I kind of messed up with a girl. I need OT's wise advice.

Your'e stting better than you think on this situation man. She obviously thinks your'e funny or something. I say, she's just being hard to get sorta. Just play it off if she asks you or brings up the butt grab. Just be like "Well I do feel bad leaving the other cheek out" or "Just checking your results. Seeing if you have the right trainer for the job. I have your back on this."

She likes the attention, just isn't sure about u yet dude. You haven't lost yet if she still wants to hang out.

[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="InEMplease"]

Pics or BS!

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You didn't mess up man.  If she let you squeeze her ass, and then agreed to hang out with you, you are relatively safe.  Unless you whip your c*ck out and slap her with it, you can establish a GF/BF relationship with this one.

chaoscougar1

[QUOTE="Barbariser"]

44 posts and nobody has asked for pics?

lightleggy

Amateur shit, bro. Gotta get set up with a concealed shirt sleeve spy cam. :P

She sounds like a slut.

She probably do all guys.

A slap in the ass should tell you whether she wants you or not.

She sounds like a slut.

She probably do all guys.

A slap in the ass should tell you whether she wants you or not.

TehFuneral

[QUOTE="Barbariser"]

44 posts and nobody has asked for pics?

lightleggy

Keep persisting, you already outright said your intentions and she did not flake. If you play it smart you probably can get it in.

[QUOTE="mingmao3046"][QUOTE="the_bi99man"]

So you tell her you two should make out... and she straight up says "no". Then you grab her ass... and she wants to go out next week?

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.

WolfattheDoor34

i think that she is interested but is still tyring to figure out what you want and how far she wants to go herself.

A lot of girls will change their mind about guys whne they are persistant.

I say just keep doing what you are doing.

[QUOTE="TehFuneral"]

She sounds like a slut.

She probably do all guys.

A slap in the ass should tell you whether she wants you or not.

lightleggy

You had me trippin at "beautifully sculpted by workout sessions".

today: I was walking home after a busy day, got to my bus stop at a park and then I remembered that an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in some time (like 5 or 6 months) lived like a block away from the bus stop.I called her and asked her if she wanted to come down to the park. So the girl arrives, and she is now ridiculously hot, i've always had a crush on her, but she pretty much went from 8.5 to 9.9 out of 10 in those 5 months. And she was wearing one of those small tops which only cover half of the torso, so you could see her belly, which was beautifully sculpted from work out sessions. She told me she was single and that she wasn't looking out for anything serious. I just lost it by then, and I pretty much said "OK you're pretty bucking hot now and you dont want anything serious, neither do I, lets make out".

She laughed and rejected saying how she couldn't bring herself up to make out with me (tfw she has you friendzoned) because im her friend (even though I know she has made out with several friends in the past).Then I was walking her home, and I asked her abut the gym, she told me that she had even asked her instructor for exercisses to increase her butt size (all innuendos aside) and I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking. It didn't end with me being charged of sexual assault btw...she did told me she wants to go out next week, but I came home and realized it was a pretty dumb and sh(tty move.

Now im kind of at a stalemate...what can I do? She pretty much said she doesn't want to make out with me, but I dont know if she said it because of the extremely lame and stupid proposition I did while on the park. Should I try it again anyway when we go out next time? or just let it slide?

lightleggy

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]

today: I was walking home after a busy day, got to my bus stop at a park and then I remembered that an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in some time (like 5 or 6 months) lived like a block away from the bus stop.I called her and asked her if she wanted to come down to the park. So the girl arrives, and she is now ridiculously hot, i've always had a crush on her, but she pretty much went from 8.5 to 9.9 out of 10 in those 5 months. And she was wearing one of those small tops which only cover half of the torso, so you could see her belly, which was beautifully sculpted from work out sessions. She told me she was single and that she wasn't looking out for anything serious. I just lost it by then, and I pretty much said "OK you're pretty bucking hot now and you dont want anything serious, neither do I, lets make out".

She laughed and rejected saying how she couldn't bring herself up to make out with me (tfw she has you friendzoned) because im her friend (even though I know she has made out with several friends in the past).Then I was walking her home, and I asked her abut the gym, she told me that she had even asked her instructor for exercisses to increase her butt size (all innuendos aside) and I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking. It didn't end with me being charged of sexual assault btw...she did told me she wants to go out next week, but I came home and realized it was a pretty dumb and sh(tty move.

Now im kind of at a stalemate...what can I do? She pretty much said she doesn't want to make out with me, but I dont know if she said it because of the extremely lame and stupid proposition I did while on the park. Should I try it again anyway when we go out next time? or just let it slide?

Laihendi

ever considered stand up comedy?

[QUOTE="Laihendi"][QUOTE="lightleggy"]

today: I was walking home after a busy day, got to my bus stop at a park and then I remembered that an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in some time (like 5 or 6 months) lived like a block away from the bus stop.I called her and asked her if she wanted to come down to the park. So the girl arrives, and she is now ridiculously hot, i've always had a crush on her, but she pretty much went from 8.5 to 9.9 out of 10 in those 5 months. And she was wearing one of those small tops which only cover half of the torso, so you could see her belly, which was beautifully sculpted from work out sessions. She told me she was single and that she wasn't looking out for anything serious. I just lost it by then, and I pretty much said "OK you're pretty bucking hot now and you dont want anything serious, neither do I, lets make out".

She laughed and rejected saying how she couldn't bring herself up to make out with me (tfw she has you friendzoned) because im her friend (even though I know she has made out with several friends in the past).Then I was walking her home, and I asked her abut the gym, she told me that she had even asked her instructor for exercisses to increase her butt size (all innuendos aside) and I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking. It didn't end with me being charged of sexual assault btw...she did told me she wants to go out next week, but I came home and realized it was a pretty dumb and sh(tty move.

Now im kind of at a stalemate...what can I do? She pretty much said she doesn't want to make out with me, but I dont know if she said it because of the extremely lame and stupid proposition I did while on the park. Should I try it again anyway when we go out next time? or just let it slide?

frannkzappa

ever considered stand up comedy.

[QUOTE="frannkzappa"]

[QUOTE="Laihendi"] Women like to be controlled by a strong man so you should be confident and do what you want.The_Lipscomb

ever considered stand up comedy.

This is actually true. Confirmed by my own experience.

[QUOTE="Laihendi"][QUOTE="lightleggy"]

today: I was walking home after a busy day, got to my bus stop at a park and then I remembered that an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in some time (like 5 or 6 months) lived like a block away from the bus stop.I called her and asked her if she wanted to come down to the park. So the girl arrives, and she is now ridiculously hot, i've always had a crush on her, but she pretty much went from 8.5 to 9.9 out of 10 in those 5 months. And she was wearing one of those small tops which only cover half of the torso, so you could see her belly, which was beautifully sculpted from work out sessions. She told me she was single and that she wasn't looking out for anything serious. I just lost it by then, and I pretty much said "OK you're pretty bucking hot now and you dont want anything serious, neither do I, lets make out".

She laughed and rejected saying how she couldn't bring herself up to make out with me (tfw she has you friendzoned) because im her friend (even though I know she has made out with several friends in the past).Then I was walking her home, and I asked her abut the gym, she told me that she had even asked her instructor for exercisses to increase her butt size (all innuendos aside) and I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking. It didn't end with me being charged of sexual assault btw...she did told me she wants to go out next week, but I came home and realized it was a pretty dumb and sh(tty move.

Now im kind of at a stalemate...what can I do? She pretty much said she doesn't want to make out with me, but I dont know if she said it because of the extremely lame and stupid proposition I did while on the park. Should I try it again anyway when we go out next time? or just let it slide?

frannkzappa

ever considered stand up comedy?

[QUOTE="frannkzappa"]

[QUOTE="Laihendi"] Women like to be controlled by a strong man so you should be confident and do what you want.Laihendi

ever considered stand up comedy?

Rearden, D'Anconia and Galt were definitely bears. ;)

[QUOTE="Laihendi"][QUOTE="lightleggy"]

today: I was walking home after a busy day, got to my bus stop at a park and then I remembered that an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in some time (like 5 or 6 months) lived like a block away from the bus stop.I called her and asked her if she wanted to come down to the park. So the girl arrives, and she is now ridiculously hot, i've always had a crush on her, but she pretty much went from 8.5 to 9.9 out of 10 in those 5 months. And she was wearing one of those small tops which only cover half of the torso, so you could see her belly, which was beautifully sculpted from work out sessions. She told me she was single and that she wasn't looking out for anything serious. I just lost it by then, and I pretty much said "OK you're pretty bucking hot now and you dont want anything serious, neither do I, lets make out".

She laughed and rejected saying how she couldn't bring herself up to make out with me (tfw she has you friendzoned) because im her friend (even though I know she has made out with several friends in the past).Then I was walking her home, and I asked her abut the gym, she told me that she had even asked her instructor for exercisses to increase her butt size (all innuendos aside) and I just said "you already have enough" and I grabbed her ass, again, I dont even know what I Was thinking. It didn't end with me being charged of sexual assault btw...she did told me she wants to go out next week, but I came home and realized it was a pretty dumb and sh(tty move.

Now im kind of at a stalemate...what can I do? She pretty much said she doesn't want to make out with me, but I dont know if she said it because of the extremely lame and stupid proposition I did while on the park. Should I try it again anyway when we go out next time? or just let it slide?

frannkzappa

ever considered stand up comedy?

[QUOTE="Laihendi"][QUOTE="frannkzappa"]lol, oh lai

 

 

ever considered stand up comedy?

chunkowookie

Rearden, D'Anconia and Galt were definitely bears. ;)

[QUOTE="chunkowookie"]

[QUOTE="Laihendi"] I am guessing you have not studied Rand's theory of sex. If you want to know what women want then look at Dominique Francon and Dagny Taggart. Look at the type of people they had sex with (Peter Keating does not count).Laihendi

Rearden, D'Anconia and Galt were definitely bears. ;)

Hahaha. That's what I meant.

Lol, grabbing her ass is surely a bad move.

Lol, grabbing her ass is surely a bad move.

Cyberdot

she did told me she wants to go out next weeklightleggy

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]she did told me she wants to go out next weekZeviander

Seriously.  All that matters is that you haven't lost the battle.