I feel like a loser :(

A couple years ago when I was entering my freshman year of high school, I transferred to an entirely different school. I left all of my old friends and haven't really spoken with any of them since. I've been at the new school for two years and I've made a few friends but most of them are more like acquaintances than great friends. I always feel lonely because everybody else goes out with groups of friends on weekends and I never get invited to anything. Even if I do go somewhere with a group, I feel like a tag-along because nobody really wants me there. :(

Also I think I'm kind of admitting this to myself more than you guys.

EDIT: to everyone telling me to join clubs, I'm already in cross country, track, and NHS. I just don't fit in.

Start inviting a friend or two that you might know well enough or would like to be good friends with to your own activities, and maybe they'll eventually start putting more thought in to you and invite you to their things. When you stick with your friends, you can meet their friends, and just keep meeting new people, and then you're good to go.

...Or you can just start over and try to make new friends, or be secluded from everyone else.

I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.SolidSnake35

That's actually exactly how I feel. I did get to dance with the girl I like at my school's Mardi Gras dance (biggest dance of the year at my school) but I'm too nervous to ask her out.

Investing in high school level friends is pointless. Chances are even if you dont move away you wont ever talk to them after school ends anyway.

Friends in general are pointless actually. With the advent of so many forms of solo entertainment there really isnt any need for personal interaction. Just find a chick who isnt repulsed by you and thats all you need.

I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.SolidSnake35

Story of my life... :(

Most people in my school outcast me. I have a few friends, they go out and do things together on the weekend, but they never tell me because they don't want me to come along, they actually hate me and just pity me. At least I have two friends in my neighborhood, who I'm always invited if they feel like going to the movies or something.

Investing in high school level friends is pointless. Chances are even if you dont move away you wont ever talk to them after school ends anyway.

Friends in general are pointless actually. With the advent of so many forms of solo entertainment there really isnt any need for personal interaction. Just find a chick who isnt repulsed by you and thats all you need.

Alter_Echo

Then she'll break up with you and you'll be alone.

Possessions can't make you happy.

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.MajorSport

That's actually exactly how I feel.

same with me. However, I'm a couple years older and am in college. Some other guy already said what I was gonna say. Just don't worry about it, because once high school is done, you'll never see anyone again. I haven't seen any of my high school friends and doubt I ever will.

Just wait til college and hopefully you can meet some new people

I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.SolidSnake35

Yeah, well, even with guy friends depending on how deep the relationship is, it is very easy to talk. I just had an hour long convo with a friend of mine giving me girl advice haha. So chin up, no need to be lonely you have gs :P

same here lol. :) :(Xeros606

You my man have the best sig ever!!!

[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]

Investing in high school level friends is pointless. Chances are even if you dont move away you wont ever talk to them after school ends anyway.

Friends in general are pointless actually. With the advent of so many forms of solo entertainment there really isnt any need for personal interaction. Just find a chick who isnt repulsed by you and thats all you need.

Witchking111111

Then she'll break up with you and you'll be alone.

Possessions can't make you happy.

My worldly possessions make me happier than a person ever has. Even my GF doesnt compare. Its just how im built. Even people i like are an annoyance when compared to just spending time with myself.

The only people i can stand being around for more than an hour are my MX buddies and thats only because you cant hear them talk over the sound of your engine.

And screw the girl if she leaves me. I dont care. I'll either find someone else or be alone. Alone is cheaper and less hassle anyway. And to boot you dont have to ACT like you care all the time in order to get sex.

Investing in high school level friends is pointless. Chances are even if you dont move away you wont ever talk to them after school ends anyway.

Friends in general are pointless actually. With the advent of so many forms of solo entertainment there really isnt any need for personal interaction. Just find a chick who isnt repulsed by you and thats all you need.

Alter_Echo

I don't fully agree, but yes investing in high school friends can be a waste. But my current gf is a high school friend we hooekd up after we went off to college. And I still hang out with a friend from high school whenever I go home. But the majority of them I haven't spoken too since.

[QUOTE="Xeros606"]same here lol. :) :(Greenwhitegreen

You my man have the best sig ever!!!

thanks and i think the best part of it was that he was referring to a thread i made lol!

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.Ravirr

Yeah, well, even with guy friends depending on how deep the relationship is, it is very easy to talk. I just had an hour long convo with a friend of mine giving me girl advice haha. So chin up, no need to be lonely you have gs :P

Alone is cheaper and less hassle anyway. And to boot you dont have to ACT like you care all the time in order to get sex.Alter_Echo

QFT. However, I'd at least want to have 1 gf and act like I care about something (for a little while at least).

That explains the high gamer score.

thanks and i think the best part of it was that he was referring to a thread i made lol!Xeros606

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.MajorSport

That's actually exactly how I feel. I did get to dance with the girl I like at my school's Mardi Gras dance (biggest dance of the year at my school) but I'm too nervous to ask her out.

You've already been to a dance with her, just ask her out already.

Jeez mate, just go for.

You wasted too much time to make a good impression at that school. So, go to a different school, and right away hit on all the girls and fight someone. You will gain instant popularity with the cool kids and you will also get the poonanny.

[QUOTE="MajorSport"]

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.hokies1313

That's actually exactly how I feel. I did get to dance with the girl I like at my school's Mardi Gras dance (biggest dance of the year at my school) but I'm too nervous to ask her out.

You've already been to a dance with her, just ask her out already.

Jeez mate, just go for.

[QUOTE="hokies1313"][QUOTE="MajorSport"]

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.Hom3_Pwn3r

That's actually exactly how I feel. I did get to dance with the girl I like at my school's Mardi Gras dance (biggest dance of the year at my school) but I'm too nervous to ask her out.

You've already been to a dance with her, just ask her out already.

Jeez mate, just go for.

This is your life, good to the last drop, doesn't get any better than this. This is your life, and it is ending one minute at a time.

[QUOTE="Hom3_Pwn3r"][QUOTE="hokies1313"][QUOTE="MajorSport"]

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.TheManOfChoice

That's actually exactly how I feel. I did get to dance with the girl I like at my school's Mardi Gras dance (biggest dance of the year at my school) but I'm too nervous to ask her out.

You've already been to a dance with her, just ask her out already.

Jeez mate, just go for.

This is your life, good to the last drop, doesn't get any better than this. This is your life, and it is ending one minute at a time.

[QUOTE="Hom3_Pwn3r"][QUOTE="hokies1313"][QUOTE="MajorSport"]

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.TheManOfChoice

That's actually exactly how I feel. I did get to dance with the girl I like at my school's Mardi Gras dance (biggest dance of the year at my school) but I'm too nervous to ask her out.

You've already been to a dance with her, just ask her out already.

Jeez mate, just go for.

This is your life, good to the last drop, doesn't get any better than this. This is your life, and it is ending one minute at a time.

...I have this weird urge to call you "Tyler" now...

If you like to be alone thats fine, but eventually your going to want to have someone there for you. Humans are social creatures.

Whats with all the bitterness towards relationships? A lot of broken hearts in the OT, hmmm?

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I kind of feel the same way. I have friends, but I'm not in a group, so I never go out much either. I tend to feel lonely because I just want someone to talk to all the time, but people don't want another limb. I figure a girlfriend is what I want... though knowing that doesn't help much.MajorSport

That's actually exactly how I feel. I did get to dance with the girl I like at my school's Mardi Gras dance (biggest dance of the year at my school) but I'm too nervous to ask her out.

Don't ask her out yet. Just ask her, 'Hey maybe we can go out for coffee later..'

Speak casually and don't corner her. Let her feel 'free'

And about making friends, well, I can't help on that issue. Social stuff are best done naturally. You'll get some soon.

High School will be over soon enough. After it ends, you won't see any of these people again. Hell, I spend most weekends alone, but I like it. Its peaceful.Cube_of_MooN

You know, I've got to agree. I'm in highschool, but I rarely go to my friends' houses or go out and see movies with them etc. I like to stay home and relax and just enjoy my solitude and play games and stuff. I actually think it's cuz I feel guilty afterwards that I'm not spending time with my family, but my guilt complex is a whole other story that I'm sure you guys don't wanna hear about :P Anyway, like Cube_of_MooN said, most (if not all) of the people that you are friends with in highschool right now you will never see again. So I wouldn't really worry about it too much.