I just graduated High School, and we were friends for Junior year and stuff but didn't really see each other much Senior year. Anyways, I added her on Facebook a few days ago just to be nice and try to make an effort to be friends, but she started commenting on my photos with stuff like "Sexy" and basically hitting on me. So I messaged her back when she asked if I wanted to hang out, and basically let her know that I think she's a really sweet person and everything and I'd be happy to hang out as friends and stuff, but I don't really see myself dating at the moment. She tried to act like she didn't have a crush on me, so everything was cool for a few days I thought we reached an understanding, until today I saw her on Facebook making comments to her friends in public that she wanted to "rampage" me this summer if I let her... I've got no clue whats with her...
What makes the entire thing even stranger is that her status says married to Marcus, Idk if he is her boyfriend or what...but if he is then why is she hitting on me...especially out in public on her profile where he could see.
She also messaged me today and said she wanted me to go with her to her "secret spot" in this park nearby, but shes just not taking the hint that I'm not interested
Any advice would be helpful my fellow Ot'ers, and sorry for the rant
FrenchDynasty
Talk to her boyfriend and tell her what has been going on and he will probably get her off your back. If she doesn't actually have a boyfriend then there really is nothing you can do but tell her you're not interested in her that way. If she doesn't listen and keeps trying to force something on you then you need to tell her how you are feeling pressured but make sure to let her know it has nothing to do with her personally and if SHE still keeps up with it then you need to tell her that you don't want to talk to her anymore because you feel uncomfortable and then remove her from facebook and pretty any contacts list you got.
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