Have you ever been cheated on?

[QUOTE="Hexagon_777"][QUOTE="hyperjj3000"]I was 16, that is an age where you do silly things, things i would never dream of doing today.Young and stupid is the only way to describe myself at that age.rawsavon

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[QUOTE="rawsavon"] pics please
...I think GS could do wonders for you guys

rawsavon

I am curious to why you think that?

...given the number of relationship help threads, me thinks there would be a line around the block for some 'quality time' with you guys.
In fact, the two of you could set up shop an serve as...hmmm....a set of training wheels for some our members that just need to learn how to (pardon the word choice) ride.

Best venture capital opportunity I have seen in quite a while

in case it was not obvious... /bad attempt at humor

lol oh ok, I get what you are saying lol. :P

I dated a really deceitful she-devil for a while. Found out from a co-worker that she had cheated on me with a guy he knew.

The other day my parents saw her working in a local restaurant as a waitress, this gave me a feeling of satisfaction.

The other day my parents saw her working in a local restaurant as a waitress, this gave me a feeling of satisfaction.

superfluidity

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The other day my parents saw her working in a local restaurant as a waitress, this gave me a feeling of satisfaction.

rawsavon

Yup, its one of the worst feelings in the world.

[QUOTE="superfluidity"]

The other day my parents saw her working in a local restaurant as a waitress, this gave me a feeling of satisfaction.

rawsavon

Yep.

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Yeah. It was my first atual relationship. She cheated on me and slept with my ex-best friend. It was a rough time and I was only 15 then. :|

Cloud_765

Yes and man does it suck. gmaster456

I've been cheated on really only once, but it wasa real doozy for me. She did this with someone who was a very good friend of mine (past tense) and then broke up with me to be with him. Really broke my heart, and put me through about six months of personal hell.

Then she wanted me back, rather desperately I might add. I had thought, before that six months of hell, that I wanted that. I even thought so during it. But when it was over, I didn't feel the same, which is apt to happen. I only wanted revenge. And I got it,which makes me both ashamed and proud -- a true mix of feelings about that one. I won't go into details about what I did, but it definitely gave both her and my former buddy a taste of what I had been through.

The unfortunate thing is that she still chases me to this day. It's been 14 years, and she still thinks we're going to get back together, despite every attempt to let her know otherwise. I'm not bragging about this, even if it sounds like it. It is rather quite the annoyance for me in my advancing years, though I am thankful that we live VERY far apart.

Never,and I pray that it never happens.

no, but the closest thing to it was this:

i began just seeing this girl, we had a really good thing going and it was great, but she was still in love with her ex. he was seeing someone else when i started talking to this girl, but then he broke up with the girl he was with, so the girl just dropped me like a bad habit and ran back to her ex like an idiot. he pretty much kepter her around, used her for his pleasuer, and then just blew her off when another girl he was interested in came along.

her loss i guess, as i would have never done something to her like that. she asked me if i wanted to hang out after that ordeal, but ive just started seeing someone else who is far superior to her in every way. mainly in the personality department... shes just fantastic :)

I've been cheated on really only once, but it wasa real doozy for me. She did this with someone who was a very good friend of mine (past tense) and then broke up with me to be with him. Really broke my heart, and put me through about six months of personal hell.

Then she wanted me back, rather desperately I might add. I had thought, before that six months of hell, that I wanted that. I even thought so during it. But when it was over, I didn't feel the same, which is apt to happen. I only wanted revenge. And I got it,which makes me both ashamed and proud -- a true mix of feelings about that one. I won't go into details about what I did, but it definitely gave both her and my former buddy a taste of what I had been through.

The unfortunate thing is that she still chases me to this day. It's been 14 years, and she still thinks we're going to get back together, despite every attempt to let her know otherwise. I'm not bragging about this, even if it sounds like it. It is rather quite the annoyance for me in my advancing years, though I am thankful that we live VERY far apart.

m0zart

Please go into details, I'm intrigued.

Not that I know of.ExoticAnimal

[QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"]Not that I know of.junglist101

Oh dear

[QUOTE="m0zart"]I've been cheated on really only once, but it wasa real doozy for me. She did this with someone who was a very good friend of mine (past tense) and then broke up with me to be with him. Really broke my heart, and put me through about six months of personal hell.

Then she wanted me back, rather desperately I might add. I had thought, before that six months of hell, that I wanted that. I even thought so during it. But when it was over, I didn't feel the same, which is apt to happen. I only wanted revenge. And I got it,which makes me both ashamed and proud -- a true mix of feelings about that one. I won't go into details about what I did, but it definitely gave both her and my former buddy a taste of what I had been through.

The unfortunate thing is that she still chases me to this day. It's been 14 years, and she still thinks we're going to get back together, despite every attempt to let her know otherwise. I'm not bragging about this, even if it sounds like it. It is rather quite the annoyance for me in my advancing years, though I am thankful that we live VERY far apart.tenaka2

[QUOTE="tenaka2"][QUOTE="m0zart"]I've been cheated on really only once, but it wasa real doozy for me. She did this with someone who was a very good friend of mine (past tense) and then broke up with me to be with him. Really broke my heart, and put me through about six months of personal hell.

Then she wanted me back, rather desperately I might add. I had thought, before that six months of hell, that I wanted that. I even thought so during it. But when it was over, I didn't feel the same, which is apt to happen. I only wanted revenge. And I got it,which makes me both ashamed and proud -- a true mix of feelings about that one. I won't go into details about what I did, but it definitely gave both her and my former buddy a taste of what I had been through.

The unfortunate thing is that she still chases me to this day. It's been 14 years, and she still thinks we're going to get back together, despite every attempt to let her know otherwise. I'm not bragging about this, even if it sounds like it. It is rather quite the annoyance for me in my advancing years, though I am thankful that we live VERY far apart.Hexagon_777

I was 90% sure at the time, and what he's been doing since then doesn't make me think he didn't.

In hindsight, I'm amazed that it ended so well. We're actually good friends now.

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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]Please go into details, I'm intrigued.doubalfa

Color me interested as well.

Also this thread is incredible. Did not think there would be so many people who have been cheated on. As for me, I don't think I was cheated on, but of course it's not always something you can prove.

Is it really that hard to figure out what Big Mo did?rawsavon

He killed the friend? I don't know...

Yes, my first girlfriend who I dated for 18 months. I had her Facebook password and decided I'd go on it and leave a nice message (Hacked by Tom I love you :) something like that, then one of her guy friends started talking to her, so I checked out what they'd been talking about. She'd been discussing how she had a crush on him while dating me, and that she still thinks about (and doing other stuff with him) I confronted her, she tried to turn it around on me saying I shouldn't have gone on it (which she was right about I guess), I told her that she should have told me about this yada yada yada. Then we broke up and she went to him, turned out to be nothing. So now she is dating some bogan who abuses her and cheats on her.

Still, I've been trying to get her back for about 8 months now, can't break that hold. Hurts to much. Can't bring myself to tell her to f*** off.

When i was 16 i was dating a guy for about a year and one day out of the blue i told him i saw him kissing a girl( i said it for a joke), he looked at me in terror and went home. The next day he said he had to tell me something, he said he kissed another girl who was only 13! He was 18 at the time and he only told me because he thought i knew but i really didn't. I dumped him after that and it makes me feel better about cheating on him for the whole year we were going out. That was a long time ago though, i was young and stupid then, i would never cheat now.

hyperjj3000

Unfortunately I have had a partner cheat on me.

This was the girl I had a relationship with before my marriage, we argued from time to time and mainly because she loved going out and had a lot of male "friends"... now I'm no more jealous than any other person in a relationship but this guy that hung around her like a bad smell had a crush on her and has had for a long time. Well I'll cut it short since you know where its going... I was working late and she had a party at ours he stayed back to help her clean. I got back home around 1 something only to find him in the shower.

She denied anything happened but eventually he told someone and since then I have stayed away from girls with non-gay male friends.

Is it really that hard to figure out what Big Mo did?rawsavon

No, since I've never been in a relationship.rockguy92

I've had girlfriends kiss other guys and another girl once, but never really sex.

I've had girlfriends kiss other guys and another girl once, but never really sex.GrudHeap

Technically yes. My ex wife started seeing someone after we separated, but I suspect they had something going on before that. But it serves her right, after they moved in together the dude cheated on her for months before she found out. Karma!

Technically yes. My ex wife started seeing someone after we separated, but I suspect they had something going on before that. But it serves her right, after they moved in together the dude cheated on her for months before she found out. Karma!Darthmatt

[QUOTE="GrudHeap"]I've had girlfriends kiss other guys and another girl once, but never really sex.Hexagon_777

[QUOTE="Darthmatt"]Technically yes. My ex wife started seeing someone after we separated, but I suspect they had something going on before that. But it serves her right, after they moved in together the dude cheated on her for months before she found out. Karma!Hexagon_777

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[QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"]Not that I know of.tenaka2

Oh dear

Oh yeah its only a matter of time. I knew it would happen when my friend told me my ex's BF had two babies 15 mo apart from two women. I was just like lol, sounds like a winner.

Darthmatt

[QUOTE="Darthmatt"]Oh yeah its only a matter of time. I knew it would happen when my friend told me my ex's BF had two babies 15 mo apart from two women. I was just like lol, sounds like a winner.

GrudHeap

This is why My gf and I even though we are open sexually, (meaning we can sleep with anyone we want as long as we are responsible, sex has always been far to romanticized) That we are not bringing anymore human life forms into this world, which the systems of this world are not even remotely prepared to deal with the 7 billion we already have!

Yet so many people pop out the things like their some kind of F@#% trophy!