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#1 Orehhet
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I'm only 5'5 which is pathetically short for a 19 year old. Even if I'm slightly taller than some girls, they're taller with heels. It's somewhat affecting my self-confidence. Any ideas?

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The same way you get girls if you're 6'5.
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I'm only 5'5 which is pathetically short for a 19 year old. Even if I'm slightly taller than some girls, they're taller with heels. It's somewhat affecting my self-confidence. Any ideas?

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Dig a pit, cover it with leaves and put, I dunno, stuff girls like on top.
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platform shoes

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I can't tell if this is for real or not...

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#8 Melpoe
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stop caring about your size, just go out there and get somebody. Do not be intimidated.

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#9 Necrifer
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Use your mental strength and willpower to get taller.

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#10 Logan1616
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Get a girl who isn't shallow.
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#11 Orehhet
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Get a girl who isn't shallow.Logan1616
Everyone in college is shallow.
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#12 kidsmelly
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Size don't matter its about how you use it.

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A tranqulizer rifle works for me.
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#14 Daxo90
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Size don't matter its about how you use it.

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#15 Logan1616
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[QUOTE="Logan1616"]Get a girl who isn't shallow.Orehhet
Everyone in college is shallow.

Not here. I've met people who aren't shallow and are in college too.
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#16 SickBoy724
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Stop being insecure about you height, and show confidence. Pretty much a good start from there.

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#17 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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I like short guys. ;]
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#19 metroidfood
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Dig a pit, cover it with leaves and put, I dunno, stuff girls like on top.xaos

I've also found it works better if you don't put spikes at the bottom. Some girls get so uptight about gaping puncture wounds.

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#20 worlock77
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Stop being insecure about you height, and show confidence. Pretty much a good start from there.

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This. Girls care about confidence and self-esteem more than they care about height.

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I love these topics! okay, so there are ways to make yourself look taller outside. outfit: skinny. I know people in OT hates skinny, but if you are not like overweight, skinny jeans does make you a little taller. Same goes for the top shoes: there are ones with heels, ones with heels but people won't notice them. But I recommend getting a pair of boot for the reason I will explain below. inside your shoes: this is where it gets interesting. A lot of Westerners may not know of this, but there are stuff that you can put under your feet inside your shoes to elevate your height. and these require shoes that cover your ankles (thus the boots).  one of these. There are 3cm ones and 5cm ones, and for the 5cm one, you need bigger shoes.
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#22 sonofsmeagle
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[QUOTE="Logan1616"]Get a girl who isn't shallow.Orehhet
Everyone in college is shallow.

wait wat is this college i keep hearing about is it like the yank version of universitie

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#23 deactivated-5a79221380856
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To get a girl, you need to be romantic and flirt with her and have a good sense of humor too boot, which is the same as any guy. Some girls may not find you attractive, but don't mess with you. They're not right for you if they can't accept you for who you are. You need to find someone that likes you, which is an important part of the equation of love.
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I love these topics! okay, so there are ways to make yourself look taller outside. outfit: skinny. I know people in OT hates skinny, but if you are not like overweight, skinny jeans does make you a little taller. Same goes for the top shoes: there are ones with heels, ones with heels but people won't notice them. But I recommend getting a pair of boot for the reason I will explain below. inside your shoes: this is where it gets interesting. A lot of Westerners may not know of this, but there are stuff that you can put under your feet inside your shoes to elevate your height. and these require shoes that cover your ankles (thus the boots).  one of these. There are 3cm ones and 5cm ones, and for the 5cm one, you need bigger shoes.funsohng

Or he could just wear elevator boots:

That's hot! It worked for Kiss...minus the herpes.

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Date Dwarves.

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I love these topics! okay, so there are ways to make yourself look taller outside. outfit: skinny. I know people in OT hates skinny, but if you are not like overweight, skinny jeans does make you a little taller. Same goes for the top shoes: there are ones with heels, ones with heels but people won't notice them. But I recommend getting a pair of boot for the reason I will explain below. inside your shoes: this is where it gets interesting. A lot of Westerners may not know of this, but there are stuff that you can put under your feet inside your shoes to elevate your height. and these require shoes that cover your ankles (thus the boots).  one of these. There are 3cm ones and 5cm ones, and for the 5cm one, you need bigger shoes.funsohng

Do these fit in cowboy boots? :D

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Aim for the knees son!

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Go to a surgeon and get a huge Dong installed. The go to the store a buy some pants that fit it like a glove.

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#29 funsohng
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[QUOTE="funsohng"]I love these topics! okay, so there are ways to make yourself look taller outside. outfit: skinny. I know people in OT hates skinny, but if you are not like overweight, skinny jeans does make you a little taller. Same goes for the top shoes: there are ones with heels, ones with heels but people won't notice them. But I recommend getting a pair of boot for the reason I will explain below. inside your shoes: this is where it gets interesting. A lot of Westerners may not know of this, but there are stuff that you can put under your feet inside your shoes to elevate your height. and these require shoes that cover your ankles (thus the boots).  one of these. There are 3cm ones and 5cm ones, and for the 5cm one, you need bigger shoes.th3warr1or
Do these fit in cowboy boots? :D

the end is for you to cut (with scissors) to fit your shoes, so yes, I presume they will. But I haven't seen these in NA retails, you should get them online. (Korean online clothing stores usually have it... so if you have a Korean friend, ask for his help)
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="funsohng"]I love these topics! okay, so there are ways to make yourself look taller outside. outfit: skinny. I know people in OT hates skinny, but if you are not like overweight, skinny jeans does make you a little taller. Same goes for the top shoes: there are ones with heels, ones with heels but people won't notice them. But I recommend getting a pair of boot for the reason I will explain below. inside your shoes: this is where it gets interesting. A lot of Westerners may not know of this, but there are stuff that you can put under your feet inside your shoes to elevate your height. and these require shoes that cover your ankles (thus the boots).  one of these. There are 3cm ones and 5cm ones, and for the 5cm one, you need bigger shoes.funsohng
Do these fit in cowboy boots? :D

the end is for you to cut (with scissors) to fit your shoes, so yes, I presume they will. But I haven't seen these in NA retails, you should get them online. (Korean online clothing stores usually have it... so if you have a Korean friend, ask for his help)

What are they called?

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[QUOTE="xaos"]Dig a pit, cover it with leaves and put, I dunno, stuff girls like on top.metroidfood

I've also found it works better if you don't put spikes at the bottom. Some girls get so uptight about gaping puncture wounds.

Depends on if you are going for penetration
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[QUOTE="funsohng"][QUOTE="th3warr1or"]Do these fit in cowboy boots? :Dth3warr1or

the end is for you to cut (with scissors) to fit your shoes, so yes, I presume they will. But I haven't seen these in NA retails, you should get them online. (Korean online clothing stores usually have it... so if you have a Korean friend, ask for his help)

What are they called?

it's Ggalchang in Korean.
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That's an odd question. I always thought it's easier for short guys since they're naturally less threatening. Girls aren't as defensive when a diminutive man approaches. As a short guy, you can get close enough to do whatever it is you're hoping to do to her without raising her suspicion until it's already too late.

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#34 UltimoIce
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I'm only 5'5 which is pathetically short for a 19 year old. Even if I'm slightly taller than some girls, they're taller with heels. It's somewhat affecting my self-confidence. Any ideas?

Orehhet

My ex-gf's roomate's bf was a good foot shorter than her. Some don't care!

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#35 Orehhet
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That's an odd question. I always thought it's easier for short guys since they're naturally less threatening. Girls aren't as defensive when a diminutive man approaches. As a short guy, you can get close enough to do whatever it is you're hoping to do to her without raising her suspicion until it's already too late.

Oleg_Huzwog

Girls like to feel protected (keyword here is feel), and a small guy doesn't exactly emanate power. I might even be able to defeat someone who's 5'10 or 6ft in a fight, but most girls will bet on the 6footer.

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#36 Cruse34
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use your level and post count to get taller. But wait its not very high and neithers mine :cry:

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#37 Oleg_Huzwog
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

That's an odd question. I always thought it's easier for short guys since they're naturally less threatening. Girls aren't as defensive when a diminutive man approaches. As a short guy, you can get close enough to do whatever it is you're hoping to do to her without raising her suspicion until it's already too late.

Orehhet

Girls like to feel protected (keyword here is feel), and a small guy doesn't exactly emanate power. I might even be able to defeat someone who's 5'10 or 6ft in a fight, but most girls will bet on the 6footer.

That's exactly what I was saying. That's why the small guy has an advantage.

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Be tall.
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Become a woman.
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#40 UltimoIce
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That's an odd question. I always thought it's easier for short guys since they're naturally less threatening. Girls aren't as defensive when a diminutive man approaches. As a short guy, you can get close enough to do whatever it is you're hoping to do to her without raising her suspicion until it's already too late.

Oleg_Huzwog

Most girls like to feel small next to their mate. Whether that's a size thing, or a height thing, they just do. That's why most small guys try to compensate by putting on muscle. It's probably instinctual...evolutionary if you will.

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#41 ice144
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[QUOTE="Logan1616"]Get a girl who isn't shallow.Orehhet
Everyone in college is shallow.

A girl having preferences = being shallow? I know for a fact most guys would have an issue dating a female thats 7 feet tall.
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Most of the girls I have dated have been taller than me. My advice: be awesome.
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Pay a buddy to carry you on his shoulders whilst you wear a large trench coat to conceal the both of you. I've seen it before on tv, it works so long as you don't fall.

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[QUOTE="Orehhet"][QUOTE="Logan1616"]Get a girl who isn't shallow.ice144
Everyone in college is shallow.

A girl having preferences = being shallow? I know for a fact most guys would have an issue dating a female thats 7 feet tall.

But if it's a preference wouldn't you be willing to budge if the circumstance is right? If not, I'd consider that as a requirement.
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Well it shouldn't be too har...

Women will take just about any shortcoming in a man, except in the height department, according to Andrea McGinty, who founded the San Diego-based dating service It's Just Lunch.

McGinty helped ABCNEWS put together an experiment to test just how willing women are to date shorter men. We brought together several short men and asked them to stand next to taller men. We invited groups of women to look at the men and choose a date.

To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS' Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who'd made millions by the age of 25.

Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there'd be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, "Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers." Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Another said she'd have considered the shorter men, if the taller men had been described as "child molesters."

The desire for tall men begins very young, apparently. ABCNEWS gave elementary school students a test, asking them to match a small, medium or large figure of a man with a series of words. The kids overwhelmingly linked the tall figure to the words strong, handsome and smart. The linked the short figure to the words sad, scared and weak. More than half of the kids also chose to link the short figure to the words, dumb, yucky and no friends.

ABCNews

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=123853&page=2

oh...wait...nevermind.

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[QUOTE="ice144"][QUOTE="Orehhet"] Everyone in college is shallow. RVP11
A girl having preferences = being shallow? I know for a fact most guys would have an issue dating a female thats 7 feet tall.

But if it's a preference wouldn't you be willing to budge if the circumstance is right? If not, I'd consider that as a requirement.

So you are saying if some 50 year old 500 lb chick wanted to get to know you, you would give it a shot based on the fact that you don't want to be "one of those shallow people"? Or a man for that matter?

Nothing wrong with having preferences. Ignoring preferences will end badly.

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Size doesn't matter.
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[quote="ABCNews"]More than half of the kids also chose to link the short figure to the words, dumb, yucky and no friends.gameguy6700

This made my day.

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#49 RVP11
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[QUOTE="RVP11"][QUOTE="ice144"] A girl having preferences = being shallow? I know for a fact most guys would have an issue dating a female thats 7 feet tall.UltimoIce

But if it's a preference wouldn't you be willing to budge if the circumstance is right? If not, I'd consider that as a requirement.

So you are saying if some 50 year old 500 lb chick wanted to get to know you, you would give it a shot based on the fact that you don't want to be "one of those shallow people"? Or a man for that matter?

Nothing wrong with having preferences. Ignoring preferences will end badly.

Nope, I'm not saying that. Requirement = Something the person MUST have, that is non-negotiable. If they don't meet the criteria, then too bad. Preference = Something I would prefer (ie Prefer brunette to Blonde), but if they didn't meet my preference, I'd be willing to consider if they made up for it in other areas.
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#50 mindstorm
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Well it shouldn't be too har...

[quote="ABCNews"]

Women will take just about any shortcoming in a man, except in the height department, according to Andrea McGinty, who founded the San Diego-based dating service It's Just Lunch.

McGinty helped ABCNEWS put together an experiment to test just how willing women are to date shorter men. We brought together several short men and asked them to stand next to taller men. We invited groups of women to look at the men and choose a date.

To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS' Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who'd made millions by the age of 25.

Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there'd be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, "Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers." Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Another said she'd have considered the shorter men, if the taller men had been described as "child molesters."

The desire for tall men begins very young, apparently. ABCNEWS gave elementary school students a test, asking them to match a small, medium or large figure of a man with a series of words. The kids overwhelmingly linked the tall figure to the words strong, handsome and smart. The linked the short figure to the words sad, scared and weak. More than half of the kids also chose to link the short figure to the words, dumb, yucky and no friends.

gameguy6700

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=123853&page=2

oh...wait...nevermind.

And I repeat what I had stated:
Most of the girls I have dated have been taller than me. My advice: be awesome.mindstorm
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