How easy is it for you to get over break ups?

I personally usually think they are mistakes in the first place, so it's really easy. Unless they are total dicks about it.

been a few years since i've had a breakup. but the last one i had between me and my ex was mutual. and no, that does not mean she broke up with me :P it actually was a mutual thing and we are still on good terms, so it's all good.

I've only had to deal with 1 break-up, and I did the dumping. So... I just carry on. Although I did feel guilty afterwords.

Depends on the relationship but say the last girl I was seriously into, we broke up a few weeks ago and last night I said hey on fb chat and we got talking again. I dont have a problem taking people I have had feelings for and turning them into friends.

The way I see it is that I liked them before and it would seem a waste to through all of that away :)

After losing the girl I was with.. love is literally dead to me.

I have had some really cool girls come onto me and it means nothing...Its like my heart and will to love was torn out of me complely.

yeah a little to much info there.

Quite easy. I'm serious, I don't really think much about break-ups. Hell, usually when I get dumped it's because I didn't care about the relationship in the first place.

Depends on who initiates the breakup. But either way I'm usually pretty good after a day or so. I'm a firm believer that you can't depend on somebody else for your happiness.

I spend way longer than I should dwelling on it.

I really wish I didn't, but this stuff gets to me more than anything else in life...

Sigh.

It's never easy,I cry for days like any real man should.

It's never easy,I cry for days like any real man should.

Michael0134567

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It's never easy,I cry for days like any real man should.

NukaNuked

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It's never easy,I cry for days like any real man should.

Michael0134567

Well, it totally depends on the relationship. I've been broken up with and afterwards, I was surprised to find that I actually felt great - as if a huge weight had just been lifted off my shoulders. I've been broken up with and been intensely depressed afterwards. And I've had relationships end and just felt like, oh well that's too bad, but it was obviously not going anywhere anyway.

Pretty easy. There's nothing I can do about it so I try not to beat myself up over it.

I'm the one that initiates the break up and I'm quite fine afterwards. Sleep like a baby and everything.

If my interaction with the person has lasted say, three months or less, then I wouldn't even consider it a 'break up' really. Hardly worth bothing over at all, in any case.

But then even the one major break-up I went through was surprisingly easy, I felt fine at the time and fully expected to have some sort of sudden emotional break-down about it all at some point, but it never happened.

Break ups are hard for me, but rejections are a walk in the park.

I've only had one break up (which drove me nuts) but we got back together a few days later. I guess I got lucky, my high school sweetheart turned out to be perhaps one of the few tolerable girls out there. :D

Honestly depends. Some people mean a lot more to me than others, thankfully I've never been through anything absolutely heart-wrenching. I've pretty much decided I'm better off single though I still give relationships a shot. Helps me get over the fact that I wasn't good enough for someone when they broke up with me by reinforcing the fact that relationships weren't meant for me anyway. Maybe its just a bull**** thing I do to keep myself from getting too hurt, but it works.

None of the options really suited me.

If I'm the dumpee then obviously I'll take it hard since chances are I still wanted to be with her since I do my best to avoid leading people on. However, if I'm the one doing the dumping then its all good. 8)

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I chose "Give me the booze" even though i don't drink.

seriously i am virtually destroyed after a break up most times.

There was one time i broke it up but it wasn't because i didn't care, it was because she didn't want to give into the relationship anything, and i was basically doing all the giving. Plus it was the whole 'i like you, gimme attention' one day and 'hmm.. don't bother me' the next day.

So when i broke that off i didn't feel so bad. The very day i did that i bought myself a Nintendo DS Lite and a few games.

but seriously, most times i am destroyed, rather then booze it's junk food. like lots of it. oh man... :(