I have been working so hard out at gym... but it won't go away....

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#1 Jmacro
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I have been working so hard out at gym for 2 years now, weight lifting, cardio. I'm in great shape... but it still emotionally devastating for me. Gynecomastia... it won't go away :cry:. I never took off my shirt in public, I'm afraid of embarrassment and humiliation... afraid to go to the beach. It one thing that keeping me down in life. I'm still young but feel powerless and been struggling with anxiety. I don't know how to tell my parents about this... about having gynecomastia, I don't feel confidence enough discussing about this problem to them. The best solution is surgery, but I have to go through my parents. It psychologically hurting me... I never even took my shirt off at my own house... that how much devasted i feel. Please tell me what I should do?

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#2 kbubba92
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how old are you?
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#3 gobo212
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The OT is no replacement for your doctor...
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#4 Jmacro
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how old are you?kbubba92
24
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#5 Killfox
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The OT is no replacement for your doctor...gobo212

PLaying doctor can be fun.

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#6 inyourface_12
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when did it all start?
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#7 kbubba92
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[QUOTE="kbubba92"]how old are you?Jmacro
24

well first i woould obviously suggest asking a doctor

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#8 Jmacro
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when did it all start?inyourface_12
when i was 15 or 16
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#9 rcignoni
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Talk your parents, surgery is the only way.
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#10 gobo212
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[QUOTE="gobo212"]The OT is no replacement for your doctor...Killfox

PLaying doctor can be fun.

Only when your 9 and in the basement with the girl from down the street...

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#11 Jmacro
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Talk your parents, surgery is the only way.rcignoni
I don't know if they will understand....
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#12 inyourface_12
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[QUOTE="inyourface_12"]when did it all start?Jmacro
when i was 15 or 16

are you really big>? or you just think your not good looking?

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#13 Montaya
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I have been working so hard out at gym for 2 years now, weight lifting, cardio. I'm in great shape... but it still emotionally devastating for me. Gynecomastia... it won't go away :cry:. I never took off my shirt in public, I'm afraid of embarrassment and humiliation... afraid to go to the beach. It one thing that keeping me down in life. I'm still young but feel powerless and been struggling with anxiety. I don't know how to tell my parents about this... about having gynecomastia, I don't feel confidence enough discussing about this problem to them. The best solution is surgery, but I have to go through my parents. It psychologically hurting me... I never even took my shirt off at my own house... that how much devasted i feel. Please tell me what I should do?

Jmacro

They should have atlest transformed into musclular looking pecs after doing the proper chest workouts. You should try plastic surgery, they will get rid of those easy.

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#14 DireOwl
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Oh great, thanks TC I typed in Gynecomastia to find out what it was. My mom just walked in and saw me looking at pictures of male breasts. She gave me a weird look and told me she is telling my father.
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#15 MissRiotmaker
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[QUOTE="gobo212"]The OT is no replacement for your doctor...Killfox

PLaying doctor can be fun.

It is... but only if you've got medical coverage. I will not be held reliable or responsible for the evil deeds that happen to you. :shock:

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#16 rcignoni
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[QUOTE="rcignoni"]Talk your parents, surgery is the only way.Jmacro
I don't know if they will understand....

If they're your parents, they should more than anyone else.

And since you're 24, you could go to a doctor alone.

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#17 Jmacro
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[QUOTE="Jmacro"][QUOTE="inyourface_12"]when did it all start?inyourface_12

when i was 15 or 16

are you really big>? or you just think your not good looking?

No man I'm not fat if that what you think.... I'm in fit shape at 5'6, weight about 150. I used to bench press 245 at one time.
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#18 rcignoni
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Oh great, thanks TC I typed in Gynecomastia to find out what it was. My mom just walked in and saw me looking at pictures of male breasts. She gave me a weird look and told me she is telling my father.DireOwl
ROFL! I'm sigging this.
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#19 xRezarektah
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Oh great, thanks TC I typed in Gynecomastia to find out what it was. My mom just walked in and saw me looking at pictures of male breasts. She gave me a weird look and told me she is telling my father.DireOwl

:lol:

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#20 kurama2002
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Go see a doctor.
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#21 Witchking111111
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Steroids. Lose fat and gain muscle.
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#22 MissRiotmaker
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Steroids. Lose fat and gain muscle.Witchking111111

Also lose your manhood. Overuse of steroids will also tear your muscles to shreds not to mention possible eruption of said muscles. Saggyness, over-exposed veins. Steroids = Bad.

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*takes off shirt* Do you need a hug?:P
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[QUOTE="Witchking111111"]Steroids. Lose fat and gain muscle.MissRiotmaker

Also lose your manhood. Overuse of steroids will also tear your muscles to shreds not to mention possible eruption of said muscles. Saggyness, over-exposed veins. Steroids = Bad.

Enzyte.

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#25 jlh47
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I have been working so hard out at gym for 2 years now, weight lifting, cardio. I'm in great shape... but it still emotionally devastating for me. Gynecomastia... it won't go away :cry:. I never took off my shirt in public, I'm afraid of embarrassment and humiliation... afraid to go to the beach. It one thing that keeping me down in life. I'm still young but feel powerless and been struggling with anxiety. I don't know how to tell my parents about this... about having gynecomastia, I don't feel confidence enough discussing about this problem to them. The best solution is surgery, but I have to go through my parents. It psychologically hurting me... I never even took my shirt off at my own house... that how much devasted i feel. Please tell me what I should do?

Jmacro

get a tan

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#26 MissRiotmaker
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*takes off shirt* Do you need a hug?:PVyse_Legends

Yes plx.

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#27 Jmacro
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Go see a doctor.kurama2002
a basic operation will cost from 4 to 5 thousands, will this is not a problem for me... it just telling my folks that i want to do this.
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[QUOTE="DireOwl"]Oh great, thanks TC I typed in Gynecomastia to find out what it was. My mom just walked in and saw me looking at pictures of male breasts. She gave me a weird look and told me she is telling my father.rcignoni
ROFL! I'm sigging this.

go for it.

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[QUOTE="kurama2002"]Go see a doctor.Jmacro
a basic operation will cost from 4 to 5 thousands, will this is not a problem for me... it just telling my folks that i want to do this.

They're your parents, what's the worst they'll do if you tell them that you want to get it done? Most people completely understand when someone is getting surgery done to fix something about their body that has been bothering them for such a long time.

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#30 ElArab
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Dude, I've got gynecomastia, it's just a wierd lump in your nipple, it's nothing! Just go to a doctor or look at some stuff on www.webmd.com

Seirously, how bad is your gynecomastia? I expect it to be almost horrifying if not the size of a tumor to make it to where you won't take off your shirt (or it discharges a lot, but, it shouldn't do that automatically, it requires external force.)

EDIT: Oh great, I just googled Gynecomastia, yes I have that but, it's not that extreme, I thought it was normal, anyway, after seeing how bad Gynecomastia can get, then yeah, you've got a problem, but man, the doctors didn't tell me that's why my chest muscles droop down a bit (it's not as disgusting as the pictures, I'll take my shirt off at a pool party and no one will notice, but...it's there...) - great, shows how much I can trust doctors to give me the full story on ailments that I've got :?

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#31 ElArab
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Oh forgot to mention, never be embarassed talking about bodily related stuff to your parents (mainly your mother, moms are more understanding about this stuff) and a doctor, that's probably the worst thing you could do. Ignore something long enough for the sake of whether you think it will be embarassing or not always ends up in a "horror story".
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#32 1337_ownage
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you said you are in great shaoe then its shouldnt be a problem, its all in your head.
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#33 aka_aj03
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I think you taking this way too seriously, there alot of people out there with bigger problems... people who are suffering and struggling everyday with diseases and other serious illness that cannot be cure or does not have the financial to cure it or even treat it and they have to live with it for the rest of their lives. You my friend need to stop crying over this little minor problem in life. You need to confront this to your parents by taking your shirt off and stepping up to them and tell them that you have this issue. I'll bet my money on this that they will support you on this all the way through cause they are your parents.

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#35 Bourbons3
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[QUOTE="gobo212"]The OT is no replacement for your doctor...Killfox

PLaying doctor can be fun.

I'm qualified >__>
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#36 mikeg0788
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[QUOTE="rcignoni"]Talk your parents, surgery is the only way.Jmacro
I don't know if they will understand....

I don't get it...you'll open yourself up to potentially thousands of strangers online who will most likely judge and make fun of you (owned, btw) but you won't tell your parents? What kind of ****ed up rationale is that? Grow a pair and go talk to them.

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#37 DarKre
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I think you taking this way too seriously, there alot of people out there with bigger problems... people who are suffering and struggling everyday with diseases and other serious illness that cannot be cure or does not have the financial to cure it or even treat it and they have to live with it for the rest of their lives. You my friend need to stop crying over this little minor problem in life. You need to confront this to your parents by taking your shirt off and stepping up to them and tell them that you have this issue. I'll bet my money on this that they will support you on this all the way through cause they are your parents.

aka_aj03

Have you ever taken a pyschology class? The personal pyschological problems people experience can be just as tormenting as having an pyshical illness.

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Oh great, thanks TC I typed in Gynecomastia to find out what it was. My mom just walked in and saw me looking at pictures of male breasts. She gave me a weird look and told me she is telling my father.DireOwl
LOL, what timing she has.
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#39 -hotaru-
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Get help,
if it's really having psychological effects on you, the only solution I believe is to get treated for it. There's no shame in that.
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#40 ElArab
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[QUOTE="Witchking111111"]Steroids. Lose fat and gain muscle.MissRiotmaker

Also lose your manhood. Overuse of steroids will also tear your muscles to shreds not to mention possible eruption of said muscles. Saggyness, over-exposed veins. Steroids = Bad.

If you have Gynecomastia, working out will make it look worse because your chest will build up, and the gynecomastia will be pushed outward.

Steroids won't even fix the gynecomastia lol, it'll make it 100 times worse.

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Oh great, thanks TC I typed in Gynecomastia to find out what it was. My mom just walked in and saw me looking at pictures of male breasts. She gave me a weird look and told me she is telling my father.DireOwl

HA HA:lol:

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#42 firebreathing
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[QUOTE="kbubba92"]how old are you?Jmacro
24

i feel sorry for you, i can do sit ups for only a week and feel good about myself >____>

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[QUOTE="DireOwl"]Oh great, thanks TC I typed in Gynecomastia to find out what it was. My mom just walked in and saw me looking at pictures of male breasts. She gave me a weird look and told me she is telling my father.Darthric

HA HA:lol:

hahahaha, that is classic XD

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Oh great, thanks TC I typed in Gynecomastia to find out what it was. My mom just walked in and saw me looking at pictures of male breasts. She gave me a weird look and told me she is telling my father.DireOwl

May I use this in my sig?
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I have been working so hard out at gym for 2 years now, weight lifting, cardio. I'm in great shape... but it still emotionally devastating for me. Gynecomastia... it won't go away :cry:. I never took off my shirt in public, I'm afraid of embarrassment and humiliation... afraid to go to the beach. It one thing that keeping me down in life. I'm still young but feel powerless and been struggling with anxiety. I don't know how to tell my parents about this... about having gynecomastia, I don't feel confidence enough discussing about this problem to them. The best solution is surgery, but I have to go through my parents. It psychologically hurting me... I never even took my shirt off at my own house... that how much devasted i feel. Please tell me what I should do?

Jmacro

buy testosterone pills. animal has good stuff. its legal and safe. Gynecomastia according to wikipedia is an imbalance with estrogen right? well Animal Test has estrogen blockers and test boosters

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#47 VacantPsalm
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[QUOTE="gobo212"]The OT is no replacement for your doctor...Killfox

PLaying doctor can be fun.

QFT, especially trying to cure a problem like the TCs.:) Edit: Wait, maybe I should see exactly what Gynecomastia means before I assume anything.>.>... Edited again: *face palms* Wow, DEFINITELY not going to make any assumptions with the definition of medical problems being sexy ever again. I just skimmed the first post and thought is was some fear of taking off shirt / cloths.
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#48 fear2max
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AND THE ROFLCOPTOR GOES SWOOSH SWOOSH SWOOOOSH SWOOSH SWOOSH! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLCATS

Sorry but i didnt know what you were talking about till i looked it up on wiki and OMG I almost died of laughter...

Sorry lol.

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#49 JJ4545
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Are you sure you're not just fat?
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#50 double_decker
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If you're 24 why do you have to go through your parents? And if you live with them they probably have an idea about the problem anyways, go sometime by yourself and consult with a plastic surgeon and see how much it will cost, etc. and go from there.