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#1 JJ_Productions
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I need help, my girlfriend is currently broken up with me, and i can't get over it, i think about her all day and nite, last nite i couldn't sleep but eventually fell asleep, when i woke up this morning it was the first thing i thought about, we usuall talk in the morning before school. I can't even enjoy my new 360 because while im playing, my mind would driff back to my girlfriend, i can't hang out wit my friends cause im always thinking to deep to the point of heavy meditation. Its been like this 3-4 days now, and im trying to move on, but i can't get rid of this feeling in my chest, like a space, a whole.

She doesn't even wanna talk to me so and even if i do talk to her, ill just get more upset. My day has just begun and im not tryin to go through another day of this

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#2 d51man
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Well, if she doesn't want to talk, then there's probably no chance of getting back together. It's normal to feel like this after breaking up with someone you really care about. You'll get over eventually (hopefully it won't take too long), and you'll find the right person sooner or later. Good luck. :)
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#3 XxSTILL_BORNxX
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Well i used to be like you but i got over her in about months [ the summer vacation really helped ] ....thats why i never and always advice people not to have relationships in schools , its all bullsh** and for bragging rights.
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#4 error11
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Pr0n. You need it.
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#5 astiop
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Time. We've all bin there/will be there. From experience the only thing that has helped is time.

Actualy there has bin one instance were I just got really pissed off at her and the feelings i had just flew out the window, but that was once.

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#6 JJ_Productions
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i no time is my only method of healing but it seems to go so slow when thats all i think about. I wish things didn't have to be like this,
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#7 XxSTILL_BORNxX
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Just stay with friends/cousins more , go out from time to time , play loads of video games [ with friends ] but please...dont go all emotional because it is not worth it ...the hell with her , its her lose ;) she maybe now going for another guy who is looking to drop by in panty town and not for love. [ who knows maybe if you just didn't talk to her and forget about her...she will eventually maybe start coming back to you. ]



EDIT : Trust me , sooner or later...she will realize what she lost. [ and if she didn't well..she is just a cold hearted bi*** like mine who just toyed with me. ]
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#8 manicfoot
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Sorry to hear that. I still think about my ex from 4 years ago on a daily basis so I know how it feels. All I can say is don't be shy about expressing yourself. If you want to punch a wall and cry in a manly way, go right ahead :P
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#9 JJ_Productions
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Sorry to hear that. I still think about my ex from 4 years ago on a daily basis so I know how it feels. All I can say is don't be shy about expressing yourself. If you want to punch a wall and cry in a manly way, go right ahead :Pmanicfoot

I feel your pain, believe me i do, but i don't want to mash up my grandmas house, yesurday i was so pissed i broke the cordless phone

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#10 JJ_Productions
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well thanks guys i feel a little better. `-
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#11 d51man
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[QUOTE="manicfoot"]Sorry to hear that. I still think about my ex from 4 years ago on a daily basis so I know how it feels. All I can say is don't be shy about expressing yourself. If you want to punch a wall and cry in a manly way, go right ahead :PJJ_Productions

I feel your pain, believe me i do, but i don't want to mash up my grandmas house, yesurday i was so pissed i broke the cordless phone

You sound like me, I break things when I get angry too (preferably plastic clothes hangers :P). Just try not to ruin anything important...

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#12 Hellfury360
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Pr0n. You need it.error11

man that worked for me when my gf cheated on me

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#13 DrSponge
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Welcome to Loss. Population: You.
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#14 GrindingAxe
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Don't kill her
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#15 PSP107
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walk it off, theres plenty more ryhmes with toes in the world

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#16 esbastica
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was she hot?
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#17 nintendo_ds_06
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was she hot?esbastica

somehow i don't think this will help a whole lot :|. anyway, as many people have said already just give it time and hang out with friends and relatives more, do things you enjoy more (other than being with her obviously) and you will soon get over it :)
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#18 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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How do you cry in a manly way?
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#19 Strider_91
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May sound hard but you gotta move on. Distance yourself from her for a while and stay close with friends because they'll be there for you.

But if you think she's the one for you.. but you gotta be sure.. then go for it.

Nothings out of reach

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#20 Sports_N_E_1
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I know exactly how you feel man. My ex fiancee dumped me 17 days after i proposed to her (and the funny thing is she said yes with no pause, and was estatic about it). So man, that was a real kick in the balls right there. What did i do? I went to a strip bar and i drank a whole lot. would i recommend that path? only if you like beer! lol jk, What i recommend in all seriousness though is stay active. hang out with friends, have sleepovers, have friends over to play games, participate in a sport, learn a hobby, just do stuff so you dont think about her. granted, it will happen every now and then but just try to avoid it. do things that will better yourself, and you will eventually meet someone else (usually better). the key word is perseverance. I feel your pain bro, if you want to talk about it more then PM me, and i got your back
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#21 Loporadaso
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Welcome to Loss. Population: You.DrSponge

:lol: Brilliant!

But yeah the only thing that'll help is time. Alot of time.

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How do you cry in a manly way?Jandurin
You punch things as you cry, all while trying very hard to hold back your crying.
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]How do you cry in a manly way?DeeJayInphinity
You punch things as you cry, all while trying very hard to hold back your crying.

I've seen it when people try to hold in, they look like half-dead fish! Punching things is manly, I'll give you that.
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#25 Big_Bad_Sad
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You need to find other things to occupy your mind

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#26 pete_merlin
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I need help, my girlfriend is currently broken up with me, and i can't get over it, i think about her all day and nite, last nite i couldn't sleep but eventually fell asleep, when i woke up this morning it was the first thing i thought about, we usuall talk in the morning before school. I can't even enjoy my new 360 because while im playing, my mind would driff back to my girlfriend, i can't hang out wit my friends cause im always thinking to deep to the point of heavy meditation. Its been like this 3-4 days now, and im trying to move on, but i can't get rid of this feeling in my chest, like a space, a whole.

She doesn't even wanna talk to me so and even if i do talk to her, ill just get more upset. My day has just begun and im not tryin to go through another day of this

JJ_Productions

i was amused when you said you couldnt sleep all night but then fell asleep lol just keep active

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#27 leejohnson7
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[QUOTE="JJ_Productions"]

[QUOTE="manicfoot"]Sorry to hear that. I still think about my ex from 4 years ago on a daily basis so I know how it feels. All I can say is don't be shy about expressing yourself. If you want to punch a wall and cry in a manly way, go right ahead :Pd51man

I feel your pain, believe me i do, but i don't want to mash up my grandmas house, yesurday i was so pissed i broke the cordless phone

You sound like me, I break things when I get angry too (preferably plastic clothes hangers :P). Just try not to ruin anything important...

And this is why meaningless one night relationships are the way to go.

Personally I get annoyed just playing video games, if I got into a relationship like that I would probably smash **** to bits all over the house.

Anyway, I am sure it's nothing two bottles of vodka can't solve.

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#28 Omni-Slash
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my advice?..strippers and clean prostitutes.........unless of course your ex was one of these then you're just looking at a whole host of new problems......if that is the case...go with a nice church going girl.......they're crazy in the sac anyway....
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#29 leejohnson7
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[QUOTE="esbastica"]was she hot?nintendo_ds_06

somehow i don't think this will help a whole lot :|. anyway, as many people have said already just give it time and hang out with friends and relatives more, do things you enjoy more (other than being with her obviously) and you will soon get over it :)

My dad is a spurs fan.... from Warrington.

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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]How do you cry in a manly way?DeeJayInphinity
You punch things as you cry, all while trying very hard to hold back your crying.

Or you can just cry normally.....

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#31 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"][QUOTE="Jandurin"]How do you cry in a manly way?Lonelynight

You punch things as you cry, all while trying very hard to hold back your crying.

Or you can just cry normally.....

I like to cry into my beer :o No, I'm kidding. I'm a man. I don't cry, I just punch my beer. That way, the alcohol goes straight into my bloodstream.
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#32 Lonelynight
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[QUOTE="Lonelynight"]

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"][QUOTE="Jandurin"]How do you cry in a manly way?Jandurin

You punch things as you cry, all while trying very hard to hold back your crying.

Or you can just cry normally.....

I like to cry into my beer :o No, I'm kidding. I'm a man. I don't cry, I just punch my beer. That way, the alcohol goes straight into my bloodstream.

Badass :shock:

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#33 DarkAlucard666
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I think you should start... Masturbating!

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#34 1mpaler-w6rbnd
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I can't stop thinking about her either!
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#35 69ANT69
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If you love her that much, go and talk to her, tell her how you feel.

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#36 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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If she doesn't want to talk, then give her some space for a while.

Things will get better with time. You just have to be patient and optimistic.

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#37 Matt-4542
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I know how youre feeling bro. Ive messed up with my girlfriend before and said some things I didnt mean and we broke up and I wasnt myself for several weeks. I couldnt eat, I couldnt sleep, I'd break down into tears over everything that reminded me of her. I had to put on fake smiles and say everythings fine so people would leave me alone.

Just dont give up on her bro. Ive loved my girlfriend for over a year and I didnt give up and we're back together again x) Hopefully everything works out for you as it did for me.

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#38 Matt-4542
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Time. We've all bin there/will be there. From experience the only thing that has helped is time.

Actualy there has bin one instance were I just got really pissed off at her and the feelings i had just flew out the window, but that was once.

astiop
She cheat on you? Thats what happened in my first relationship, all my feelings just stopped for her and I havent talked to her since then x)
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#39 Deihjan
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We girls are dumb, don't bother with us, go gay much easier.. /nod

nah, just kidding! Well, breakups are hard to get over, no matter how you both felt. Just give it time, try not to think about her, and if you do think of her..just let it out! Put on a sad movie, if you need to. Just get the feelings out..

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#40 serjitup
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ha i know how you feel man, iwas with a girl for 11 months i loved her, when we split oddly enough i couldnt do things like play videogamnes too like you cuz it would remind me of her, its been like pft idk about 2 years since and i still think about her and miss her somtimes, just give it time, the bad feeling will fade little by little.
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#41 batboy113
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At least you have had a girlfriend. Im struggling to even get one.
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#42 JJ_Productions
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I know how youre feeling bro. Ive messed up with my girlfriend before and said some things I didnt mean and we broke up and I wasnt myself for several weeks. I couldnt eat, I couldnt sleep, I'd break down into tears over everything that reminded me of her. I had to put on fake smiles and say everythings fine so people would leave me alone.

Just dont give up on her bro. Ive loved my girlfriend for over a year and I didnt give up and we're back together again x) Hopefully everything works out for you as it did for me.

Matt-4542

Im glad everything turned out good for you, and same thing with me, everything i see that reminds me of her just gives me a pain in my chest, feels like a broken heart :(, but don't worry, ill give her space, i just got a second job today so things should get a litter easier for me. btw, has ur relationship got stronger since you got back together?

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#43 blazinpuertoroc
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get over it...seriously.
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#44 Matt-4542
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[QUOTE="Matt-4542"]

I know how youre feeling bro. Ive messed up with my girlfriend before and said some things I didnt mean and we broke up and I wasnt myself for several weeks. I couldnt eat, I couldnt sleep, I'd break down into tears over everything that reminded me of her. I had to put on fake smiles and say everythings fine so people would leave me alone.

Just dont give up on her bro. Ive loved my girlfriend for over a year and I didnt give up and we're back together again x) Hopefully everything works out for you as it did for me.

JJ_Productions

Im glad everything turned out good for you, and same thing with me, everything i see that reminds me of her just gives me a pain in my chest, feels like a broken heart :(, but don't worry, ill give her space, i just got a second job today so things should get a litter easier for me. btw, has ur relationship got stronger since you got back together?

Yeah, me too x) We're working things through little by little. We've come clean with each other and told each other what annoys us so that really helped. Her biggest problem with me was that Im a huge smart ass and it annoys her so Im cutting that out x) I'd do anything for her x)

Give her some space but always keep her in your heart. Make attempts to talk to her and tell her that you'll be here waiting for her whenever she wants to talk. I hope everything works out for you bro x)

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#45 JJ_Productions
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Theres one thing i learned from this experience, and it is that you don't know how good something is until it is gone.
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#46 Matt-4542
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get over it...seriously. blazinpuertoroc
You always have to have someone come in and say something like that. I dont expect you to know what hes going through unless youve been there. Its too hard just to simply "get over it".
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#47 Matt-4542
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Theres one thing i learned from this experience, and it is that you don't know how good something is until it is gone. JJ_Productions
Yeah, I can definately agree with that.
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#48 UnamedThing
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"][QUOTE="Jandurin"]How do you cry in a manly way?Jandurin
You punch things as you cry, all while trying very hard to hold back your crying.

I've seen it when people try to hold in, they look like half-dead fish! Punching things is manly, I'll give you that.

Can I please have this quote for my sig?Please?Please?

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#49 blazinpuertoroc
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[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"]get over it...seriously. Matt-4542
You always have to have someone come in and say something like that. I dont expect you to know what hes going through unless youve been there. Its too hard just to simply "get over it".

Dont you even start with me, Ive been with the same girl for FOUR god damn years, and we broke up about less than two months ago. I was put through much more that kid has been....Only thing you can do is get over it. Nuff said, moping, crying or feeling bad for yourself aint going to change anything cause Ive been there.
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#50 hauntedtony
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why did she break up with you?