Say i want to rid you like a rollorcoaster, Naa Just Kidding do you talk to her often if you do then get a friend to go up to her and say "Want to go out with my friend" e.g. You :DDj-Dark-1
no don't do that, if you do it makes it look like you lack the confidence to ask her personaly. Even if she does go on a date wit hyou via that tatic she will respect you less and you wil lbe less likely of having anything good happening.Thing you have to realize is that unlike guys chicks do not go out with people based on looks. you can be a fat ass that looks like a ran over burn victim and still get a date. All you need is confidence.......how do you get confidence though??? This depends on how well you already do with women. If you don't already, start talking to not just women, but attractive women. Secondly, this helps with the first one, even if you do get blown off/insulted or what have you who cares??? Women are fish in a ocean, there are MUCH more out there. Plus if she turned you down that means she has bad taste in guys anyways right? You have to get that "I fon't give a **** sttitude when it comes to chicks. If they see that you aren't some submissive wuss then they will be attracted to you despite what you look like. Some things to remember is to always have your opinion too, For example, if you're on a date walking along in a park(better setting for first date then a movie btw)and she says she wants to sit down and suggests a place you could say "No, let's sit here." Makes it look like you know what you want(remember how chicks like confident guys?) no matter how little it may seem. i'm not saying to go against what she says every time, just make it look like you are not bending to her whim. ON that note, NEVER(even if you are in a relationship) let her order you around and let her use you. What do I mean by this?? Don't do things like wash her car for her, type an essay for her and such. When women have control of you they get bored easily and thus the likleyhood of you getting dumped get raised dramatically. This is that "whatever you want me to do I'll do it........I'll change for you" **** attitude that gets you dumped. Also, DO NOT compliment her on her good looks, girls get this constantly and it does you no good to be like everyone else or do what every othe guy has said to her. Instead feel free to make fun of her, but in a playful way, do not be an ass about it. You have to border on that arogant/funny persona. Like if she wears one of those huge ass belts you could say "I didn't know you were in the WWF." Even feel free to make stuff up, sa I was saying do not compliment her looks, instead counter them!!! I know you're saying WTF??!!? If she asks why you haven't said anything about how she looks you could say something like "Well, I was hoping you wouldn't ask, but there's a huge pimple on your chin." I know this seems like it wil lget you slapped in the face, but it will work and if ot doesn't you don't want to be with her because she has no sense of humor. Remember never get with a chick based off just looks, unless you want just sex. Look for funny, smart girls with like interests that have a good sense of humor. Ok, that's it for now...........
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