I caught my mom cheating...

I'm sorry, man. :(

Tell your dad yourself. He'll respect you. Show him the respect you have for him by presenting him with this...

Pics or it didn't happen.skinnypete91

Dammit stupid glitchspot. What i REALLY said:

"Pics or it didnt happen" just stop it ok? This kid wouldnt be here asking for advice if it didnt happen, if it didnt happen then hes a sick lonely child but i seriously doubt that.

Tell your Dad, seeing as your hate your mom anyway your dad wouldnt hesitate of kicking her to the curb - dont live a lie!

it appears I'm the only one to say this....talk to your mom, find out exactly what is happening. If she is indeed cheating give her a chance to tell your father that night, If she doesn't then you should, but make sure it is done sooner rather than later.Mercury88

Yea you should kick your mom out the house.Brainkiller05

out OF the house.

I'm sorry man.

You should tell your dad honestly, he obviously doesn't deserve what is happening to him. He should know.

First of all, i'm sorry man, and second Tell your Father. It happened to my Dad to, my mom cheated him with our next door neighbor, and she told them when they were divorcing. It broke his heart, he cried for two days straight, but you NEED to tell him, its better than your mom telling him. It will hurt, but ya gotta do it. My father didn't deserve it, he worked 12 hours a day, then came home and worked with us till bed, and he still does it. He necer stops working. Just tell him.Jak_28

you should be honest with your dad out of respect for him.Lorindol

So I came home really early today and I found out what my mom does in the morning. I come home and I hear noises, and then my mom comes out the room fast saying hi to me all sweaty and then...our cable guy comes out too out of breath. He's not just our cable guy, we've known him and his family for 11 years, he just happens to know how to hook up cable for people.

Anyway, I felt disgusted and didn't want to even talk about what I just saw so I took the car and left to my friend's house. I'm still here right now. I have always hated my mom because she is just a lazy drunk. I love my dad because he is hard-working, kind and always a funny guy, he doesn't deserve that. He works 18 hours a day, you think he wants to come home to know this? I really don't know how to tell him to be honest. I wish I never saw because I don't want to be the one to tell him. It was the most awkward moment of my life.

Ilived

So I came home really early today and I found out what my mom does in the morning. I come home and I hear noises, and then my mom comes out the room fast saying hi to me all sweaty and then...our cable guy comes out too out of breath. He's not just our cable guy, we've known him and his family for 11 years, he just happens to know how to hook up cable for people.

Anyway, I felt disgusted and didn't want to even talk about what I just saw so I took the car and left to my friend's house. I'm still here right now. I have always hated my mom because she is just a lazy drunk. I love my dad because he is hard-working, kind and always a funny guy, he doesn't deserve that. He works 18 hours a day, you think he wants to come home to know this? I really don't know how to tell him to be honest. I wish I never saw because I don't want to be the one to tell him. It was the most awkward moment of my life.

Ilived

[QUOTE="Mercenary848"]Your mom is a idiot.EboyLOL

A idiot indeed. A idiot indeed.

that made me laugh :lol:

That sucks man,this AND anal fissures? Bad luck.Wetall_basic

Lol my doc gave me meds for that. Anyway, I called my dad and told him at work. He basically didn't take it seriously and wants to talk with my mom before anything happens. I for one am never going to that house again.

[QUOTE="Wetall_basic"]That sucks man,this AND anal fissures? Bad luck.Ilived

Lol my doc gave me meds for that. Anyway, I called my dad and told him at work. He basically didn't take it seriously and wants to talk with my mom before anything happens. I for one am never going to that house again.

I can't blame you, he either just dosen't believe or dosen't want to believe you.

Tell her she's off the team..

That's just out of order, I'm sorry to hear that mate =[

[QUOTE="Wetall_basic"]That sucks man,this AND anal fissures? Bad luck.Ilived

Lol my doc gave me meds for that. Anyway, I called my dad and told him at work. He basically didn't take it seriously and wants to talk with my mom before anything happens. I for one am never going to that house again.

So... how would you go about getting your things then? :?

well I truly feel sorry for you, good luck and I hope your parents don't divorce

I would make sure first that your mom is really cheating before you would tell your dad.RenegadePatriot

agreed.

Dusw i wish you were lying :( you must feel so bad man ;/ tell your dad, infront of your mother, and see what your mother has to say about it.

But i just dont get it, why there has to be always one bad, for example : drunk dad beats up good mom, bad mom cheats on good dad with other people... come on!! why cant there be one happy truthful caouple out there :(

[QUOTE="Ilived"]

[QUOTE="Wetall_basic"]That sucks man,this AND anal fissures? Bad luck.Ghelga

Lol my doc gave me meds for that. Anyway, I called my dad and told him at work. He basically didn't take it seriously and wants to talk with my mom before anything happens. I for one am never going to that house again.

So... how would you go about getting your things then? :?

My things are at my own place. The only reason why I go back to that house is because I have nothing in my apartment. No furniture, no TV, no cable, no computer. Just a bed. I'm new.

the cable guy? lol wut? :|

Anyways, tell your dad.

Did you at least get free HBO?

I keed i keed.

Tell your dad. Its the only right thing to do. He probably wont believe you so make it sound plausible and backed up with facts.

So I came home really early today and I found out what my mom does in the morning. I come home and I hear noises, and then my mom comes out the room fast saying hi to me all sweaty and then...our cable guy comes out too out of breath. He's not just our cable guy, we've known him and his family for 11 years, he just happens to know how to hook up cable for people.

Anyway, I felt disgusted and didn't want to even talk about what I just saw so I took the car and left to my friend's house. I'm still here right now. I have always hated my mom because she is just a lazy drunk. I love my dad because he is hard-working, kind and always a funny guy, he doesn't deserve that. He works 18 hours a day, you think he wants to come home to know this? I really don't know how to tell him to be honest. I wish I never saw because I don't want to be the one to tell him. It was the most awkward moment of my life.

Ilived

When I was 5 years old, I got to see my mom kiss and get a massage from the guy that she would end up leaving my dad for (and who would ultimately leave her for a younger woman). She thought I was too young to get it, but I remember about 6 months before my parents divorced (I was still 5) I had this dream where my dad came busting into our house with this guy giving my mom a massage on the living room floor and he chased the guy out, threatening to kick his @$$.

What's the point, I know what it's like yo, and it SUCKS, but at least you're old enough to do something about it.

Oh, and as far as what you should do, the only time I saw my dad cry ('cept when my little brother died) was about a year after the divorce when my dad came to pick me up from my mom's, but 'the other guy' was hiding. This pissed my dad off to no end, not because he was hut by the fact that she had cheated on him, but by the fact that he knew she cheated, he knew the guy she left him for, but niether had guts to just face him.

Oh, and I have been the 'other guy' though the couple wasn't married and it is screwed up. Tell your Dad, don't let your mom do this to him for the rest of their lives with him being oblivious. It is bad to get cheated on, but to be so completely betrayed that it happens again and again hurts far more than the pain of knowing and making a decision.

Maybe she wasn't cheating, she was probably helping with the cable.KHfanboy2