I can't get over the fact that I am ugly

You're most likely not ugly.  Very few people are "repulsive" in their appearance.  There's only a handful of people out there that are so good looking that others throw themselves at them.  Lots of other things can make you attractive.  And what people like in high school changes dramatically.  Usually, the big stars in high school are having the best years of their life.  Typically downhill from there for them.  Your best years may be ahead.

if you rly think you're ugly, you can at least fake being Not ugly.

put on a new hat, and change your clothes or something. get a new hairstyle or haircut.

start working out.

you can go from 'ugly' to 'ugly, but nobody rly notices it' type of ugly. 

Hakumen21

Women care about 3 thingsL

1. The amount of $$$$ you have

2. The size of your dick

3. How hard your body is

Get 1 out of those 3 and you are in the clear. Especially #1.

Women care about 3 thingsL

1. The amount of $$$$ you have

2. The size of your dick

3. How hard your body is

Get 1 out of those 3 and you are in the clear. Especially #1.

lo_Pine

Exercise , you'll be more confident when you see your body change.

lmao^^ awesome sig.

haha, fanboys...

this thread suppose to be Wis3boi thread .... lolhippiesanta

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See a psychologist.

one_plum

They can't do plastic surgery.

see a shrink

Like we need a 3rd thread on this same subject from you.  Looking for attention, are we?

do plastic surgeries help your condition? if so, save money and get some, if that's what makes you feel better i don't see anything wrong with it. i don't know why everyone except people to accept their appearance they way it is while there are ways to change it.i really don't.

You got 2 choices basically

1. Kill yourself

2. Gain confidence in yourself by other means than looks

Despite what society teaches us, women do go for more than just looks. Treat someone kindly and it'll go a long way.

I'm ugly and nobody cares.

When you think about it, there are a lot more ugly people than good looking people.

But they all manage to live.

maybe you just need to stop focusing on the good looking peole and start focusing on the ugly people.

I know this makes me sound like a bitch, but I do that a lot.

TC, I actually have acanthosis nigricans as well so I feel your pain but the only treatment I could advise you is to lose weight. That's how I have been fighting it. I don't know how bad it is on your skin but it could probably be pretty bad according to how much you weigh... have you ever went to a doctor to check to see if you have diabetes? That's my first advice to you is to get that fixed first before any other confidence tips. I don't know what ethnicity you are but I assume it looks worse on a white person. If you don't want to lose weight I guess.... invest in a lot of makeup?MistressMinako

I'm not overweight, according to the doctor it might be hereditary. But he did a could of tests to see if I have addisons disease and I will have the follow up with him on the 9th of June.

My color is that of a Mexican/Indian, tan, it looks very bad when you have an uneven skin tone and places with hyperpigmentation such as in my knees and elbows.

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[QUOTE="bnarmz"]

Change your attitude and your life will change. Forget what others deem as nice looking because that will only create dis-empowering thoughts (we are what we think we are). A shallow thinker can only find beauty on the surface because their mind isnt deep enough to recognize inner beauty and how that beauty translates and re-position itself from the inside to the outside.

Never let someone else tell you what to think is/should be/ can be, thats your choice. Regain your confidence, be happy to be you, the world is filled with followers and this may just be your blessing in disguise, your opportunity to find out who you really areunlike the pre-programmed people augmenting their god-giving bodies because of their blind low self esteem issues. Way too many people want to be like the ppl they see on the tel-lie-vision. Be you, and let that beauty shine thru, Im sure once your attitude changes your social life will not be far behind.

bnarmz

Thank you, its just that I have traits that puts me in a non adaptive siutation. I just don't want to be inferior to others.

"Inferiority" is only a state of mind, We only lack because we trick ourselves into placing limits on ourselves. Ex: people like to say "master your craft, get a masters degree, the student will be a master one day" but when I think of this term/word I can clearly see the trick. How can you ever be a master of something when you can always improve on something? Mastery is an illusion, a subtle trick that implements a limit. Explore your own individuality and have fun with it. Often when people disregard who they are and/or hate themselves their life starts falling part, they can't blame no one else other then the self...because they want to be someone else instead of who they are. What's considered cool will always be subjective, don't let that stress you out, people respect trendsetters and those that choose to be who they are. If they tease you, or try to make you uncomfortable its because they envy you and actually hate themselves, they need to beat down others in order to bring themselves up, but that's always backfires because it's not real.

You'll be fine, just raise your confidence and your ambitions will raise, soon after the universe will respond accordingly to your desires. You shouldn't even want to be in the company of those that think they are better than you anyway. That will only create more issues later in life. The world is vast and I'm positive that everyone in it will not look down on you. If anything, people are suppose to encourage others to be the best and we actually do this (one way or another) in the least use it to motivate you, it may take some time but life is an exercise anyway. Don't let the visions of others be your reality...

Thank you for such words, I truly appreciate it. I truly feel that something is suppressing me from being the person I am. I believe I can be confident and lively if I simply get this problem out of my way. I am trying to think positively but eveytime I stand in a mirrow with someone else, I feel the difference and get reminded. I do feel the difference, I wish I didn't, but when I do i feel inferior.

whats your height?

Hate_Squad

I'm very tall, which sucks. I'm 6'0. So that makes me one of those "Tall and ugly" people.

Mr. SoSadLife: Some people aren't meant to be loved or involved with significant others (of the opposite sex or not). Think of it this way: at least you don't have to deal with woman and they're complaints about how you don't do any chores around the apartment/house or have to deal with them telling you to wake up and get dressed. How do you think men who are constantly getting chased by women feel because of their riches or good looks? I'm sure that some of them hate it a lot.TruthTellers

I'm not feeling all down for some girl. I don't want to be stared and see people avoiding me because they think I am not from the same ethnic background as they are.

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whats your height?

SoSadLife

I'm very tall, which sucks. I'm 6'0. So that makes me one of those "Tall and ugly" people.

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whats your height?

VaguelyTagged

I'm very tall, which sucks. I'm 6'0. So that makes me one of those "Tall and ugly" people.

No, but average would've been fine i guess. I just don't want to stand out in a bad way.

Just find someone who's even uglier and befriend them.  You'll look better by comparison.

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whats your height?

SoSadLife

I'm very tall, which sucks. I'm 6'0. So that makes me one of those "Tall and ugly" people.

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whats your height?

Jandurin

I'm very tall, which sucks. I'm 6'0. So that makes me one of those "Tall and ugly" people.

OP you still havent posted your picture

I try, but I just can't convicne myself to be confident and kick ass while having appearance as mine. I'm gonna go ahead and classify myself as a little below average looking, not deformed or anything, but I have a skin condition called acanthosis nigricans. I've seen good looking people around me be flirted and hit on by girls .. I never had such a thing happen to me.

This inferiority complex is killing me, I wanna get over it and go and acheive something instead of lamenting over my loss.. maybe a hot personality or something but thoughts about my appearance is not letting me do anything except get angry.

I hate the fact that I cannot change my look, and I think I look terribly ugly both in mirrors and photos.

Goddamit I wanna do somehting about it but I can'!!!! I can't accept it either because I don't look like people around me and I'm always the least good looking in group photos, so unfair. I wanna be average.

Guys, I wanna know your thoughts about this.

Edit: I look like an having addison's diseaes, im bronze in color with hyperpigmented skin around joints and back lower body, its congenital but im the only one with a severe expression. I also have acne. sucks to be me.

SoSadLife