Hypothetically if you had a son and you found out he was gay what would you do?

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#52 deactivated-6243ee9902175
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Pat him on the back and tell him good job on coming to terms with who he is. I don't ever want to have children (I have an extreme hatred of smaller children...), but if I did have a son he wouldn't be pushed one way or the other on that kind of thing because its something that can't be helped and is just a facet of their personality.

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#53 ShadowJax04
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Nothing. Maybe be relieved that my son trusts me enough to confide in me, depending on the situation.
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#54 XilePrincess
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Nothing? He's my son. He likes d*cks. So what? I'm not going to be obsessed about my straight son's enjoyment of vaginas, so why should I care the other way? If he wants kids that are his own I'm sure he'll find a way to have them, or he'll adopt some kids who need a home full of love and care. Win-win either way.
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#55 layton2012
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Would you be just as upset if your son/daughter were infertile, either way you'd be left without biological grandchildren. I don't see the difference except your son would be gay, and if they want kids they'll find a way to have them, possibly biologically or adoption. What do you have against adoption.
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#56 Praisedasun
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Make him straight.

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#57 DJ-Lafleur
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I'd be a bit shocked at first for a little while, but I would accept him/her still and support him/her as I would anyways.

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#58 lostrib
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[QUOTE="frannkzappa"]

[QUOTE="Indicud"] I wouldn't have biological grandchildren and that would effect me deeply. Problem?Indicud

yes you could.

Only possible through an unlikely method which involves my son getting a stranger pregnant? Where is the love. Wouldn't the child want to know his/her real mother?

Unlikely? It's called a surrogate.  Idk if the child would want to know it's mother, that's not the point. If your son were gay he could have children that share your crappy, homophobic genes

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#59 FelipeInside
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[QUOTE="Indicud"][QUOTE="frannkzappa"]

yes you could.

lostrib

Only possible through an unlikely method which involves my son getting a stranger pregnant? Where is the love. Wouldn't the child want to know his/her real mother?

Unlikely? It's called a surrogate.  Idk if the child would want to know it's mother, that's not the point. If your son were gay he could have children that share your crappy, homophobic genes

I've always wondered about the term "homophobic" "phobic" normally comes from the term "phobia" which usually means afraid of something. If someone doesn't agree with homosexuality, doesn't mean they are afraid of gay people necessarily.
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#60 lostrib
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[QUOTE="lostrib"]

[QUOTE="Indicud"] Only possible through an unlikely method which involves my son getting a stranger pregnant? Where is the love. Wouldn't the child want to know his/her real mother? FelipeInside

Unlikely? It's called a surrogate.  Idk if the child would want to know it's mother, that's not the point. If your son were gay he could have children that share your crappy, homophobic genes

I've always wondered about the term "homophobic" "phobic" normally comes from the term "phobia" which usually means afraid of something. If someone doesn't agree with homosexuality, doesn't mean they are afraid of gay people necessarily.

you're thinking of phobia in the psychological fear sense. It can also mean dislike/aversion/repulsion from something (ex hydrophobic).

But here's a whole wikipedia article: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homophobia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/-phobia

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#61 heeweesRus
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I would introduce him to the Xbox One
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#62 mrbojangles25
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I would personally cry knowing I would never have true grandchildren.

Indicud

I am sure that is what my aunt and uncle thought when he adopted his son...

or what my sister's mother- and father-in-law thought when they adopted their son...

jesus christ man get a grip.  Blood doesn't mean anything, it's family that counts.

And if it really bugs you that much, they can always get a surrogate or whatever you call those rent-a-womb ladies.

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#63 lonewolf604
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I wouldn't care, as long as he doesn't date a black guy. I wouldn't want to go through the trouble of making my house wheel chair accessible.
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#64 TheFlush
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I would throw him out of the house and completely disown him.

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For something you created?

If it's genetic: you and the mother were the gene pool.
If it's surrounding: you and the mother are mostly his surrounding. 

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#65 Teenaged
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Is he over 18 years old when I find out?

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#66 II_Seraphim_II
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go on with my life like normal...
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#67 SolidSnake35
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Slap his butt and say, go get 'em.
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#69 applesxc47
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I would say 'I don't give a shit as long as you don't bone anyone in front of me.'

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#71 applesxc47
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Is he over 18 years old when I find out?

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What difference does it make?

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#72 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

Is he over 18 years old when I find out?

applesxc47

What difference does it make?

It was a moderately bad incest joke.

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#73 deactivated-5a9b3f32ef4e9
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Nothing.

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#74 worlock77
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Nothing. My son's sexual proclivities would be of no more concern to me than mine would be to him.

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#76 themajormayor
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Is he over 18 years old when I find out?

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#77 themajormayor
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[QUOTE="themajormayor"]Why would anyone do anything? thegerg
Because that's what people do, things.

But why?
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#78 lostrib
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[QUOTE="Bubble_Man"]

I would throw him out of the house and completely disown him.

TheFlush

For something you created?

If it's genetic: you and the mother were the gene pool.
If it's surrounding: you and the mother are mostly his surrounding. 

lol, good point

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#79 JasonDarksavior
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Nothing, I would love my son as much as I would if he were straight. .Ring_of_fire
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"Welcome aboard, lets go get some ice cream."
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#81 Michael0134567
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Nothing. I would love him anyway.

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#82 LazySloth718
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I will love my children no matter what.

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#83 chessmaster1989
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Is he over 18 years old when I find out?

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#84 MonoSilver
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I'd not mind one bit. I'd fully support him and teach him to ignore all the homophobes out there.

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#85 Cube_of_MooN
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Nothing, I would love my son as much as I would if he were straight. .Ring_of_fire
Pretty much this. I'm not going to say it would be a bit of a shock for a time, but in then end I'd have no issues with it.
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#86 deactivated-594be627b82ba
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I wouldn't care, as long as he doesn't date a black guy. I wouldn't want to go through the trouble of making my house wheel chair accessible. lonewolf604
lol Seriously I wouldn't give a damn
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#87 AbstractRadical
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I would support him.
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#88 applesxc47
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I wouldn't care, as long as he doesn't date a black guy. I wouldn't want to go through the trouble of making my house wheel chair accessible. lonewolf604

You win.

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#89 nooblet69
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I wouldn't like it but I'd accept his decision. What else can you do anyway ? Kick him out ? He would just hate you...

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#90 deactivated-5b78379493e12
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If my son turns out to be gay, my wife and I will accept him and love him just the same. 

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#91 immortality20
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I'd hug him and tell him I loved him and I'll always be there for him if he needs support. Are you really wanting people to say "I'd disown them"?

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#92 AmazonTreeBoa
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If my son (that i don't have) told me he was gay, I would disown him and smack him with a bible. :P Really I don't know what I would do. I really wouldn't be too happy.

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#93 hartsickdiscipl
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Send him to Hogwarts.  

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#94 drufeous
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I would love him as much as I would if he were not gay. 

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#95 hippiesanta
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I would personally cry knowing I would never have true grandchildren.

Indicud
that is why spermbank is needed, to secure ur legacy
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#96 chaoscougar1
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Not care and raise him like any other child
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#97 coolbeans90
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Umm, nothing, I guess. *shrugs*

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#98 chaoscougar1
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[QUOTE="AmazonTreeBoa"]If my son (that i don't have) told me he was gay, I would diown him and smack him with a bible. :P Really I don't know what I would do. I really wouldn't be too happy.

Don't have kids
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#99 gago-gago
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I'll probably try to get it fixed.  Get a shrink, doctor, minister, urologist, or something and get it fixed.

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Take him out back and tell him to think about bunny rabbits.