Having a REAL WOMAN PROBLEM please offer your advice

to everyone that actually posted words of wisdom i just want to say thank you. it looks like i will be taking this one day at a time and the worst has yet to come, i just wish this never happenned. gamespot4life

It didn't just "happen". You actively pursued long term relationships with multiple partners and went to great lengths to ensure neither one learned of the other.

owhen I was about 18 yrs old I met a girl online and we talked for a yr and never saw eachother, she was leaving to go to college very soon and wanted to atleast meet one time before she left, so we made plans and we met, it was love at first sight

gamespot4life

That was your first problem. The second was thinking you could have your cake and eat it too.

we stupid, big lot of words scary.  books are hard.  use spaces!!!

tbh you figure this out yourself, ultimately.  Pop the questionfor the right reasons, cus you love someone so much you want to shout it out to the world and make it official, "signed sealed delivered, i'm yours"

owhen I was about 18 yrs old I met a girl online and we talked for a yr and never saw eachother, she was leaving to go to college very soon and wanted to atleast meet one time before she left, so we made plans and we met, it was love at first sight

gamespot4life

Please tell me the girl was at least your age. :|

But that's still a bit weird, especially at 18.

Please edit your original text TC, as it hurts my eyes like hell to try and read it all.

I'm sure alot of other people would agree with me :P

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owhen I was about 18 yrs old I met a girl online and we talked for a yr and never saw eachother, she was leaving to go to college very soon and wanted to atleast meet one time before she left, so we made plans and we met, it was love at first sight

msudude211

Please tell me the girl was at least your age. :|

But that's still a bit weird, especially at 18.

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owhen I was about 18 yrs old I met a girl online and we talked for a yr and never saw eachother, she was leaving to go to college very soon and wanted to atleast meet one time before she left, so we made plans and we met, it was love at first sight

blazinpuertoroc

Please tell me the girl was at least your age. :|

But that's still a bit weird, especially at 18.

Meeting someone online if you're 18?

Still seems odd to me.  

Why the hell do you ask people on a ****ing video game website, man.  Only you know what you have to do, and if you really want to ask for advice, ask your real friends in person.  (assuming you have some.)

In other news, why the hell were you having 2 long term relationships.  This whole mess falls solely at your feet.  You made a stupid choice to try and hide one girl from another, and now you're in this situation.  Also, I'm sure they were both cheating on you anyway, long term relationships suck and I will never be in one.

/rant 

If your 24 and mature then you would be smart enough to know that there are better ways to deal with your woman problems than on a video game website....looks like you still have some growing up to do.darksword1123

Thank you!! 

So you were having two relationships at the same time for four years? I am amazed with how long you managed to keep that show on the road...

Whatever the case, the only action I can really see you taking is facing the facts- your gonna have to move on. Apologize to both girls if you can- and then move on, cause there's no way your gonna get back into a proper relationship with either of them now.

You really should have tried to split up with one of them at some point instead of keeping both of them. If you are a completely mature person- you should have known way better than to have two relationships at once- no matter how much you liked both girls.