I pushed a girl today(or hit her whatever sounds right).

Now just listen to my little story of what happened today. Ok, so about a couple of weeks ago we were dating, and then she said that she doesn't want to be in a serious relationship and just wants to be friends. So of course that hurt, but hey we were still friends so that was ok. Today, this big mouth girl...I swear she deserves a sword through her head, anyway apparently she knew my ex and she came and talked to me about it. Basically asked why and stuff like that, I basically jokingly responded "she was a whore" and said other bad things. Of course I was just joking. So she goes and tells her what I said, and this is really bad because see my ex gets pissed off really easily.

She is one of those "independent women" kind of person and always acts tough. She came at me and started yelling and shouting at me really loud. She was physically shoving me and stuff and it got to the point where I think anyone would snap. So I pushed her really hard and she hit the lockers. Was silent, and she gave me that "i can't believe you did that" look. Now I feel terrible and I don't know if I should write her a letter to apologize or what. I mean, she was asking for it though. I don't know, I feel really bad now, and don't know what I should do. Also, don't post 'pics or it didn't happen." I'm not in the mood...

Confront her asap, tell her that what her friend said was due to a misunderstanding, and apologize. Otherwise, you'll continue to grow apart, and you'll lose any chance of becoming friends again. If she doesn't accept your apology, at least you can say that you triedRPG10080

Hurry!

I usually moon girls if they're coming at me like that. That tends to keep them away pretty well. Anyways, I would suggest talking to her and make it sound like you made the dumbest move of your life. You know, just say, "I'm sorry I was such a dumbass when I pushed you. I don't know what I was thinking and if you can ever forgive me I would really appreciate it." If that doesn't work, then...sorry.

:shock:....... so, pics eh?DFan17902

God, if you really want to see her then pm me if you are that desperate for a pic. Also, I am just going to be writing an apology letter and if she doesn't say anything about it then that's that.

If shes so independant and tough, then she'll get over it. I really don't see any need to apologize if she was pushing you. Woman treated equally, remember?Shrapnel99

Exactly right, well put

If shes so independant and tough, then she'll get over it. I really don't see any need to apologize if she was pushing you. Woman treated equally, remember?Shrapnel99

Did you even warn her to stop pushing you around or did you just act first and think later? Then again, what would make you joke around and say something like that anyway? You know how fast rumors get started.

Atleast you didnt pull a McClane on her.SaintLeonidas

If she doesn't accept it, well, she's just a *****JustPlainLucas

[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]Atleast you didnt pull a McClane on her.needled24-7

[QUOTE="Shrapnel99"]If shes so independant and tough, then she'll get over it. I really don't see any need to apologize if she was pushing you. Woman treated equally, remember?Yagami-Iori

Exactly right, well put

That was the first thing I thought of. But anyway, I would apologize to her because it is the mature thing to do. If she doesn't like you after that then it's her problem, not yours.

When in doubt ask yourself, What would Chuck Norris do? and I don't mean kick her in the throat.

[QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"]If she doesn't accept it, well, she's just a *****VetteMan85

Well, as someone who sincerely apologizes for what they've said and done, and then to just ignore that apology (it's not like she got decked in the face and got a black eye, and she did intiate the shoving first), I just few someone not accepting a heartfelt apology as a *****. Sorry, that's just how I feel.

In hindsight, you should've walked away when you felt the slightest bit of anger/frustration. It's too late now, so I suggest apologizing face to face.

Now just listen to my little story of what happened today. Ok, so about a couple of weeks ago we were dating, and then she said that she doesn't want to be in a serious relationship and just wants to be friends. So of course that hurt, but hey we were still friends so that was ok. Today, this big mouth girl...I swear she deserves a sword through her head, anyway apparently she knew my ex and she came and talked to me about it. Basically asked why and stuff like that, I basically jokingly responded "she was a whore" and said other bad things. Of course I was just joking. So she goes and tells her what I said, and this is really bad because see my ex gets pissed off really easily.

She is one of those "independent women" kind of person and always acts tough. She came at me and started yelling and shouting at me really loud. She was physically shoving me and stuff and it got to the point where I think anyone would snap. So I pushed her really hard and she hit the lockers. Was silent, and she gave me that "i can't believe you did that" look. Now I feel terrible and I don't know if I should write her a letter to apologize or what. I mean, she was asking for it though. I don't know, I feel really bad now, and don't know what I should do. Also, don't post 'pics or it didn't happen." I'm not in the mood...

Mudig

If anyone ever Makes you angry, YOU have to be the responsible one, and keep your hands to yourself, Hitting a woman, IN ANY CONTEXT, WHATSOEVER, IS NOT ONLY DISRESPECTFUL, BUT SEXIST, DO. NOT. DO, IT, AGAIN, APOLOGIZE, thank you.

[QUOTE="DFan17902"]:shock:....... so, pics eh?Mudig

God, if you really want to see her then pm me if you are that desperate for a pic. Also, I am just going to be writing an apology letter and if she doesn't say anything about it then that's that.

heh i pmed u for a pic and you didnt reply

If women are equal enough to vote, they're equal enough to be hit.

If some chick was gettin all up in ma koolaid I'd do what you did for sure.

It was in self defense right? Then you were justified in my eyes.

If she's man enough to push you, then she's man enough to be puhed back. Just how I feel.

tell her that your sorry and that you shouldent have pushed her, even if she DID deserve it. Also tell her about the misunderstanding that happened with that other *****puremage1209

yo i love your avatar.

Yeah and i wouldnt of hit her bad move. You should have just grabbed her hands and not let her push u or something.

Confort her.playstation2004

in a fight or apologising... either way just think "what would chuck Norris do?" :)

[QUOTE="Mudig"]

Now just listen to my little story of what happened today. Ok, so about a couple of weeks ago we were dating, and then she said that she doesn't want to be in a serious relationship and just wants to be friends. So of course that hurt, but hey we were still friends so that was ok. Today, this big mouth girl...I swear she deserves a sword through her head, anyway apparently she knew my ex and she came and talked to me about it. Basically asked why and stuff like that, I basically jokingly responded "she was a whore" and said other bad things. Of course I was just joking. So she goes and tells her what I said, and this is really bad because see my ex gets pissed off really easily.

She is one of those "independent women" kind of person and always acts tough. She came at me and started yelling and shouting at me really loud. She was physically shoving me and stuff and it got to the point where I think anyone would snap. So I pushed her really hard and she hit the lockers. Was silent, and she gave me that "i can't believe you did that" look. Now I feel terrible and I don't know if I should write her a letter to apologize or what. I mean, she was asking for it though. I don't know, I feel really bad now, and don't know what I should do. Also, don't post 'pics or it didn't happen." I'm not in the mood...

makaveli2344

If anyone ever Makes you angry, YOU have to be the responsible one, and keep your hands to yourself, Hitting a woman, IN ANY CONTEXT, WHATSOEVER, IS NOT ONLY DISRESPECTFUL, BUT SEXIST, DO. NOT. DO, IT, AGAIN, APOLOGIZE, thank you.

i take major issue with that... how the hell is it sexist if you push/shove a woman in slef defence... the TC wsnt exactly justified but he wasnt being sexist. And when you say in whatever context you take it too far. I know for a fact i will fight back if a woman comes at me with a knife or whatever.... and dont BS me on being sexist cause im defending myself. Yopu are pig ignorant if you believe that this was a sexist act. You are very cwrong in saying that we(men) "MUST be the responsible ones" when we are being assaulted by women we must refrain ourselves completely, yet you dont deem being assaulted by a female to be disrespectful?

you are very biased and ignorant...

i take major issue with that... how the hell is it sexist if you push/shove a woman in slef defence... the TC wsnt exactly justified but he wasnt being sexist. And when you say in whatever context you take it too far. I know for a fact i will fight back if a woman comes at me with a knife or whatever.... and dont BS me on being sexist cause im defending myself. Yopu are pig ignorant if you believe that this was a sexist act. You are very cwrong in saying that we(men) "MUST be the responsible ones" when we are being assaulted by women we must refrain ourselves completely, yet you dont deem being assaulted by a female to be disrespectful? muppet1010

Word. It's actually sexist to not hit a woman back because of the fact she's a woman.OfficialJab

yeah... its like saying they are weaker than us etc etc

Confort her.playstation2004