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#52 fastesttruck
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I hate mine as well. But not b/c he wants me to get better grades in school.
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#53 elfimis
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[QUOTE="ras2009"]At least you have a daddy :cry:OICWUTUDIDTHAR
This.

This again. Last time i saw mine i was like 13-14(im 21 now,22 in april:D). Never knew him to well, and if i run into him again ill probably kick his ***

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#54 JustPlainLucas
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join the club, we all go through that crap with parents.freshgman
I dunno... my parents never did drugs while they abandonded me. :?
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#55 Kenny789
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I experienced the same thing but to a lesser extent and it was my mom :( She was really bad to me and my sister and she is bipolar. One day, she wanted to talk to me and my sis about our love. She noticed that me and my sister showed her less and less love as time went by and wanted to know why. Me and my sister told her everything we needed to say and she broke down and cried. She promised to try and fix her attitude. As of now, she still has some trouble controlling her attitude especially when it comes to my grades but she has improved a lot. Like, 90% improvement. We're really happy now and I hope the same would happen to you. Good luck with your dad.
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#56 sukraj
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Sorry to hear that lol.
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#58 echoey
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My stepdad doesnt allow me to have weapons in the house he thinks ill beat him down with them haha

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#59 cheese7monkey
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sorry to ask TC since it sounds ****, but what about your mother? like can you not go stay with her since i know if one of my parents was like that i would just bugger off and stay with the other one permanently you really shouldn't put up with it, i imagine he's probably quite scary or else you would've stood up to him so in your situation i'd either run away or call social services but it's definately annoying; when your parent just don't notice that they should be parenting - though never had it to that degree
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#60 bethwo
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Sounds like your dad needs to go to rehab.
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#61 Gamer4Iife
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Damn, dude. That's a pretty messed up life you have.

How old are you ? I would suggest getting the hell out of that place as soon as possible.

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#62 McJugga
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Well, I would cry if I got a b+. I think something runs in the family...
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#63 Morning_Revival
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Did you try to tell him that?
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#64 RenegadePatriot
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Just do not let what he says bother just shut him out and enjoy your life.
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#65 dan-rofl-copter
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You need to some how talk to him.
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#66 ras2009
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[QUOTE="elfimis"]

[QUOTE="OICWUTUDIDTHAR"] This.OICWUTUDIDTHAR

This again. Last time i saw mine i was like 13-14(im 21 now,22 in april:D). Never knew him to well, and if i run into him again ill probably kick his ***

Haven't seen him, or any member of my family since I was 15, 21 now. I had folk parents though. Don't think I'll run into them again though.

Group hug :P
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#67 xsamk91
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rip his balls off and tell him f*&k off

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#68 ras2009
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rip his balls off and tell him f*&k off

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That could work :o
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#69 LostProphetFLCL
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I'm sorry TC. I guess you just gotta deal with it untill you are out on your own.

I actually got lucky because my dad ended up going to jail so I didn't have to put up with his **** anymore...

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#70 SSBFan12
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I can't stand my dad. He gets me stressed out all the time. I get a b+ he yells at me tells me that im worthless and never try my best. He always accuses people of the worst thing possible.

He's left me a sports games and stores with my friends while he was driving us when he went off and did cocaine then was too scared to come back and get us. He never thinks anything is his fault, but he thinks he is the reason for everything good.

He told me tonight that my sisters aren't even related to me. He is just an a****** to everyone in general.

He always goes on talking about something then suddenly like mixes into another subject then another and another and so on just talking at hours at a time about pretty much nothing. He says he quit doing drugs, but I still don't believe him even though everyone does.

One of my worst memories with him was when I was about 8-10 and I came home from school an he was there alone and he started yelling at me saying I'm a p**** and never stick up for myself. Most of my childhood he wasn't there he always worked far away and was away weeks at a time doing drugs and cheating on my mother. I never put him down for it or even said anything even close to rude to him, yet he always puts me down.

Recently I picked up smoking cigarettes and marijuana, he caught me smoking cigarettes and was very mad, which I could understand, but now every day he accuses me of stealing cigarettes but I haven't smoked in weeks.


His current girlfriend is really nice, I know she smokes pot, which I don't care about, but he always talks crap about how my sisters do it. He gets drunk and accuses her of cheating on him, and then drives off wasted when he has a suspended license.

I seriously hate my dad. I wish he didn't do these things.

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Your dad must be the worse then cause my real dad and step dad don't do that to me.
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#71 pygmahia5
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[QUOTE="freshgman"]join the club, we all go through that crap with parents.mattpunkgd
I dont think you read all of it...

yea prolly not. but i sympathize for you man. my dad was kind of like yours. drugs, alcohol, womanizer, but then my mom divorced him and now i have a wonderful stepdad whom i wish was my real dad. i hate my dad too so i relate to you in that way. idk how i can help you but maybe just tell him off or something and be ready for a smack or punch in the head.
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#72 MgamerBD
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There comes a time when a boy wants to fight his father and yours have finally come..
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#73 -Sniper99-
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Your dad does cocaine but got mad at you for weed?:|
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#74 muthsera666
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he's still ur dad & will remain so for eternity.liquidvssolid

You say this as though a biological connection implies that there is some reason to remain supportive. A circumstance of birth does not tie anyone to anyone else. We should all be judged on who we are, not what we are. The fact the man is his biological father does not mean that he is his dad...

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#75 robobie
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My dad always try to do whats best for my family. He goes off working at 6 in the morning and doesn't get home until 8 in the night just so we can barely make ends meet. And whenever I need something he is always there for me. He always comes to all my football matches and encourages me to do my best. My dads a great guy.
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#76 Sway-
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Life sux.
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#77 Anti-Venom
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Print your post and leave it on the table for him to pick up and read. Or is he very inconsiderate? >_>Vanadium2k8
Thats actually a very good idea
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#78 aceofspades076
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[QUOTE="Vanadium2k8"]Print your post and leave it on the table for him to pick up and read. Or is he very inconsiderate? >_>Anti-Venom
Thats actually a very good idea

I really think you should do that.
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#79 mattpunkgd
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[QUOTE="liquidvssolid"]Remember, you r not your dad. Wat he's doing is wrong & very bad; it seems like he never took parenting lessons. U didn't say how old u r right now but I'm guessing above 18. Don't give a damn to the negative things he says. Ignore him if he tries to get on your nerves but try your best to respect him, coz even if 'The world ends with u' he's still ur dad & will remain so for eternity. I know thats easier said than done...believe me, I know. Also, please try to throw the habit of smoking & drugs altogether; that way u r making yourself become everything opposite to what he is. Hold up your morals, that we u'll be a better person than your dad.

I'm actually 14. I only use pot when I am really really stressed and never over do it.
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#80 mattpunkgd
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Your dad does cocaine but got mad at you for weed?:|-Sniper99-
No he never caught me with weed, just cigs.
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#81 mattpunkgd
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[QUOTE="Vanadium2k8"]Print your post and leave it on the table for him to pick up and read. Or is he very inconsiderate? >_>Anti-Venom
Thats actually a very good idea

He would most likely take it as an insult not that I'm having problems.
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#82 MattUD1
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It's ok... I dislike my mom for various reasons.
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#83 mattpunkgd
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Damn, dude. That's a pretty messed up life you have.

How old are you ? I would suggest getting the hell out of that place as soon as possible.

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I really have nowhere to go. And to others that asked about my mom... she is with a man that is a x-druggy and drinks everyday non stop (wakes up and has a 6 pack) refuses to get a job and I absolutely hate him, plus his son beat me.
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#84 awssk8er716
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Steal his pillows.Vanadium2k8

Now that is a little too far... My gears would be grinded if someone took my pillows!

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#85 PovietSanda
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Your dad seems pretty legit, Id like to chill with him. You're just too much of a sissy to hang with a man of such high caliber.
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#86 swazidoughman
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cool story bro;)
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#87 shoeman12
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I can't stand my dad. He gets me stressed out all the time. I get a b+ he yells at me tells me that im worthless and never try my best. He always accuses people of the worst thing possible.

He's left me a sports games and stores with my friends while he was driving us when he went off and did cocaine then was too scared to come back and get us. He never thinks anything is his fault, but he thinks he is the reason for everything good.

He told me tonight that my sisters aren't even related to me. He is just an a****** to everyone in general.

He always goes on talking about something then suddenly like mixes into another subject then another and another and so on just talking at hours at a time about pretty much nothing. He says he quit doing drugs, but I still don't believe him even though everyone does.

One of my worst memories with him was when I was about 8-10 and I came home from school an he was there alone and he started yelling at me saying I'm a p**** and never stick up for myself. Most of my childhood he wasn't there he always worked far away and was away weeks at a time doing drugs and cheating on my mother. I never put him down for it or even said anything even close to rude to him, yet he always puts me down.

Recently I picked up smoking cigarettes and marijuana, he caught me smoking cigarettes and was very mad, which I could understand, but now every day he accuses me of stealing cigarettes but I haven't smoked in weeks.


His current girlfriend is really nice, I know she smokes pot, which I don't care about, but he always talks crap about how my sisters do it. He gets drunk and accuses her of cheating on him, and then drives off wasted when he has a suspended license.

I seriously hate my dad. I wish he didn't do these things.

join the club, we all go through that crap with parents.freshgman

really? your parents did that?

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#88 mattpunkgd
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Your dad seems pretty legit, Id like to chill with him. You're just too much of a sissy to hang with a man of such high caliber. PovietSanda
Screaming in a young child's face is cool?
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#89 PovietSanda
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[QUOTE="PovietSanda"]Your dad seems pretty legit, Id like to chill with him. You're just too much of a sissy to hang with a man of such high caliber. mattpunkgd
Screaming in a young child's face is cool?

Like smoking, its all a peer pressure thing.

You start off easy, yelling at some stranger's kids because your friends tell you its cool. Then you get hooked, soon enough you're doing wicked things in an olive garden bathroom just to get a little scratch to save up for a kid of your own to yell at.

Its really a vicious cycle.

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#90 tofu-lion91
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Steal his pillows.Vanadium2k8
Good idea. You're dad sounds like a moo - it's awful to hear of parents putting their kids down. I'm lucky that my mums pushed me a little but has always been proud of what I achieved whether it was an A or a C. I'd advise calling a helpline for teenagers so you can speak to someone that can tell you the best thing to do :) I don't think we're going to be much help on here.
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#91 mattpunkgd
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[QUOTE="Vanadium2k8"]Steal his pillows.tofu-lion91
Good idea. You're dad sounds like a moo - it's awful to hear of parents putting their kids down. I'm lucky that my mums pushed me a little but has always been proud of what I achieved whether it was an A or a C. I'd advise calling a helpline for teenagers so you can speak to someone that can tell you the best thing to do :) I don't think we're going to be much help on here.

I've thought about calling one, but I'm usually always around my dad, and I don't want him to hear. I'm finaly geting a futon to sleep on today so I might be able to.
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#92 tofu-lion91
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[QUOTE="mattpunkgd"] I've thought about calling one, but I'm usually always around my dad, and I don't want him to hear. I'm finaly geting a futon to sleep on today so I might be able to.

Go for it - good luck sorting things out :)
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#93 raze-boi
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I don't like those types of people, their behaviour is just stupid and embarrasing.
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#94 Rigga911
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tell him your gay
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#95 Kill_My_Self
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your lungs are black! And that must suck lol
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#97 Gaming-Planet
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My dad was the same... He was punished by the demons around my house and he fell down the stairs. The gates of hell were opened at my old house.

He almost killed my mom once... good thing he's out of life now.

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#98 Norg
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well ur father is obvs a druggie and needs to get some help in a rehab center
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#99 danjammer69
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TC, thank you....

Your thread caused me to get up, go into my son's bedroom, and give him another kiss goodnight....just because.

I hope your dad gets his act together, for both of you. Tonight I will pray for a stranger.

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#100 cheese7monkey
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no offense, but i think you should take this topic somehwere else than gamespot forums... if you've a cellphone (as americans call it)) then call social services when you're at school or somewhere, if not then get one of your friends to do it my only other advice would be to lock your room off from the rest of the building and try and just completely shut him out, but i dunno if that'd work