How do you guys get dates?

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#1 Solid_Tango
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Seriously how do you do it?

When i think i found the right girl she turns out to be a freak, a cheater or end up not likeing me back.

Where do you guys met chicks? how do you introduce yourself to em? how can you know that she is a normal girl?

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#2 quadraleap
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I would think the best situation would be doing a hobby or something you enjoy. Preferably something that doesnt involve drinking or parties.
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#3 Solid_Tango
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I would think the best situation would be doing a hobby or something you enjoy. Preferably something that doesnt involve drinking or parties. quadraleap
My only hobbi is tennis, but i dont wanna date a tennis chick cus they are usually spoiled and mean

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#4 Razor-Lazor
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I usually meet a girl while hanging out with some friends, or at school. I get her number, start texting her, and judge her. If she seems okay, I ask her out.
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#5 Akawoa
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Talking to them is a great start, you have to "meet" them before you can determine what kind of person they are. That's kind of what the first date is for

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#6 Razor-Lazor
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]I would think the best situation would be doing a hobby or something you enjoy. Preferably something that doesnt involve drinking or parties. Solid_Tango
My only hobbi is tennis, but i dont wanna date a tennis chicks cus they are usually spoiled and mean

Sports don't define a person's personality. :|
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#7 shinian
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I tell her that I'm level 36 on gamespot. Instant win. All chicks dig that.

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#8 D3nnyCrane
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Just by asking. I figure if a girl wants my conversation for more than 10 minutes, she probably wouldn't mind making a night of it at some point. Best move is a mutual friend's friend, because you've probably already got some things in common.
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#9 quadraleap
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My only hobbi is tennis, but i dont wanna date a tennis chick cus they are usually spoiled and mean

Solid_Tango

I'll keep that in mind...I tend to be drawn to that type. :P

Regarding your question though :

I have met most people at bars and through friends. I dont advise bars.

Introductions...establish eye contact, ready body language, just be casual and small talk.

Normal...if you are lucky they give you hints. Pay attention to the smallest details without reacting to them initially. Give slack and see what they do with it.

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#10 -_Canada_-
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There are a few options:

1. Get a friend to hook you up (WARNING: Could possibly fail, such as you go to a movie with two chicks and he brings one for you and she is not your type at all)

2. Meet them at school/work and get to know them, then ask them out when the time is right.

3. At a club, or doing a hobby. Pretty good option, because they will share some interests with you.

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#11 Maqda7
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Find something in common that you two can talk about, then ask her out. I personally find it easier to meet girls in a club or a concert because they're much more open to new relationships.
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#12 pianist
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I tell her that I'm level 36 on gamespot. Instant win. All chicks dig that.

shinian

Yep. When the ladeez hear that I'm a Sword of Sodan on Gamespot, they can't keep their hands off me.

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#13 Never3ndingLife
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meet a girl and ask her on a date, dont seem to anxious to go on a date though, just act smooth
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#14 im_mr_brown
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Just by asking. I figure if a girl wants my conversation for more than 10 minutes, she probably wouldn't mind making a night of it at some point. Best move is a mutual friend's friend, because you've probably already got some things in common.D3nnyCrane
I second this. it could be wierd though if you get denied cause you'd still see her through the mutual friend.

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#15 D3nnyCrane
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[QUOTE="pianist"]

[QUOTE="shinian"]

I tell her that I'm level 36 on gamespot. Instant win. All chicks dig that.

Yep. When the ladeez hear that I'm a Sword of Sodan on Gamespot, they can't keep their hands off me.

You guys have it all wrong. When I mention that I'd TOTALLY be a level 28 if it weren't for all my moderations, well, girls love a bad boy.
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#16 bluezy
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Well, I met my current girlfriend at school. We'd been good friends for almost a year beforehand.
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#17 SRTtoZ
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This is an easy one. Take care of yourself (groom yourself, smell good, workout)...show independence...show confidence and have a sense of humor. If you have all of those...you can get most girls. End of story.
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#18 pianist
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You guys have it all wrong. When I mention that I'd TOTALLY be a level 28 if it weren't for all my moderations, well, girls love a bad boy.D3nnyCrane

:lol:

Touche, D3nnyCrane. Touche.

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#19 bluezy
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You guys have it all wrong. When I mention that I'd TOTALLY be a level 28 if it weren't for all my moderations, well, girls love a bad boy.D3nnyCrane
I tell the ladies I'm a Jaquio and they think I'm exotic8)

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#20 Elraptor
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I ignore them. So far that's not working.
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#21 FreezeBlast95
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Why would you want a normal girl?

Normal is boring :P

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#22 Espada12
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I ignore them. So far that's not working. Elraptor

I do this as well, but in my case I guess it works. Most of the girls I've met without a mutual friend have approached me, but since my last GF I haven't really cared much and I'm liking my free time now because I know it's all coming to an end soon T_T.

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#23 Forever_Changes
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I ignore her and hope that, with time, she'll eventually discover that something beutiful exists within me.

So far it's not working out.

:(

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#24 Solid_Link22
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I would meet them first and after time I would ask for their number. I start talking/texting with them then ask them out. I recently did this and it worked.

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#25 Delphanius
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I find someone that is appealing to me and I just engage an conversation and If all goes well I get a date...

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#26 shinian
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I ignore them. So far that's not working. Elraptor

Give it 5 more years. If nothing changes tell her about your gamespot account. If by some bizarre accident she still will be able to resist you - start worrying.

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#27 EvilSteveo
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Date rape drug.

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#28 AirGuitarist87
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I get to know them first, try to get some of those are-they-aren't-they dates to coffee shops or wherever they wish, then when I feel confident they feel the same I ask them out. Honestly, it hasn't failed me yet.
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#29 yang_fox
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I ignore her and hope that, with time, she'll eventually discover that something beutiful exists within me.

So far it's not working out.

:(

Forever_Changes
sucess rate: 30-20 %, sorry dude. same thing happened to me. :|
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I don't know. :(
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Thai food, it works.