Have you ever asked a girl out and she said no?

It only hurts when the make fun of you after saying no.foxhound_fox

Wow, she would pretty much have to admit to being a horrible person at that point.

yes..

she ignored me for 2 weeks and avoided me then , eventually just said something around the lines of " oh its cuz were like freinds and stuff we wouldnt wanna ruin that..." oh no of course not you know like ignoring someone is really friendly

rgd187

Man...you'd think you offended the girl just by liking her. IS THAT A CRIME!? Girls are strange.

Wow, she would pretty much have to admit to being a horrible person at that point. Dark_Knight6

Kids in Junior and High School are cruel all the time, I just personally got more than I deserved. That was a while ago though.foxhound_fox

Yeah, I know. I just can't stand people like that.

Girls don't consider me dateable, seeing as I'm (and I quote from several girls) "One of the nicest, unique and interesting guys in our school." or "You're different from other guys, and trust me that's a compliment, it's a good different."Instead I'm just a really good friend, nothing more, with almost every girl in my grade. :( Hell, my entire grade 12 class even voted me to be king of the school this year, but I was beat out because one of my friends has like 4 brothers and sisters in school, and they're in different grades and got their friends to vote him for king because that's the only grade 12 they really know. Our schools messed, our grades (besides our grade 12 and 11 class this year) tend to talk only to one another

I do however, every time I go to a dance have a different dance partner ever 10-15 mins though, so I look like a pimp. 8) Not to mention the most attractive girl(to me, personality and in the looks department) in grade 12 (my grade)wants to be grad escorts with me. So during our Grand March, I'm going to have a great escort at my side, and a great escort to dance with for the grad-escort dance.

It only hurts when the make fun of you after saying no.foxhound_fox

hahaha no girl would dare say no. whats with all the bloody swords and scary looking ninja uniforms I wear...ahem

but yea it sucks to get rejected. but that's life.

Thats...just cold-hearted. Sorry to hear that.Bluestorm-Kalas

I'm 0/0.

I've only been asked out, twice, and I said no to the first one. I'm happily still with the second one. :)

Yeah :cry:

Well, she gave a valid reason.

I ended up going to Prom with her later in the year though. So all is good.:)

We still keep in touch.

[QUOTE="Bluestorm-Kalas"]Thats...just cold-hearted. Sorry to hear that.foxhound_fox

I totally agree,

Going with the genuine =D.

[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]It only hurts when the make fun of you after saying no.Bluestorm-Kalas

That kinda happened to me once...I could tell she made fun of me behind my back because one day I was sitting there and I could overhear her friends saying "Oh look theres that guy that asked such-and-such out. Yeah what a LOSER LOLOLOL!!!" That felt pretty good, and ever since my confidence with girls has been shot. Been getting it back lately though.;)

I've never received a straight no. I usually get it in a round-about kind of way.

[QUOTE="Bluestorm-Kalas"][QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]It only hurts when the make fun of you after saying no.GreenmonsterBLS

That kinda happened to me once...I could tell she made fun of me behind my back because one day I was sitting there and I could overhear her friends saying "Oh look theres that guy that asked such-and-such out. Yeah what a LOSER LOLOLOL!!!" That felt pretty good, and ever since my confidence with girls has been shot.

ok at that point you have the right to say she is a......well i wont say it but it starts with a b.

I've had these:

"Sorry, but I have a boyfriend"

"Sorry, but I have a Fiance"

I've never received a straight no. I usually get it in a round-about kind of way.

cametall

everyone seems to get the round-about rejection idk but i think they think a straight no is going to be too hard on us lol

heres how i would react

me: hey you wannt hang out sometime?

her: no

me: w/e

(walks away)

lol it doesn't hurt dude, you need to be ready for it man.

happened to me. i was in 7th grade. we were seeing eachother for sometime at that point. i was on her sofa on top of her, was feelin her up (oh yeah, she was amazing) and we laid there and i asked her out, she said no. i rolled over and started laughing like damn wtf?! i just thought it was funny. but since i had such a good time i felt it was cool. she said she wasnt sure yet. so a couple weeks later she told me to ask her again and we ended up dating for like 6 months. and she would tell every girl at school about us, talked me up real well. i was a pimp after we broke up. seventh and eighth grade were amazing. i miss it. damn, looking back im no where near as much of a pimp as i was back then. i hooked up with so many girls.

I've never received a straight no. I usually get it in a round-about kind of way.

cametall

i tend to hit the friend zone a lot idky

and the girls im usually attracted to have rejected me

so my score is 5/6

it hurt a lot when i was rejected

bc she gave me a staright no

i looked at her and i was like u little B***H

and walked away lol

The secrect to asking someone out its to go in like you want it... if you dont she will notice that and deny you oviously...

And always remember their will always be a chick that looks like her are better... (There are always more Fish in the sea)

I feel you man it is the worst. I think my personal favorite is "we should just be friends" shortly followed by "you're not mad at me are you?" or "you don't hate me do you?"....no actually I just got rejected I feel f****** awesome.bitemeslippy

i tend to hit the friend zone a lot idky

and the girls im usually attracted to have rejected me

so my score is 5/6

it hurt a lot when i was rejected

bc she gave me a staright no

i looked at her and i was u little B***H

and walked away lol

feli453

Best pickup line that a girl can never say no to:

"Those pants are very becoming on you. Of course, if they were off you I'd becoming too!" (Read it aloud)
hamstergeddon

I would use this line if I didn't want to get laid.

Best pickup line that a girl can never say no to:

"Those pants are very becoming on you. Of course, if they were off you I'd becoming too!" (Read it aloud)
hamstergeddon

[QUOTE="cametall"]

I've never received a straight no. I usually get it in a round-about kind of way.

gbpman630

Yeah, maybe if they said no I wouldn't get mad about it. Getting a lie or some lame excuse really annoys me. I've gotten enough round-about answers that if I ask one to do something, and they give me a really specific reason as to why they can't go out at that time, I can't tell if they're turning me down or really are just busy at that time... so I'm rather cautious about asking again, to try and affirm whether they are turning me down or not.

So I'm sure I have lost some opportunities because they really did want to go out, but had something planned at the time I was available. Because it's rare I give it a second try (took me all my damn courage to ask the first time).

Now I just sit back and wait for them to show at least a modicum of interest, then I go from there. I don't approach often anymore, I'm taking a break from that crap.

Yeah I have been rejected a few times, and girls have just said "no" to me.

It matters not because I have no heart to crush >:C

One girl explaining why she couldnt go on a date with me:

"I can't go because I got pulled over and got ticketed for not having my seatbelt on, so I had to pick up an extra shift at work to pay for it."

...I work at the same place she does...and she was not at said workplace at said time...

One girl explaining why she couldnt go on a date with me:

"I can't go because I got pulled over and got ticketed for not having my seatbelt on, so I had to pick up an extra shift at work to pay for it."

...I work at the same place she does...and she was not at said workplace at said time...

GreenmonsterBLS

Dangggggggggggg

I got an "I don't know" :?

Then I asked again a couple of months later and she said no, well actually I don't think she said "no" at any point, but she was moving away and she said a lot of stuff, I think part of it was "I'm sorry but you can't force emotions" and the old "you're a nice guy" cliche, she even mentioned it being a cliche when she said it :lol:

But almost 3 months since then, she has moved and I still miss her more than anything :( :cry:

It was a very long conversation though so at least she cared enough to actually talk and not just find a quick excuse and go (it was msn so it would have been so easy for her to just go if she wanted)(msn was the 2nd time, not the 1st, I had already asked in person once so that wasn't just me being a coward) I am very grateful to her for actually being kind and talking about it rather than an excuse and logging off on me.