I need advice..I'm wondering what kind of job I should get

This topic is locked from further discussion.

Avatar image for joshrocks2245
joshrocks2245

11248

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 2

User Lists: 0

#1 joshrocks2245
Member since 2003 • 11248 Posts

I have a few choices..I want to be a video game designer but I'll have to move to a different city to go to a college, and then I'll probably have to move again to get a job at a video game company. It may be hard to a new city where I don't even know anyone.
If I stay in my city I may have to work at some fast food joint forever, or maybe I could be a janitor or something.

I'm not really sure what I should do, is it easy to move to a new city and not even know anyone or know where anything is in the city?? Is it worse to work at a fast food joint forever?? I really don't know what to do.

Avatar image for Chris_Williams
Chris_Williams

14882

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#2 Chris_Williams
Member since 2009 • 14882 Posts

lets see, follow your dreams.....or stay at a dead end job..... u need advice for that :).....no matter what it takes go for it

Avatar image for markop2003
markop2003

29917

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#3 markop2003
Member since 2005 • 29917 Posts
Just move, do you seriously want to stay in the same city for the rest of your life :?
Avatar image for MikeLirette
MikeLirette

4697

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 6

User Lists: 0

#4 MikeLirette
Member since 2005 • 4697 Posts
Be honest with yourself, What do you really want? If I were you in that situation I would suck it up and move, and work towards what you would love to do. Just an opinion though.
Avatar image for BiancaDK
BiancaDK

19092

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 35

User Lists: 0

#5 BiancaDK
Member since 2008 • 19092 Posts
Provehito in altum!
Avatar image for Elizabear88
Elizabear88

79

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#6 Elizabear88
Member since 2009 • 79 Posts

Follow your dreams. If you dont, I promise you will regret it after 30 years of making fries at Mc Donalds. I am originally from a small town and I left to move to a big city. Yes, it was scary, but I couldn't stay stuck there forever.

You need to go somewhere where there are opportunities for growth. You will always make new friends. :)

Avatar image for FastNorwegian
FastNorwegian

859

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#7 FastNorwegian
Member since 2009 • 859 Posts
Volunteer for military service. You'll never ever regret it. :D
Avatar image for joshrocks2245
joshrocks2245

11248

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 2

User Lists: 0

#8 joshrocks2245
Member since 2003 • 11248 Posts

Well I know it is my dream to be a video game designer, it's just scary to think about moving to a bigger city where I don't know anyone. I don't really want to be working at some fast food joint forever, but it seems so hard to move away and be by my self in a giant city.

Avatar image for LosDaddie
LosDaddie

10318

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 57

User Lists: 0

#9 LosDaddie
Member since 2006 • 10318 Posts

Is this a serious question? :?

Of course you should move and pursue a career in your dream field. Don't worry about being alone BECAUSE YOU WILL MEET NEW FRIENDS IN COLLEGE..

Seriously, I only keep in touch with 2 friends from HS. The rest of my friends are either from college or work.

Avatar image for laxdude2010
laxdude2010

25

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#10 laxdude2010
Member since 2009 • 25 Posts
yeah follow your dreams! if you find something that you like then that is much better than something that you hate!
Avatar image for deactivated-5e836a855beb2
deactivated-5e836a855beb2

95573

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#11 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
Member since 2005 • 95573 Posts

Is this a serious question? :?

Of course you should move and pursue a career in your dream field. Don't worry about being alone BECAUSE YOU WILL MEET NEW FRIENDS IN COLLEGE..

Seriously, I only keep in touch with 2 friends from HS. The rest of my friends are either from college or work.

LosDaddie
Not true for me. I mostly keep in touch with HS and earlier friends.
Avatar image for JustPlainLucas
JustPlainLucas

80441

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 226

User Lists: 0

#12 JustPlainLucas
Member since 2002 • 80441 Posts
One the one side, you'll have a steady job and the familiarity of your own city, but on the other side, you'll be gambling with trying to pursue your dream. Even if you get your degrees, you may never land a job. However, if you want to stick to flipping burgers or cleaning toilets, you'll never know whether or not you made it...
Avatar image for LosDaddie
LosDaddie

10318

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 57

User Lists: 0

#13 LosDaddie
Member since 2006 • 10318 Posts

[QUOTE="LosDaddie"]

Is this a serious question? :?

Of course you should move and pursue a career in your dream field. Don't worry about being alone BECAUSE YOU WILL MEET NEW FRIENDS IN COLLEGE..

Seriously, I only keep in touch with 2 friends from HS. The rest of my friends are either from college or work.

Jandurin

Not true for me. I mostly keep in touch with HS and earlier friends.

But you did meet new friends in college, right?

Being aloneseems to be his main reason for not wanting to move away. It's an understandable concern, but I dunno, I can't remember being bored or alonein college.

Avatar image for deactivated-5e836a855beb2
deactivated-5e836a855beb2

95573

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#14 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
Member since 2005 • 95573 Posts

But you did meet new friends in college, right?

Being aloneseems to be his main reason for not wanting to move away. It's an understandable concern, but I dunno, I can't remember being bored or alonein college.

LosDaddie
I met lots of people in college. Hung out with them a bunch, but didn't keep up with them for some reason.
Avatar image for FastNorwegian
FastNorwegian

859

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#15 FastNorwegian
Member since 2009 • 859 Posts

Well I know it is my dream to be a video game designer, it's just scary to think about moving to a bigger city where I don't know anyone. I don't really want to be working at some fast food joint forever, but it seems so hard to move away and be by my self in a giant city.

joshrocks2245
Big cities just mean you are on your own more, if you are genuinely scared of crime or something, carry a small knife or something if handguns are banned. If you are just intimidated, don't let it hold you back. Confidence in yourself is the key. If you are just having trouble getting that first push, then have a friend or family member drive you out there with your bags.
Avatar image for joshrocks2245
joshrocks2245

11248

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 2

User Lists: 0

#16 joshrocks2245
Member since 2003 • 11248 Posts

One the one side, you'll have a steady job and the familiarity of your own city, but on the other side, you'll be gambling with trying to pursue your dream. Even if you get your degrees, you may never land a job. However, if you want to stick to flipping burgers or cleaning toilets, you'll never know whether or not you made it...JustPlainLucas

It just seems so hard to go to college in another city. I've always had my family taking care of me and I'm scared to leave them cause then no one would be taking care of me. It's hard to grow up and be independant when it's so nice to stay at home and be taken care of.

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"] Well I know it is my dream to be a video game designer, it's just scary to think about moving to a bigger city where I don't know anyone. I don't really want to be working at some fast food joint forever, but it seems so hard to move away and be by my self in a giant city. FastNorwegian
Big cities just mean you are on your own more, if you are genuinely scared of crime or something, carry a small knife or something if handguns are banned. If you are just intimidated, don't let it hold you back. Confidence in yourself is the key. If you are just having trouble getting that first push, then have a friend or family member drive you out there with your bags.

I wish one of my friends or family members could move with me to a new city, but they probably wouldn't. I would just be scared of being in a big city by my self, I've never been on my own and to be on my own in a city I'm not familiar with is scary.

Avatar image for thriteenthmonke
thriteenthmonke

49823

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#17 thriteenthmonke
Member since 2005 • 49823 Posts
Go into nanotechnology.
Avatar image for deactivated-5e836a855beb2
deactivated-5e836a855beb2

95573

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#18 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
Member since 2005 • 95573 Posts
Live out your dream job of burger flippery.
Avatar image for the_foreign_guy
the_foreign_guy

22657

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#19 the_foreign_guy
Member since 2005 • 22657 Posts

[QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"]

It just seems so hard to go to college in another city. I've always had my family taking care of me and I'm scared to leave them cause then no one would be taking care of me. It's hard to grow up and be independant when it's so nice to stay at home and be taken care of.

[QUOTE="FastNorwegian"][QUOTE="joshrocks2245"] Well I know it is my dream to be a video game designer, it's just scary to think about moving to a bigger city where I don't know anyone. I don't really want to be working at some fast food joint forever, but it seems so hard to move away and be by my self in a giant city. joshrocks2245

Big cities just mean you are on your own more, if you are genuinely scared of crime or something, carry a small knife or something if handguns are banned. If you are just intimidated, don't let it hold you back. Confidence in yourself is the key. If you are just having trouble getting that first push, then have a friend or family member drive you out there with your bags.

I wish one of my friends or family members could move with me to a new city, but they probably wouldn't. I would just be scared of being in a big city by my self, I've never been on my own and to be on my own in a city I'm not familiar with is scary.

Better to move out now, because you're going to be independent eventually. Gain some experience and live by yourself for a while, that'll help you realize what you really want.

Avatar image for joshrocks2245
joshrocks2245

11248

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 2

User Lists: 0

#20 joshrocks2245
Member since 2003 • 11248 Posts

Live out your dream job of burger flippery.Jandurin

I've thought of being a janitor too, it may not be the best job but at least it's a job.
So either I could be a janitor or design video games..It would be a lot easier if I could go to college in this city, but I can't, they don't offer any good courses.

Avatar image for deactivated-5e836a855beb2
deactivated-5e836a855beb2

95573

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#21 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
Member since 2005 • 95573 Posts

So either I could be a janitor or design video games..It would be a lot easier if I could go to college in this city, but I can't, they don't offer any good courses.

joshrocks2245
What kinds of video games?
Avatar image for joshrocks2245
joshrocks2245

11248

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 2

User Lists: 0

#22 joshrocks2245
Member since 2003 • 11248 Posts

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

[QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"] Big cities just mean you are on your own more, if you are genuinely scared of crime or something, carry a small knife or something if handguns are banned. If you are just intimidated, don't let it hold you back. Confidence in yourself is the key. If you are just having trouble getting that first push, then have a friend or family member drive you out there with your bags.the_foreign_guy

I wish one of my friends or family members could move with me to a new city, but they probably wouldn't. I would just be scared of being in a big city by my self, I've never been on my own and to be on my own in a city I'm not familiar with is scary.

Better to move out now, because you're going to be independent eventually. Gain some experience and live by yourself for a while, that'll help you realize what you really want.

Yeah I know but when I am older I will probably learn to be more independent, I still consider my self young. I'm only 21 so I still got lots of time to learn to be independent.

Avatar image for joshrocks2245
joshrocks2245

11248

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 2

User Lists: 0

#23 joshrocks2245
Member since 2003 • 11248 Posts

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

So either I could be a janitor or design video games..It would be a lot easier if I could go to college in this city, but I can't, they don't offer any good courses.

Jandurin

What kinds of video games?



Any kind, just console games. After college I would probably apply at EA, or Take Two or THQ or some other company. Then if I got a job with them I would probably have to move again :o

Avatar image for xXDrPainXx
xXDrPainXx

4001

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#24 xXDrPainXx
Member since 2008 • 4001 Posts
Best thing I ever did was get up and move out of my home state to go to school. You really do get to see new things and meet new people and I'm about to move to another city in 2 months to do it all over again. I didn't know anyone for the first few months but now I have a lot of people I can rely on or do things with.