Have/would you seen/see someone who is already in a relationship?

I've been in open relationships in my younger 20's. Can't call it cheating since it was agreed upon parties.

Not my style anymore, though. I prefer monogamy these days.

That's pretty cool. Honesty is the best medicine. Except not everyone can live this way, due to societal norms like monogamy, responsibility and expectation. Its hard to imagine most people being happy, especially these days. So i guess that's why there is cheating (and anti-depressants). Open relationships are the far better solution. Anyway we are quickly moving to a singularity in which everything and everyone is connected. Perhaps more than we'd like, a Pandora's Box. Its been opening, but the singularity will throw it wide open.

No, generally not cool with it.

I'd have to be really close to the person, and their current partner would have to be a jerk, for me to be OK with having a relationship with them. Even then...ehhhhh, I don't think I'd be OK with it.

I'm not so desperate to sleep with people that I'm going to be a jerk in order to do so. I feel like if you are, you're kind of being an animal and not a human.

No. Wouldn't do it

Well... maybe that's easy for me to say, I've never been confronted with strong temptation. Perhaps if my marriage was in a bad place, and someone I really liked was aggressively pursuing me, I'd give in. But I'd like to think I wouldn't.

I would never date. Don't wanna change my whole life for someone. Besides, women are dangerous, by and large.

Absolutely not. I personally don't even care for relationships. I do get clingy and love to be all on someone when I like them. However, once that wears off then I want nothing to do with them. A swift cut off, which is not good for healthy relationships. Despite that, I still think it's scummy to cheat. If you and your partner agree to a monogamous relationship, then you should both hold up your end of the bargain. If you want to sleep with multiple people, then date a polygamist or just don't date people. Simple as that.

I have flirted with a girl that was in a relationship, but we never did anything freaky/romantic. So to answer your question, no, I've never done that.

@dracula_16: Do you think you would've been ok if she was down with it?

Well, that couldn't have happened because she lived over a thousand miles away from where I live. I'm from Ontario, Canada and she was from California, USA. But hypothetically, I probably would have had sex with her (back then.) If that were to happen today though, I certainly would not date her or have sex with her. I was a wretch of a man back then; nowadays I'm much more ethical.

I haven't heard from her in years, but I wish her nothing but happiness.

This is a personal and complex topic that depends on individual values and circumstances. Some people strictly avoid it out of respect for relationships, while others may navigate gray areas based on specific situations. What are your thoughts on this?

Already married or a fiancée- then no. I would not peruse.

Just a boyfriend/girlfriend thing- then yes, I would in some cases.

I have hooked up with someone in a relationship but she was already set on dumping him. She put the moves on me and I did not resist.

I knew a girl who wanted a relationship with me though she was already in one. She was expecting a baby though was sad that she couldn't be with me. Definitely wouldn't want to come in between in a husband and wife expecting a child. Now if she wasn't in a serious relationship, really depends if she didn't want to be with her boyfriend. Though I doubt it would work out for the best for me. Depends on the circumstances though I suppose.

When I was younger I was with a girl that didn't tell me she had a boyfriend before pursuing me, which lead to a lot of drama. When Tinder became a thing I wouldn't honestly know, because it made hooking up so easy. Now I'm happy with my girl and I'd never sacrifice a good thing for a piece of tail.