[QUOTE="blackacidevil96"][QUOTE="battlefront23"] Men and women play different roles in this world. As do a husband and a wife. These are very important, sacred roles. Two wives or two husbands can't be something they're not and thus are ill-equipped to raise children. To clarify, I'm not saying they shouldn't be ALLOWED to, but I do think heterosexuals can do a better job.battlefront23
i for one feel those roles where defined by a society that is no longer important. one that says women need to do such things and men should do others. having a male and female role switch places (such as a stay at home dad). in no way effects how a child is raised. to me the one that does a better job is the one that best prepares their child for their future while showing them love the whole way. at the end of the day its the child that will eventually chooses their future. and while a parent plays an important role their brain is still their own and the sexuallity of a parents cannot effect that. men and women play the roles they choose to play not the ones defined by the mass majority and as such have the same potential in rasing a child in a "proper" fashion
That last line I like... "choose" is a good word to use. Men can "choose" to be real men when they have children, or to be boys and not step up and do the role God intended them to have. It is all about choice, and that choice is affected by the man's father and his father's father and so on. If a boy is not taught how to be a man by a man, how can he know what he should do in specific male circumstances? (I could go in specifics but I assume you know what I'm talking about) And the same could be said for a girl... Children need both care [which, even if you deny (in an ideal family), is primarily given by the mother] and discipline [again which, even if you deny (in an ideal family), is primarily given by the father] from their parents, and I believe men are ill-equipped to care and women are ill-equipped to discipline. And again, I'm not saying they CAN'T.good post.
choice. they do not choose their sexual preference. love is a feeling. not a choice. many homosexual couples choose to adopt those children discarded by heterosexual couples. a father who is homosexual can teach their child to man up to their rights. to step up to those who demand you are wrong. to stick by what you believe in. to be the bigger man and make your own choice. a mother is capable of the same thing.
disciplin? tell my mom that women cant disciplin. she has a wooden spoon that says other wise. and my dad who i love more than anyone on the planet, is the most caring person i have ever come across. to me the ideal family balances both qualities among both parents. and homosexual couples are certainly capable of all of these thigns
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