I have an issue..help please?

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#51 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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But just b/c I am on a game website does not mean I'm ugly

batgirl1337
We were doubting that you were a GIRL, not your level of attractiveness. Are you going to explain what honesty box means? Or am I an "idiot" for not immediately understanding?
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#54 Lockedge
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[QUOTE="Lockedge"]

It sounds like he's a fair bit heartless or he doesn't pay enough attention to you, if he's going to write those notes to other girls and not send a lot of that kind of stuff your way.

Jandurin

WTF. He only ignores her at work. From her OP.

Maybe so,:P I might be overstating things, but he should realize her self-esteem is low, and shouldn't distance himself from her at his work.


I mean, I could just be biased. I had friends who would ignore me during the busride and the walk home until no one else could see them talking with me. Kinda was a shot to my self-esteem, and this isn't so much of an equal situation, so I guess I did overstate.

But still, in public you should be proud of your bf/gf. The fact he distances himself is sketchy.

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#55 Vivian24
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I would say dump him. This is a trick used by us to have women to lower their self-esteem, so we can have women cling to us because they are afraid to let go.

God bless!

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#56 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Oh its an application on facebook where you can say things to people with out them finding out who you are

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So... he told... girls that he doesn't know that do not know who he is that they're attractive? So... he RATED girls. On the internet? That is not a basis for mistrust. Tell me. What has this boy done to hurt you? Has he called you fat, told you you're stupid, ignored your requests? Has he not called for weeks at a time? You have to understand that some men require a level of professionalism at work that women can interfere with, which sometimes can make the women feel underappreciated. This is not saying that you aren't noticed or wanted, but that to keep in the work mentality, you must be kept at a distance. My question to you: Has he ever done ANYTHING at all to warrant any of this suspicion or your lack of confidence? Are you sure it's not just YOU that is creating this?
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#57 yabbicoke
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Wait, are you saying you're angry at him for finding other women attractive? If so, then that is ridiculous.
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#58 Jester070
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Haha, its hilarious how different some people sound when the TC is a girl.
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#59 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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But still, in public you should be proud of your bf/gf. The fact he distances himself is sketchy.

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Work is different than the public. Work is where you are responsible for your actions, and anyone's actions you bring into a situation. Also, assuming it's some manner of Customer Service job, his very job may depend on him keeping an eye on customers, which would mean splitting his attention between the woman and others. This means her interference could be causing him to feel like he's jeopardizing his very job. D:
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#60 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Haha, its hilarious how different some people sound when the TC is a girl. Jester070
When the TC is *supposedly* a girl, even. There's not even nearly enough evidence here to support that claim.
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#61 sAndroid17
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boys will be boys lol,but honestly if hes saying these things to other girls, he desnt like yu as much as you like him.

get rid of him before you leave it for a feew years and get really hurt.

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#63 Lockedge
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[QUOTE="Lockedge"]

But still, in public you should be proud of your bf/gf. The fact he distances himself is sketchy.

Jandurin

Work is different than the public.

Work is where you are responsible for your actions, and anyone's actions you bring into a situation. Also, assuming it's some manner of Customer Service job, his very job may depend on him keeping an eye on customers, which would mean splitting his attention between the woman and others. This means her interference could be causing him to feel like he's jeopardizing his very job. D:

I could see if while he was working he distanced himself, but if she was walking him to work and hanging out a bit before his shift or something, then that would be cause for concern.

I mean, at work, I'm a machine, but I can turn that mentality on and off like a switch. Others probably can't, but some don't really have that kind of work mentality. I guess it all depends on what the dude does for a job. :P

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#65 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Umm..

No he knows them.

He has only done what I've said..

batgirl1337
So, he knows them but they don't know him? Regardless, I tell my *girlfriend* who I find attractive on a semi-regular basis. People are still attractive, even when you're in a relationship. Does *he* tell *you* that you're attractive? Does he make you feel appreciated? Do you feel attractive in *his* eyes? Edit: They don't know that it is HIM that is calling them attractive, that is.
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#66 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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I mean, at work, I'm a machine, but I can turn that mentality on and off like a switch.

Lockedge
I can't. :( My girlfriend gets on my case for it, too.
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#68 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Yes, I feel like I appreciate him more than he appreciates me though

batgirl1337
This will always be true forevermore in your future relationships. Always one seems to give more, or appreciate more, or love more. I have never heard of a completely equal relationship. You'd have to date yourself to get that. Edit: Fear not. The positions will change, though. One year, it'll be like this, the next, like that. Unless I'm crazy and everyone else just has perfect relationships.
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#69 jmg128thinfrgt
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If someone else makes you feel like that then maybe its time to re-think your current situation.