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Yes I have. I suppose technically twice depending on what you'd class as cheating.
I went out with a guy for 5 years and round about the middle we were going through some tough times, and once during the 'truth talk' after a big major fight he admitted he had gone to his ex's flat and made out with her about a month before, though he had felt too guilty to take it any further and had left.
I didn't care much tbh for several reasons: 1) The relationship was sour anyway (should have ended it really but wasted another two years in it none the less. O well we live and learn). 2) His ex was fat and ugly and not much of a threat in my eyes. 3) It was only a kiss. 4) I myself had kissed several girls at various nightclubs for several months before hand also.
The other time was much more clear-cut. Was going out with a girl around May last year, heard from a mutual friend this girl had been frolicking with another girl behind my back, I went round and asked her straight up if it was true. She said yes, I left, never saw her again.
o for sure. but why put the puss on the pedestal? there are plenty of girls out there, why tred on just one?
[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]Your girlfriend's name is not by any chance 'Angela The Fist'?No. The only worry i have of losing a sexual partner is if i break my wrist.
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Wait.... what...?
How did you..... :cry:
Yeeeep. Just happened a week ago, too. Or I found out about it. The last 5 months of an 18-month relationship. *shakes head*bluezyI feel you. My most recent relationship is over because she cheated on me. I just can't believe how much she changed and that she would do that to me. I really got played.....
[QUOTE="bluezy"]Yeeeep. Just happened a week ago, too. Or I found out about it. The last 5 months of an 18-month relationship. *shakes head*AdamPA1006I feel you. My most recent relationship is over because she cheated on me. I just can't believe how much she changed and that she would do that to me. I really got played..... Yeah, in my case I totally didn't see it. She didn't even have the guts to tell me (as you can guess), her best friend did after she didn't talk to me for a week.
In a way. It wasn't physical, it was over the internet. But I cIass telling some other randomgirl he loves her and would go over and marry her as cheating. On his school email too...
Yes I have been cheated on. It was my first real girl friend who did so. We broke up and I went on my own way.
Sadly, the girl I was the most serious with cheated on me with her tattoo artist who happened to be married, and his wife actually left him until he agreed to cut off all contact with her.
That was the first time I'd really been in love, and I was just so utterly crushed when it all came out during this last Christmas break. She even managed to manipulate me into thinking I'd done something wrong, and then broke up with me (which occurred before I found out she'd actually cheated.)
Until all of that mess went down, I'd never been dumped, so the combination of being cheated on and dumped for the first time in my life really dealt a serious blow to my self esteem for a while. I kind of spent the next week or so in my room, which was more or less the most depressing time of my life.
Luckily, I had some great friends who helped me through it, and after some time passed, I saw her for who she really was and just how cruel she'd been. Now, about eight months and a few relationships later, I'm with a really amazing girl, and I couldn't be happier.
[QUOTE="MissLibrarian"]I myself had kissed several girls at various nightclubs for several monthscd_romThe amazing thing is this is the only line I actually read. It was like my mind new what it was looking for.
Quit drooling already. We both know where your mind went.
Question for people who've been cheated on. What's worse/more offensive they cheat on you with a total bombshell/stud or an ugly slob?FightingfanI think someone better looking than I am. If it were someone totally ugly I'd at least come out of the relationship with "Well, at least I'm better looking than her." If it was someone hot I would be crushed and never feel worth anything again.
Question for people who've been cheated on. What's worse/more offensive they cheat on you with a total bombshell/stud or an ugly slob?FightingfanMine cheated on me with her forty year old, ex-con tattoo artist everybody calls "Big Myk"
Just picture what that stereotype looks like and you've got a pretty good picture of the guy.
Well... it's really complicated. I suppose I was, but, at the same time, I'm not sure. Too weird to explain. I will go with "maybe."
Yes, and in all honesty I'm kinda glad she did cheat.
I was looking for a reason to break up with her pretty much.
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