This is probly one of the first OT threads where I actually wanna know what happens.
And I feel your pain TC. Those ****faces like that guy your talking about. My GF doesnt understand that its not her that i dont trust, its that douche bag guy.
actually I am really interested to how this turns out. I understand your feelings man. Girls say we don't trust them but it is the people who they hang out that we don't trust. We try to work it out and it is automatically our fault. Its not cool but they have to learn that a guy could get advantage on them even if they refuse and we have a right to worry.
actually I am really interested to how this turns out. I understand your feelings man. Girls say we don't trust them but it is the people who they hang out that we don't trust. We try to work it out and it is automatically our fault. Its not cool but they have to learn that a guy could get advantage on them even if they refuse and we have a right to worry.
This one girl used to do that to me all the time. It's cool, I mean I have a lot of friends who are girls but I don't hang out with them alone or do anything that me or my guy friends would consider a date with them.
actually I am really interested to how this turns out. I understand your feelings man. Girls say we don't trust them but it is the people who they hang out that we don't trust. We try to work it out and it is automatically our fault. Its not cool but they have to learn that a guy could get advantage on them even if they refuse and we have a right to worry.
keep us updated man.
Untitled182
Agreed x100
Sucks even more when your girl is a girl even wants in bed.
i dont know one of my best friends (girl) is my best friends(guy) girlfriend, and we hang out all the time. i mean that is an extremely complicated story, but heres a summary, me and her went out three different times(three breakups), and then he decides to go out with her. he decides to keep it secre from me, and i find out. i still hang out with her cuz shes cool, and more like family now. he gets mad, he weighs like 115 soaking wet and decides to fight me. im not the most athletic guy but at 6'2" 180 pounds who starts football, people dont say stuff in school. i had him on the ground, i didnt hit him cuz hes my boy, but yea he took it too far, dont do that
Girls don't seem to understand (and I have no clue why) that when a guy takes a sudden interest in you and that guy KNOWS shes taken that they're only intention is to do the nasty or get some sort of sexual satisfaction.
Asking for advice on a forum on this matter already shows that you lack the self-confidence to take the necessary steps to remedy the situation. I could tell you *exactly* how to handle this situation, but it may not be how you'd naturally react, and you ultimately wouldn't be able to pull it off.
It's a Catch-22 - if you have to ask, you'll never know. I'm sorry it sucks.
Ok, my girlfriend is one of those girls that has mostly guy friends. I've come to terms with that but being her boyfriend I always feel a little weird when she goes to hang out with other guys (Not very often really). Well lately one of her friends has been having "Girlfriend problems". Now I wont go into it too far but apperently his girlfriend moved away and they're trying to keep the relationship alive but he's having feelings for other girls. Well of course he calls to my girlfriend for advice. She's been talking to him alot lately about this and i notice that he also texts her out of nowhere to talk about nothing really. I asked her about it becuase i felt weird and she assured me that she has no interest in him and that he's not even her type. She talks about how he wants to be a model and how thats just not attractive to her at all, so on, so on. Well turns out he asked her to meet up with him at a coffee shop so they can talk about his situation some more. Now I'm not going to lie, this bugged the hell out of me, but I trust her not to do anything. So a couple hours ago she met up with him. I texted her and asked what she was doing and she told me she was talking to him and that she would call me when she got home. I texted her again saying "You still at coffee?" because it had been a couple hours and heres the reply i get, "No, we're watching Braveheart with his family". Wow I didn't have anything to say after that because i was pissed and still am. My question is; Am I wrong being mad about this? I don't think shes cheating on me but i mean, don't you have to draw a line somewhere?jonesy250f_101
sorry but i just cant read the brick of wall.. well near the size of a brick of wall.
Okay OT, it doesn't look like we're going to be getting an answer anytime soon so it's up to us to make up an ending for this story. It must be written in the OP's point of view and can end anyway you want it to. Best one will receive a cookie. Ready, go.
trust should be the foundation of all relationships.makaveli2344
Depends. Some peoplesee trust as weakness,gullibility.
I'm not gonna read all of that again. So did he give the guy the bong yet? I mean did he hitthe guy over the head with a shovel yet?
In this scenario put the smack dab on his ass, but not in front of her. Have a private conversation away from her. Then if he still won't back off you beat his ass while she aint around. If you can't beat his ass he wins, because he is bigger. So there isn't anything you can do but hope it all blows over.
Hey mate, you know what you should do???? Just ignore her...! Don't text her anymore untilSHE does, don't be as sweet to her as previously (if you were) and I would suggest you to hang out with another girl or another guy!!! Just to get on her nerves. That's what I would do!!
[QUOTE="rlake"]Your poll is missing the "I don't care" option. Fortier
You obviously cared enough to click on the thread...
He didn't know what the thread was about. I'm sure if the thread actually stated what it's about he wouldn't have opened it. But even then one must open it to ask who cares?
[QUOTE="rlake"]Your poll is missing the "I don't care" option. MagnumPI
You obviously cared enough to click on the thread...
He didn't know what the thread was about. I'm sure if the thread actually stated what it's about he wouldn't have opened it. But even then one must open it to ask who cares?
The thing about a healthy relationship is to trust. But make sure you tell her that once that trust is broken, even just once it's hard to get it back. If she doesn't have a huge reputation for doing bad stuff then trust her. If she does then make sure you find out every detail... You may feel kinda weird.. but that's normal.. It will pass with time and trust :)
I suggest the TC approach this guy and tell him how you feel and ask him just wtf he thinks he is doing. Yes you may come across as the overprotective type but atleast your girlfriend will know you care and appreciate her. But you must tell her and make it clear that you do trust her its just the other guy you dont trust if not she'll probably take it the wrong way.
By doing this your girlfriend may just realise how her recent behaviour has come across to you and she'll appreciate you more for it. Some women do like men more if they can stand up for themselves and show a little "Alpha Male" qualities.
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