How Do Go About It When a Girl Asks You Out That You Don't Like?

I use the hit it and quit it technique.MultiplehandsMa

Don't ever say yes and plan to break up with her! I did this once... it turned into a big mess. She was not very good lucking and very annoying. I said yes cuz I felt bad and right when i was about to break up with her she said she was moving in a month and that she wanted to stay together till then.... big mistake. I ended up dating her because I felt really bad for this poor little girl, but never met her outside of school. I didn't kiss her or anything though. She moved away and I never spoke to her again. That was over a year ago and she still tries to message me on myspace and txt me... idk why she doesn't stop. We didn't even have that much of a relationship, but she acted like we were going to get married or some **** Freaky experience bro, do not suggest.

I'd claim I'm gay which never works... but why not try anyway? THen I'd just say I'm not interested.

im in this situation now with this girl in college. she hasn't asked me out but she follows me around and tells me how great i am ( i know:|). what sucks is the class i have with her is full of girls i want to get with and she's messing up my game.

i do like her and all, she's a nice chick, and i feel like a hypocrite for not being into her, but...

Tell them you would, but your friend is interested in them...and it would be against the bro code to do anything with them. Somebody's going to have to take a bullet...sure as hell won't be merawsavon

get all sappy and say my heart belongs to another (even if it doesnt).. I cannot give you what you seek... Basically an updated version of the speech that Strider gave to that girl in the extended edition of the Two Towers

The best thing to do is just say you have a girlfriend. It lets them down gently, right? :)Ninja-Hippo

I tell them I just want to be friends. And when they want to hang out I just say I'm busy.Immortalica

I have that problem a lot. Most girls I turn down, I do so, not because their ugly or anything other undesirables. But because deep down, I think their not perfect. Which is a black mark on my personality, that needs professional help to fix

Excuses are good, normally i use the "i just got out of a serious relationship". Its worse when its one of ur best friends...

Slap her in the face and tell her she's fat and ugly and that you wouldn't dream of touching her with a barge poll.

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I say "Umm, no thanks."

just be honest and nice about it, but clear. can't have them killing themselves over it, but you also don't want them thinking they have a chance.

there's no sense in lying about it. most people are reasonable when being let down, unless they're completely psychotically infatuated with you

I find it awkward to propose anything of that nature, formally. Physically asking someone out just seems odd.

The way I see it is that it just happens. People get together, they have things in common and roll with it if they want to.

I've had this problem before anda good friend of mine has it bad right now, but I don't think he will shut it down as quickly as I would.

Any time I've had an awkward gesture sent in my direction (both from guys and girls alike), I make an equally awkward gesture in the other direction. If they don't get it, I'll just tell them that it isn't mutual and more importantly, that's not how I work.

You have to be brutally honest with her.

That's happened to me a couple of times. I just kinda completely ignore them until they get the hint. It's kind of mean of me to do that, but I don't know how else to deal with it.

You have to be brutally honest with her.

AdmiralRJW

You could simply ward her off with a gangsta prank.

most of the time that it's happened, they're too young so i just say "sorry but you're too young", one time i was like "uhhhh i'll give you my answer later lol" then just stopped talking to them.

I usually go out with them. From what I understand from my exs and girls I've known for quite a while is that I'm extremely unapproachable because apparently a look like an army guy and because I'm rarely smiling. So when one has the confidence to approach me I see what's up unless of course she is really really unattractive or I know that have personality incompatibilities with me, then I just tell them I'm not interested in seeing anyone.

Have one of my friends ambush me and challenge me to a duel. I'll accept but be "killed" in the process.

People don't really approach me...ever. Not much of an issue for me, sorry for the lack of help TC.rawsavon

Same.

Only time people ever approach me is when they're asking for directions, which, oddly enough, seems to be happening more and more.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]People don't really approach me...ever. Not much of an issue for me, sorry for the lack of help TC.Niff_T

Same.

Only time people ever approach me is when they're asking for directions, which, oddly enough, seems to be happening more and more.

Slap her in the face and tell her she's fat and ugly and that you wouldn't dream of touching her with a barge poll.

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when she's not looking, fart in your hand, then tell her you have a surprise for her. Throw the fart in her face.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]People don't really approach me...ever. Not much of an issue for me, sorry for the lack of help TC.Niff_T

Same.

Only time people ever approach me is when they're asking for directions, which, oddly enough, seems to be happening more and more.

I just kind of ignore her lol.

hit it and then quit it

Is your name Garmin or somethingrawsavon

lol nah.

I really don't know what it is. Apparently I look like someone who knows how to get around. :?

Lol, Really? Same here, they also ask me to look at the notes I've taken for class. Which is kind of annoying. Snipes_2

I've had that happen every now and then too, though that was mostly back in high school. Doesn't happen as much in college (thankfully).

Just say you don't think you would be faithful to her. I have done this a couple times and there is nothing that turns them off of you faster haha. Either that or just say you're only interested in the "one thing".

I have that problem a lot. Most girls I turn down, I do so, not because their ugly or anything other undesirables. But because deep down, I think their not perfect. Which is a black mark on my personality, that needs professional help to fix

AzzoLovesBirdy

don't feel bad im the same way. i turned down one of the hottest girls in HS because she had a weird toe. also i think i tend to want girls that i think are unobtainable

let her down gently but so far no chick i didnt like has asked me out, specialy if there a bit ugly...

Stamp one of these on her head..

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Post in all capitals on a gaming forum and get advice from people who have never been in the same situation.Fudgycakes

freaking lol

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