I left that b-word.

Hi OT, I just left my gf of almost 2 years because she cheated on me. I just wanna know if I did the right thing. Sorry to make another girl thread in the OT, but I know there are girls here in the OT and guys who have been through what I have done. I tried to make it work at first, but she was just staying with me until after Christmas so she could get her presents. Everybody tells me she's gonna realize what she did wrong and try to come back, which I won't accept.

Honestly OT I feel good about what I did.

EDIT: This may get a couple laughs, but I messaged the guy on facebook that she cheated on me with, and was like grown up about it. Told him that he and my gf have no respect and that he can have her.

But I had forgotten to tell him to get a haircut (he's a suczz bag and don't shower very much. Also his hair is down to the middle of his back.)

So I had left him a message that wen't like this

Subject: Also...

Message : Get a haircut.

You did the right thing.

Hi OT, I just left my gf of almost 2 years because she cheated on me. I just wanna know if I did the right thing. Sorry to make another girl thread in the OT, but I know there are girls here in the OT and guys who have been through what I have done. I tried to make it work at first, but she was just staying with me until after Christmas so she could get her presents. Everybody tells me she's gonna realize what she did wrong and try to come back, which I won't accept.

Honestly OT I feel good about what I did.

JuggaloRandall

It's not your fault.....it's not your fault.....it's not your fault

Hi OT, I just left my gf of almost 2 years because she cheated on me. I just wanna know if I did the right thing. Sorry to make another girl thread in the OT, but I know there are girls here in the OT and guys who have been through what I have done. I tried to make it work at first, but she was just staying with me until after Christmas so she could get her presents. Everybody tells me she's gonna realize what she did wrong and try to come back, which I won't accept.

Honestly OT I feel good about what I did.

JuggaloRandall

Well done.

Keep your pimp hand strong.

Why would anyone say you did the wrong thing?Avistann

"It is prudent never to trust wholly those who have deceived us even once." Rene Descartes.

Well, you did the right thing. Even if she tries to come back, reject her.

[QUOTE="Avistann"]Why would anyone say you did the wrong thing?VaguelyTagged

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"][QUOTE="Avistann"]Why would anyone say you did the wrong thing?JuggaloRandall

Maybe she cheated cuz you are a juggalo.

she wasn't happy with you, so she cheated. you did the right thing. and you have the right to turn her down if she comes back. and you should. i'm not trying to tell you what to do, but i do support your choices.

you deserve better so don't let your self-esteem tell you otherwise.

Maybe she cheated cuz you are a juggalo.

GummiRaccoon

EDIT: This may get a couple laughs, but I messaged the guy on facebook that she cheated on me with, and was like grown up about it. Told him that he and my gf have no respect and that he can have her.

But I had forgotten to tell him to get a haircut (he's a suczz bag and don't shower very much. Also his hair is down to the middle of his back.)

So I had left him a message that wen't like this

Subject: Also...

Message : Get a haircut.

JuggaloRandall

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

Maybe she cheated cuz you are a juggalo.

JuggaloRandall

(//_-)

[QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"]

EDIT: This may get a couple laughs, but I messaged the guy on facebook that she cheated on me with, and was like grown up about it. Told him that he and my gf have no respect and that he can have her.

But I had forgotten to tell him to get a haircut (he's a suczz bag and don't shower very much. Also his hair is down to the middle of his back.)

So I had left him a message that wen't like this

Subject: Also...

Message : Get a haircut.

RPG-er

[QUOTE="RPG-er"][QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"]

EDIT: This may get a couple laughs, but I messaged the guy on facebook that she cheated on me with, and was like grown up about it. Told him that he and my gf have no respect and that he can have her.

But I had forgotten to tell him to get a haircut (he's a suczz bag and don't shower very much. Also his hair is down to the middle of his back.)

So I had left him a message that wen't like this

Subject: Also...

Message : Get a haircut.

JuggaloRandall

What's your obsession with respect? If you were constantly pushing that on your female, that might get old and if some other dude was talking real sweet to her and touching her shoulder... while you're talking about respect and magnets.

I could totally see where she is coming from.

[QUOTE="RPG-er"][QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"]

EDIT: This may get a couple laughs, but I messaged the guy on facebook that she cheated on me with, and was like grown up about it. Told him that he and my gf have no respect and that he can have her.

But I had forgotten to tell him to get a haircut (he's a suczz bag and don't shower very much. Also his hair is down to the middle of his back.)

So I had left him a message that wen't like this

Subject: Also...

Message : Get a haircut.

JuggaloRandall

[QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"][QUOTE="RPG-er"] hey, no need to take it out on the other guy. your ex is to blame.GummiRaccoon

What's your obsession with respect? If you were constantly pushing that on your female, that might get old and if some other dude was talking real sweet to her and touching her shoulder... while you're talking about respect and magnets.

I could totally see where she is coming from.

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"] He could have stopped her though. But he disrespected me and let her do what she wanted. If I was in that situation i wouldn't have done that. I can honestly say that too because I never took advantage of a situation like that. JuggaloRandall

What's your obsession with respect? If you were constantly pushing that on your female, that might get old and if some other dude was talking real sweet to her and touching her shoulder... while you're talking about respect and magnets.

I could totally see where she is coming from.

So she says.

How can you trust anything she said at this point?

[QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"][QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

What's your obsession with respect? If you were constantly pushing that on your female, that might get old and if some other dude was talking real sweet to her and touching her shoulder... while you're talking about respect and magnets.

I could totally see where she is coming from.

GummiRaccoon

So she says.

How can you trust anything she said at this point?

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"] Im pushing respect because I was really disrespected, I didn't push **** like that before. So seriously, your really not getting anywhere. She cheated on me because she's a whore and got tired of me, but I have her virginity. So that's pretty cool to know.JuggaloRandall

So she says.

How can you trust anything she said at this point?

trying to say that you didn't necessarily get her v-card

[QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"]Did the right thing for yourself. However, stop the petty counterattacks. Sure, it feels good, but it leaves you open to a weak spot. You left her, leave it all. Dont encourage nor respond to anything from her, her friends, or the other guy. Basically, dont let the world know it got to you. Sure it got to you, but if you keep acknowledging their existence, then its going to get you alot more before its all said and done. Also, for love of it all, dont jump back into something too soon. Enjoy the single life. JuggaloRandall

[QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"][QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

So she says.

How can you trust anything she said at this point?

GummiRaccoon

trying to say that you didn't necessarily get her v-card

[QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"][QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"]Did the right thing for yourself. However, stop the petty counterattacks. Sure, it feels good, but it leaves you open to a weak spot. You left her, leave it all. Dont encourage nor respond to anything from her, her friends, or the other guy. Basically, dont let the world know it got to you. Sure it got to you, but if you keep acknowledging their existence, then its going to get you alot more before its all said and done. Also, for love of it all, dont jump back into something too soon. Enjoy the single life. CreasianDevaili

[QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"][QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"] I broke down, never cried so hard in my life. But that was 3 days ago, after that point I stopped caring because she tried to play me like a fiddle. She's bringing me all of my stuff back tomorrow and I told her I didn't even wan't what she got me for Christmas. After tomorrow I'll probably never see her again. Im not letting the world know that anything got to me, honestly I'm glad I did what I did and I'll be finding another girl, i don't like the single life, it's lonely.JuggaloRandall

Why would he want to go back to her?

Besides, she probably gave him sloppy seconds a time or 2 to avoid being caught. Not to mention giving a kiss after servicing the other dude.

bulls*** is weak. not ok

Why would he want to go back to her?

Besides, she probably gave him sloppy seconds a time or 2 to avoid being caught. Not to mention giving a kiss after servicing the other dude.

bulls*** is weak. not ok

GummiRaccoon

[QUOTE="RPG-er"][QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"] He could have stopped her though. But he disrespected me and let her do what she wanted. If I was in that situation i wouldn't have done that. I can honestly say that too because I never took advantage of a situation like that. JuggaloRandall

My friend is in the same situation the guy you're talking about is in. My friend is talking and constantly having little "sessions" with some chick that has a boyfriend and my friend is well aware of her boyfriend. I tell him he should just stop messing with the skeezbag because she will do the exact same thing to him, but does he listen to me? Hell no he doesn't. He's gonna catch an ass woopin from the girls boyfriend and I won't help him in any way when it happens.

You need to pop a cap, man. That gets you respect.

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

Why would he want to go back to her?

Besides, she probably gave him sloppy seconds a time or 2 to avoid being caught. Not to mention giving a kiss after servicing the other dude.

bulls*** is weak. not ok

JuggaloRandall

You definitely did the right thing. :)

[QUOTE="JuggaloRandall"][QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

Why would he want to go back to her?

Besides, she probably gave him sloppy seconds a time or 2 to avoid being caught. Not to mention giving a kiss after servicing the other dude.

bulls*** is weak. not ok

BoutDat26

You did the right thing.

Yes, you did what was best.

That sucks, and I'm sorry that happened since its not fun for anyone to go through. Props to you though man! she sounds like a totally dishonest and backstabbing woman so I say you're much better off without her

EDIT: This may get a couple laughs, but I messaged the guy on facebook that she cheated on me with, and was like grown up about it. Told him that he and my gf have no respect and that he can have her.

But I had forgotten to tell him to get a haircut (he's a suczz bag and don't shower very much. Also his hair is down to the middle of his back.)

So I had left him a message that wen't like this

Subject: Also...

Message : Get a haircut.

JuggaloRandall

Why would you be mad at the guy that she cheated with?
-unless he was your friend, what did he owe you?
-he is just another guy that found your GF attractive

TBH, I have never understood why people get mad at the person their partner cheated with (unless it was your friend...or, God forbid, your family that did it).
-just seems like misplaced anger.

Also, I have never understood why people want to 'tear down' the person their partner cheated with.
Obviously there was something your partner wanted/liked more in them than in you...
-so tearing them down only makes you look worse.
-I would want my GF to cheat with some hot, successful guy...if she left me for some loser, what does that say about me???

TL;DR version:
be mad at GF not the guy
don't hate on him, only makes you look worse

Why would anyone say you did the wrong thing?Avistann