Jamiemydear, I'm not going to pretend that I can merely accept your girlfriend's decision, but ultimately it is her decision. I regret making myself look like a fool if I came across as such. I hope your girlfriend does not go through with the abortion, but if she does, I hope for her to lead a good life and to never make such a mistake again. If I insulted you, I apologize, but I deeply am convicted in my anti-abortion stance, and if I let that blindfold me, then I'm sorry. I hope in the end, you make the right decision and that you don't make this mistake again. Peace.
[QUOTE="organic_machine"]So what exactly do you want us to say? Chiddaling
My thoughts exactly :|
I wanted to know the steps of getting an abortion. Try reading the rest of the comments!
So, tomorrow me and her are going to inform her mom on whats going on. Hopefully her mom keeps her mouth shut so her brother doesnt beat the snot out of me.
After we tell her mom, we are going to call the doctor's office. Set up an appointment, then I'll see what happens from there on.
-Thank you whoever actually helped.
Shame on whoever made this tougher then it could of been.
[QUOTE="remmbermytitans"][QUOTE="Genetic_Code"] What lesson is there to learn? Its normal to have sex. Only thing Im going to learn from this is not buy those crappy trojan condoms, and ill be famililar with the steps in getting an abortion. Jamiemydearx3
Trojans aren't bad. Which brand did you use? I always used the "Her Pleasure" brand, had sex for 10 months and didn't have a single problem. They were the "Intense ribbed" yellow packaged trojans. Perhaps a Law-Suit is in order =)
[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]TC, have you learned your lesson? Seeing that you got her pregnant while wearing a condom, will you do it again? (sorry, thread still isnt lock)Jamiemydearx3
What lesson is there to learn? *major facepalm* You cant be serious:| You see nothing wrong in banging a girl getting her prego and then getting an abortion, obviously. So when it happens again you are going to continue for her to keep on getting abortions as if it isnt an issue. Later down the road it will have effect, as of right now it appears it doesnt.
[QUOTE="Jamiemydearx3"][QUOTE="remmbermytitans"] Trojans aren't bad. Which brand did you use? I always used the "Her Pleasure" brand, had sex for 10 months and didn't have a single problem.irelevent
They were the "Intense ribbed" yellow packaged trojans. Perhaps a Law-Suit is in order =) That or just use the "Her Pleasure" brand.
OK SERIOUSLY. Get it done as fast as possible, Abortions can't be done after a certain amount of time, and i don't see why you would want to get an abortion after like the first 3 months (That's wrong, and i even hate "Pro-Lifers")irelevent
[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="Luncbox1"] Let's not make it one of these things... I'm sorry I have a problem with people killing their children because they're "inconvenient". And I have a problem with Pro Life people so lets just not start a Life V. Death thread.
[QUOTE="msi276"][QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="Luncbox1"] Let's not make it one of these things... I'm sorry I have a problem with people killing their children because they're "inconvenient". And I have a problem with Pro Life people so lets just not start a Life V. Death thread. At least you don't support the death of pro-lifers. :)
[QUOTE="irelevent"]OK SERIOUSLY. Get it done as fast as possible, Abortions can't be done after a certain amount of time, and i don't see why you would want to get an abortion after like the first 3 months (That's wrong, and i even hate "Pro-Lifers")harashawn
You hate me? :( Yes, You're the reason i hate pro-lifers.
I consider myself pro-choice, but your girlfriend should consider this question. Is avoiding a terrible nine months worth taking someone's chance to live an entire life? (The alternative being putting it up for adoption.)
[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="irelevent"]OK SERIOUSLY. Get it done as fast as possible, Abortions can't be done after a certain amount of time, and i don't see why you would want to get an abortion after like the first 3 months (That's wrong, and i even hate "Pro-Lifers")irelevent
You hate me? :( Yes, You're the reason i hate pro-lifers.
What is it that bugs you about them anyways? Is it their stance on saving "innocent" lives annoy you?
*cough* adoption *cough* My brother was adopted. I plan to one day adopt at least one child. Why is it abortion always seems to be the first choice these days?
While I do have sympathey for the unborn I cant change your decision so I wont try and instead I will respect your decision. I hope everything goes ok for you guys. This would be a very sucky situation to be in.
[QUOTE="mindstorm"]*cough* adoption *cough* My brother was adopted. I plan to one day adopt at least one child. Why is it abortion always seems to be the first choice these days? Exactly. BTW I've always thought of adopting at least one child too if I happen to get married.
[QUOTE="mindstorm"]*cough* adoption *cough* My brother was adopted. I plan to one day adopt at least one child. Why is it abortion always seems to be the first choice these days? Well, the choices are stick with the fetus/baby for nine months and deal with the consequences, such as, missing school, constant trips to the doctor, etc. OR! Go to a clinic to get an abortion and deal with the consequences, such as, one visit to a doctor, and a VERY important life lesson.
*cough* adoption *cough* My brother was adopted. I plan to one day adopt at least one child. Why is it abortion always seems to be the first choice these days?mindstorm
[QUOTE="organic_machine"]So what exactly do you want us to say? Jamiemydearx3
My thoughts exactly :|
I wanted to know the steps of getting an abortion. Try reading the rest of the comments!
So, tomorrow me and her are going to inform her mom on whats going on. Hopefully her mom keeps her mouth shut so her brother doesnt beat the snot out of me.
After we tell her mom, we are going to call the doctor's office. Set up an appointment, then I'll see what happens from there on.
-Thank you whoever actually helped.
Shame on whoever made this tougher then it could of been.
You mean yourself? Seriously who else it to blame?
I consider myself pro-choice, but your girlfriend should consider this question. Let's say you put it up for adoption. In that case, is avoiding a terrible nine months worth taking someone's chance to live an entire life?YouAmStupid
People don't like to think about how the kid will grow up. This Embryo is not a person yet, not only that but is a person any different than an animal? If people can justify killing animals as a means of population control, then how is killing an embryo (of course before ilike 3 months), then how is this any worse? I will end with this, Why the hell don't they make the "pill". You know(the day after pill) legal and over-the-counter for people over 18 (if it isn't already). There are already certain pills that can cause an unintended abortion, so what the hell right, people are going to do it if they want to anyway.
[QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"]If you make her abort the child I'll put the cops on you for having sex with a minor.Jamiemydearx3
Unlike black mailing, its legalfor a 18 year old to have sex with a 16 year old. Yup. 16 years= age of consent in New Jersey. I was holding my breath for you scrolling down the page lol.
[QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"][QUOTE="mindstorm"]*cough* adoption *cough* My brother was adopted. I plan to one day adopt at least one child. Why is it abortion always seems to be the first choice these days? Exactly. BTW I've always thought of adopting at least one child too if I happen to get married. Haha, same. Maybe a poor orphan from Africa or a kid at the orphanage whose life is going down the pooper.
normally Im pro choice, but seeing as how you acted irresponisbly Id make you live with your actions and keep the child. As for your question, Id say go to a clinic and set up an appointment with your girlfriend.
That's just mean to the kid though..I say, let them do it...then, if the girl get's pregnant again before she wants a kid (age 20 min) they get fined.. dang they should start charging people for having irresponsible sex...
Teenagers have these things that you may or may not know about yet called hormones and it makes teens do things that they otherwise would not do. Teen sex is one of those things that will always be.
[QUOTE="harashawn"] How much value do you place on human life? Seriously, if you don't want the child, put it up for adoption. Luncbox1
Let's not make it one of these things... Do you honestly expect it to not devolve into one of those things? He's publically announced that he is planning on helping the mother of his child obtain an abortion. I think the TC is lying, but You're way off your rocker if you dont think people are going to talk about the ethical issues surrounding pre-natal murder.
Teenagers have these things that you may or may not know about yet called hormones and it makes teens do things that they otherwise would not do. Teen sex is one of those things that will always be. And thank god for that! :D
[QUOTE="Luncbox1"][QUOTE="harashawn"] How much value do you place on human life? Seriously, if you don't want the child, put it up for adoption. danwallacefan
Let's not make it one of these things... Do you honestly expect it to not devolve into one of those things? He's publically announced that he is planning on helping the mother of his child obtain an abortion. I think the TC is lying, but You're way off your rocker if you dont think people are going to talk about the ethical issues surrounding pre-natal murder. It's his decision, not yours. Everyone who doesn't want to ever go through an abortion, raise your hand, now you are the people who aren't going to have an abortion. Now everyone who is fine with abortion raise your hand, you are the people who may have an abortion. There you go, THE ENTIRE SOCIAL PROBLEM IS SOLVED HUZZAAAHH!!!!
get the abortion while the fetus is in 1st trimester (I think up to 2 weeks after conception?) because if you let the baby develop, there is NO WAY you will go through with abortion of the child if it looks human
get the abortion while the fetus is in 1st trimester (I think up to 2 weeks after conception?) because if you let the baby develop, there is NO WAY you will go through with abortion of the child if it looks humandarkIink
Thats exactly how i feel about it all. If you want an abortion get it done as fast as possible, theres no reason to get it done so damn late.
[QUOTE="danwallacefan"][QUOTE="Luncbox1"] Let's not make it one of these things...irelevent
Do you honestly expect it to not devolve into one of those things? He's publically announced that he is planning on helping the mother of his child obtain an abortion. I think the TC is lying, but You're way off your rocker if you dont think people are going to talk about the ethical issues surrounding pre-natal murder. It's his decision, not yours. Everyone who doesn't want to ever go through an abortion, raise your hand, now you are the people who aren't going to have an abortion. Now everyone who is fine with abortion raise your hand, you are the people who may have an abortion. There you go, THE ENTIRE SOCIAL PROBLEM IS SOLVED HUZZAAAHH!!!! :lol: @ your satire :cry: if you're being totally serious. but in all seriousness, Abortion is nothing more than murder for hire.
get the abortion while the fetus is in 1st trimester (I think up to 2 weeks after conception?) because if you let the baby develop, there is NO WAY you will go through with abortion of the child if it looks humandarkIink
Of course, as long as it doesn't look like a human, it's perfectly fine. :roll:
[QUOTE="irelevent"][QUOTE="danwallacefan"] Do you honestly expect it to not devolve into one of those things? He's publically announced that he is planning on helping the mother of his child obtain an abortion. I think the TC is lying, but You're way off your rocker if you dont think people are going to talk about the ethical issues surrounding pre-natal murder. danwallacefan
It's his decision, not yours. Everyone who doesn't want to ever go through an abortion, raise your hand, now you are the people who aren't going to have an abortion. Now everyone who is fine with abortion raise your hand, you are the people who may have an abortion. There you go, THE ENTIRE SOCIAL PROBLEM IS SOLVED HUZZAAAHH!!!! :lol: @ your satire :cry: if you're being totally serious. but in all seriousness, Abortion is nothing more than murder for hire. Safe, legal, controlled murder. It's better than what hunters say to justify the killing of their prey, and what's this bull#*#* about the sanctity of life. Cancer is life and it's not that sacred. Either are bee's, and fly's and what-not, and somehow human embryos are somehow more important....
[QUOTE="darkIink"]get the abortion while the fetus is in 1st trimester (I think up to 2 weeks after conception?) because if you let the baby develop, there is NO WAY you will go through with abortion of the child if it looks humanharashawn
Of course, as long as it doesn't look like a human, it's perfectly fine. :roll: So you're saying we shouldn't take out cancer, we shouldn't fight viral infections just because it's life? You're logic is flawed. There is no Law in life or in death. Fair does not exist, now imagine being a virus, never having a say, and then your host takes an anti-biotic and kills you, CAN'T YOU SEE THE INHUMANITY IN CURING ALL SORTS OF VIRUSES, IN KILLING IN SELF DEFENSE!!! AND WHAT-NOT!!!!!
[QUOTE="irelevent"][QUOTE="danwallacefan"] Safe, legal, controlled murder. It's better than what hunters say to justify the killing of their prey, and what's this bull#*#* about the sanctity of life. Cancer is life and it's not that sacred. Either are bee's, and fly's and what-not, and somehow human embryos are somehow more important.... Humans are more important to us than flies, news at 11 :|
[QUOTE="irelevent"] So you're saying we shouldn't take out cancer, we shouldn't fight viral infections just because it's life? You're logic is flawed. There is no Law in life or in death. Fair does not exist, now imagine being a virus, never having a say, and then your host takes an anti-biotic and kills you, CAN'T YOU SEE THE INHUMANITY IN CURING ALL SORTS OF VIRUSES, IN KILLING IN SELF DEFENSE!!! AND WHAT-NOT!!!!! Viruses are non-living, and your body naturally kills virus & bacteria anyway. Antibiotics are only speeding up the process.
[QUOTE="Vanadium2k8"][QUOTE="irelevent"] So you're saying we shouldn't take out cancer, we shouldn't fight viral infections just because it's life? You're logic is flawed. There is no Law in life or in death. Fair does not exist, now imagine being a virus, never having a say, and then your host takes an anti-biotic and kills you, CAN'T YOU SEE THE INHUMANITY IN CURING ALL SORTS OF VIRUSES, IN KILLING IN SELF DEFENSE!!! AND WHAT-NOT!!!!! Viruses are non-living, and your body naturally kills virus & bacteria anyway. Antibiotics are only speeding up the process. You disagree that viruses, cancer and WHAT-NOT, are not life? And about your other post, Embryos are not Humans.
Congrats. My wife and I are expecting our first. You should consider letting the baby live considering it's not the child's fault you two got pregnant.
Why the hell don't they make the "pill". You know(the day after pill) legal and over-the-counter for people over 18 (if it isn't already). There are already certain pills that can cause an unintended abortion, so what the hell right, people are going to do it if they want to anyway.irelevent
That pill doesn't cause an abortion. The reason it's the "morning after" pill is that it blocks conception. It's a last minute contraceptive. (Someone might want to verify that for me, though. I don't feel like looking it up right now, and I'm only ninety percent sure I'm right.)
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