I need help dealing with loneliness

[QUOTE="snugglebear"][QUOTE="rockerbikie"] I just learnt to depend on myself because it would helps me to be stronger. Many of my exs hurt me but it's easier to get over it.rockerbikie

I am kind of in the same situation right now. I have always felt some sort of loneliness but I hope to pursue being more social next year. Until then I will just keep to myself and be content with where I am.

[QUOTE="rockerbikie"] I have made mistakes with my friends in the past, with secrets that they leaked and humilated me. Alot of guys cheated though. I knew they were immature for doing it so I jsut got over it after 1 day.ayanami_rei

[QUOTE="rockerbikie"][QUOTE="snugglebear"] I'm sorry to hear that. Not all dude's are jerks, obviously, but if they're in your past there's a good reason for it. I'm glad that you're strong and independent. I made the mistake of trying to rely on people I thought were friends when my world was kind of falling apart. Worst mistake I could have made. So, you're already wiser than me.snugglebear

[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="rockerbikie"] I have made mistakes with my friends in the past, with secrets that they leaked and humilated me. Alot of guys cheated though. I knew they were immature for doing it so I jsut got over it after 1 day.snugglebear

[QUOTE="rockerbikie"] I have made mistakes with my friends in the past, with secrets that they leaked and humilated me. Alot of guys cheated though. I knew they were immature for doing it so I jsut got over it after 1 day.ayanami_rei

[QUOTE="rockerbikie"] I have made mistakes with my friends in the past, with secrets that they leaked and humilated me. Alot of guys cheated though. I knew they were immature for doing it so I jsut got over it after 1 day.ayanami_rei

[QUOTE="snugglebear"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"] I've been cheated on five times. I know how it feels. It sucks, a lot.rockerbikie

I've been through that quite a few times I just put up with it and get drink then everything goes back to normal, its weird how things go like that.

Buy a bullet, and rent a gun!MaxPred2010

Consider a boyfriend. And just try and make new friends. Its not as difficult as it may look.Warship_19

I understand the whole "finding new friends" thing, but that doesn't really address the problem.

The problem appears to be that her friends and family have become more distant. Well...WHY? Are they all just jerks? Are they all just super-busy and don't have time to hang out with her? Is she doing something to alienate her friends and family without even realizing it?

Trying to get new friends will give her new friends. But unless the problem was her friends all simultaneously deciding to ignore her for no reason whatsoever, then the problem is likely to happen again.

It's like if you buy a kitten and then it dies within a year. So then you buy another kitten and it dies too. And eventually you've gone through a dozen kittens, all of them dying within a year. Sure...you could just get another kitten. Then you'd have a kitten, problem solved. The problem was not having a kitten, now you've got a kitten, everything's awesome.

But that doesn't really address why all those other kittens were dying, does it?

[QUOTE="AudioPrison"]

Regarding the friends part where they don't spend much time with you, are you quite a quiet person?

And the mum thing, maybe those family problems are just on her mind right now. Dw about it. Try giving her random hugs. You'd be surprised on what a hug can do...although every time I give my mum a random hug she automatically thinks I want something :P

lexika

[QUOTE="cd_rom"][QUOTE="hedden93"]

Really tempted to post forever alone meme pic atm . . .

Anyway I have been a loner almost my entire life and I have just kinda learned to except it. I have a couple good friends and thats good enough for me. I'm actually starting to like being a loner

hedden93

so we are not your friends