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#1 googledotman
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6 months ago my friend gave me the sneaking suspicion that he was gay and i found out that he actually was on a blog he wrote and i outed him :( now we are drifting apart how can we become better friends

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#2 DressYouUp
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have you said SORRY ? :/
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#3 -Karayan-
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You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gay
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#5 nickmag
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You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gay-Karayan-
listen to this guy
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#6 googledotman
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have you said SORRY ? :/DressYouUp
Yes i have but now he is very depressed.
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#8 googledotman
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You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gay-Karayan-
I AM NOT HOMOPHOBIC IT IS JUST THAT WHEN I FOUND OUT I WAS SHOCKED AND FELT COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE. I DONT HATE HIM
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#9 dallas_cowboys3
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Okay?
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#10 nickmag
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"]You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gaygoogledotman
I AM NOT HOMOPHOBIC IT IS JUST THAT WHEN I FOUND OUT I WAS SHOCKED AND FELT COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE. I DONT HATE HIM

no wonder he doesnt like you anymore. why didnt you show some respect and support him if he's such a good friend and let him tell people he's gay in his own time - when he felt comfortable with it
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"]You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gaygoogledotman
I AM NOT HOMOPHOBIC IT IS JUST THAT WHEN I FOUND OUT I WAS SHOCKED AND FELT COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE. I DONT HATE HIM

Well it wasn't really up to you.  He probably trusted you to keep it to yourself and now you've broken that trust. Not much you can do really. Time heals all wounds blah blah.

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#12 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="googledotman"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"]You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gaynickmag
I AM NOT HOMOPHOBIC IT IS JUST THAT WHEN I FOUND OUT I WAS SHOCKED AND FELT COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE. I DONT HATE HIM

no wonder he doesnt like you anymore. why didnt you show some respect and support him if he's such a good friend and let him tell people he's gay in his own time - when he felt comfortable with it

Aye, he confided something in you and instead of showing support for something that's more difficult for him than you, you decided to blab about it. If he's your friend he'll forgive you if you say you're sorry and support him from now on.
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"]You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gaygoogledotman
FELT COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE.

WHY ? :/ Are you gay yourself and testing the water's with peoples reactions ?.... ...but you made a mistake, everybody does; get over that, just work on your friend ship and tell him that you're friends no matter what, etc etc. Perhaps you could ask some of his other friends to reaffirm their relationship with him. If you don't say/do anything in a situation like this the only way is down. Believe me, I've seen it all before.
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[QUOTE="googledotman"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"]You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gayDressYouUp
FELT COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE.

WHY ? :/ Are you gay yourself and testing the water's with peoples reactions ?.... ...but you made a mistake, everybody does; get over that, just work on your friend ship and tell him that you're friends no matter what, etc etc. Perhaps you could ask some of his other friends to reaffirm their relationship with him. If you don't say/do anything in a situation like this the only way is down. Believe me, I've seen it all before.

Maybe this is why you're friendship is breaking appart.
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[QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="googledotman"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"]You could try to stop being such a homophobic jerk, and apologize and recognize there's nothing wrong with being gaydallas_cowboys3
FELT COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE.

WHY ? :/ Are you gay yourself and testing the water's with peoples reactions ?.... ...but you made a mistake, everybody does; get over that, just work on your friend ship and tell him that you're friends no matter what, etc etc. Perhaps you could ask some of his other friends to reaffirm their relationship with him. If you don't say/do anything in a situation like this the only way is down. Believe me, I've seen it all before.

Maybe this is why you're friendship is breaking appart.

EH ?
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#19 DressYouUp
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if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
Thats ridiculous.
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#21 nickmag
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if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
you do realise that its usually the most homophobic people that end up being gay
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#23 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

So you don't think for yourself, way to go sheep!
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#24 DressYouUp
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[QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

I live in Sydney and as you know the place is almost populated exclusively by homosexuals :P Whats your reasoning ? because theyre different ? Because you think their wanna get into your pants ? Seriously, I would really hate to pick and choose friends based on whom they chose to share their life and bed with.
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#25 Whicker89
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[QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

Western Australia I bet
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#27 DressYouUp
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[QUOTE="nickmag"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
you do realise that its usually the most homophobic people that end up being gay

yes i do know that, though im not gay

Hmm... whats with the TWINKY BOY in your avatar ?!
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#29 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

So you don't think for yourself, way to go sheep!

no, its just how it is out here.

So? You don't have to conform to their sexist ideas.
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#30 nickmag
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

So you don't think for yourself, way to go sheep!

no, its just how it is out here.

doesnt mean you have to be like that too! think for yourself!
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#31 DressYouUp
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[QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to him-Karayan-
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

So you don't think for yourself, way to go sheep!

no, its just how it is out here.

So? You don't have to conform to their sexist ideas.

Little does he know that there are one or two repressed homosexuals amongst "his own kind"...
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#32 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himDressYouUp
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

So you don't think for yourself, way to go sheep!

no, its just how it is out here.

So? You don't have to conform to their sexist ideas.

Little does he know that there are one or two repressed homosexuals amongst "his own kind"...

Five percent of the population is gay. That's one out of every twenty people you know, friends, family.
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#34 IwubYuna
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Apligize and try and get together to do some things you used to do when  you both were straight to bring up old times :|
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[QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

I live in Sydney and as you know the place is almost populated exclusively by homosexuals :P Whats your reasoning ? because theyre different ? Because you think their wanna get into your pants ? Seriously, I would really hate to pick and choose friends based on whom they chose to share their life and bed with.

my reasoning is (im gonna get flamed for this) that it isnt natural to be gay its against human nature and the bible. im sorry if i have offended anyone

Fair enough. Hmm.. I just find it a bit dissapointing that in 2007 people still harbour thoughts like this, thats all.
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#36 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="rahzel31"] my reasoning is (im gonna get flamed for this) that it isnt natural to be gay its against human nature and the bible. im sorry if i have offended anyone

NOT NATURAL???? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_practicing_homosexual_behavior
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[QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="DressYouUp"][QUOTE="rahzel31"]if it was me i would stop being friends with him. i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to himrahzel31
Thats ridiculous.

i live in a rural city in australia and homosexuals aren't accepted and i am of the same mindset

I live in Sydney and as you know the place is almost populated exclusively by homosexuals :P Whats your reasoning ? because theyre different ? Because you think their wanna get into your pants ? Seriously, I would really hate to pick and choose friends based on whom they chose to share their life and bed with.

my reasoning is (im gonna get flamed for this) that it isnt natural to be gay its against human nature and the bible. im sorry if i have offended anyone

Fair enough. Hmm.. I just find it a bit dissapointing that in 2007 people still harbour thoughts like this, thats all.

yea well basically my whole community don't accept homosexuals

I can understand that coming from a small place you'd be seen as an outcast for displaying too much individuality (in that respect anyway), but it's good to develop your own train of thought you know ? People might follow your lead, you just never know.
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#41 X-gamer-88
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Don't get me wrong but you should talk to other gay people because they know what to do, they have the same feelings so they will give you good advice. 
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#42 luke1889
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[QUOTE="luke1889"][QUOTE="googledotman"]

6 months ago my friend gave me the sneaking suspicion that he was gay and i found out that he actually was on a blog he wrote and i outed him :( now we are drifting apart how can we become better friends

DressYouUp

Give him what he wants.

DICK... ...Cheney.

Someone called?

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#43 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"] my reasoning is (im gonna get flamed for this) that it isnt natural to be gay its against human nature and the bible. im sorry if i have offended anyone

NOT NATURAL???? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_practicing_homosexual_behavior

Care to comment at all?
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"] my reasoning is (im gonna get flamed for this) that it isnt natural to be gay its against human nature and the bible. im sorry if i have offended anyone

NOT NATURAL???? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_practicing_homosexual_behavior

Care to comment at all?

He has to wait for his towns opinion first, remember....
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And this is affecting your friendship why? If you really are friends you should be able to accept him for who he is.
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#47 -Karayan-
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[QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"] my reasoning is (im gonna get flamed for this) that it isnt natural to be gay its against human nature and the bible. im sorry if i have offended anyone

NOT NATURAL???? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_practicing_homosexual_behavior

Care to comment at all?

who me?

You said it wasn't natural, I just proved it is indeed. How can homosexuality be a choice when even insects can be homosexual?
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#48 DressYouUp
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[QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="-Karayan-"][QUOTE="rahzel31"] my reasoning is (im gonna get flamed for this) that it isnt natural to be gay its against human nature and the bible. im sorry if i have offended anyone

NOT NATURAL???? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_practicing_homosexual_behavior

Care to comment at all?

who me?

You said it wasn't natural, I just proved it is indeed. How can homosexuality be a choice when even insects can be homosexual?

Animals and insects are clearly the work of THE DEVIL.
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#49 googledotman
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[QUOTE="luke1889"][QUOTE="googledotman"]

6 months ago my friend gave me the sneaking suspicion that he was gay and i found out that he actually was on a blog he wrote and i outed him :( now we are drifting apart how can we become better friends

DressYouUp
Give him what he wants.

DICK... ...Cheney.

HA! HA! HA! Even if he is gay he wouldnt want some old fat white man
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