems to be quite a few armchair spectators in life, but the TC had a question I thought I legitimately could field with experience. Whatever, I just wanted to give the TC a breakdown on my perspective, which shouldn't be a problem. He's going to do what he's going to do anyways, eh. Carry on my wayward son.