normally Im pro choice, but seeing as how you acted irresponisbly Id make you live with your actions and keep the child. As for your question, Id say go to a clinic and set up an appointment with your girlfriend.
I am 18, she is 16. We plan on getting an abortion. So whats the drill?Jamiemydearx3
First of all, what state do you live in? If you live in California or any other state with an age of consent at age 18, you're might be trouble. If you live in Arizona or any other state with an age of consent at age 16, you're fine. After that, the drill is go find a place that performs abortions, make sure you help her pay for it, and make sure you offer to go with her, because chances are she'll be emotional and may not go through with it.
[QUOTE="harashawn"] How much value do you place on human life?Seriously, if you don't want the child, put it up for adoption. Luncbox1
Let's not make it one of these things... OK, everyone. To prevent this from becoming a heated, flame thread, he and his girlfriend have ALREADY decided on an abortion, leave it at that. If you have a problem with abortion, please don't post here. If God really is against abortion then they'll get their justice when facing Him. Until then, let the rest of us try to help him.
[QUOTE="Luncbox1"][QUOTE="harashawn"] How much value do you place on human life?Seriously, if you don't want the child, put it up for adoption. remmbermytitans
Let's not make it one of these things... OK, everyone. To prevent this from becoming a heated, flame thread, he and his girlfriend have ALREADY decided on an abortion, leave it at that. If you have a problem with abortion, please don't post here. If God really is against abortion then they'll get their justice when facing Him. Until then, let the rest of us try to help him. well said. Also, having a child can't exactly do good things to a 16 year old girl's body...
[QUOTE="ethanpaige"][QUOTE="remmbermytitans"][QUOTE="Luncbox1"] Let's not make it one of these things... OK, everyone. To prevent this from becoming a heated, flame thread, he and his girlfriend have ALREADY decided on an abortion, leave it at that. If you have a problem with abortion, please don't post here. If God really is against abortion then they'll get their justice when facing Him. Until then, let the rest of us try to help him. well said. Also, having a child can't exactly do good things to a 16 year old girl's body... actually, girls are in their child-bearing prime at 16. Biologically it's the best time to have a child.
[QUOTE="Luncbox1"][QUOTE="ethanpaige"][QUOTE="remmbermytitans"] OK, everyone. To prevent this from becoming a heated, flame thread, he and his girlfriend have ALREADY decided on an abortion, leave it at that. If you have a problem with abortion, please don't post here. If God really is against abortion then they'll get their justice when facing Him. Until then, let the rest of us try to help him. well said. Also, having a child can't exactly do good things to a 16 year old girl's body... actually, girls are in their child-bearing prime at 16. Biologically it's the best time to have a child. well you learn something new every day i guess. I was born when my mom was 14 :P
How much value do you place on human life?Seriously, if you don't want the child, put it up for adoption. harashawn
Well to him it might not be human yet...and yes, I agree with the other guy. Don't make it into one of these things. Just make sure no one learns about it, one girl in my school gets constantly made fun of because a rumor went around she got pregnant. Of course she didn't, it made it worse that she is emo, also she was new to school and she made out with a girl in the bathroom. :?
How much value do you place on human life?Seriously, if you don't want the child, put it up for adoption. harashawn
or you know...he might be one of those crazy folk who don't view undeveloped fetuses as living, breathing, sentient, human beings. Nuts, i know.
Smooth....
normally Im pro choice, but seeing as how you acted irresponisbly Id make you live with your actions and keep the child. As for your question, Id say go to a clinic and set up an appointment with your girlfriend.
sparkypants
So....raising and taking care of a child you have no means of providing for is an apt form of punishment? This is a child, you know.... The question i have for TC is whether or not you even TRIED to use protection and if not, why not and what the hell were you thinking?
[QUOTE="Luncbox1"] Let's not make it one of these things... I'm sorry I have a problem with people killing their children because they're "inconvenient".
[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="Luncbox1"] Let's not make it one of these things... I'm sorry I have a problem with people killing their children because they're "inconvenient". Not children, fetuses. Fetuses aren't capable of abstract thought.
[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="Luncbox1"] Let's not make it one of these things... I'm sorry I have a problem with people killing their children because they're "inconvenient". Again...i have a feeling that he just may be one of those crazy folk who don't view non-sentient, undeveloped, yet to be formed fetuses as "children." Insane, I know.
are people in this thread forgetting that he knocked up a 16yr old that is prego? And that the majority of the responses here scares me as if what he did isnt a big deal and for him to just get an abortion because its just nothing.
are people in this thread forgetting that he knocked up a 16yr old that is prego? And that the majority of the responses here scares me as if what he did isnt a big deal and for him to just get an abortion because its just nothing. Tjeremiah1988
Commenting on that wouldn't adhere to the purpose of this thread. This thread is about helping him find an abortion clinic-- not berating him for not using protection (although he should have), or telling him how terrible abortion is.
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