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Basically. Once you figure out your junk is for more than peeing life seems to take an extremely complicated downturn for males.puberty has made you socially awkward?
Jfisch93
The answers to all your dilemmas lie in events and circumstances which arose at the time which you found yourself losing friends and being unable to talk to girls. Think about it hard enough but honestly with yourself and you will find the answers.
what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
Theokhoth
[QUOTE="Jfisch93"]Basically. Once you figure out your junk is for more than peeing life seems to take an extremely complicated downturn for males.puberty has made you socially awkward?
XilePrincess
Ain't it the truth.
[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron? being homophobic is another sign, OMGThat's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
Tooweet
[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron? Haha don't take him seriously unless your just trying to make a joke thread in that case play along.That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
Tooweet
[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
Tooweet
This is a sure sign that you may have developed or be developing homosexual tendencies.
[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
Tooweet
Tch. Homophobia's another sign, buddy.
The evidence keeps pilin' up.
How old are you it's probably just a phase. I went through something similar. When I saw it's a phase I don't mean sit on your arse. Be proactive don't just sit and wait for things to work out. You need to force yourself to be more social even if only in small steps.If it is serious depression consult your parents. What ever you do don't go to marijuana it will make things a lot worse.FreshWhiteBreadi am 16
what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron?[QUOTE="Tooweet"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]
That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
redfield_137
This is a sure sign that you may have developed or be developing homosexual tendencies.
True; Megan Fox is a man, after all.
That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
Theokhoth
Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;) Also yeah pron when over used can change your view on women and make you see them as objects. I would stop looking at it.
dude this is serious and all you telling me that thats another sign i hope thats a myth. is there a way to turn that around if it happens? what should i start be doing what should i eat and what should i do help plz!Tooweet
I hear microwaving your food has a hand in it; it modifies your genes. But if you're starting to feel awkward around women then it's too late; just go with the flow.
dude this is serious and all you telling me that thats another sign i hope thats a myth. is there a way to turn that around if it happens? what should i start be doing what should i eat and what should i do help plz!Tooweet
Dude chill they're just fuc**** with you. Your not a homo unless you like cock and your curious about guys.
[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]
That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
LtDan1989
Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that went happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;)
ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrong[QUOTE="Tooweet"]dude this is serious and all you telling me that thats another sign i hope thats a myth. is there a way to turn that around if it happens? what should i start be doing what should i eat and what should i do help plz!LtDan1989
Dude chill they're just fuc**** with you. Your not a homo unless you like cock and your curious about guys.
Well, personally I can't imagine someone who doesn't like their penis and who isn't curious about what those guys in the CIA are doing.[QUOTE="LtDan1989"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]
That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
Tooweet
Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that went happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;)
ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrong Relax man, just start with hi.Don't worry about what you say. If you say whatever you want and the girls are still interested, it'll be easy for you because they actually like you for who you are. Don't try to hide who you are.
I'm telling you now that some girls will like you and some won't. That's just how it works. People have preferences. You probably like one type of girl over another. That's normal.
But if you act like you're someone you're not it'll just bite you in the ass later. Be yourself and say what you want.
[QUOTE="LtDan1989"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]
That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
Tooweet
Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that went happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;)
ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrongFrom what you just wrote, I think I know why you can't talk to girls anymore. You are afraid of rejection, and that's perfectly normal. But you can't be afraid, talk about anything, ask them a question about themself. Something like "where did you grow up", or "what are your goals in life". From asking questions like this you can gain "common ground" by finding something you two have in common. Just try that, then the next time you see her, bring up something else to talk about, you'll get good at it, trust me.
if i say hi, would they make a wierd face or laugh or say hi as in they are not interested? do girls do that?TooweetOnly if you look wierd or their a brat and if it's the latter then it's their problem not yours.
[QUOTE="Tooweet"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]what?!?!?! but thats the worst thing to happen. i am homophobic. i like girls and think Megan fox is the hottest! i think you got it all wrong i hope. i think its because i like girls too much that i think they are an object. and so i cant talk to them if i get distracted by their looks. serious question but do i hav to stop looking at pron? being homophobic is another sign, OMG Damn, I feel sorry for the dude.That's a sign that you're starting to become attracted to men. The awkwardness you feel around women is your body telling you that it's just not comfortable with that.
AxeStrangler
[QUOTE="Tooweet"][QUOTE="LtDan1989"]
Lol, this is not true though. Usually gays have an easy time talking to women, and don't feel awkward around them. But to the original post, you need to just force yourself to start talking to them and as time goes on it will just feel natural. Just start off with a comment or statement about something that went happened to you, or a current event. Girls like to talk about anything. Be confident in yourself and you'll be fine.;)
ok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrongFrom what you just wrote, I think I know why you can't talk to girls anymore. You are afraid of rejection, and that's perfectly normal. But you can't be afraid, talk about anything, ask them a question about themself. Something like "where did you grow up", or "what are your goals in life". From asking questions like this you can gain "common ground" by finding something you two have in common. Just try that, then the next time you see her, bring up something else to talk about, you'll get good at it, trust me.
is that really okay if i ask them where di you grow up or what are your goals in life as like the 2nd sentence? argh. this is said i know but can you show me an example script including greetingsok ok if i could to talk to girls by force and naturally, what if i comment or state something about what happend to me like what you said, would they think in their mind that they realy dont care and now i just lost my chance? ok can u tell me an example about what to say to them. should i ask them what grade they are? or whats there name in like the 2nd sentence. i always think i might end up saying something wrongTooweet
From what you just wrote, I think I know why you can't talk to girls anymore. You are afraid of rejection, and that's perfectly normal. But you can't be afraid, talk about anything, ask them a question about themself. Something like "where did you grow up", or "what are your goals in life". From asking questions like this you can gain "common ground" by finding something you two have in common. Just try that, then the next time you see her, bring up something else to talk about, you'll get good at it, trust me.
is that really okay if i ask them where di you grow up or what are your goals in life as like the 2nd sentence? argh. this is said i know but can you show me an example script including greetingsWhat? No... Don't ask a girl what her goals in life are. That's totally random. Just start with talking about the class you're in. Ask for help on homework even if you don't need it, and more importantly, if a girl needs help, try your best to point her in the right direction.ppl plz i need more tips before i have to go to my school tomorow. then im going to start using those tips. should i start conserving with family members? i only converse with my mom about school but i have siblings that i always talk to just by, i dont know the appropiate word, i guess small talk, but like start talking about school or hows life or w/e something like that like ask them questions. not just say something like, wanna play halo?TooweetWhy? Whats tommorow?
From what you just wrote, I think I know why you can't talk to girls anymore. You are afraid of rejection, and that's perfectly normal. But you can't be afraid, talk about anything, ask them a question about themself. Something like "where did you grow up", or "what are your goals in life". From asking questions like this you can gain "common ground" by finding something you two have in common. Just try that, then the next time you see her, bring up something else to talk about, you'll get good at it, trust me.
is that really okay if i ask them where di you grow up or what are your goals in life as like the 2nd sentence? argh. this is said i know but can you show me an example script including greetings* You see a girl that you'd like to talk to in your Math class for instance* *Walk up to her smile*
You "Man that test was really difficult, how do you think you did?"
Her "Yeah it was, I think I did okay. How about you?"
You " Okay I guess, glad it's over. *Now's your chance to break the ice so to speak and ask her something about herself*
You " So are you looking forward to spring break?
blah blah blah...
See what I mean, you can start with anything. The first conversation can be the hardest, but next time you see her, it should be easier to talk about something cause you already know her a little. The more you guys talk the more comfortable you'll get. Sometimes, listen to what girls talk about when their around each other, and you can pick up something that interests them and bring it up in your conversation. But be confident, the worst a girl can say to you is No, so don't fear rejection, it happens to everyone.
sorry but i think i lost it. writing about this and asking a forum for tips makes me feel i feel worseTooweetDon't feel bad... Anyway you have to realize that girls are people to and that they will understand if you say something stupid or mess up. If you do say something stupid make a joke out of it.
sorry but i think i lost it. writing about this and asking a forum for tips makes me feel i feel worseTooweetyour on the wrong forum my friend, may I suggest another one?
sorry but i think i lost it. writing about this and asking a forum for tips makes me feel i feel worseTooweetI guess I could see why someone would find it hard to converse with females, but in reality, girls are still human, with human emotion. Believe it or not they have a lot more in common with you than you think. They can relate to you just fine, and if they can't, that's their problem. Not yours.
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