I just want to vent

ugh man thats a bad scene but right now i swear i can relate.....

one of my old friends died from underaged drinking. dammnn that tore mee upppp. his name was bryan **** nice kid

also, i also had a seizure in december.....my friend and i stayed up for 5 days straight on winter break....i just remember at about 5 in the morning walking into the bathroom and my body started shaking.....i woke up to a team a paramedics all sighing breaths of relief and my friend crying....i cant remember anything else from that day...i just woke up the next morning in my own bed...weird.....now i get plenty of sleep every night....man that was F*(&& scary

also, i remember the day perfectly, it was jan 26 2009.....at about 12 midnight....i walked upstairs from the basement (i practically live in the basement) and i heard my dad BEATING MY MOM in their bedroom...my 12 year old bro was sitting on the crouch crying and wouldnt respond to me....i heard my dad yelling and crying and my mom screaming...damn man i feared for my life....i just stood in shock for a while and eventually just called over my neighbor (about 50 years older than me but one of my best friends) and we just stormed in and stopped the fight. my mom still has scars and still lives at my grandparents house....

later that night, anyway, i was cursing my parents out and made myself cry.....i just went back downstairs cause everyone was sobbing...except my neighbor....later my dad came downstairs and told me that my OWN MOM had been cheating on him (yes, a full affair with my dads BEST FRIEND) he then walked off and drove off somewhere and i stayed with my mom for a couple days until he came back, kicking her out of the house.....i cant hardly forgive either of them...the next morning i picked up the other line of a phone conversation with my dad talking to his "best friend".....i found out what my mom and him had been doing...and my dad was so **** mad....now my dad has started carrying a pistol with him and swears to kill him the next time he sees him...i just go along with it, the bastard deserves it

and theres my life right now. just be happy you have a normal family and someone to ask for advice when you need it....i never take anything for granted anymore

I know people are going to say blog it, but I don't care.

My wrestling team and I got hammered this past weekend at our state wrestling tournament (this is a school sponsered trip). One of the kids had a seizure, almost died, and we called the hospital. So of course the coaches and the school fonud out. Now there is a good chance we are all going to get kicked out of our private high school, and I'm a senior! All of the coaches are going to get fired, the team might get cut from the school. I'm sure the college I'm going to is going to tell me not to enroll this fall. I don't know what to do.

stupid4

You think life sucks now, try being the kid who had the siezure who most likely have ruined everything for his friends and coaches if the siezure was relating to negligence mixed with alcohol.

Rules are rules. If you don't like them, leave the school. They are there for a reason, to keep order and provide an equal opportunity for all students. Zero-tolerance policies on illegal activities are just and fair. They make it so there can't be exceptions or any sort of subjective reasoning. They have to be like laws so they remain objective and fair. Just because you don't like it, doesn't mean it isn't fair. Expulsion for an illegal activity is just. Setting the school on fire is also an illegal activity, it is arson, and most likely would receive expulsion as well.

If you don't follow the rules, you face the punishments. If you don't like them, you should have thought twice before getting hammered on a school trip.foxhound_fox

Arson and underage drinking are two COMPLETELY different things. I hope I don't have to go over the differences.

Expulsion for underage drinking IS excessive. Ten weeks of In-School suspension is not. Especially since he's about to graduate and go to college.

They should TRY to work something out so he can still be disciplined but not completely screwed over, like 1200 hours of community service or something.

[QUOTE="stupid4"]

I know people are going to say blog it, but I don't care.

My wrestling team and I got hammered this past weekend at our state wrestling tournament (this is a school sponsered trip). One of the kids had a seizure, almost died, and we called the hospital. So of course the coaches and the school fonud out. Now there is a good chance we are all going to get kicked out of our private high school, and I'm a senior! All of the coaches are going to get fired, the team might get cut from the school. I'm sure the college I'm going to is going to tell me not to enroll this fall. I don't know what to do.

Montaya

You think life sucks now, try being the kid who had the siezure who most likely have ruined everything for his friends and coaches if the siezure was relating to negligence mixed with alcohol.

That kid was me.

ugh man thats a bad scene but right now i swear i can relate.....

one of my old friends died from underaged drinking. dammnn that tore mee upppp. his name was bryan **** nice kid

also, i also had a seizure in december.....my friend and i stayed up for 5 days straight on winter break....i just remember at about 5 in the morning walking into the bathroom and my body started shaking.....i woke up to a team a paramedics all sighing breaths of relief and my friend crying....i cant remember anything else from that day...i just woke up the next morning in my own bed...weird.....now i get plenty of sleep every night....man that was F*(&& scary

also, i remember the day perfectly, it was jan 26 2009.....at about 12 midnight....i walked upstairs from the basement (i practically live in the basement) and i heard my dad BEATING MY MOM in their bedroom...my 12 year old bro was sitting on the crouch crying and wouldnt respond to me....i heard my dad yelling and crying and my mom screaming...damn man i feared for my life....i just stood in shock for a while and eventually just called over my neighbor (about 50 years older than me but one of my best friends) and we just stormed in and stopped the fight. my mom still has scars and still lives at my grandparents house....

later that night, anyway, i was cursing my parents out and made myself cry.....i just went back downstairs cause everyone was sobbing...except my neighbor....later my dad came downstairs and told me that my OWN MOM had been cheating on him (yes, a full affair with my dads BEST FRIEND) he then walked off and drove off somewhere and i stayed with my mom for a couple days until he came back, kicking her out of the house.....i cant hardly forgive either of them...the next morning i picked up the other line of a phone conversation with my dad talking to his "best friend".....i found out what my mom and him had been doing...and my dad was so **** mad....now my dad has started carrying a pistol with him and swears to kill him the next time he sees him...i just go along with it, the bastard deserves it

and theres my life right now. just be happy you have a normal family and someone to ask for advice when you need it....i never take anything for granted anymore

THE_BRUTALIZER

Man I'm sorry. I don't even know what to say about that.

[QUOTE="Montaya"][QUOTE="stupid4"]

I know people are going to say blog it, but I don't care.

My wrestling team and I got hammered this past weekend at our state wrestling tournament (this is a school sponsered trip). One of the kids had a seizure, almost died, and we called the hospital. So of course the coaches and the school fonud out. Now there is a good chance we are all going to get kicked out of our private high school, and I'm a senior! All of the coaches are going to get fired, the team might get cut from the school. I'm sure the college I'm going to is going to tell me not to enroll this fall. I don't know what to do.

stupid4

You think life sucks now, try being the kid who had the siezure who most likely have ruined everything for his friends and coaches if the siezure was relating to negligence mixed with alcohol.

That kid was me.

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]

ugh man thats a bad scene but right now i swear i can relate.....

one of my old friends died from underaged drinking. dammnn that tore mee upppp. his name was bryan **** nice kid

also, i also had a seizure in december.....my friend and i stayed up for 5 days straight on winter break....i just remember at about 5 in the morning walking into the bathroom and my body started shaking.....i woke up to a team a paramedics all sighing breaths of relief and my friend crying....i cant remember anything else from that day...i just woke up the next morning in my own bed...weird.....now i get plenty of sleep every night....man that was F*(&& scary

also, i remember the day perfectly, it was jan 26 2009.....at about 12 midnight....i walked upstairs from the basement (i practically live in the basement) and i heard my dad BEATING MY MOM in their bedroom...my 12 year old bro was sitting on the crouch crying and wouldnt respond to me....i heard my dad yelling and crying and my mom screaming...damn man i feared for my life....i just stood in shock for a while and eventually just called over my neighbor (about 50 years older than me but one of my best friends) and we just stormed in and stopped the fight. my mom still has scars and still lives at my grandparents house....

later that night, anyway, i was cursing my parents out and made myself cry.....i just went back downstairs cause everyone was sobbing...except my neighbor....later my dad came downstairs and told me that my OWN MOM had been cheating on him (yes, a full affair with my dads BEST FRIEND) he then walked off and drove off somewhere and i stayed with my mom for a couple days until he came back, kicking her out of the house.....i cant hardly forgive either of them...the next morning i picked up the other line of a phone conversation with my dad talking to his "best friend".....i found out what my mom and him had been doing...and my dad was so **** mad....now my dad has started carrying a pistol with him and swears to kill him the next time he sees him...i just go along with it, the bastard deserves it

and theres my life right now. just be happy you have a normal family and someone to ask for advice when you need it....i never take anything for granted anymore

stupid4

Man I'm sorry. I don't even know what to say about that.

Man that's rough. Things may suck for you now, but I will be praying for you man. I'm feeling bad for you now. stupid4

[QUOTE="Montaya"][QUOTE="stupid4"]

I know people are going to say blog it, but I don't care.

My wrestling team and I got hammered this past weekend at our state wrestling tournament (this is a school sponsered trip). One of the kids had a seizure, almost died, and we called the hospital. So of course the coaches and the school fonud out. Now there is a good chance we are all going to get kicked out of our private high school, and I'm a senior! All of the coaches are going to get fired, the team might get cut from the school. I'm sure the college I'm going to is going to tell me not to enroll this fall. I don't know what to do.

stupid4

You think life sucks now, try being the kid who had the siezure who most likely have ruined everything for his friends and coaches if the siezure was relating to negligence mixed with alcohol.

That kid was me.

Not to sound rude, but nice twist on the discussion. Didn't see that comin for some reason.

[QUOTE="stupid4"][QUOTE="Montaya"]

You think life sucks now, try being the kid who had the siezure who most likely have ruined everything for his friends and coaches if the siezure was relating to negligence mixed with alcohol.

JERMINITIS

That kid was me.

Not to sound rude, but nice twist on the discussion. Didn't see that comin for some reason.

K. To stupid. That was stupid you deserve what you got and you have no sympathy from me. THE_BRUTALIZER. That is horrible. I put myself in your shoes and then your dad's shoes and man that sucks. You have all my sympathies and I really hope things turn around. That is terrible. I will now quit complaining bout my family (kinda disfunctional but now I think I can deal).chester706

Expulsion for underage drinking IS excessive (1). Ten weeks of In-School suspension is not (2). Especially since he's about to graduate and go to college (3).

They should TRY to work something out so he can still be disciplined but not completely screwed over, like 1200 hours of community service or something.

im_really_rich

1. It's really not...

2. I don't think any school in the world would ever give someone 10 weeks of In-School suspension. Might as well just bump it up to Expulsion...

3. Why should someone who's about to graduate be treated any differently than someone who's a sophomore?

Sorry dude. Shoulda been drinking O'Douls. You can just go to ITT and be a game designer, no problem, right?

I don't quite understand the veracity of the problem.Dutch_Mix

Are you saying that I'm lying or that I'm holding the truth back?

[QUOTE="Dutch_Mix"]I don't quite understand the veracity of the problem.stupid4

Are you saying that I'm lying or that I'm holding the truth back?

[QUOTE="stupid4"]

[QUOTE="Dutch_Mix"]I don't quite understand the veracity of the problem.YourChaosIsntMe

Are you saying that I'm lying or that I'm holding the truth back?

I didn't really understand why he would used that word, so I assumed he was trying to hint at me holding the truth back or something along those lines.

You chose a good user name for yourself.TheOddQuantum

That's an orginal comment.

[QUOTE="TheOddQuantum"]You chose a good user name for yourself.stupid4

That's an orginal comment.

Not gonna lie man, that sucks. Do you have to wait until next year to finish off your senior year?Laughlin_12

No I'm going to go to my local public school now. It sucks, but at least I'm only going to be there for two months. What really has me worried is wether or not Brown will still let me wrestle for them, let alone go to college there.

You school is gonna get canned because a kid had a seizure? Whoever decided to can your school is a moron.BumFluff122

Yeah, but they were underage drinking. That's why they are in trouble.

Whoever decided not to read carefully is a moron.

[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]You school is gonna get canned because a kid had a seizure? Whoever decided to can your school is a moron.awssk8er716

Yeah, but they were underage drinking. That's why they are in trouble.

Whoever decided not to read carefully is a moron.

[QUOTE="freshgman"]well just get hammered againmusicaz70

It's not like I can get in anymore trouble that I am already in.

[QUOTE="musicaz70"][QUOTE="freshgman"]well just get hammered againstupid4

It's not like I can get in anymore trouble that I am already in.

[QUOTE="stupid4"]

[QUOTE="musicaz70"] ZINGBumFluff122

It's not like I can get in anymore trouble that I am already in.

Well I don't really want to get any of my friends in deep trouble, especially since they were kicked out too.

[QUOTE="Laughlin_12"]Not gonna lie man, that sucks. Do you have to wait until next year to finish off your senior year?stupid4

No I'm going to go to my local public school now. It sucks, but at least I'm only going to be there for two months. What really has me worried is wether or not Brown will still let me wrestle for them, let alone go to college there.

You can get people jailed or fined for giving alchohol to a minor.BumFluff122

[QUOTE="Zackariel"]Perhaps you shouldn't have gotten hammered. I reserve no sympathy for irresponsibility.stupid4

Normally I would agree with you, but now I'm not going to college and I don't get to wrestle anymore. Sound good?

*Edit* Didn't read whole thread, you're not blaming the school, well hope this teaches you a lesson and this is one of the things life throws at you: overcome it.

you didnt make it clear as to if you got hammered in your wrestling tournament or in recreational activities. but considering your school probably wouldnt kick you out because of your tournament lose, my advice would be to not drink on your school's time because one person can ruin it all just by having a seizure :lol:-xPANICx-

Well I wasn't hammered during the tournament, because I was wrestling in it and I won it. And you have to understand that this tournament was a big deal (state title on the line) and it was out of town two hours away. We had spent three days there and I was celebrating my victory.

[QUOTE="stupid4"]

[QUOTE="Laughlin_12"]Not gonna lie man, that sucks. Do you have to wait until next year to finish off your senior year?YourChaosIsntMe

No I'm going to go to my local public school now. It sucks, but at least I'm only going to be there for two months. What really has me worried is wether or not Brown will still let me wrestle for them, let alone go to college there.

That's about right. I haven't heard back from them yet.