How would you tell a girl that she's unattractive?

This is in terms that she likes you alot but lets say she's over weight and her face is unpleasing. However, she's a great person, good hearted, and a good friend. Thing is i am in this situation right now and it's hard for me to tell her. I have been putting it off not giving her an answer and such. What would you do? thanks for any ideas

I would only be her friend.

"I'm not interested. Sorry."_en1gma_

Something along the lines of "I'm glad to have you in my life as my friend, but my feelings for you don't go beyond that. I'm not interested in you in a romantic way, but I'd certainly like to be your friend".

"I'm not interested. Sorry."_en1gma_

Go with this

Never tell a girl she is ugly. Especially if she is good hearted. Just tell her "Look you are a beautiful woman inside and out, but I am not ready for any relationships yet, or I am not interested" Just be friends.GrandJury

Circle no and give it back.

By telling her that I'm not interested in you like that and be on my way

"I'm not interested. Sorry."_en1gma_

You dont have to tell her she is unattractive. You just have to tell her you're not interested in getting together. Also, tell her all the good things you told us about her persona and that you wish you could still be friends. No good hearted woman will resent a careful and respectful breaking up/rejecting etc.

Just tell her that you don't see her in that manner. Luckily I never had to do that but good luck

either the pull the 'your not my type, but you're a great friend' or the 'i'm not interested card'

if you've not got the guts for either of those, ignore it and act like you're not interested, just don't flirt back.

Dont. Just dont.

Chances are they know it already, so just say "Not interested"

Its one thing to know it yourself, and quite different to have another acknowledge it.

Don't burn that bridge! One day you'll both be drunk beyond comprehension, and what she looks like won't matter anymore.

Don't burn that bridge! One day you'll both be drunk beyond comprehension, and what she looks like won't matter anymore.

RearNakedChoke

Throw a mirror at her face, say "fix yourself up, ****", then walk away.

"I'm not interested. Sorry."_en1gma_

"No thanks, you're a great friend, lets leave it at that"

"I'm not interested. Sorry."_en1gma_

[QUOTE="_en1gma_"]"I'm not interested. Sorry."t3hrubikscube

Just tell her you're not interested there is no reason to be a dick.

well, just back off.

"I'm not interested. Sorry."_en1gma_

nah tell her u not interesting in a relationship!!

This is in terms that she likes you alot but lets say she's over weight and her face is unpleasing. However, she's a great person, good hearted, and a good friend. Thing is i am in this situation right now and it's hard for me to tell her. I have been putting it off not giving her an answer and such. What would you do? thanks for any ideas

LegitGamer3212

Use the good oll' "It's not about you, It's about me".

just say I DONT CARE! :P

I'd tell her I only like her as a friend.

I like you as a friend, I think of you as a sister.AcronymnsFTW

yeah.. i agree with most of the posts here. just tell her you're not into her.

[QUOTE="AcronymnsFTW"]I like you as a friend, I think of you as a sister.Wolls

[QUOTE="Wolls"][QUOTE="AcronymnsFTW"]I like you as a friend, I think of you as a sister.AcronymnsFTW