Having a gf....needed in life?

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#51 MattsyBoi
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It feels greatbeing loved by a girl and you loving her back. . .

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#52 The_PirateKing
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trust me when you get older wiser you will miss your youth so much ...

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~-~Yea, I bet I would feel like that too if I wasted it like that. Not to mention wasted my future by getting every disease in the book. But since I'm not throwing it away like that I bet I'm not going to regret it like you do.~-~
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#53 princemarth23
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At times I have felt that I really wanted a gf..but to be honest it's not who I am. Being single and stuff has always been my thing, and I've found joy in it.
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#54 Vick_Devi
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I never had a gf...did I say that I'm a nerd...?
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#55 wii4panta
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to all who say there is no need for a girlfriend...get your sexiness and find one right NOW!!!

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#56 TirOrn
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Screw girlfriends. I'm happier without them.
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#57 Watch_Me_Xplode
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Maybe, depends on the person. If you are depressed, having a gf can be a big help.

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#59 digital-model
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I'm better off alone.
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#60 Articuno76
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I am pretty sure it's possible to live without one...easier even to live without one. What kinda question is this?
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#61 Felix-Legions
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Having one seems to make life more interesting
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#62 majadamus
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My psychology professor said no....so, I guess no.
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#63 The_PirateKing
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But if you're not happy with yourself, then how will a gf make it better?

Besides, like a poster said, a gf is not a mandatory requirement.

Sonick54
~-~I think there's more of a reason why you made this thread then just making a good thread. You don't think you need a gf but you have a bunch of friends that keep telling you that you should have one right? If you're not happy with yourself then maybe you do need to be in a true relationship. Note true relationship, not gf, there's a difference. Just like how some people are better off alone, some people need a companion. If you're not happy with yourself then maybe you should think about it, think about how things would be if you had someone who would always be at your side. I'm not saying you need to be in a relationship, but if you're not happy then it is something you should be thinking about. And remember, think about a TRUE relationship, not just a gf. It's more then having somewhere to got for sex.~-~
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#64 SparseSolid
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I guess so, from someone who has never had one............X360PS3AMD05
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA....sorry i was just laughing at a joke i heard yesterday.
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#65 aaaaarrrrggggg
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Screw girlfriends.TirOrn

Well, that is generally what they are fore...

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#66 Articuno76
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[QUOTE="Sonick54"]

But if you're not happy with yourself, then how will a gf make it better?

Besides, like a poster said, a gf is not a mandatory requirement.

The_PirateKing

~-~I think there's more of a reason why you made this thread then just making a good thread. You don't think you need a gf but you have a bunch of friends that keep telling you that you should have one right? If you're not happy with yourself then maybe you do need to be in a relationship. Note relationship, not gf, there's a difference. Just like how some people are better off alone, some people need a companion. If you're not happy with yourself then maybe you should think about it, think about how things would be if you had someone who would always be at your side. I'm not saying you need to be in a relationship, but if you're not happy then it is something you should be thinking about. And remember, think about a relationship, not just a gf.~-~

The difference between being in a relationship with a girl and having a girlfriend being...what exactly?

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#67 Vfanek
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Girlfriends are like cheesecakes, everyone loves them but you can manage without one.
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#68 blooddemon666
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I guess I'm not cut out for it. I've tried, and failed. I tend to fall into the friend zone really quickly. But I'm fine with that I guess.
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#69 deactivated-57e5de5e137a4
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I'd say yes, eventually. Or if not a companion, at least really close friends. I can't imagine there being much worse than being an old man with noone to visit him and too worn down to do anything active. While you're young, nah not that important.
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#70 The_PirateKing
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The difference between being in a relationship with a girl and having a girlfriend being...what exactly?

Articuno76
~-~Just having a gf could be anything. She could be a real ***** or high maintenance anything. Plus when most people think of having a gf, it's just someone to have sex with. *looks at about 50% of the posts here* If you think of them like that then of course it's not going to make you happy about everything. While a real relationship is when you're with someone who knows you through and through. Someone you can turn to and tell anything and have them understand. Whenever you're going through something hard in life they'll be there to help you get through it. It's someone you want to spend every day with. I guess I should of said a TRUE relationship.:P I'll go back and edit my post.~-~
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#71 muppet1010
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I love how people express thoughts from only their perspective. (Though in my odd case it does refer to me as well, I suppose.)You mean is having a spouse necessary in life? No, of course not, some are asexual (anti-sexual) and don't even desire a mate. Others can simply do without it, or may pose a danger to others etc (You can keep naming reasons forever)

For everyday people? I'd say it can be a wonderful thing, but being in a relationship is not without its' share of faults.

dhyce

ummm a-sexual has another meaning other than "anti-sexual" ifact ive never heard of "anti-sexual" lol

Dating is a joke,girls and boys just have BF's/GF's just so they don't get made fun of for NOT having one,they don't even like each other.

*Prepares the uber flame shield*

AARONRULZ1

lol not gonna flame you but you obviously realize what is wrong with what you said? Im guessing youve had bad experiences?

Christ ...lol

when I were your ages I was at it all the time ....

going out dating /romancing /loving ..

trust me when you get older wiser you will miss your youth so much ...

Im_So_Right

is that code for I wish I was out every night *insert the above*

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#72 Flank_Left
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From a social stand point, yes, but its really up to you. I didn't even ask a girl out till grade 11:P

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#73 GiygasFanima
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Girlfriends are like cheesecakes, everyone loves them but you can manage without one.Vfanek

Actually, I hate cheesecake. But I'm sure having a girlfriend isn't necessary for girls. Unless...whatever.

Well it's not really so much as having a girlfriend, but a Wife is needed to continue the generation.

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[QUOTE="Vfanek"]Girlfriends are like cheesecakes, everyone loves them but you can manage without one.GiygasFanima

Actually, I hate cheesecake. But I'm sure having a girlfriend isn't necessary for girls. Unless...whatever.

Well it's not really so much as having a girlfriend, but a Wife is needed to continue the generation.

Dude I had a dream that I watched someone make a cheese cake for me. They even put a strawberry on it.
Anyways, you shouldn't just date someone for the sake of dating, or even because that person likes you. It's not a good enough reason just to like them back. You should get to know that person as a friend before going any further, or else you might make a big mistake. If they don't want to get to know you when you say you're not ready for dating, then they're not the right person to be dating in the first place.

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#75 SpideR_CentS
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I'm all about having GF's, as long as there good ones. I dont think you should date someone you dont like just for the reason of dating them. There is nothing better then having a good girlfriend though.
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#76 lompocus
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are 3 ok simultaneously xD
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#77 CitizenOne
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Dating is a joke,girls and boys just have BF's/GF's just so they don't get made fun of for NOT having one,they don't even like each other.

*Prepares the uber flame shield*

AARONRULZ1

LOL. Quoted for great justice. No, I do not aggree with these views.


i believe companionship is important in life but not essential and needed. God on the other hand is essential and needed in everyones lifeMichaeltheCM

Wrong. Man needs woman like Adam needed Eve right? Anyway what's god got to do with this..?

I've never had one, and probably never will. I'm happy alone.

jim_shorts


Correction; you think you are happy alone.

I never had a gf...did I say that I'm a nerd...?Vick_Devi


Nerds get girls too, you'd be suprised ha ha.

[QUOTE="TirOrn"]Screw girlfriends.aaaaarrrrggggg

Well, that is generally what they are fore...



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#78 alex1889
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ts a alot of pressure, especially if ur broke on their birthday :o
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#79 Bresca
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I guess I'm not cut out for it. I've tried, and failed. I tend to fall into the friend zone really quickly. But I'm fine with that I guess.blooddemon666

I keep thinking that my opinions will turn around when I meet that "special someone" it's a sickner after a while : p
Relationships are an awful lot of hassle sometimes lol
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#80 WildLIkeChild
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You'll die alone if you never get a girlfriend.
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#81 majadamus
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From a social stand point, yes, but its really up to you. I didn't even ask a girl out till grade 11:P

Flank_Left

Most people start dating around that time.

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#82 SouL-Tak3R
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Well I'm always happier when I'm with my gf so iunno haha
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#83 USmellLikePoopy
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I like having a girlfriend, but I don't need one. At the moment I'm single.
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#84 ArmoredAshes
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ehhh it all depends on your values and priorities in life.
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#85 blooddemon666
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[QUOTE="blooddemon666"]I guess I'm not cut out for it. I've tried, and failed. I tend to fall into the friend zone really quickly. But I'm fine with that I guess.Bresca

I keep thinking that my opinions will turn around when I meet that "special someone" it's a sickner after a while : p
Relationships are an awful lot of hassle sometimes lol

Too much drama. i hate drama, so pointless
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#86 MCGSMB
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Yes, they are definitely needed. You haven't lived until you're with someone who really, really likes you.
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#87 Articuno76
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You'll die alone if you never get a girlfriend.WildLIkeChild

I'm not sure what exactly your condoning...but whatever it is, I'm against it.

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#88 RamboSymbiot
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I love woman.

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#89 Mercury88
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Coming from a guy with commitment issues No, but being involved with women is healthier than not (if you are heterosexual)

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#90 The_PirateKing
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[QUOTE="Bresca"]I keep thinking that my opinions will turn around when I meet that "special someone" it's a sickner after a while : p
Relationships are an awful lot of hassle sometimes lol
blooddemon666
Too much drama. i hate drama, so pointless

~-~Oh not me, I don't mind it... Well, I guess I can't talk until I've had a gf, but I don't see the problem.~-~
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#91 Articuno76
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[QUOTE="jim_shorts"]

I've never had one, and probably never will. I'm happy alone.

CitizenOne



Correction; you think you are happy alone.

Don't you see a problem in trying to be an authority on how someone else feels over how they themselves feel?

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#92 WildLIkeChild
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[QUOTE="WildLIkeChild"]You'll die alone if you never get a girlfriend.Articuno76

I'm not sure what exactly your condoning...but whatever it is, I'm against it.

I'm against you being against my condoning of nothing.

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#93 navyseal2101
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Time with girlfriends can be some of ther funnest you'll have, but make sure you balence it with your own goals and interests. If you want a girlfriend its really easy, PM and i'll send you an link to some experienced people that truley can get you a girlfriend quickly. Once you know how its easy, and I dont mean slutty girls but like 9's and 10's regardless of how bad you may or may not be right now.
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#94 arab_prince
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Not needed. But the feeling of love is a unique one, that everyone should experience at least once.
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#95 blooddemon666
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[QUOTE="blooddemon666"][QUOTE="Bresca"]I keep thinking that my opinions will turn around when I meet that "special someone" it's a sickner after a while : p
Relationships are an awful lot of hassle sometimes lol
The_PirateKing
Too much drama. i hate drama, so pointless

~-~Oh not me, I don't mind it... Well, I guess I can't talk until I've had a gf, but I don't see the problem.~-~

I just don't see how getting mad at some fickle thing like "forgetting some obscure date" can get anyone anywhere. there are much more important things in life
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[QUOTE="jim_shorts"]

I've never had one, and probably never will. I'm happy alone.

CitizenOne


Correction; you think you are happy alone.

No, I pretty much know what my own feelings are.
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#97 uncledeath2005
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I have had a many gf's I don't need them but they are certainly nice to have around...I like the companionship it brings..
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#98 foxhound_fox
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No... not really. I "need" one. I don't feel complete in life. I feel there is something missing... some kind of emptiness. An emptiness that can only be filled by the intimacy that a relationship would bring.
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[QUOTE="The_PirateKing"]~-~Oh not me, I don't mind it... Well, I guess I can't talk until I've had a gf, but I don't see the problem.~-~blooddemon666
I just don't see how getting mad at some fickle thing like "forgetting some obscure date" can get anyone anywhere. there are much more important things in life

~-~Yea, but that's only if you let her get away with it. The first time she takes it too far you should put your foot down. I don't mean harshly but fight back, tell them, "what? I said I'm sorry, I'll probably take you out somewhere, what else do you want? If you have any way to get me back in time then I'll make things right but if you don't then this *****ing at me thing isn't going to do anything." Advice for life, if your gf pouts and does that, "well you should know" thing, let her. Say, "well, I tried, but since you don't want to talk, I'm gonna go play video games. Come get me if you want anything." If she threatens to brake up with you then say, "for what? Not using my psychic powers to read your mind? If I don't know how can I make it right then what the hell do you want me to do? If you're going to brake up with me for something I have no control over then it's probably better off." And if she brakes up with you then, well like I said, you're better off. Cuz thing would be WAY worse if you got into a deeper relationship and she found out you aren't psychic. Your gf should treat you like a human and a partner, no more and no less. If she can't do that then you'll never be truly happy with her.~-~ ~-~Added: I think of dating as two people shaping each other up to be a husband and wife. If one of you can't shape up to fit the other then things aren't going to work out.~-~
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#100 blooddemon666
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~-~(Long Rant)~-~The_PirateKing
I totally agree, but its really difficult to find a girl who is just laid back and doesn't care about stupid fickle stuff like that.