I have no interests

[QUOTE="sune_Gem"]

[QUOTE="Mercenary848"]

Hang out with more girls, find hobbies, and take trips.

Mercenary848

It's weird how a nice girl can make you so happy. This one time, a girl I knew was asked to go somewhere to pick up something for someone else. She simply asked just me to come along too, to giver her company. It's a little thing but it can really put a smile on your face for the rest of the day.

True that, I am not saying women shoulkd be your basis for being happy but....girls are pretty awesome to be around.

It's a shame I'm in their company about 3 times a year. :lol:

Not including family of course.

Are you a virgin?

Are you a virgin?

sexyweapons

What does that have to do with it? I' m a virgin and I have interests. Or maybe not...

Oh my God you' re right!

[QUOTE="Mercenary848"]

[QUOTE="sune_Gem"]

It's weird how a nice girl can make you so happy. This one time, a girl I knew was asked to go somewhere to pick up something for someone else. She simply asked just me to come along too, to giver her company. It's a little thing but it can really put a smile on your face for the rest of the day.

sune_Gem

True that, I am not saying women shoulkd be your basis for being happy but....girls are pretty awesome to be around.

It's a shame I'm in their company about 3 times a year. :lol:

Not including family of course.

I know it can seem weird/awkward but girls are very easy to make friends with. Once you establish common ground and a social connection uour in

This is pretty much how I am most of the time. People tell me I should go out and have fun but I apparently don't know what "having fun" is or so I am told. 

Does everything feel like to much effort to try or do you just assume that you won't enjoy it for various reasons? In any case, attempt to set up a basic routine of activities that you will do every day. Keep it simple but no excuses! Add a few more activities after maintaining the routine for a few days. Use the sense of achievement that you get from completing these tasks to keep you going. Eventually you'll find something, as your mind starts craving more sense of achievement.

[QUOTE="LazySloth718"]

[QUOTE="The_Gaming_Baby"]

I'm 23 years old and I find myself not interested in anything. I do things to pass the time like watching films or playing games, but the sold reason I'm doing these activities is to help pass the time otherwise I'd just be sitting in silence, which is something I do almost daily. Nothing is particularly fun for me. Everything just feels bland and redundant. When ever I try something new I never become interested or have fun. It just feels like I'm spending my entire life doing things I don't enjoy.

Advice?

The_Gaming_Baby

Visualize your ideal life.

Where would you be?

What would you be doing?

Would you have lots of friends? Dates? Would you go out, party?

If you could be anybody in the world, who would you be?

Also is the social anxiety something you would like to change.

Well put it this way.

For most people, they develop a set of interests and dreams, and try to make money off that.

If you had all the money in the world, what would you be doing with yourself?

When you're bored and doing nothing in particular, pitying yourself on a daily basis, you're bound to feel like a "loser."

Next time you find yourself falling into a similar state, why not do something productive? Obviously productive is going to vary amongst each and every individual, so you may need to write down your goals on a piece of paper or something to at least get the basics down. And above all else, try to find something that is not only productive, but enjoyable, too.

try doing some excersise and and read some books.

I'm sometimes the same. It means you need to get laid.PernicioEnigma

what if he cant find anyone to get laid.

[QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"]I'm sometimes the same. It means you need to get laid.sukraj

what if he cant find anyone to get laid.

I have very little interests as well.

Time at home = internet, music, the odd video game, drinking on the weekends...

Life is currently dull. And part of me is actually fine with that *shrug*

Are you a virgin?

sexyweapons

Well in an attempt to improve my life, I have got myself a date for wednesday. Lets hope this helps

Well in an attempt to improve my life, I have got myself a date for wednesday. Lets hope this helps

The_Gaming_Baby

Go to the strip club. That's a fun time. 

[QUOTE="sexyweapons"]

Are you a virgin?

johnd13

What does that have to do with it? I' m a virgin and I have interests. Or maybe not...

Oh my God you' re right!

Go to the strip club. That's a fun time. 

soulless4now

[QUOTE="soulless4now"]

Go to the strip club. That's a fun time. 

The_Gaming_Baby

go to the bar and find some friends?

For anyone that was wondering, the date last Wednesday went okay although I don't think we'll be seeing each other again. Also, I am rejoining the gym as training hard always made me feel happy

For anyone that was wondering, the date last Wednesday went okay although I don't think we'll be seeing each other again. Also, I am rejoining the gym as training hard always made me feel happy

The_Gaming_Baby

I never understood trying to do "something new".

Just do whatever looks/feels like fun to you. Its not rocket science.

Think outside of yourself more. Stop thinking inwardly. Meaning start becoming more selfless rather than selfish. GameGuy642003

[QUOTE="GameGuy642003"]Think outside of yourself more. Stop thinking inwardly. Meaning start becoming more selfless rather than selfish. Teenaged

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="GameGuy642003"]Think outside of yourself more. Stop thinking inwardly. Meaning start becoming more selfless rather than selfish. GameGuy642003

Well thats nice...

My advice cant lead to salvation. But it can lead to interests.

GameGuy642003

[QUOTE="GameGuy642003"]

My advice cant lead to salvation. But it can lead to interests.

Teenaged

For anyone that was wondering, the date last Wednesday went okay although I don't think we'll be seeing each other again. Also, I am rejoining the gym as training hard always made me feel happy

The_Gaming_Baby

it if helps im kinda in the same boat too. nothing interests me anymore either. i just bought $25 worth of mass effect 3 dlc to inspire me to play it through for the second time to give me something to do. i used to workout as well but i recently moved and im broke as hell so i can't start the gym again. soon hopefully.

I ended up going out last night too and got drunk with an old friend from school. It was a good night

But now, despite having the most social week I've had in years, I'm still just sad. I'm sat here right now and for some reason I have this urge to just cry and I'm not really sure why

Advice?

The_Gaming_Baby

Logotherapy

Get friends.

Switch hands.

Do something productive that will benefit others. Volunteer your time to help at a homeless shelter, an animal shelter, or paint an elderly person's house.mindstorm