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join the club, we all go through that crap with parents.freshgmanI dunno... my parents never did drugs while they abandonded me. :?
Damn, dude. That's a pretty messed up life you have.
How old are you ? I would suggest getting the hell out of that place as soon as possible.
[QUOTE="elfimis"][QUOTE="OICWUTUDIDTHAR"] This.OICWUTUDIDTHAR
This again. Last time i saw mine i was like 13-14(im 21 now,22 in april:D). Never knew him to well, and if i run into him again ill probably kick his ***
Haven't seen him, or any member of my family since I was 15, 21 now. I had folk parents though. Don't think I'll run into them again though.Group hug :PI'm sorry TC. I guess you just gotta deal with it untill you are out on your own.
I actually got lucky because my dad ended up going to jail so I didn't have to put up with his **** anymore...
Your dad must be the worse then cause my real dad and step dad don't do that to me.I can't stand my dad. He gets me stressed out all the time. I get a b+ he yells at me tells me that im worthless and never try my best. He always accuses people of the worst thing possible.
He's left me a sports games and stores with my friends while he was driving us when he went off and did cocaine then was too scared to come back and get us. He never thinks anything is his fault, but he thinks he is the reason for everything good.
He told me tonight that my sisters aren't even related to me. He is just an a****** to everyone in general.
He always goes on talking about something then suddenly like mixes into another subject then another and another and so on just talking at hours at a time about pretty much nothing. He says he quit doing drugs, but I still don't believe him even though everyone does.
One of my worst memories with him was when I was about 8-10 and I came home from school an he was there alone and he started yelling at me saying I'm a p**** and never stick up for myself. Most of my childhood he wasn't there he always worked far away and was away weeks at a time doing drugs and cheating on my mother. I never put him down for it or even said anything even close to rude to him, yet he always puts me down.
Recently I picked up smoking cigarettes and marijuana, he caught me smoking cigarettes and was very mad, which I could understand, but now every day he accuses me of stealing cigarettes but I haven't smoked in weeks.
His current girlfriend is really nice, I know she smokes pot, which I don't care about, but he always talks crap about how my sisters do it. He gets drunk and accuses her of cheating on him, and then drives off wasted when he has a suspended license.I seriously hate my dad. I wish he didn't do these things.
mattpunkgd
[QUOTE="freshgman"]join the club, we all go through that crap with parents.mattpunkgdI dont think you read all of it... yea prolly not. but i sympathize for you man. my dad was kind of like yours. drugs, alcohol, womanizer, but then my mom divorced him and now i have a wonderful stepdad whom i wish was my real dad. i hate my dad too so i relate to you in that way. idk how i can help you but maybe just tell him off or something and be ready for a smack or punch in the head.
he's still ur dad & will remain so for eternity.liquidvssolid
You say this as though a biological connection implies that there is some reason to remain supportive. A circumstance of birth does not tie anyone to anyone else. We should all be judged on who we are, not what we are. The fact the man is his biological father does not mean that he is his dad...
Print your post and leave it on the table for him to pick up and read. Or is he very inconsiderate? >_>Vanadium2k8Thats actually a very good idea
[QUOTE="Vanadium2k8"]Print your post and leave it on the table for him to pick up and read. Or is he very inconsiderate? >_>Anti-VenomThats actually a very good idea I really think you should do that.
Your dad does cocaine but got mad at you for weed?:|-Sniper99-No he never caught me with weed, just cigs.
[QUOTE="Vanadium2k8"]Print your post and leave it on the table for him to pick up and read. Or is he very inconsiderate? >_>Anti-VenomThats actually a very good idea He would most likely take it as an insult not that I'm having problems.
I really have nowhere to go. And to others that asked about my mom... she is with a man that is a x-druggy and drinks everyday non stop (wakes up and has a 6 pack) refuses to get a job and I absolutely hate him, plus his son beat me.Damn, dude. That's a pretty messed up life you have.
How old are you ? I would suggest getting the hell out of that place as soon as possible.
Gamer4Iife
Steal his pillows.Vanadium2k8
Now that is a little too far... My gears would be grinded if someone took my pillows!
I can't stand my dad. He gets me stressed out all the time. I get a b+ he yells at me tells me that im worthless and never try my best. He always accuses people of the worst thing possible.
He's left me a sports games and stores with my friends while he was driving us when he went off and did cocaine then was too scared to come back and get us. He never thinks anything is his fault, but he thinks he is the reason for everything good.
He told me tonight that my sisters aren't even related to me. He is just an a****** to everyone in general.
He always goes on talking about something then suddenly like mixes into another subject then another and another and so on just talking at hours at a time about pretty much nothing. He says he quit doing drugs, but I still don't believe him even though everyone does.
One of my worst memories with him was when I was about 8-10 and I came home from school an he was there alone and he started yelling at me saying I'm a p**** and never stick up for myself. Most of my childhood he wasn't there he always worked far away and was away weeks at a time doing drugs and cheating on my mother. I never put him down for it or even said anything even close to rude to him, yet he always puts me down.
Recently I picked up smoking cigarettes and marijuana, he caught me smoking cigarettes and was very mad, which I could understand, but now every day he accuses me of stealing cigarettes but I haven't smoked in weeks.
His current girlfriend is really nice, I know she smokes pot, which I don't care about, but he always talks crap about how my sisters do it. He gets drunk and accuses her of cheating on him, and then drives off wasted when he has a suspended license.
I seriously hate my dad. I wish he didn't do these things.
join the club, we all go through that crap with parents.freshgman
really? your parents did that?
Your dad seems pretty legit, Id like to chill with him. You're just too much of a sissy to hang with a man of such high caliber. PovietSandaScreaming in a young child's face is cool?
[QUOTE="PovietSanda"]Your dad seems pretty legit, Id like to chill with him. You're just too much of a sissy to hang with a man of such high caliber. mattpunkgdScreaming in a young child's face is cool?
Like smoking, its all a peer pressure thing.
You start off easy, yelling at some stranger's kids because your friends tell you its cool. Then you get hooked, soon enough you're doing wicked things in an olive garden bathroom just to get a little scratch to save up for a kid of your own to yell at.
Its really a vicious cycle.
Steal his pillows.Vanadium2k8Good idea. You're dad sounds like a moo - it's awful to hear of parents putting their kids down. I'm lucky that my mums pushed me a little but has always been proud of what I achieved whether it was an A or a C. I'd advise calling a helpline for teenagers so you can speak to someone that can tell you the best thing to do :) I don't think we're going to be much help on here.
[QUOTE="Vanadium2k8"]Steal his pillows.tofu-lion91Good idea. You're dad sounds like a moo - it's awful to hear of parents putting their kids down. I'm lucky that my mums pushed me a little but has always been proud of what I achieved whether it was an A or a C. I'd advise calling a helpline for teenagers so you can speak to someone that can tell you the best thing to do :) I don't think we're going to be much help on here. I've thought about calling one, but I'm usually always around my dad, and I don't want him to hear. I'm finaly geting a futon to sleep on today so I might be able to.
My dad was the same... He was punished by the demons around my house and he fell down the stairs. The gates of hell were opened at my old house.
He almost killed my mom once... good thing he's out of life now.
TC, thank you....
Your thread caused me to get up, go into my son's bedroom, and give him another kiss goodnight....just because.
I hope your dad gets his act together, for both of you. Tonight I will pray for a stranger.
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