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#1 pete_merlin
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So my gf says that i dont show her enough affection and as a result feels like i dont like her which is very unttrue. But i do need to work on showing her how much she means to me. any tips?
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So my gf says that i dont show her enough affection and as a result feels like i dont like her which is very unttrue. But i do need to work on showing her how much she means to me. any tips?pete_merlin
Kisses and hugs! all the time!
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#3 LeePearce
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Just whip it out. She will know what you mean.
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#4 Ninja-Hippo
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Hugs, kisses, smiles. Not rocket science dude. :P
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#5 Ice-Hot_MoFo
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Follow her home when she doesnt know your there. Break into her house when she falls asleep and just stare at her while shes sleeping. Go to the bathroom with her. All of this stuff works 1/76 times. Trust me;)
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Follow her home when she doesnt know your there. Break into her house when she falls asleep and just stare at her while shes sleeping. Go to the bathroom with her. All of this stuff works 1/76 times. Trust me;)Ice-Hot_MoFo
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#7 horgen  Moderator
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How much time do you spend with her? What do you do when you're togheter with her? Maybe surprise every now and then.
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#8 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Call her on the phone... then actually talk to her for a minimum of 20 minutes. Girls love to talk on the phone. It's science.
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#9 OrianaDorta
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Let me guess... She's your first girlfriend.

Just give her hugs and kisses.

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Buy her a pet ostrich.
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#11 iKirbyKnockout
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hugs, kisses, cute little text messages and telling her you love her out of the blue...those might do the trick.
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#12 iKirbyKnockout
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Forgot to mention, of course you have to be in love with her, before telling her I love you out of the blue.
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Hugs, kisses, smiles. Not rocket science dude. :PNinja-Hippo

It's girl science, which is much, much harder than rocket science.

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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]Call her on the phone... then actually talk to her for a minimum of 20 minutes. Girls love to talk on the phone. It's science.

You mean she will talk to him for 20 minutes and he will say hello, how'you been today darling? and goodbye sweetie. :P
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[QUOTE="Ninja-Hippo"]Hugs, kisses, smiles. Not rocket science dude. :PVideo_Game_King

It's girl science, which is much, much harder than rocket science.

On second thought, impress her with rocket science! :o
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#16 Sajedene
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Let me guess... She's your first girlfrien

Just give her hugs and kisses.

OrianaDorta

Pfft... actually -- you're her first boyfriend, huh.

Affectionate guys are accused of smothering and being needy. And then you have you.

If anything... list down everything you know you do for her. Big and small... heck list down the smallest things you do for her (like brush her hair aside or fixing something for her/opening water bottles/etc) and write a poem about it or something. It's awesome as it will guilt her into being foolish enough to be needy and show her how awesome you are to begin with.

Kinda like this story: (Long read but good)

Losing romance

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady
nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.

Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would
have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him
before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a
relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a
little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite,
his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments
into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to
tell im my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

"Why?" he asked, shocked. "I am tired, there are no reasons for
everything in the world!" I answered.

He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a
lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can't
even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him?

And finally he asked me:" What can I do to change your mind?" Somebody
said it right, it's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I
have
started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : "Here is the question,
if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let's say, I
want flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure
that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?"

He said :" I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My hopes just
sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper
with is scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table
near the front door, that goes....

My dear,

"I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain
the reasons further.."

This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.

"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs,
and you cry in front of the screen, I have to saved my fingers so that I can
help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to
rush home to open the door for you.

You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to
save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches
every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your
tummy.

You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by
infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure
your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for
your yes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to
clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can
also told your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the
sunshine and the beautiful sand... and tell you the colour of flowers, just like
the olor of the glow on your young face...

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you
more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. "

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting...
and as I conntinue on reading...

"Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied,
please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite
bread and fresh milk...

I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching
tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread....

Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does,
and I have decided to leave the flower alone...

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[QUOTE="pete_merlin"]So my gf says that i dont show her enough affection and as a result feels like i dont like her which is very unttrue. But i do need to work on showing her how much she means to me. any tips?bsman00
Kisses and hugs! all the time!

Not all the time, you'll seem needy then.
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do cup a feel sometimes and talka bout military issues all the time.they love it
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[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Ninja-Hippo"]Hugs, kisses, smiles. Not rocket science dude. :PNinja-Hippo

It's girl science, which is much, much harder than rocket science.

On second thought, impress her with rocket science! :o

No, that won't work. She'll call it "too simple". As always, whip out your...

[spoiler] N64 controller and ask her if she wants to play some Goldeneye 007. Works surprisingly well. [/spoiler]

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Call her on the phone... then actually talk to her for a minimum of 20 minutes. Girls love to talk on the phone. It's science.Jandurin
YES! That is so true. Even if they had said they hate talking over the phone.

Hug her, kiss her on the cheeks, hand, forehead and do spontaneous stuff, don't plan on doing things, just do it... Like getting her flowers, small gifts, take her for a walk. If you've ever watched a movie you should know what to do.

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#21 Paladin_King
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an unexpected gift at an unexpected time usually works. flowers or whatever. Spending some more time with her where you're especially lively is also a no-brainer. That said, you need to carefully look at your behaviour when a girlfriend says this. How much time DO you spend with her, and how much do you talk to her? How much do you tell her you appreciate her? If you do an ok or decent amount of those things, be careful. It may be more an issue of her self-esteem or her being needy. I think guys too readily take their gf's word and immediately think they're not doing an adequate job, when the gf can be just as wrong as the bf. Not saying that this is the case, but it's happened to me and my ex ended up having some real issues. Always take a long hard look at yourself first before leaping to change your character or what you've been doing.
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It's girl science, which is much, much harder than rocket science.

Video_Game_King
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#23 battlefront23
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I know for a fact that when I get a gf she won't complain about that. (no perverted hidden meanings)
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#24 69ANT69
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Buy her something nice and take her out somewhere fancy. And then just kiss and hug her, and tell her how beautiful she is.
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#25 markop2003
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[QUOTE="harashawn"] Buy her a pet ostrich.

That never works, they always get jealous of the ostrich
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#26 harashawn
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[QUOTE="markop2003"][QUOTE="harashawn"] Buy her a pet ostrich.

That never works, they always get jealous of the ostrich

What about an emu?
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#27 markop2003
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[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="markop2003"][QUOTE="harashawn"] Buy her a pet ostrich.

That never works, they always get jealous of the ostrich

What about an emu?

Emus are notorious for getting jelous themselves, they'ld murder the ostritch then your girlfrind so they could have you all to it's self.
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#28 harashawn
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[QUOTE="markop2003"] Emus are notorious for getting jelous themselves, they'ld murder the ostritch then your girlfrind so they could have you all to it's self.

What other giant flightless birds are there? :x
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#29 Chogyam
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get a new GF!

i kid, i kid.. Getting the most sappy chic flik and sitting through it with her works wonders. Plus, you get the sex when its over!

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do a barrel roll. She will know you love her after that.
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#31 markop2003
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[QUOTE="markop2003"] Emus are notorious for getting jelous themselves, they'ld murder the ostritch then your girlfrind so they could have you all to it's self.harashawn
What other giant flightless birds are there? :x

How about my new creation the Llamarow, it's a cross between a Llama and Sparrow.... obviously due to the size of the Sparrow wings and the weight of the Llama it's got no cchance of flying. Also it's never known to be jealous :)
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Touch her forhead.

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[QUOTE="Ninja-Hippo"]Hugs, kisses, smiles. Not rocket science dude. :PVideo_Game_King

It's girl science, which is much, much harder than rocket science.

Never had a girlfriend eh?
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If she really liked you she wouldn't complain.

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So my gf says that i dont show her enough affection and as a result feels like i dont like her which is very unttrue. But i do need to work on showing her how much she means to me. any tips?pete_merlin
Show her you made a topic on gamespot
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How about my new creation the Llamarow, it's a cross between a Llama and Sparrow.... obviously due to the size of the Sparrow wings and the weight of the Llama it's got no cchance of flying. Also it's never known to be jealous :)markop2003
Sounds good.
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#37 Video_Game_King
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[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"]

[QUOTE="Ninja-Hippo"]Hugs, kisses, smiles. Not rocket science dude. :PZeuxo

It's girl science, which is much, much harder than rocket science.

Never had a girlfriend eh?

I'm posting on GameSpot. What the hell do you think is the answer?

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[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="markop2003"] Emus are notorious for getting jelous themselves, they'ld murder the ostritch then your girlfrind so they could have you all to it's self.markop2003
What other giant flightless birds are there? :x

How about my new creation the Llamarow, it's a cross between a Llama and Sparrow.... obviously due to the size of the Sparrow wings and the weight of the Llama it's got no cchance of flying. Also it's never known to be jealous :)

My invention's better.

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Hugs, kisses, smiles. Not rocket science dude. :PNinja-Hippo
yes, and tell her nice things
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#40 foxhound_fox
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Be touchy-feely. Hold hands, put your arm around her, kiss her hand, link arms, cuddle... there are all kinds of ways to show someone affection, be yourself and be creative, this isn't something that you should force yourself to do just because she asks you, you should be comfortable doing on your own when it feels natural.
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Punch her in the nose.

Works like a charm.

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Cockslap.
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Make her dinner.
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Cockslap.NecroKvltMuffin
:lol: this.
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]Call her on the phone... then actually talk to her for a minimum of 20 minutes. Girls love to talk on the phone. It's science.CrazyKilljoy117

YES! That is so true. Even if they had said they hate talking over the phone.

This.

Even if a girl tells you they hate talking on the phone, they still want you to call them. Hell, I have female friends who tell me they hate talking on the phone and yet I get in trouble with them when I don't call them often...and I'm not even dating them. -.-

Anyway, just call her and do the obvious...hugs, kisses, hold her hands, cuddle, speak affectionately to her...feel out what she responds well to and be creative. However, you can't just do it...you have to really mean it, trust me...she will know if you are just doing it because she wants you to.

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Do stuff she wants to do, and pretend like it's fun (incase it's really boring).
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#47 Shad0ki11
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Well if it's with your girlfriend, it's usually a hug or a kiss.

If it's with any other girl a hug will suffice.

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Spend time doing what she wants to do, kiss her, etc.
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hard dick and bubble gum...
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hard dick and bubble gum...fat_rob
what the hell lo