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#1 Tooweet
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when i was younger i knew how to talk to girls just fine. I made them laugh and always talk to people. but now for some reason i cant talk to them. and now i dont talk to any girls. there is this one girl in my class right now that i useto talk to ever since elementary school, and shes always in my classes. but i never said a word to her since last year. would it be wierd if i start talking to her again like she would think why i never talk to her? when i talk to girls now i notice my voice gets deeper than when im talking to friends and that i dont make eye contact and that im always self concious that i get embarrassed easily. yeah i get nervous really fast. we had this activity in the first day of class and i asked this girl a question and my voice was shaky. also i lost some friends over the time and never talked to them for probably 3 years. how come i lost all these friends. i never hang out with my old friends anymore except probably 3. am i loosing friends because i dont hang out with them or i dont ask if you wanna hang out. i just stay home all day. i think all my friends are guys. from a funny social kid back then i become a very shy, boring kid with a dead pan expression all the time. i dunno maybe its depression because i have very bad grades. everytime i see my friend in the hallway or something i wait for them to approach me but they never do. most of my friends skate and smoke marijuana, but i dont really do those that much, should i start doing those again? pleeeeasse need tips
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#2 Jfisch93
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puberty has made you socially awkward?

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#3 VaguelyTagged
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look,it's ok to share your gril problems with your main ID..no one make fun of you here..we are all noob :)

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#4 Bloodseeker23
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GS Can help you with that man!
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#5 Theokhoth
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That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

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#6 unholymight
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Don't do drugs, work on your grades, consult a doctor if you really think if you're depressed, and about the nervousness...maybe you just need to talk to more people?
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#7 WGTC007
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It's just a phase you're going through.

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#8 XilePrincess
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puberty has made you socially awkward?

Jfisch93
Basically. Once you figure out your junk is for more than peeing life seems to take an extremely complicated downturn for males.
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#9 redfield_137
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The answers to all your dilemmas lie in events and circumstances which arose at the time which you found yourself losing friends and being unable to talk to girls. Think about it hard enough but honestly with yourself and you will find the answers.

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#10 FreshWhiteBread
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How old are you it's probably just a phase. I went through something similar. When I saw it's a phase I don't mean sit on your arse. Be proactive don't just sit and wait for things to work out. You need to force yourself to be more social even if only in small steps.If it is serious depression consult your parents. What ever you do don't go to marijuana it will make things a lot worse.
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#11 Tooweet
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That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

Theokhoth
what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?
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#12 redfield_137
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[QUOTE="Jfisch93"]

puberty has made you socially awkward?

XilePrincess

Basically. Once you figure out your junk is for more than peeing life seems to take an extremely complicated downturn for males.

Ain't it the truth.

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#13 AxeStrangler
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

Tooweet
what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?

being homophobic is another sign, OMG
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#14 FreshWhiteBread
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

Tooweet
what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?

Haha don't take him seriously unless your just trying to make a joke thread in that case play along.
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#15 redfield_137
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

Tooweet

what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?

This is a sure sign that you may have developed or be developing homosexual tendencies.

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#16 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

Tooweet

what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?

Tch. Homophobia's another sign, buddy.

The evidence keeps pilin' up.

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#17 Tooweet
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How old are you it's probably just a phase. I went through something similar. When I saw it's a phase I don't mean sit on your arse. Be proactive don't just sit and wait for things to work out. You need to force yourself to be more social even if only in small steps.If it is serious depression consult your parents. What ever you do don't go to marijuana it will make things a lot worse.FreshWhiteBread
i am 16
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#18 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Tooweet"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

redfield_137

what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?

This is a sure sign that you may have developed or be developing homosexual tendencies.

True; Megan Fox is a man, after all.

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#19 LtDan1989
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That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

Theokhoth

Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;) Also yeah pron when over used can change your view on women and make you see them as objects. I would stop looking at it.

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#20 Tooweet
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dude this is serious and all you telling me that thats another sign i hope thats a myth. is there a way to turn that around if it happens? what should i start be doing what should i eat and what should i do help plz!
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#21 Theokhoth
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dude this is serious and all you telling me that thats another sign i hope thats a myth. is there a way to turn that around if it happens? what should i start be doing what should i eat and what should i do help plz!Tooweet

I hear microwaving your food has a hand in it; it modifies your genes. But if you're starting to feel awkward around women then it's too late; just go with the flow.

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dude this is serious and all you telling me that thats another sign i hope thats a myth. is there a way to turn that around if it happens? what should i start be doing what should i eat and what should i do help plz!Tooweet

Dude chill they're just fuc**** with you. Your not a homo unless you like cock and your curious about guys.

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#23 Tooweet
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

LtDan1989

Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that went happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;)

ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrong
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[QUOTE="Tooweet"]dude this is serious and all you telling me that thats another sign i hope thats a myth. is there a way to turn that around if it happens? what should i start be doing what should i eat and what should i do help plz!LtDan1989

Dude chill they're just fuc**** with you. Your not a homo unless you like cock and your curious about guys.

Well, personally I can't imagine someone who doesn't like their penis and who isn't curious about what those guys in the CIA are doing.
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#25 AxeStrangler
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[QUOTE="LtDan1989"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

Tooweet

Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that went happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;)

ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrong

Relax man, just start with hi.
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#26 bob_newman
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Don't worry about what you say. If you say whatever you want and the girls are still interested, it'll be easy for you because they actually like you for who you are. Don't try to hide who you are.

I'm telling you now that some girls will like you and some won't. That's just how it works. People have preferences. You probably like one type of girl over another. That's normal.

But if you act like you're someone you're not it'll just bite you in the ass later. Be yourself and say what you want.

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#27 Tooweet
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if i say hi, would they make a wierd face or laugh or say hi as in they are not interested? do girls do that?
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#28 LtDan1989
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[QUOTE="LtDan1989"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

Tooweet

Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that went happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;)

ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrong

From what you just wrote, I think I know why you can't talk to girls anymore. You are afraid of rejection, and that's perfectly normal. But you can't be afraid, talk about anything, ask them a question about themself. Something like "where did you grow up", or "what are your goals in life". From asking questions like this you can gain "common ground" by finding something you two have in common. Just try that, then the next time you see her, bring up something else to talk about, you'll get good at it, trust me.

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#29 RedruM_I
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puberty has made you socially awkward?

Jfisch93
Bingo. You're not talking to girls, your hormones are. Try to control them.
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#30 Theokhoth
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if i say hi, would they make a wierd face or laugh or say hi as in they are not interested? do girls do that?Tooweet

Nah, girls aren't programmed that way.

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#31 FreshWhiteBread
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if i say hi, would they make a wierd face or laugh or say hi as in they are not interested? do girls do that?Tooweet
Only if you look wierd or their a brat and if it's the latter then it's their problem not yours.
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#32 Gaming-Planet
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You're going through puberty, nothing to worry about. lol

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[QUOTE="Tooweet"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.

AxeStrangler
what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?

being homophobic is another sign, OMG

Damn, I feel sorry for the dude.
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Touch her shoulder, works everytime.
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#35 Tooweet
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[QUOTE="LtDan1989"]

[QUOTE="Tooweet"][QUOTE="LtDan1989"]

Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that went happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;)

ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrong

From what you just wrote, I think I know why you can't talk to girls anymore. You are afraid of rejection, and that's perfectly normal. But you can't be afraid, talk about anything, ask them a question about themself. Something like "where did you grow up", or "what are your goals in life". From asking questions like this you can gain "common ground" by finding something you two have in common. Just try that, then the next time you see her, bring up something else to talk about, you'll get good at it, trust me.

is that really okay if i ask them where di you grow up or what are your goals in life as like the 2nd sentence? argh. this is said i know but can you show me an example script including greetings
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#37 Tooweet
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You're going through puberty, nothing to worry about. lol

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didnt i already go through it im 16!
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[QUOTE="Tooweet"] is that really okay if i ask them where di you grow up or what are your goals in life as like the 2nd sentence? argh. this is said i know but can you show me an example script including greetings

Dude your thinking about it too much. You don't need a script or a plan just say what comes naturally
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#39 Tooweet
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ppl plz i need more tips before i have to go to my school tomorow. then im going to start using those tips. should i start conserving with family members? i only converse with my mom about school but i have siblings that i always talk to just by, i dont know the appropiate word, i guess small talk, but like start talking about school or hows life or w/e something like that like ask them questions. not just say something like, wanna play halo?
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[QUOTE="Tooweet"][QUOTE="LtDan1989"]

ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrongTooweet

From what you just wrote, I think I know why you can't talk to girls anymore. You are afraid of rejection, and that's perfectly normal. But you can't be afraid, talk about anything, ask them a question about themself. Something like "where did you grow up", or "what are your goals in life". From asking questions like this you can gain "common ground" by finding something you two have in common. Just try that, then the next time you see her, bring up something else to talk about, you'll get good at it, trust me.

is that really okay if i ask them where di you grow up or what are your goals in life as like the 2nd sentence? argh. this is said i know but can you show me an example script including greetings

What? No... Don't ask a girl what her goals in life are. That's totally random. Just start with talking about the class you're in. Ask for help on homework even if you don't need it, and more importantly, if a girl needs help, try your best to point her in the right direction.
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#41 G-U-N-N-3-Y
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ppl plz i need more tips before i have to go to my school tomorow. then im going to start using those tips. should i start conserving with family members? i only converse with my mom about school but i have siblings that i always talk to just by, i dont know the appropiate word, i guess small talk, but like start talking about school or hows life or w/e something like that like ask them questions. not just say something like, wanna play halo?Tooweet
Why? Whats tommorow?
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#42 Tooweet
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sorry but i think i lost it. writing about this and asking a forum for tips makes me feel i feel worse
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#43 LtDan1989
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From what you just wrote, I think I know why you can't talk to girls anymore. You are afraid of rejection, and that's perfectly normal. But you can't be afraid, talk about anything, ask them a question about themself. Something like "where did you grow up", or "what are your goals in life". From asking questions like this you can gain "common ground" by finding something you two have in common. Just try that, then the next time you see her, bring up something else to talk about, you'll get good at it, trust me.

is that really okay if i ask them where di you grow up or what are your goals in life as like the 2nd sentence? argh. this is said i know but can you show me an example script including greetings

* You see a girl that you'd like to talk to in your Math class for instance* *Walk up to her smile*

You "Man that test was really difficult, how do you think you did?"

Her "Yeah it was, I think I did okay. How about you?"

You " Okay I guess, glad it's over. *Now's your chance to break the ice so to speak and ask her something about herself*

You " So are you looking forward to spring break?

blah blah blah...

See what I mean, you can start with anything. The first conversation can be the hardest, but next time you see her, it should be easier to talk about something cause you already know her a little. The more you guys talk the more comfortable you'll get. Sometimes, listen to what girls talk about when their around each other, and you can pick up something that interests them and bring it up in your conversation. But be confident, the worst a girl can say to you is No, so don't fear rejection, it happens to everyone.

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#44 G-U-N-N-3-Y
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sorry but i think i lost it. writing about this and asking a forum for tips makes me feel i feel worseTooweet
Don't feel bad... Anyway you have to realize that girls are people to and that they will understand if you say something stupid or mess up. If you do say something stupid make a joke out of it.
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sorry but i think i lost it. writing about this and asking a forum for tips makes me feel i feel worseTooweet
your on the wrong forum my friend, may I suggest another one?

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#46 -Tish-
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sorry but i think i lost it. writing about this and asking a forum for tips makes me feel i feel worseTooweet
I guess I could see why someone would find it hard to converse with females, but in reality, girls are still human, with human emotion. Believe it or not they have a lot more in common with you than you think. They can relate to you just fine, and if they can't, that's their problem. Not yours.
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Its probably becuase you didnt hit puberty yet therefore hormones werent involved talking to girls when you were younger.

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tomorow i have school, well atleast its my best day because most of my friends are in my classes at these days. 1st period i see about 4 girls i can scope. there is a girl that also sits next to me in 3rd and we were working on a packet and her friend and her asked me whats the answer for this problem and i said what page is taht and for some reason they laughed and i was like wtf was that funny? but atleast i told them the answer. 2nd period there is a girl who my group hangs out with but i dont talk to her. and theres also the girl i useto be friends with back then
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[QUOTE="Tooweet"]tomorow i have school, well atleast its my best day because most of my friends are in my classes at these days. 1st period i see about 4 girls i can scope. there is a girl that also sits next to me in 3rd and we were working on a packet and her friend and her asked me whats the answer for this problem and i said what page is taht and for some reason they laughed and i was like wtf was that funny? but atleast i told them the answer. 2nd period there is a girl who my group hangs out with but i dont talk to her. and theres also the girl i useto be friends with back then

Have you ever had a GF? (serious question)
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[QUOTE="Tooweet"]tomorow i have school, well atleast its my best day because most of my friends are in my classes at these days. 1st period i see about 4 girls i can scope. there is a girl that also sits next to me in 3rd and we were working on a packet and her friend and her asked me whats the answer for this problem and i said what page is taht and for some reason they laughed and i was like wtf was that funny? but atleast i told them the answer. 2nd period there is a girl who my group hangs out with but i dont talk to her. and theres also the girl i useto be friends with back then

You say scope and have used other similar vocabulary in your earlier posts. What exactly is your agenda with these girls, just a friendly conversation?