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#1 surid
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so.. valentines day is comming up soon.. i think it would be the perfect time to talk with my crush but i am too scared.. the problem is, i dont know if she likes me or not.. she is also kinda shy as well.. ive had a crush on this girl for almost 2 months now.. she is in two of my classes... i know you people have been through this before.. so i just needed some good advice on what is should do in this situation..:(
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#2 Fortier
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I find threads like this very annoying...but I've been in the same situation, and I'll tell you right now that you have to act upon it, don't wait. If you like her, tell her as much before its too late, don't make the same mistake I did.
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#3 AndrewXXXXXX
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How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :P
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#4 surid
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How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :PAndrewXXXXXX

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(
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#5 AndrewXXXXXX
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[QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :Psurid

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(

Look, believe me, it sucks, I know what you're going through. I liked this girlk and before the school year ended, we were TA partners, she wrote in my yearbook her e-mail in there, and I've always liked her. At October, I decided to get a MySpace and AIM (JUST FOR HER), I know, I'm pathetic! and basically, I guess, through AIM, we became TOO good friends and she told me she liked someone else. Seriously, who leaves their e-mail address in a signature in a yearbook and doesn't mean anything by it? But, if she has an AIM, that's a good way to build some foundation....
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[QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :Psurid

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(

Just tell her. If you don't tell her now, you might never have another chance. :) She might even like you, but if she doesn't, maybe you two can remain friends?
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#7 surid
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[QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :Payanami_rei

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(

Just tell her. If you don't tell her now, you might never have another chance. :) She might even like you, but if she doesn't, maybe you two can remain friends?


that would be really tough.. what if she dosent like me?.. what if she thinks im a loser.. what if she dosent like me since im not her race .. these thoughts roll in my mind all the time..:(
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#8 AndrewXXXXXX
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[QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :PAndrewXXXXXX

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(

Look, believe me, it sucks, I know what you're going through. I liked this girlk and before the school year ended, we were TA partners, she wrote in my yearbook her e-mail in there, and I've always liked her. At October, I decided to get a MySpace and AIM (JUST FOR HER), I know, I'm pathetic! and basically, I guess, through AIM, we became TOO good friends and she told me she liked someone else. Seriously, who leaves their e-mail address in a signature in a yearbook and doesn't mean anything by it? But, if she has an AIM, that's a good way to build some foundation....

:cry: YAY for online emotional outbursts! :P Ah, whatever, who gives a crap, like I'm ever gonna meet you people! :D GREAT THING ABOUT ONLINE :D
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[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :Psurid

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(

Just tell her. If you don't tell her now, you might never have another chance. :) She might even like you, but if she doesn't, maybe you two can remain friends?


that would be really tough.. what if she dosent like me?.. what if she thinks im a loser.. what if she dosent like me since im not her race .. these thoughts roll in my mind all the time..:(

You're better off telling her, at least you won't be stuck with that feeling of "What if..." for a long time afterwords. I've been there, and I'd have rather been turned down...though in my case it ended up working out after all, since the girl decided to make the first move after a while...but I'd imagine that thats pretty rare
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#10 Fortier
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that would be really tough.. what if she dosent like me?.. what if she thinks im a loser.. what if she dosent like me since im not her race .. these thoughts roll in my mind all the time..:(

Don't whine about how hard it would be. Take my advice, I was in your exact situation and it ended horribly cause I wasn't strong enough to tell her. Unless you want that to happen to you, tell her ASAP, don't even wait for Valentine's Day.

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[QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :PAndrewXXXXXX

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(

Look, believe me, it sucks, I know what you're going through. I liked this girlk and before the school year ended, we were TA partners, she wrote in my yearbook her e-mail in there, and I've always liked her. At October, I decided to get a MySpace and AIM (JUST FOR HER), I know, I'm pathetic! and basically, I guess, through AIM, we became TOO good friends and she told me she liked someone else. Seriously, who leaves their e-mail address in a signature in a yearbook and doesn't mean anything by it? But, if she has an AIM, that's a good way to build some foundation....

:cry: YAY for online emotional outbursts! :P Ah, whatever, who gives a crap, like I'm ever gonna meet you people! :D GREAT THING ABOUT ONLINE :D


whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>
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Out of curiosity, what race are you? What race is she?
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ask her out before V day...but make ur first date Vday...perfect mang...
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[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :Psurid

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(

Just tell her. If you don't tell her now, you might never have another chance. :) She might even like you, but if she doesn't, maybe you two can remain friends?


that would be really tough.. what if she dosent like me?.. what if she thinks im a loser.. what if she dosent like me since im not her race .. these thoughts roll in my mind all the time..:(

These things happen. You never know until you ask. Sometimes, it may come out for the worse, but it happens. If you tell her now, it won't be too late. Least you told her. I know how it feels and just with those thoughts, you will never know. They are "what if" questions and "what if" questions are never answered until you decide to have them answered.
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#15 surid
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Out of curiosity, what race are you? What race is she?
pinneyapple

shez cocasian i belive.. and im asian
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whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>surid
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.
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#17 surid
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[QUOTE="surid"]whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>Mumbles527
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.


sure sure... great advice man :roll:..
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[QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]How old are you and if you have my luck, chances are she's probably in love with some other guy and you'll end up with the one you don't like! I'm optomistic, aren't I? :Psurid

ive seen her myspace and it says she's single.. i havent seen with her with any guy either.. i hope she dosent find out that i looked at her myspace though.. then she would have negative feelings about me.. i wouldnt want that to happen :(

Look, believe me, it sucks, I know what you're going through. I liked this girlk and before the school year ended, we were TA partners, she wrote in my yearbook her e-mail in there, and I've always liked her. At October, I decided to get a MySpace and AIM (JUST FOR HER), I know, I'm pathetic! and basically, I guess, through AIM, we became TOO good friends and she told me she liked someone else. Seriously, who leaves their e-mail address in a signature in a yearbook and doesn't mean anything by it? But, if she has an AIM, that's a good way to build some foundation....

:cry: YAY for online emotional outbursts! :P Ah, whatever, who gives a crap, like I'm ever gonna meet you people! :D GREAT THING ABOUT ONLINE :D


whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>

Does this girl have an AIM?
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[QUOTE="pinneyapple"]Out of curiosity, what race are you? What race is she?
surid

shez cocasian i belive.. and im asian



I see. Just go for it dude, you've got nothing to lose.

And if it doesn't work out the way you want it to then maybe it wasn't meant to be in the first place? you'll never know unless you try.
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[QUOTE="surid"]whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>Mumbles527
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.

I think that would give him more of a smack across the face.
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going through the same thing man...unfortunately my plan to get with my crush wont go into effect until friday of next week so im missing out on valentines....planting a seed friday night...and letting it grow over the vacation...no sooner...no later
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#22 MetallicaKings
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flirt with her today till tuesday. grow some kind of connection. Get her a valentines gram (hopefulyl they have that crap at ur highschool too). put inside some nice words (though not that i like u, or "go out with me, please, im desperate"). Then boom, shell give u a hug at lunch, and then u make ur move. im a freakin genious of a man.
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[QUOTE="Mumbles527"][QUOTE="surid"]whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>ayanami_rei
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.

I think that would give him more of a smack across the face.

or a grab to the balls!! its a risky chance!!
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oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?
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or a grab to the balls!! its a risky chance!!

well, that could be a good thing
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#26 surid
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oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?AndrewXXXXXX

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>
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[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="Mumbles527"][QUOTE="surid"]whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>blazinpuertoroc
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.

I think that would give him more of a smack across the face.

or a grab to the balls!! its a risky chance!!

It would depend, wouldn't it? To think of it, wouldn't that also be considered sexual harrassment if he did that?
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[QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?surid

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>

No. Tell her personally.

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I'd tell you to talk to her (if you can).
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#30 surid
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are theyre actually any girls here whom i can get any advice from ?
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#31 Fortier
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are theyre actually any girls here whom i can get any advice from ?surid

No.

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[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="Mumbles527"][QUOTE="surid"]whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>ayanami_rei
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.

I think that would give him more of a smack across the face.

or a grab to the balls!! its a risky chance!!

It would depend, wouldn't it? To think of it, wouldn't that also be considered sexual harrassment if he did that?

well so would the grabbing of the breast! but i mean do guys really consider it sexual harrasment when a lady randomly grabs there testes...hell thats kinda awesome...but very intimidating...
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[QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?surid

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>

Don't give it to the teacher. It would probably be embarrassing. Talk to her personally. Start a conversation and just start talking. Then, near the end, say something like, "Btw, um...heh... not easy to say, but well, I have a crush on you. You might not feel the same way, but I really like you and would like to take you out some time. If not, then that's understandable." Or something like that. xD Then again, I suck at giving advice, so if this seems sucky, I'm sorry.
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are theyre actually any girls here whom i can get any advice from ?surid
ayanami_rei is a chick o.o like the only one in OT i think
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we got these "data match" thing that are supposed to match us with our most compatible people.

For two bucks we get them on V-day.  Im looking foward to doing it just for kicks.
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[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="Mumbles527"][QUOTE="surid"]whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>blazinpuertoroc
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.

I think that would give him more of a smack across the face.

or a grab to the balls!! its a risky chance!!

It would depend, wouldn't it? To think of it, wouldn't that also be considered sexual harrassment if he did that?

well so would the grabbing of the breast! but i mean do guys really consider it sexual harrasment when a lady randomly grabs there testes...hell thats kinda awesome...but very intimidating...

I meant that grabbing her breasts would be sexual harrassing her, along with if she grabbed his area. Either way, both can get in trouble for it.
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#37 surid
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[QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?ayanami_rei

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>

Don't give it to the teacher. It would probably be embarrassing. Talk to her personally. Start a conversation and just start talking. Then, near the end, say something like, "Btw, um...heh... not easy to say, but well, I have a crush on you. You might not feel the same way, but I really like you and would like to take you out some time. If not, then that's understandable." Or something like that. xD Then again, I suck at giving advice, so if this seems sucky, I'm sorry.


my BCIS teacher is very understainding... what is there to really get embarassed about.. teachers know kids like us..
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[QUOTE="surid"]are theyre actually any girls here whom i can get any advice from ?blazinpuertoroc
ayanami_rei is a chick o.o like the only one in OT i think

I know a couple of more girls on here. xD
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[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?surid

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>

Don't give it to the teacher. It would probably be embarrassing. Talk to her personally. Start a conversation and just start talking. Then, near the end, say something like, "Btw, um...heh... not easy to say, but well, I have a crush on you. You might not feel the same way, but I really like you and would like to take you out some time. If not, then that's understandable." Or something like that. xD Then again, I suck at giving advice, so if this seems sucky, I'm sorry.


my BCIS teacher is very understainding... what is there to really get embarassed about.. teachers know kids like us..

I meant like for her. Having a note being given to her from a teacher? I would find that sort of embarrassing and strange.
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#40 blazinpuertoroc
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[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="Mumbles527"][QUOTE="surid"]whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>ayanami_rei
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.

I think that would give him more of a smack across the face.

or a grab to the balls!! its a risky chance!!

It would depend, wouldn't it? To think of it, wouldn't that also be considered sexual harrassment if he did that?

well so would the grabbing of the breast! but i mean do guys really consider it sexual harrasment when a lady randomly grabs there testes...hell thats kinda awesome...but very intimidating...

I meant that grabbing her breasts would be sexual harrassing her, along with if she grabbed his area. Either way, both can get in trouble for it.

not if each other doesnt say anything about it:wink: but yeah more like mutal molestation:lol:
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I haven't had a crush since last year and I force myself not to.
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#42 blazinpuertoroc
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[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="surid"]are theyre actually any girls here whom i can get any advice from ?ayanami_rei
ayanami_rei is a chick o.o like the only one in OT i think

I know a couple of more girls on here. xD

zomg teh apocolypse
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#43 surid
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[QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?ayanami_rei

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>

Don't give it to the teacher. It would probably be embarrassing. Talk to her personally. Start a conversation and just start talking. Then, near the end, say something like, "Btw, um...heh... not easy to say, but well, I have a crush on you. You might not feel the same way, but I really like you and would like to take you out some time. If not, then that's understandable." Or something like that. xD Then again, I suck at giving advice, so if this seems sucky, I'm sorry.


my BCIS teacher is very understainding... what is there to really get embarassed about.. teachers know kids like us..

I meant like for her. Having a note being given to her from a teacher? I would find that sort of embarrassing and strange.


really ?.. what if i give her a rose or any kind of gift with that note.. would that help ?
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[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="Mumbles527"][QUOTE="surid"]whats the best way to talk to her the first time.. ask for a pencil?.. nawww.. shez in my BCIS forbidden>ayanami_rei
Pretend to trip and fall towards her, and then "accidentally" grab onto her breasts to stabilize yourself. Then say "By golly, I've just felt your breasts, and they were fantastic! How about you come over tonight and we do some more of that?" That should work, trust me on that one.

I think that would give him more of a smack across the face.

or a grab to the balls!! its a risky chance!!

It would depend, wouldn't it? To think of it, wouldn't that also be considered sexual harrassment if he did that?

well so would the grabbing of the breast! but i mean do guys really consider it sexual harrasment when a lady randomly grabs there testes...hell thats kinda awesome...but very intimidating...

I meant that grabbing her breasts would be sexual harrassing her, along with if she grabbed his area. Either way, both can get in trouble for it.

if a girl grabbed my sac, i wouldnt tell on her ....>_>
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[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?surid

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>

Don't give it to the teacher. It would probably be embarrassing. Talk to her personally. Start a conversation and just start talking. Then, near the end, say something like, "Btw, um...heh... not easy to say, but well, I have a crush on you. You might not feel the same way, but I really like you and would like to take you out some time. If not, then that's understandable." Or something like that. xD Then again, I suck at giving advice, so if this seems sucky, I'm sorry.


my BCIS teacher is very understainding... what is there to really get embarassed about.. teachers know kids like us..

I meant like for her. Having a note being given to her from a teacher? I would find that sort of embarrassing and strange.


really ?.. what if i give her a rose or any kind of gift with that note.. would that help ?

The notes interesting. She might think its adorable (though under NO circumstances have a teacher give it to her). If you give her roses, she probaly will figure out u like her. The note isnt really then needed. But if she doesnt like you, then giving her roses would be the most awkward 12 seconds of your life. I say see within these next two days. If she does like you, then do roses.
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[QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?MetallicaKings

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>

Don't give it to the teacher. It would probably be embarrassing. Talk to her personally. Start a conversation and just start talking. Then, near the end, say something like, "Btw, um...heh... not easy to say, but well, I have a crush on you. You might not feel the same way, but I really like you and would like to take you out some time. If not, then that's understandable." Or something like that. xD Then again, I suck at giving advice, so if this seems sucky, I'm sorry.


my BCIS teacher is very understainding... what is there to really get embarassed about.. teachers know kids like us..

I meant like for her. Having a note being given to her from a teacher? I would find that sort of embarrassing and strange.


really ?.. what if i give her a rose or any kind of gift with that note.. would that help ?

The notes interesting. She might think its adorable (though under NO circumstances have a teacher give it to her). If you give her roses, she probaly will figure out u like her. The note isnt really then needed. But if she doesnt like you, then giving her roses would be the most awkward 12 seconds of your life. I say see within these next two days. If she does like you, then do roses.


ok.. so if she does like me and everything works out well, i really dont have a plan to take her out anywhere.. where should we go.. and what should i wear.. im sry..i rly havent been out on a real date since like middle school :(
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really ?.. what if i give her a rose or any kind of gift with that note.. would that help ?
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Well, I'm not really sure. I never really had a note given to me nor have I done so. You can give her the note, explaining how you feel and such. Like I said, my advice isn't the greatest and probably won't ever be. You seem to be shy about this. Shyness can take it's affect, but I think having a teacher give her the note would seem quite awkward. Try to get her alone and talk to her. Tell her your feelings and things like that. I really cannot say much. =/ Sorry.
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#48 blazinpuertoroc
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really ?.. what if i give her a rose or any kind of gift with that note.. would that help ?
ayanami_rei
Well, I'm not really sure. I never really had a note given to me nor have I done so. You can give her the note, explaining how you feel and such. Like I said, my advice isn't the greatest and probably won't ever be. You seem to be shy about this. Shyness can take it's affect, but I think having a teacher give her the note would seem quite awkward. Try to get her alone and talk to her. Tell her your feelings and things like that. I really cannot say much. =/ Sorry.

**give you a gift with a note and rose** now you can say more about the topic
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[QUOTE="MetallicaKings"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="surid"][QUOTE="AndrewXXXXXX"]oh yea, and how much do you know this girl? Like what kind of relationship do you have with her NOW?surid

well... i dont even talk with her.. we just stare at eachother sometimes... i belive she does know that i like her.. but she may not be sure wow.. i think i should like give a letter to my teacher and tell her to give it to the girl.. seems like thats the best way.. or i could just talk with her after forbidden>

Don't give it to the teacher. It would probably be embarrassing. Talk to her personally. Start a conversation and just start talking. Then, near the end, say something like, "Btw, um...heh... not easy to say, but well, I have a crush on you. You might not feel the same way, but I really like you and would like to take you out some time. If not, then that's understandable." Or something like that. xD Then again, I suck at giving advice, so if this seems sucky, I'm sorry.


my BCIS teacher is very understainding... what is there to really get embarassed about.. teachers know kids like us..

I meant like for her. Having a note being given to her from a teacher? I would find that sort of embarrassing and strange.


really ?.. what if i give her a rose or any kind of gift with that note.. would that help ?

The notes interesting. She might think its adorable (though under NO circumstances have a teacher give it to her). If you give her roses, she probaly will figure out u like her. The note isnt really then needed. But if she doesnt like you, then giving her roses would be the most awkward 12 seconds of your life. I say see within these next two days. If she does like you, then do roses.


ok.. so if she does like me and everything works out well, i really dont have a plan to take her out anywhere.. where should we go.. and what should i wear.. im sry..i rly havent been out on a real date since like middle school :(

Dont worry about that now, just keep focused on the "asking out" portion
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#50 Mumbles527
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Slap her rear in the hallway and say "Hey baby, you want a take a ride to pleasure town tonight? The tickets are free and the boats about to sail." I guarantee you she'll say yes. I don't know exactly what she'd be saying yes to, but it'll end up being good...trust me on that one.