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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="fidosim"] I didn't realize it needed any more elaboration. What we think of as race is the effect that heritage has had on physical appearance. Sexual preference is a psychological trait.fidosim
So no relevance then?

I thought the relevance was made pretty clear. Physical appearance doesn't have any bearing on performance or things like unit cohesion, but psychological traits very well may. There are a number of psychological traits which can already make someone unsuitable for military service.

But when people bring up unit cohesion they link it to how heterosexuals will be bothered by homosexuals;not that homosexuals themselves cant be adequate for the job or they themselves spoil unit cohesion.

That doesnt make homosexuals unsuitable for military service since they arent the ones who create the problem.

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#52 fidosim
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[QUOTE="fidosim"] I mean how do private companies equate to the military, taked with our national defense?HoolaHoopMan

:?

The US government says it's illegal to discriminate based on sexual orientation however they actively do so.

It's illegal for private companies to do so, but not for the military.
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#53 fidosim
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[QUOTE="fidosim"][QUOTE="xaos"] So no relevance then?Teenaged

I thought the relevance was made pretty clear. Physical appearance doesn't have any bearing on performance or things like unit cohesion, but psychological traits very well may. There are a number of psychological traits which can already make someone unsuitable for military service.

But when people bring up unit cohesion they link it to how heterosexuals will be bothered by homosexuals;not that homosexuals themselves cant be adequate for the job or they themselves spoil unit cohesion.

That doesnt make homosexuals unsuitable for military service since they arent the ones who create the problem.

Actually the homosexuals themselves could cause the problem, because romantic attachment between gay soldiers would be waht interrupted the cohesion.
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I thought the relevance was made pretty clear. Physical appearance doesn't have any bearing on performance or things like unit cohesion, but psychological traits very well may. There are a number of psychological traits which can already make someone unsuitable for military service.fidosim

They just got done with their study that says that allowing openly gay members wouldn't harm the military. This "unit" cohesion nonsense needs to stop. People used that same argument when they integrated the army. Plenty of other countries around the world allow gay people to serve with out any problem.

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#55 HoolaHoopMan
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[QUOTE="HoolaHoopMan"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] I mean how do private companies equate to the military, taked with our national defense?fidosim

:?

The US government says it's illegal to discriminate based on sexual orientation however they actively do so.

It's illegal for private companies to do so, but not for the military.

I'm aware of this, I'm merely stating the hypocrisy of the issue. Should local governments bar gays from employment then?
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#56 fidosim
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[QUOTE="fidosim"] Actually, no. Not at all.

1. Race is superficial and aethetic,

2. and sexuality is psychological.

1. Prove it.

2. Prove it.

Good lord. Your brain tells you who you are attracted to, doesn't it? That means it's a psychological trait. The different races were "created" because their ancestors lived in different climates and adapted physically to them, didn't they? That makes race a physical and aesthetic trait.
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[QUOTE="fidosim"] I thought the relevance was made pretty clear. Physical appearance doesn't have any bearing on performance or things like unit cohesion, but psychological traits very well may. There are a number of psychological traits which can already make someone unsuitable for military service.HoolaHoopMan

They just got done with their study that says that allowing openly gay members wouldn't harm the military. This "unit" cohesion nonsense needs to stop. People used that same argument when they integrated the army. Plenty of other countries around the world allow gay people to serve with out any problem.

It's a shame that the US military's members are apparently less secure in their manhood than those of Slovenia, Estonia, Uruguay, etc etc
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] I thought the relevance was made pretty clear. Physical appearance doesn't have any bearing on performance or things like unit cohesion, but psychological traits very well may. There are a number of psychological traits which can already make someone unsuitable for military service.fidosim

But when people bring up unit cohesion they link it to how heterosexuals will be bothered by homosexuals;not that homosexuals themselves cant be adequate for the job or they themselves spoil unit cohesion.

That doesnt make homosexuals unsuitable for military service since they arent the ones who create the problem.

Actually the homosexuals themselves could cause the problem, because romantic attachment between gay soldiers would be waht interrupted the cohesion.

So can a friendship or a rivalry between ambitious men aiming for a higher spot in the hierarchy of the military.

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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="WhiteKnight77"]

How is Don't Ask, Don't Tell unconstitutional? Back when I was in, there was an outright ban on gay service personnel. At least with DADT, gays can serve as long as they keep their secret.

WhiteKnight77

And at least black people could ride buses in the 60's as long as they went to the back out of the way of white people and could go to public schools as long as they didn't try to go to white public schools. Your stance is nonsensical.

Would you rather the US military go back to an outright ban on gays in the military? One lets them serve while the other prohibits them entirely. As I said, I don't care if they want to serve, I just do not want to know that they are gay Pretty straightforward to me.

No, I'd rather they go forward to no ban at all.

Easy question!

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#60 HoolaHoopMan
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[QUOTE="HoolaHoopMan"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] I thought the relevance was made pretty clear. Physical appearance doesn't have any bearing on performance or things like unit cohesion, but psychological traits very well may. There are a number of psychological traits which can already make someone unsuitable for military service.xaos

They just got done with their study that says that allowing openly gay members wouldn't harm the military. This "unit" cohesion nonsense needs to stop. People used that same argument when they integrated the army. Plenty of other countries around the world allow gay people to serve with out any problem.

It's a shame that the US military's members are apparently less secure in their manhood than those of Slovenia, Estonia, Uruguay, etc etc

Well given the numbers of the recent study/survey it looks like the numbers in the military actually support a repeal. It seems like the only opposition is a minority at the top. They just change the goal posts every time a study indicates they may be wrong.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] Actually, no. Not at all.

1. Race is superficial and aethetic,

2. and sexuality is psychological.fidosim

1. Prove it.

2. Prove it.

Good lord. Your brain tells you who you are attracted to, doesn't it? That means it's a psychological trait. The different races were "created" because their ancestors lived in different climates and adapted physically to them, didn't they? That makes race a physical and aesthetic trait.

By saying its psychological you are implying it isnt genetic. If you didnt then take my question as a need for clarification.

Can you prove that the only differences between races are physical traits?

I ask because I have seen studies indicating some psychological differences between them.

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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]But when people bring up unit cohesion they link it to how heterosexuals will be bothered by homosexuals;not that homosexuals themselves cant be adequate for the job or they themselves spoil unit cohesion.

That doesnt make homosexuals unsuitable for military service since they arent the ones who create the problem.

Actually the homosexuals themselves could cause the problem, because romantic attachment between gay soldiers would be waht interrupted the cohesion.

So can a friendship or a rivalry between ambitious men aiming for a higher spot in the hierarchy of the military.

That would be totally different from what i'm referring to. I'm not even sure what you're aiming at, really.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] Actually the homosexuals themselves could cause the problem, because romantic attachment between gay soldiers would be waht interrupted the cohesion.fidosim

So can a friendship or a rivalry between ambitious men aiming for a higher spot in the hierarchy of the military.

That would be totally different from what i'm referring to. I'm not even sure what you're aiming at, really.

Different pehaps but not necessarily less disruptive for the cohesion of the military.

You are most definitely aware of what I am aiming at. If truly not, then I dont know what to say...

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[QUOTE="fidosim"] I thought the relevance was made pretty clear. Physical appearance doesn't have any bearing on performance or things like unit cohesion, but psychological traits very well may. There are a number of psychological traits which can already make someone unsuitable for military service.HoolaHoopMan

They just got done with their study that says that allowing openly gay members wouldn't harm the military. This "unit" cohesion nonsense needs to stop. People used that same argument when they integrated the army. Plenty of other countries around the world allow gay people to serve with out any problem.

There are plenty of military leaders who disagree with the study. Plus, most countries usually end up reverting back to the banning of gays during wartime. The difference between us and them is that the US is involved in foreign conflics much more often and to a much larger degree than just about any othe rcountry.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] I thought the relevance was made pretty clear. Physical appearance doesn't have any bearing on performance or things like unit cohesion, but psychological traits very well may. There are a number of psychological traits which can already make someone unsuitable for military service.fidosim

But when people bring up unit cohesion they link it to how heterosexuals will be bothered by homosexuals;not that homosexuals themselves cant be adequate for the job or they themselves spoil unit cohesion.

That doesnt make homosexuals unsuitable for military service since they arent the ones who create the problem.

Actually the homosexuals themselves could cause the problem, because romantic attachment between gay soldiers would be waht interrupted the cohesion.

Is there a reason why our military would utterly crumble if we let gays serve openly, but the other militaries in the world that let gays serve openly have yet to crumble or be invaded?

Is our military just really crappy?

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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]So can a friendship or a rivalry between ambitious men aiming for a higher spot in the hierarchy of the military.

That would be totally different from what i'm referring to. I'm not even sure what you're aiming at, really.

Different pehaps but not necessarily less disruptive for the cohesion of the military.

You are most definitely aware of what I am aiming at. If truly not, then I dont know what to say...

The reason gays are not allowed to openly serve is because they could develop an affinity for one another that would break cohesion. Are you saying ambitious straight men would develop romances, or some kind of affinity? I can't really see that.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] That would be totally different from what i'm referring to. I'm not even sure what you're aiming at, really.fidosim

Different pehaps but not necessarily less disruptive for the cohesion of the military.

You are most definitely aware of what I am aiming at. If truly not, then I dont know what to say...

The reason gays are not allowed to openly serve is because they could develop an affinity for one another that would break cohesion. Are you saying ambitious straight men would develop romances, or some kind of affinity? I can't really see that.

Nope I am not saying that.

I am saying that romantic relationships (or simply attraction) ruining unit cohesion is comparable to friendships and rivalries between heterosexual men that can ruin unit cohesion.

I hope this time you got what I am saying.

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I love how all these people give their opinions on this bill even though they've never actually served and don't know what it is like. Not saying I've served, but I don't have an opinion on this bill. We should be focussing on Iran, not wasting our time with this stupid bill that isn't really important in the middle of a war.

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Is there a reason why our military would utterly crumble if we let gays serve openly, but the other militaries in the world that let gays serve openly have yet to crumble or be invaded?

Is our military just really crappy?

Boss: So I hear you want our company to make a major, potentially costly adjustment. You: Yes, I do. Boss: Could we make a profit out of it? You: Not really. Boss: So why should we do it? You: We likely wouldn't crumble and go bankrupt. Other companies have done it and not gone bankrupt. Boss:....
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I love how all these people give their opinions on this bill even though they've never actually served and don't know what it is like. Not saying I've served, but I don't have an opinion on this bill. We should be focussing on Iran, not wasting our time with this stupid bill that isn't really important in the middle of a war.

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Ok then people shouldnt have opinions on bills about taxes since they cant know how many taxes are needed since they havent been in the position of managing and utilising taxes.

Right?

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There are plenty of military leaders who disagree with the study. Plus, most countries usually end up reverting back to the banning of gays during wartime. The difference between us and them is that the US is involved in foreign conflics much more often and to a much larger degree than just about any othe rcountry.fidosim

So what? You just ignore the study that republicans, including John McCain, asked for simply because it doesn't support your views?

The secretary of Defense, the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of staff (highest ranking member of the military), and most importantly the commander in chief all want it repealed. Those are men who actively lead our military. I'm plenty sure that there are some military leaders that want it to stand, but we're talking about the 3 biggest names in the military all saying it needs to be repealed.

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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Is there a reason why our military would utterly crumble if we let gays serve openly, but the other militaries in the world that let gays serve openly have yet to crumble or be invaded?

Is our military just really crappy?

fidosim

Boss: So I hear you want our company to make a major, potentially costly adjustment. You: Yes, I do. Boss: Could we make a profit out of it? You: Not really. Boss: So why should we do it? You: We likely wouldn't crumble and go bankrupt. Other companies have done it and not gone bankrupt. Boss:....

Oh thats a pretty elliptic convo.

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#73 fidosim
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Nope I am not saying that.

I am saying that romantic relationships (or simply attraction) ruining unit cohesion is comparable to friendships and rivalries between heterosexual men that can ruin unit cohesion.

I hope this time you got what I am saying.

Teenaged

Except that it isn't comparable. Romantic attraction is a bit different from an espirit de corps between soldiers who do not share a sexual attraction to one another.

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The reason gays are not allowed to openly serve is because they could develop an affinity for one another that would break cohesion. Are you saying ambitious straight men would develop romances, or some kind of affinity? I can't really see that.fidosim

and usually claims like these go unsubstantiated. See on this side we have the recent study done by the Pentagon which says the exact opposite.

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[QUOTE="fidosim"] Actually the homosexuals themselves could cause the problem, because romantic attachment between gay soldiers would be waht interrupted the cohesion.

Aren't most of the soldiers of ancient Sparta gay men? And if I remember correctly, they kicked ass.
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[QUOTE="fidosim"] There are plenty of military leaders who disagree with the study. Plus, most countries usually end up reverting back to the banning of gays during wartime. The difference between us and them is that the US is involved in foreign conflics much more often and to a much larger degree than just about any othe rcountry.HoolaHoopMan

So what? You just ignore the study that republicans, including John McCain, asked for simply because it doesn't support your views?

The secretary of Defense, the Chairman Joint Chiefs of staff (highest ranking member of the military), and most importantly the commander in chief all want it repealed. Those are men who actively lead our military. I'm plenty sure that there are some military leaders that want to to stand, but we're talking about the 3 biggest names in the military all saying it needs to be repealed.

The ranking marine corps general wants it to stay in place, and Robert Gates doesn't seem overly enthusiastic about the whole thing, even if he's tepidly okay with it.
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I love how all these people give their opinions on this bill even though they've never actually served and don't know what it is like. Not saying I've served, but I don't have an opinion on this bill. We should be focussing on Iran, not wasting our time with this stupid bill that isn't really important in the middle of a war.

Teenaged

Ok then people shouldnt have opinions on bills about taxes since they cant know how many taxes are needed since they havent been in the position of managing and utilising taxes.

Right?

That's a whole different thing, taxes effect everybody. This only effects the Military.
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[QUOTE="fidosim"] Actually the homosexuals themselves could cause the problem, because romantic attachment between gay soldiers would be waht interrupted the cohesion.Lonelynight
Aren't most of the soldiers of ancient Sparta gay men? And if I remember correctly, they kicked ass.

Great. All we would have to do is kick out the millions of straight servicepeople and allow only the few thousand gay servicemembers to serve, and everything would be spiffy.
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[QUOTE="HoolaHoopMan"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] There are plenty of military leaders who disagree with the study. Plus, most countries usually end up reverting back to the banning of gays during wartime. The difference between us and them is that the US is involved in foreign conflics much more often and to a much larger degree than just about any othe rcountry.fidosim

So what? You just ignore the study that republicans, including John McCain, asked for simply because it doesn't support your views?

The secretary of Defense, the Chairman Joint Chiefs of staff (highest ranking member of the military), and most importantly the commander in chief all want it repealed. Those are men who actively lead our military. I'm plenty sure that there are some military leaders that want to to stand, but we're talking about the 3 biggest names in the military all saying it needs to be repealed.

The ranking marine corps general wants it to stay in place, and Robert Gates doesn't seem overly enthusiastic about the whole thing, even if he's tepidly okay with it.

So the Marine corps general has a bigger say than .....Robert Gates, the President, and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff?

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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]Nope I am not saying that.

I am saying that romantic relationships (or simply attraction) ruining unit cohesion is comparable to friendships and rivalries between heterosexual men that can ruin unit cohesion.

I hope this time you got what I am saying.

fidosim

Except that it isn't comparable. Romantic attraction is a bit different from an espirit de corps between soldiers who do not share a sexual attraction to one another.

Two things that are different can be comparable.

If they were the same there would be no need to compare them since they are.... the same.

I looked up "espirit des corps" and I have to ask: are you sure you know what it means? Or if you do, it really makes no sense in what you said.

Regardless, friendship and rivalries are comparable to romantic attraction. I dont know its stuck to people's head that romance overwhelms people more than hate or friendship.

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How is Don't Ask, Don't Tell unconstitutional? Back when I was in, there was an outright ban on gay service personnel. At least with DADT, gays can serve as long as they keep their secret. I am not against gays from serving, but I don't want to know about it or who in my unit may be checking me out while we shower. There are others who feel the same way.

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Do you really think there would be a lot of people who would be open about it? It really doesn't seem like something you'd want to talk about in the military.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"]

I love how all these people give their opinions on this bill even though they've never actually served and don't know what it is like. Not saying I've served, but I don't have an opinion on this bill. We should be focussing on Iran, not wasting our time with this stupid bill that isn't really important in the middle of a war.

GD-1369211121

Ok then people shouldnt have opinions on bills about taxes since they cant know how many taxes are needed since they havent been in the position of managing and utilising taxes.

Right?

That's a whole different thing, taxes effect everybody. This only effects the Military.

It affects the gay people who want to serve their country.

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[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Ok then people shouldnt have opinions on bills about taxes since they cant know how many taxes are needed since they havent been in the position of managing and utilising taxes.

Right?

Teenaged

That's a whole different thing, taxes effect everybody. This only effects the Military.

It affects the gay people who want to serve their country.

They can serve for their country.
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So the Marine corps general has a bigger say than .....Robert Gates, the President, and the Chairmand of the Joint Chiefs of Staff? HoolaHoopMan
What it all comes down to, IMO, is utility. Unless the military is wholly convinced that allowing gays to serve openly would have no detrimental effects, and would have tangibly beneficial effects, the change needn't be made. I think we can dispense with all of this malarkey about it being the civil rights issue of our time. And we can certainly dispense with the notion of this being an "urgent," "national security" need. The military shouldn't have to lift a finger to accommodate something that would not make it a better military.
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[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"] That's a whole different thing, taxes effect everybody. This only effects the Military. GD-1369211121

It affects the gay people who want to serve their country.

They can serve for their country.

While having to hide their personal life.

No matter how people like to propagate the idea that in the military ones personal life doesnt exist, that is wrong.

People in the military do interact and socialise.

People shouldnt have to live double lives.

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[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]It affects the gay people who want to serve their country.

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They can serve for their country.

While having to hide their personal life.

No matter how people like to propagate the idea that in the military ones personal life doesnt exist, that is wrong.

People in the military do interact and socialise.

People shouldnt have to live double lives.

It's the military, when your in a war sexuality should be the last thing on your mind.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]Nope I am not saying that.

I am saying that romantic relationships (or simply attraction) ruining unit cohesion is comparable to friendships and rivalries between heterosexual men that can ruin unit cohesion.

I hope this time you got what I am saying.

Except that it isn't comparable. Romantic attraction is a bit different from an espirit de corps between soldiers who do not share a sexual attraction to one another.

Two things that are different can be comparable.

If they were the same there would be no need to compare them since they are.... the same.

I looked up "espirit des corps" and I have to ask: are you sure you know what it means? Or if you do, it really makes no sense in what you said.

Regardless, friendship and rivalries are comparable to romantic attraction. I dont know its stuck to people's head that romance overwhelms people more than hate or friendship.

Gay people, because they are gay could develop an affinity with each other that they would not develop with other, straight soldiers. I don't accept the idea that romantic attraction can be put on the backburner through discipline like normal friendships can. Besides, friendly affinity between soldiers can boost cohesion and morale. Favoritism, which would likely develop from romantic attraction, would detract from it.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"] They can serve for their country.GD-1369211121

While having to hide their personal life.

No matter how people like to propagate the idea that in the military ones personal life doesnt exist, that is wrong.

People in the military do interact and socialise.

People shouldnt have to live double lives.

It's the military, when your in a war sexuality should be the last thing on your mind.

It should also be the last thing on the minds of those in charge of setting military policy, yet clearly it is not.
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Gay people, because they are gay could develop an affinity with each other that they would not develop with other, straight soldiers. I don't accept the idea that romantic attraction can be put on the backburner through discipline like normal friendships can. Besides, friendly affinity between soldiers can boost cohesion and morale. Favoritism, which would likely develop from romantic attraction, would detract from it.fidosim
A gay couple in the military would likely develop superpowers allowing them to decimate an opposing force. See, I can make wild assertions without basis and describe them as "likely" also!
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What it all comes down to, IMO, is utility. Unless the military is wholly convinced that allowing gays to serve openly would have no detrimental effects, and would have tangibly beneficial effects, the change needn't be made. I think we can dispense with all of this malarkey about it being the civil rights issue of our time. And we can certainly dispense with the notion of this being an "urgent," "national security" need. The military shouldn't have to lift a finger to accommodate something that would not make it a better military.fidosim

No detrimental effects. How many times must I repeat myself, the Pentagon study has already said there wouldn't be any problems.

And if you're still going to need an appeal to authority on the issue how much higher can you get than the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff? He's the defacto leader of the military, it's highest appointed leader. Then we have the Secretary of Defense against it. Do you need every damn service member to show a hand written letter saying it's the right thing to do?

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#91 fidosim
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[QUOTE="fidosim"]Gay people, because they are gay could develop an affinity with each other that they would not develop with other, straight soldiers. I don't accept the idea that romantic attraction can be put on the backburner through discipline like normal friendships can. Besides, friendly affinity between soldiers can boost cohesion and morale. Favoritism, which would likely develop from romantic attraction, would detract from it.xaos
A gay couple in the military would likely develop superpowers allowing them to decimate an opposing force. See, I can make wild assertions without basis and describe them as "likely" also!

The basis? What does being gay mean? It means you're attracted to the same gender, right? My argument is that if you take them out of regular society and put them in the military, they will still be attracted to the same gender. What a wild assertion!
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Gay people, because they are gay could develop an affinity with each other that they would not develop with other, straight soldiers. I don't accept the idea that romantic attraction can be put on the backburner through discipline like normal friendships can. Besides, friendly affinity between soldiers can boost cohesion and morale. Favoritism, which would likely develop from romantic attraction, would detract from it.fidosim

Do you perhaps any evidence to support the position of "Gays will damage unit cohesion"?

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[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]While having to hide their personal life.

No matter how people like to propagate the idea that in the military ones personal life doesnt exist, that is wrong.

People in the military do interact and socialise.

People shouldnt have to live double lives.

xaos

It's the military, when your in a war sexuality should be the last thing on your mind.

It should also be the last thing on the minds of those in charge of setting military policy, yet clearly it is not.

Yes this is tru3e

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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"] They can serve for their country.GD-1369211121

While having to hide their personal life.

No matter how people like to propagate the idea that in the military ones personal life doesnt exist, that is wrong.

People in the military do interact and socialise.

People shouldnt have to live double lives.

It's the military, when your in a war sexuality should be the last thing on your mind.

The military is not always in war.

And besides let the soldiers themselves practice that sort of discipline.

Are you implying homosexuals cant put aside their sexuality on their own; that they lack the discipline?

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[QUOTE="fidosim"] What it all comes down to, IMO, is utility. Unless the military is wholly convinced that allowing gays to serve openly would have no detrimental effects, and would have tangibly beneficial effects, the change needn't be made. I think we can dispense with all of this malarkey about it being the civil rights issue of our time. And we can certainly dispense with the notion of this being an "urgent," "national security" need. The military shouldn't have to lift a finger to accommodate something that would not make it a better military.HoolaHoopMan

No detrimental effects. How many times must I repeat myself, the Pentagon study has already said there wouldn't be any problems.

And if you're still going to need an appeal to authority on the issue how much higher can you get than the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff? He's the defacto leader of the military, it's highest appointed leader. Then we have the Secretary of Defense against it. Do you need every damn service member to show a hand written letter saying it's the right thing to do?

I've repeated myself as well. There is disagreement among military brass whether ending the policy would truly have no detrimental effects.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] Except that it isn't comparable. Romantic attraction is a bit different from an espirit de corps between soldiers who do not share a sexual attraction to one another.

fidosim

Two things that are different can be comparable.

If they were the same there would be no need to compare them since they are.... the same.

I looked up "espirit des corps" and I have to ask: are you sure you know what it means? Or if you do, it really makes no sense in what you said.

Regardless, friendship and rivalries are comparable to romantic attraction. I dont know its stuck to people's head that romance overwhelms people more than hate or friendship.

Gay people, because they are gay could develop an affinity with each other that they would not develop with other, straight soldiers. I don't accept the idea that romantic attraction can be put on the backburner through discipline like normal friendships can. Besides, friendly affinity between soldiers can boost cohesion and morale. Favoritism, which would likely develop from romantic attraction, would detract from it.

And I dont accept the idea that romantic attraction cannot be put on the backburner through the discipline like "normal" friendships can. What now?

So favouritism only develops from romantic reltaionships, or even the most?

Nice one, fidosim. It cracked me up.

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[QUOTE="HoolaHoopMan"]

[QUOTE="fidosim"] What it all comes down to, IMO, is utility. Unless the military is wholly convinced that allowing gays to serve openly would have no detrimental effects, and would have tangibly beneficial effects, the change needn't be made. I think we can dispense with all of this malarkey about it being the civil rights issue of our time. And we can certainly dispense with the notion of this being an "urgent," "national security" need. The military shouldn't have to lift a finger to accommodate something that would not make it a better military.fidosim

No detrimental effects. How many times must I repeat myself, the Pentagon study has already said there wouldn't be any problems.

And if you're still going to need an appeal to authority on the issue how much higher can you get than the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff? He's the defacto leader of the military, it's highest appointed leader. Then we have the Secretary of Defense against it. Do you need every damn service member to show a hand written letter saying it's the right thing to do?

I've repeated myself as well. There is disagreement among military brass whether ending the policy would truly have no detrimental effects.

The highest of brass supersedes that of lower ranks do they not? The majority of service members also would like a repeal.

and for the umpteenth time, we have a study out that says gays would not "destroy unit cohesion".

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[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]While having to hide their personal life.

No matter how people like to propagate the idea that in the military ones personal life doesnt exist, that is wrong.

People in the military do interact and socialise.

People shouldnt have to live double lives.

Teenaged

It's the military, when your in a war sexuality should be the last thing on your mind.

The military is not always in war.

And besides let the soldiers themselves practice that sort of discipline.

Are you implying homosexuals cant put aside their sexuality on their own; that they lack the discipline?

I really didn't understand that post, but I'm not implying anything.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"] It's the military, when your in a war sexuality should be the last thing on your mind.GD-1369211121

The military is not always in war.

And besides let the soldiers themselves practice that sort of discipline.

Are you implying homosexuals cant put aside their sexuality on their own; that they lack the discipline?

I really didn't understand that post, but I'm not implying anything.

What hard concept did I deploy in my post that you didnt grasp?

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[QUOTE="GD-1369211121"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]The military is not always in war.

And besides let the soldiers themselves practice that sort of discipline.

Are you implying homosexuals cant put aside their sexuality on their own; that they lack the discipline?

Teenaged

I really didn't understand that post, but I'm not implying anything.

What hard concept did I deploy in my post that you didnt grasp?

"And besides let the soldiers themselves practice that sort of discipline." What discipline?