So, like...for years I've been hearing my peers saying stuff like, "dude, you really need to get laid". But see...it's a weird thing to simultaneously have low self esteem AND think that you're better than everyone else. On one hand, every time you meet a decent woman, you run like hell because you know that you're not good enough and will never treat her right. But on the other hand, you see the chicks who wouldn't make you feel inadequate and think to yourself, "man, I'm not lowering myself that much."
Anyway, I've been thinking about this for a while, and I still don't think I need to be in a "relationship". After all, I generally prefer being alone anyway, without a bunch of losers hanging on my arm every minute.
So here's the deal. I'm not asking how to get a girlfriend. I don't want a girlfriend, and I refuse to have a girlfriend.
Also, I am NOT asking how to be a "player". Even though I just want to ****, I do NOT want to "play" people. I will not have sex with a woman who considers me a potential partner, because I do not see her the same way. I am not out to take advantage of people's emotions, I just want to **** some people who also just want to ****.
So here's my question...I see people here frequently asking how to get a girlfriend. But I don't want a girlfriend. I just want pointless meaningless sex without either one of us having to first go through dumbass BS such as "dating". We both see each other, we both agree that the other person is acceptably attractive, we both agree that we never particularly want to see the other person ever again, and we both agree that we should cut through the BS and just get right to the sex. That's what I want. No false intentions, no commitments, and no money exchanged. I'm not talking about hiring a prostitute (which is illegal). I'm talking about the (legal) act of finding a fairly hot woman who just plain wants to have sex, doesn't want to date me, doesn't want to exchange phone numbers, doesn't expect me to buy her stuff first, doesn't expect me to pay her money, and doesn't want to ever see me again after we're done.
So my question is, how can I find a girl like that? I am NOT asking on how to get a girlfriend. I'm asking what are some good ways of finding attractive women who just want quick sex with a stranger, and nothing more.
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