How do you tell a girl you dont want to talk to her anymore?

It's harder than it sounds, because we are just friends. We have never dated, but she likes me. There are many stressfull things that are going on in our lives, and talking causes more trouble than its worth. I know! maybe I should start officially dating her, so then i can say "i think we should break up". That seems easier than saying "I dont think we should talk to eachother anymore." Oh and yeah I do like her, thats no the reason why i dont want to have contact/see/talk/be involved with her.

EDIT NEW INFO: LOL, most of these solutions involve me disliking her.  I dont dislike her, its the opposite.  Ok, she is my neighbor, she lives a few houses down from me. Her dad dislikes guys. And has threatened to harm me if i continue to talk to her.  He has hit her a few times.  And has yelled at her for talking to me.  He told me to leave her alone, but we didn't. We still talk, in secret, risking what could happen.  I just feel like i should just give up.  She's not worth it....... or is she?

It wouldn't be a surprise to her if i told her.  Its just actually doing it. would suck...  I bet she has thought of the same thing, but she doesn't want to give up on this.  We are trying to make this all work out..

Well...There's not nice way to say it.

I can tell you that much.
Canuck3000

"It's not you, it's me.  ...I don't like you."

--Dave 

[QUOTE="Canuck3000"]Well...There's not nice way to say it.

I can tell you that much.
6ms6ms6

Fake your death.supermetroidfan

If you like her then why would you not want to talk to her?BDM666

You could ask her what she thinks about another girl and say something to make her think you're thinking about asking the other girl out.guynamedbilly

well just be like I dont want to talk to you anymore...nobodyshero87

Because talking to her causes problems with other people around us. I cant get too much into the reasons why.6ms6ms6

Drop trow and cut a gasser right into her face. Or something similar to make you dislike or not want to be near you. Don't shower for a week or two. 

Say this: I'm Rick James ****... then you pimp slap her... Problem solved... ^____^

[QUOTE="6ms6ms6"]Because talking to her causes problems with other people around us. I cant get too much into the reasons why.BDM666

Drop trow and cut a gasser right into her face. Or something similar to make you dislike or not want to be near you. Don't shower for a week or two.

Asking the wrong person dude, there's an old guy from high school i don't really wanna associate with anymore and I can't even tell him off in person or on the phone. :lol: ahh for noodles and strudels here's the baggard.DarkKar

[QUOTE="DarkKar"]Asking the wrong person dude, there's an old guy from high school i don't really wanna associate with anymore and I can't even tell him off in person or on the phone. :lol: ahh for noodles and strudels here's the baggard.6ms6ms6

It's apples and oranges yo. I guess a reasonable answer in both our cases would be to 1. MAN UP. 2. issue a movie-quality ultimatum of saying pretty much 'this is how it's going to be.'

But yes, predicaments nonetheless. 

[QUOTE="BDM666"]If you like her then why would you not want to talk to her?6ms6ms6

It's harder than it sounds, because we are just friends.  We have never dated, but she likes me.  There are many stressfull things that are going on in our lives, and talking causes more trouble than its worth.  I know! maybe I should start officially dating her, so then i can say "i think we should break up".  That seems easier than saying "I dont think we should talk to eachother anymore." Oh and yeah I do like her, thats no the reason why i dont want to have contact/see/talk/be involved with her.

6ms6ms6

This sounds like a serious problem.

Destination: Dumpsville

Population: You 

[QUOTE="6ms6ms6"][QUOTE="BDM666"]If you like her then why would you not want to talk to her?Kook18

who would want to date his sister? 

JUST TELL HER, YOU SELFISH BASTARD!

It's harder than it sounds, because we are just friends. We have never dated, but she likes me. There are many stressfull things that are going on in our lives, and talking causes more trouble than its worth. I know! maybe I should start officially dating her, so then i can say "i think we should break up". That seems easier than saying "I dont think we should talk to eachother anymore." Oh and yeah I do like her, thats no the reason why i dont want to have contact/see/talk/be involved with her.

6ms6ms6

I once hade a somalian friend who was in love with me. I liked her as a friend but she started to call me everyday så I told her to go to hell. It was over instantly, but not without her crying the day after in school. So I was the ass of that week. I regret that I was that harsh, but you should def be honest.

Fake your death.supermetroidfan

 

[QUOTE="BDM666"]If you like her then why would you not want to talk to her?6ms6ms6

I don't want to talk to you anymore? What the hell?

Don't say that. Don't say anything. Simply continue what you're doing now.

*sigh* Or you could try hanging out with a group of kids she dislikes. That oughtta do it. 

sorrry but could you leave me alone for some time / I dont feel like talking too you

it aint that hard, girls speak the same language you know

It's harder than it sounds, because we are just friends.  We have never dated, but she likes me.  There are many stressfull things that are going on in our lives, and talking causes more trouble than its worth.  I know! maybe I should start officially dating her, so then i can say "i think we should break up".  That seems easier than saying "I dont think we should talk to eachother anymore." Oh and yeah I do like her, thats no the reason why i dont want to have contact/see/talk/be involved with her.

6ms6ms6

say:

"I have no regards for your feelings, opinion or your life"

totally works 

LOL, most of these solutions involve me disliking her.  I dont dislike her, its the opposite.  Ok, she is my neighbor, she lives a few houses down from me. Her dad dislikes guys. And has threatened to harm me if i continue to talk to her.  He has hit her a few times.  And has yelled at her for talking to me.  He told me to leave her alone, but we didn't. We still talk, in secret, risking what could happen.  I just feel like i should just give up.  She's not worth it....... or is she?

It wouldn't be a surprise to her if i told her.  Its just actually doing it. would suck...  I bet she has thought of the same thing, but she doesn't want to give up on this.  We are trying to make this all work out..

[QUOTE="supermetroidfan"]Fake your death.Bourbons3