How far is too far?

No I do trust her. I honestly don't think shes cheating on me. It's just I feel that there has to be a line drawn somewhere. Also I'm pretty sure he wants her so that kind of makes me uncomfortablejonesy250f_101

Hvae you tried talking to the guy about it?

I dont know why it makes me uncomfortable but it does. Just the thought of another guy hitting on my girlfriend, knowing she has a boyfriend pisses me off i guess.jonesy250f_101

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]No I do trust her. I honestly don't think shes cheating on me. It's just I feel that there has to be a line drawn somewhere. Also I'm pretty sure he wants her so that kind of makes me uncomfortableserbsta69

Hvae you tried talking to the guy about it?

No I havent. But I guess it's just the way he talks to her. And what would I say "Do you want to eff my girlfriend?"

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]I dont know why it makes me uncomfortable but it does. Just the thought of another guy hitting on my girlfriend, knowing she has a boyfriend pisses me off i guess.Zaeryn

Well the problem there is if I tell him to stop I'm automaticly going to look like the bad guy.

Your girlfriend has a friend who is a guy. If you really trust her, you have no reason to be mad. Why do you assume that all friendships between people of opposite genders instantly have romantic implications? You obviously don't trust her. If you did, this would be no different than if she was at a female friend's house.SmashBrosLegend

I'm assuming he trusts his girlfriend, but doesn't trust the guy she's hanging out with, and is afraid that he may go too far and doesn't know how his girlfriend will react. That's just an assumption though. correct me if I'm wrong jonesy.

Anyway, I do think that is a little wierd, and as long as you don't get too mad (cuz that is a little screwed up I mean..coffee, and then braveheart with his family? wtf? Anyway, she could have just lost track of time and it could have slipped her mind.)

Anyway, a suspicious mind is a healthy mind, and a paranoid mind is an unhealthy one, you have the right to be suspicious, and so does she when you hang out with girls, but I don't think she's hiding a damned thing, so I voted 'no, you haven't gone too far', as long as you keep your cool and see what she has to say. I'd like to see what her explanation is, but if it sounds like total BS, then somethings obviously wrong lol.

[QUOTE="SmashBrosLegend"]Your girlfriend has a friend who is a guy. If you really trust her, you have no reason to be mad. Why do you assume that all friendships between people of opposite genders instantly have romantic implications? You obviously don't trust her. If you did, this would be no different than if she was at a female friend's house.ElArab

I'm assuming he trusts his girlfriend, but doesn't trust the guy she's hanging out with, and is afraid that he may go too far and doesn't know how his girlfriend will react. That's just an assumption though. correct me if I'm wrong jonesy.

Anyway, I do think that is a little wierd, and as long as you don't get too mad (cuz that is a little screwed up I mean..coffee, and then braveheart with his family? wtf? Anyway, she could have just lost track of time and it could have slipped her mind.)

Anyway, a suspicious mind is a healthy mind, and a paranoid mind is an unhealthy one, you have the right to be suspicious, and so does she when you hang out with girls, but I don't think she's hiding a damned thing, so I voted 'no, you haven't gone too far', as long as you keep your cool and see what she has to say. I'd like to see what her explanation is, but if it sounds like total BS, then somethings obviously wrong lol.

You totally nailed my feelings on the head man. And I'm not too mad but it still pisses me off how this all went down. Shes going to coffee with a friend. Ok it kind of bugs me but i'm not gonna make a big seal out of it. But then two hours later I find out shes at his house watching a movie? It pissed me off and I just wanna know why she went to his house and watched a movie. Thats beyond the reasoning of why they met up.

There's just something about this guy that I don't like. I know he's one of those guys that thinks he can land with any girl he wants and i'm not bragging but imo my girlfriend is a beautiful girl. Great body, Blond hair, blue eyes, and D's lol. But seriously it's not her so much as it is the guy. She has another guy friend that she was playing the stupid "I love you more" game with and it didn't bug me at all because I know he respects her and only wants to be her friend. But this guy just started talking to her alot in the past couple weeks.jonesy250f_101

God I know what you mean, you don't wanna get all 'alpha male' on them, but I swear, some people just need to **** OFF! With the story you told I could just tell this guy was one of those people, and sadly all we can do is wait for what your girlfriend says as to why it was such a random switch. It could have just been 'wanna watch a movie' or something completely different, we'll just have to wait and see.

You're jealous and you have every right to be. He's trying to pickup your lady and she plays along with it like an airhead as shedrags you along on the side. Sounds like she's just hanging on to you until she finds an upgrade. Sounds like she has already thrown you in the trunk and she's getting ready to bring home a new tire.

That's what it seems like without knowing anything about her. If she wants to go let her go. But this guy you speak of deserves an ass kicking because he's raining on your parade.

This happens. If you allow yourself to be used people will use you. Maybe she's not serious and you're just a sucker.

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]There's just something about this guy that I don't like. I know he's one of those guys that thinks he can land with any girl he wants and i'm not bragging but imo my girlfriend is a beautiful girl. Great body, Blond hair, blue eyes, and D's lol. But seriously it's not her so much as it is the guy. She has another guy friend that she was playing the stupid "I love you more" game with and it didn't bug me at all because I know he respects her and only wants to be her friend. But this guy just started talking to her alot in the past couple weeks.ElArab

God I know what you mean, you don't wanna get all 'alpha male' on them, but I swear, some people just need to **** OFF! With the story you told I could just tell this guy was one of those people, and sadly all we can do is wait for what your girlfriend says as to why it was such a random switch. It could have just been 'wanna watch a movie' or something completely different, we'll just have to wait and see.

Exactlty! You are reading my mind!

You're jealous and you have every right to be. He's trying to pickup your lady and she plays along with it like an airhead as shedrags you along on the side. Sounds like she's just hanging on to you until she finds an upgrade. Sounds like she has already thrown you in the trunk and she's getting ready to bring home a new tire.

That's what it seems like without knowing anything about her. If she wants to go let her go. But this guy you speak of deserves an ass kicking because he's raining on your parade.

This happens. If you allow yourself to be used people will use you. Maybe she's not serious and you're just a sucker.

MagnumPI

I'm not trying to sound like im in denial or trying to defend my ego but I honestly don't think thats it.

You're jealous and you have every right to be. He's trying to pickup your lady and she plays along with it like an airhead as shedrags you along on the side. Sounds like she's just hanging on to you until she finds an upgrade. Sounds like she has already thrown you in the trunk and she's getting ready to bring home a new tire.

That's what it seems like without knowing anything about her. If she wants to go let her go. But this guy you speak of deserves an ass kicking because he's raining on your parade.

This happens. If you allow yourself to be used people will use you. Maybe she's not serious and you're just a sucker.

MagnumPI

It also sounds like she's a person who doesn't like to just 'dissapoint', I don't know her myself of course, but I've dealt with douchebags that you just don't have the heart to say 'ok, you're a douchebag and I don't like you..can you go away please?"

So maybe she's either...like you said...bringing home a new tire...or she's just kind of like 'w/e, I'll just hang out with him and see if get's the hint.'

Lol, this is why 'waiting to see what happens' really sucks. You get all sorts of things in your head, yet you just don't have enough evidence!

So if you've seen Braveheart, how long does the torture scene last?

So if you've seen Braveheart, how long does the torture scene last?

jonesy250f_101

I believe that's near the end.

Just tell the guy to talk to some of his other friends more. I'm sure he has more than one woman he knows whom could give him advice on the ladyfolk. :P

Just try to be cool about it. Know what I mean? Just explain it's weirding you out a bit. At least that's what I would probably do.

Hope that helps

This makes you long for the good old days. Back then you would just have a private talk with a fella and warn him to back off and if he didn't you would break his legs.

This makes you long for the good old days. Back then you would just have a private talk with a fella and warn him to back off and if he didn't you would break his legs.

MagnumPI

Lol, it's pretty much still like that if you can manage to keep your cool, basically if it were me, this is how it would go.

"Hey man, I don't wanna sound like a dick or anything, but you aren't exactly acting like a 'friend' around my gf, so if you're thinking any nasty thoughts, keep them in your head, and find someone else, or I'll have to break your legs...which I always have fun doing :D"

Well Bravehearts over and now they're just hanging out. God i want to effing snap on this guy!jonesy250f_101

Hire a skanky prostitute to barge into his house with a camera and insist they must make another porno movie now because she really needs the money.

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]Well Bravehearts over and now they're just hanging out. God i want to effing snap on this guy!MagnumPI

Hire a skanky prostitute to barge into his house with a camera and insist they must make another porno movie now because she really needs the money.

lol Unfourtanately i'm about an hour away right now.

[QUOTE="MagnumPI"]

This makes you long for the good old days. Back then you would just have a private talk with a fella and warn him to back off and if he didn't you would break his legs.

ElArab

Lol, it's pretty much still like that if you can manage to keep your cool, basically if it were me, this is how it would go.

"Hey man, I don't wanna sound like a dick or anything, but you aren't exactly acting like a 'friend' around my gf, so if you're thinking any nasty thoughts, keep them in your head, and find someone else, or I'll have to break your legs...which I always have fun doing :D"

That only works if he's a sissy and gullible enough to believe emptythreats.

Its obvious he's using his breakup with his old girlfriend to get close to yours, and she's too kind to see through it. Either that, or you're getting totally played. Talk to the guy, and talk to her as well. Extensively.Fortier

See thats what I was thinking too. He wants her to feel safe because he's so concerned about this other girl how could he even think about her?! Oh god. So dumb that most girls can't see through this stuff.

[QUOTE="Fortier"]Its obvious he's using his breakup with his old girlfriend to get close to yours, and she's too kind to see through it. Either that, or you're getting totally played. Talk to the guy, and talk to her as well. Extensively.jonesy250f_101

See thats what I was thinking too. He wants her to feel safe because he's so concerned about this other girl how could he even think about her?! Oh god. So dumb that most girls can't see through this stuff.

I know what you mean...I don't know how anybody could fail to see through people like that. It makes me feel sorry for people when they can't tell who's fake and who's real. I'm very grateful I have a keen sense for things like that...

See the thing is, if I say that to her she'll automaticly think I don't trust her and get pissed. jonesy250f_101

See the thing is, if I say that to her she'll automaticly think I don't trust her and get pissed. jonesy250f_101

How long have you been going out?

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]
See the thing is, if I say that to her she'll automaticly think I don't trust her and get pissed. Fortier

How long have you been going out?

eh about 6 months

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]
See the thing is, if I say that to her she'll automaticly think I don't trust her and get pissed. MagnumPI

And I understand that.

[QUOTE="Fortier"]

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]
See the thing is, if I say that to her she'll automaticly think I don't trust her and get pissed. jonesy250f_101

How long have you been going out?

eh about 6 months

Oh, I see...well, I still think the thing to do would be to bring it up with her. Just make sure you clarify it's him you distrust and not her. She might get pissed, but it'll do less damage than you constantly being worried about it would.

[QUOTE="Fortier"]

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]
See the thing is, if I say that to her she'll automaticly think I don't trust her and get pissed. jonesy250f_101

How long have you been going out?

eh about 6 months

6 Months isn't very long. Have you defined your relationship? If you haven't it's time to do so.

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"][QUOTE="Fortier"]

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]
See the thing is, if I say that to her she'll automaticly think I don't trust her and get pissed. MagnumPI

How long have you been going out?

eh about 6 months

6 Months isn't very long. Have you defined your relationship? If you haven't it's time to do so.

What does "defining your relationship" mean?

Well heres some cool info. Its time for me to go to sleep and theres still no phone call. Awesome.:roll:jonesy250f_101

Why not text her then? That's easier than a call.

I was waiting for her to call me like she said she would at...*looks at old text* 7:52 Pacific time.jonesy250f_101

If you're anything like me, you won't be able to sleep anyways, cause you're worried about what she might be doing.

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]I was waiting for her to call me like she said she would at...*looks at old text* 7:52 Pacific time.Fortier

If you're anything like me, you won't be able to sleep anyways, cause you're worried about what she might be doing.

No I trust her, I'm worried about what he's trying to do.

[QUOTE="Fortier"]

[QUOTE="jonesy250f_101"]I was waiting for her to call me like she said she would at...*looks at old text* 7:52 Pacific time.jonesy250f_101

If you're anything like me, you won't be able to sleep anyways, cause you're worried about what she might be doing.

No I trust her, I'm worried about what he's trying to do.

You know what I meant! :P