I'd like some advice, girlfriend going into military...

Yea, it's over now. Just sucks. And I guess if we are meant to be, then she will come back, if not then it was never meant. Just my first breakup and damn it hurts more then I thought. How long before I am able to get her out of my head for a little bit?LordsLoss

That doesnt sound good. Anytime they tell you that stuff, that means its basically over. She doesnt seem to be reciprocating your feelings.

That doesnt sound good. Anytime they tell you that stuff, that means its basically over. She doesnt seem to be reciprocating your feelings.

sonicare

This, are you even sure shes actually joined the army and isn't hiding out at her parents?

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That doesnt sound good. Anytime they tell you that stuff, that means its basically over. She doesnt seem to be reciprocating your feelings.

This, are you even sure shes actually joined the army and isn't hiding out at her parents?

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That doesnt sound good. Anytime they tell you that stuff, that means its basically over. She doesnt seem to be reciprocating your feelings.

LordsLoss

This, are you even sure shes actually joined the army and isn't hiding out at her parents?

I know it sucks but you will find another woman so just don't make yourself into a fool for this woman.

So she wants to go, thus breaking up with you, and get back with you when she returns. If she does break up with you as she leaves, she won't be getting back with you. I promise you. She'll get used to being single. Don't let her dangle you on a string. Accept that it's over

End it now because she's planning on fuc king dudes.Parandrus

^^^

crass and ineloquent...but true.

Yea it's over now, She wants to be friends, but I mean damn it hurts to go from lovers to friends. I guess I can try it, but I don't know. LordsLoss

I'm not gonna repeat what everyone else said but I do agree with the general sentiment in this thread. Also, there is one more thing to consider. She is going to be a [presumably] hot girl in the military. Dude, the military is a sausage factory.

That is the equivalent of being a pimp in a whorehouse(no disrespect to your girl, just using the analogy cuz it fits.). And we all know what pimps do...

she will be gone for nine months for training. LordsLoss

What the fvck is she training for?

She is a total 10/10 I'm not just saying that. And she gets hit on every day by people. I need to just face the facts. She is doing Signal Intellegence training and it is 27 weeks. A little rediculous if you ask me. LordsLoss

I suggest to remain friends and date other girls in the process. She'll be gone for 9 months, it's most likely she'll forget about the relationship..

[QUOTE="LordsLoss"]She is a total 10/10 I'm not just saying that. And she gets hit on every day by people. I need to just face the facts. She is doing Signal Intellegence training and it is 27 weeks. A little rediculous if you ask me. Jandurin

[QUOTE="LordsLoss"]She is a total 10/10 I'm not just saying that. And she gets hit on every day by people. I need to just face the facts. She is doing Signal Intellegence training and it is 27 weeks. A little rediculous if you ask me. Jandurin

You need to move on.

She's not into you.

If she was, she wouldn't be joining the military, she'd stay with you or at least make decisions together.

I know it hurts, be brave.

ZombieKiller7

While she may not want to be with the TC anymore, fact of the matter is people need to make money and pay for college one way or another. Her way to pay for college just happens to be joining the National Guard instead of taking out a bunch of student loans she will be paying back for years after she graduates.

Besides, National Guard is only one weekend of training a month anyway. That means after her nine months of training (which she wll get a two and a half week break for Christmas from) she will be back at home in college and only out of town for training and deployments.

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You need to move on.

She's not into you.

If she was, she wouldn't be joining the military, she'd stay with you or at least make decisions together.

I know it hurts, be brave.

ad1x2

While she may not want to be with the TC anymore, fact of the matter is people need to make money and pay for college one way or another. Her way to pay for college just happens to be joining the National Guard instead of taking out a bunch of student loans she will be paying back for years after she graduates.

Besides, National Guard is only one weekend of training a month anyway. That means after her nine months of training (which she wll get a two and a half week break for Christmas from) she will be back at home in college and only out of town for training and deployments.

You make deployment sound like no big deal...that is HUGE!

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[QUOTE="ZombieKiller7"]

You need to move on.

She's not into you.

If she was, she wouldn't be joining the military, she'd stay with you or at least make decisions together.

I know it hurts, be brave.

sayyy-gaa

While she may not want to be with the TC anymore, fact of the matter is people need to make money and pay for college one way or another. Her way to pay for college just happens to be joining the National Guard instead of taking out a bunch of student loans she will be paying back for years after she graduates.

Besides, National Guard is only one weekend of training a month anyway. That means after her nine months of training (which she wll get a two and a half week break for Christmas from) she will be back at home in college and only out of town for training and deployments.

You make deployment sound like no big deal...that is HUGE!

A deployment as a woman working in the Signal Corps isn't going to be nearly as stressful as a deployment as an infantryman 90% of the time. Been in Iraq three times and I remember the people who would be there for a year and only left base twice; once to go on R&R and again to end the deployment. All while playing videogames and working out in the gym half of the time.

Besides, Iraq is over, Afghanistan will most likely be over in the next two years, and the National Guard doesn't deploy as often as active duty. Plus, if his girlfriend got the College First option in her contract (don't know if they're still doing it, they were a few years ago but they may have stopped) she's guaranteed not to deploy for two years while in college unless she flunks her classes.

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[QUOTE="LordsLoss"]she told me she just wants to be friends while she is gone and resume dating when she gets backJandurin

LOL, you know what that means don't you?

yes that too

End it now because she's planning on fuc king dudes.Parandrus