Ask her out.
@Allicrombie: Alli I would really love your opinion. Am I reading way too much into this girl while she's actually innocent, and what should I do?
To me it seems like her way of flirting, not being sexually provocative. The best way to get rid of her would be to ignore or simply tell her to stop.
@MrsSolidSnake: when I ignore her she comes back to annoy me more. I can't tell if shes flirting or not, she doesnt laugh when i make jokes and makes fun of me for being cynical. I actually tried to flirt with her bluntly before, in an attempt to drive her away and it worked. She would become really embarrassed and turn red and flushed and leave. I stopped doing that before and now she's back bullying me. Ugh, I've never been bullied before by guys in my life, only to be bullied by a girl in uni. Fml.
Any normal guy would've banged this chick a dozen times by now. Either tell her you're gay and that she smells funny, or invite her over for some finger-banging. Doing neither of these things is wasting everyone's time.
@GazaAli: medicine is tough, and it breaks both males and females. Females have their own way of releasing stress. Estrogen levels are highly elevated in both genders here, and most students are nafsiyat.
I remember how we sucked it up back in the crushing days of engineering school like men, though I understand how foreign that sounds today.
So UAE Unis are this badly mixed? It's like there's a girl thread every couple a months.
I'm from IMISU roooofl. We went to the International Scientific Conference in Al Ain a while back and won a couple a spots. Everyone there was super friendly and cool.WTF kinda school you go to bruh? Too whacky to be GCC-style uni.
@fize4ever: private university. Medicine is always mixed regardless and we're taught like western universities in all aspects.
@KHAndAnime: I've asked her to marry me and have my children, she said no.
She doesn't want that shit. What you should be asking is if she wants to meet you in the bathroom in 10 minutes
She either has ADD (or that other thing you mentioned, HPD?), or penis fever...I mean, is interested in you.
Either one, you can: A.) tolerate it, if she is an otherwise good person; B.) tell her to piss off, if she is not a good person; or C.) respond to her flirtations in kind and maybe get some nookie.
How old are you? 18 or less? Or is this an actual adult situation? Higher learning places also tend to have counseling, maybe go seek out a counselor/therapist you school provides and see what they say.
*nevermind saw you are college/university
@mrbojangles25: I went with C, but she always bails whenever we're having a nice conversation, or she ruins it by starting to tease me way overboard. I think whe doesn't know what she wants but she loves toying with me, and I'm the one who's suffering from her actions.
@mrbojangles25: I went with C, but she always bails whenever we're having a nice conversation, or she ruins it by starting to tease me way overboard. I think whe doesn't know what she wants but she loves toying with me, and I'm the one who's suffering from her actions.
Is she a good person (in your opinion)?
If not, it might be best to wait for an opportunity where she really annoys you and kind of flip out on her. Maybe she will get the idea then.
Other than that, I don't know what to say. You must go to a small university if you have that much contact with one person. The opposite was a nice situation when I went to school; someone annoys you (or, in my case, you make an ass of yourself :P), you only need to deal with it for 10 weeks then they're all but out of your life (we were on the quarter system, not semester...nice and fast).
@TehFuneral: Have you thought about a restraining order? If she really is harassing you and you've told her to knock it off, but she isn't taking the hint, then a restraining order is one option. Of course, part of you might enjoy the flirting and obvious sexual tension involved, which wouldn't be uncommon.
@fize4ever: private university. Medicine is always mixed regardless and we're taught like western universities in all aspects.
Almost all universities in GCC do that now, it's nothing special. Everybody uses a western based curriculum with integrated community oriented PBL, BEME, block scheduling, etc.
It just seems to me that you guys are badly coping with gender-mixing.. it's so unnecessary in my view, and like you see, it detracts from one's studies. Oh well, best of luck man! Try to focus on your studies, med is hard!
@TehFuneral: Have you thought about a restraining order? If she really is harassing you and you've told her to knock it off, but she isn't taking the hint, then a restraining order is one option. Of course, part of you might enjoy the flirting and obvious sexual tension involved, which wouldn't be uncommon.
you can get a restraining order for just that?
seems a bit excessive.
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